₦airaland Forum

havenz:
To change the world, are you serious, the queen was on the throne for 70yrs even Nigeria got no impact from her.

Now i choose to support UJU.
Africa is still in dark all because of our evil corrupt leaders.

Hier:
So MTN recently apologized for their failure to provide Network during the Lekki Massacre

Something is fishy

Soro Soke Werey
MTN is part of the problem
EndSars
EndBadGovernance
ShutDownEverywhere

theoneJabulani:
Ihe was their holding midfielder don't think Mikel departure is solely the reason for their poor form after he left although there is. Connection. They were scoring consistently but also conceding at high rate.



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keentola:
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yanabasee1:
As in... The constant accusations was huge...


I knew he was either distrust or because he was incompetent...And now it shows that he wasn't cooperating with the UK government for easy extradition.....It could be that Diezanie had bribed him to have he case pending for as long as it should.....

SSpeter:
A friend is calling off his wedding plans because he thinks his girlfriend lacks integrity. They have known for about 3years and he has not complained about her to me or any one.

Problem started when he got a call from the bank pleading with him to tell his girlfriend to reverse/return the excess amount credited to her account when she visited the bank to make a deposit into her account. He called his account officer to investigate the issue. The account officer confirmed that she got excess of what she wanted to deposit and she has moved all the funds to another bank.

She used the guy as her next of kin that was how they could contact him. He called his babe who denied initially but reluctantly agreed when he divulged that the bank contacted him. Dude became angry and paused all wedding plans.

The lady s begging and has cried her eyes out...what do you think? can you compromise integrity...?

I got permission to write about this here incase you think xyz and my friend is a Nairalander!

qeemus:
Hmm

Odumanudo:
I know of Church of God Mission, Benson Idahosa,
Family Worship Centre, Wuye Abuja, Mrs Anakhu
Do you want more?

Ykc2:
you dont dont need to look further, idahosa upon all his assistants pastors still they made his wife the general overseer, elochukwu iloputaife of christ victory centre abule osun he was assassinated today his wife is the G,O of the church

Shanklee:
This picture makes it very clear that she sell food for someone who probably owns a canteen. She must have stolen the chicken. But if u feel like it's juju there is nothing I can do about that

olaboy33:
I doubt if OBJ signed that, considering the struggle with cameroun over Bakassi.


Boye2023

Coldie:
One of the reasons why its not good to critical infrastructures on border states. Imagine if their was to be a UN boundary adjustment, and its gone.

I wonder why Buhari decided to build Nigeria's transport uni in Daura. At the most extreme point of Nigeria.

I doubt if Bornu and Adamawa will agree to join. Who would leave a rich country like Nigeria to form a poor country

LinLinGentle:
Disclaimer: I AM NOT A SAINT AND MY WIFE IS NOT THE DEVIL. I HAVE JUST BEEN UNFORTUNATE TO BECOME A VICTIM OF MATRIARCHY WHICH MANY MEN SUFFER ABROAD...

I have been hustling abroad for a few years while wifey was working in Nigeria and living with children. Marriage has always been turbulent and we even almost got divorced after I travelled out. We somehow worked on our issues with the help of pastors, family and friends, and after a few years of ''roughing'' it abroad to pave way for them, I finally succeeded and my family arrived a few months ago.

I used to be hot tempered, but I have had enough time to gain insight into my inadequacies and reflect on them. I am now significantly calmer due to the determination to make my marriage better and as per ''abroad levels''. My wife on the other hand is fully taking advantage of me and the environment we find ourselves in. First thing she did on getting here was to cut of my entire family. She said she doesn't want to have anything to do with any of them anymore. She has also not been too keen to kickstart her career, as all she does is endless picture taking and editing for social media hyping. I know this might be due to the initial ''euphoria'' phase cos she is coming abroad to a big house, big car and having no limits on most things we used to manage back in Nigeria, and she thinks things are bread and butter. You would never think for a second that she is a married woman if you check her profiles on social media!

She has become even more toxic person than she ever was in Naija. Now very bossy, never backs down, always the attacker, ever ready for a fight, lazier, always on social media, communicates with me as little as possible, embarrasses me in the neighbourhood with the constant noises from our house, and finally her threats have now tripled! Madam is now so fierce that I have become the house chicken. Just within a few months of being here o! She tells me that she will show me for all the ''gra gra'' I used to do back in Nigeria. Friends advised me against bringing this woman here but I no wan hear word as per responsible family man wey I dey claim to be.

The popular threat is usually ''I will end your career''. I wasn't taking this too seriously initially, but she then started following through with the threats by constant calls to the police and other services, making spooky and baseless career ending accusations and allegations against me.

I have never been the one to first lay my hands on her, but I have spilled drinks on her before when she attacked me. My wife now gets very physical without having any element of self control, fear or restraint after the simplest argument and sometimes, she damages things out of anger. She does this so often and never hesitates to dare me to do my worst.

I discovered that she has signed up on dating sites and when I even caught her chatting about sex to a particular guy in our area, she said that it was all my fault. She did not apologise for this. She even referred to it one time after an argument that if I am convulsing like this over just a sex chat, she's waiting to see what I'd do when I see a man on top of her.

My productivity at work has declined significantly and I am now on the verge of depression. Neighbours called the police on us one time after a lot of noise from out house. She accused me of domestic violence. The police had to separate us and I was stuck at home for an extended period and could not go to work due to this. I am now being investigated for domestic violence, which is a serious crime as madam wants it and I have had to report the situation to my company! The whole thing is so messy that I am scared that I have not seen the worst yet.

I am so afraid of losing it all and returning to Nigeria broke cos I spent my last card and even racked credit card debt to bring them here hoping to pay off gradually. I still have a few years to get my citizenship and if I lose my job now, that is the end for all of us!

For now, I don't know what is going to happen to us, as this woman is so determined to cause great and irreparable damage that could ruin our lives, just to get back at me and she is being cheered on by her family and friends.

THE SITUATION IS SO MESSED UP!

UPDATE:

Divorce has now been filed. I also recently got lucky as I was able to secure a restraining order when she messed up again and hit me daring me to do my worst. I called the police and made a proper case and she was arrested. She has been banned from the house for a month. The police advised me to talk to my lawyer and extend indefinitely if I want to. I hope to get this done ASAP. The law here does not only protect women but also protects innocent men. All you need is patience and wisdom. Thank you all for your ideas. Still several hurdles to cross but I am on the winning side for now.

Exc2000:
even with allowance, you can gross 100% of your income as allowance maximum few percentage around or about 30% to 40% of your income, can a lecturer whose wife is jobless cope even withis figure, except he resides in gombe or zamfara where everything is super cheap

frowland:
You missed the point. I have the right to criticize a law. You said its government school right? So it's of course open for public criticism or are you a dictator?
I did not comment on whether the kids broke the law or not, my position is simple; Parents should be able to know their wards location at ALL time. The law is old and should be reviewed just like every other archaic laws in this country.

aybabz101:
I think destruction of the phone is not the right call. The phones should have been seized for a couple of months, handed over to the parents and the parents made to promise that their ward will not do that again.

I think that will make the parents to create more interest in their child(ren). If the contents of the phones are revealed I believe it will b porn all over and different romantic messages to their various paedophile brothers and family friends

leksite120:
wetin normal person wan use 4 phones do before if e no b fraudster

jaxxy:
Ok fine then what’s the alternative? That’s if Ure not being entirely selfish.

Misterdhee1:
You people are really dumb en. So diverting and siphoning public funds into private funds is what you call entrepreneurship? If wah u have in you is the real life, then life itself is worthless.

Amakababe:
My name is Amaka afuzor, and i am a student of Federal university of technology minna. Mechanical engineering. 100 level


Before you accuse me of being dull, I had a 204 in JAMB.
I always wanted a first class, but
I decided to check my result yesterday only to see F parallel and some good grades out of 10 courses.
Pls am 22 and I need to pass so I can get a good job after graduation.
I know I didn't give my books much attention this semester.

I am confused because I will be asked to withdraw if I get a cgpa less than 2.0 on a scale of 5 after second semester and don't meet the 10-8-8 requirement which I am very far from.


CAN I GRADUATE WITH A FIRST CLASS STILL?
Tell me the honest truth, I can handle it.

Pls who knows how many percentage of final cgpa the first year performance takes In futminna

tboyO2:
Greed will never make the likes of oyedepo,Chris oyakhilome, tb Joshua, Lazarus mouka,ayo orisejafor ,to step down
Add urs too

I respect pastor kumuyi amongst all because of his humble lifestyle




#proudlycatholic#