₦airaland Forum

Who one bring you down..You brought your self down sis..no one gives a damn about your private life..

Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that .

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies

you go tey as a single be that

You made him chairman and removed him so wetin happen? Abi the world stop? What did you do that no one has done..? In 5 months let's see if you will still talk

Tallesty1:
Nah adults elected and re-elected Buhari and are vigorously campaigning for Tinubu sha

you know that elections were rigged for buhari, Ganduje and El rufai..When all these inconclusive and run off were used..Apart from the rigging, there are places Tinubu and his men bought..Abi do you underestimate Bullion van going into his house?
Secondly Nigeria is different from a woman's matter..A woman like that will humiliate and punish you..His response is cool... I appreciate is not a good sign for her unless of course it was part of the list he gave her to do in order to accept her back

I thought boma said this girl's vagina has fish odour flavour?

vickthourh:
Yellow neck black head

na wetin I dey reason since oo..the matter tire me

Thunder fire you..we will vote who go kill you

pocohantas:
The only people that would see this beautiful picture and get angry are the gender that doesn’t benefit from marriage. The gender that claims they cheat for peace of mind, leave them to enjoy life with the side-chick and they start another wailing like Yul Edochie is doing now. They don’t gain anything from marriage, but they won’t stop haunting single ladies to marry them.

Never seen a set of men as confused as Nigerian men. Scatter things and blame everyone but themselves. If y’all want this marriage thing to work, you have to start telling yourselves the truth and stop looking for women that would ENDURE like your mothers. Women have looked at their mothers and aunties and they didn’t see any incentive for this ENDURANCE. Or maybe you men can do the ENDURING if it is such a nice thing.

The only men in the world that look for women that can ENDURE are black men. Is marriage a concentration camp?

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I don’t trust Basketmouth though. He took down the post that started this drama for reasons best known to him.

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Merry Christmas to sane Nlders. Enjoy the blessings of the season.

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Watch them quote me with insults. That gender can never take correction.

So are you insinuating that basketmouth cheated? Pls don't conclude .besides that last child doesn't look like him or her..Any ways whether men participate or not women gain everything from marriage and at old age kids take care of them more...

Anthony0094:
the time tinubu shoted buhari 5 times I knew something is coming

lol..I tire oo

The Bible said a good man leaves inheritance for his children...Jason Njoku don't be a bad man

If Atiku manage win elections, woke will never see sunlight again

So Maria as you find reach You dey tiawn.. what do u mean by did u forgot?

Secondly,is that how u drop ur puna down chimneys of married men to break their marriage?

Says a thief

Sammy5413:
Wait o, according to Nairaland Paul has moved on to a younger woman.
Does this statement mean Anita is left over
Update

must everything be explained to u?

otipoju:
If to say na US dem marry. Paul for cry severely.
That's why most people no dey wan marry but have children together. Pays them to pay child till the child turns 18 than to loose houses and other investments than they worked for before and during the marriage.

if them marry for US and him property no dey US. He can refuse to go back for a divorce case..and he will still have all his properties here to himself..He isn't their citizen so their law no bind am

Keyamo na agbaya

Candidlady:


When

When

when what? You are always against men yet you want a man? Better change your mind set ...Some men are bad so are some women..open your heart and you shall know when

blamingthedevil:
no be say you no get sense. How could you imagine beating this kind of a team? How? You dey craze!!!

https://twitter.com/donteju/status/1603023101297582083

what team exactly, the old men that have in every way contributed to destroying the foreseeable future of Nigeria?

Kollins11:
I wish I knew the guy that broke the heart of this particular useless Nigerian girl. I would have credited him 15k and also buy him some drinks & smoke instantly.

This is exactly how to treat a useless Nigerian girl. Always dump her sorry ass after you're done drilling the oil in her smelly kpekus.

Who broke your heart?

Houseofglam7:
He shouldn’t marry a woman just for his son; he can get a nanny for that.
If he seeks companionship and love again, he can give dating and marriage another chance.

nanny is the best option..women hardly accept another woman's child especially when she gives birth to hers..Na to just raise the boy alone ..marry when he is Grown and no one can bully him

Jennyclay:
Haba! Kilode! A year is too early for him to start a new relationship. How are we sure he didn't kill his wife just to marry another woman... You know you men can't be trusted.
Atleast 3-5years is okay before he can move on

just dey play

Like you said God has saved you from her..Go and look for your wife

ptoall:
At the risk of sounding legalistic, you cant give ur tithe to any other place except ur local church where you are been fed the word. Malachi 3 is very clear on that. Also, tithes in the OT were administered by Levi priests (Pastors in our case).
Every giving has its place, tithes, offerings, giving to missions, alms, to parents etc have their place in the scriptures and they should be separated.

The instructions was given to the children of God to support the Levites who were made to just be devoted to the work of God .When Jesus left his disciples worked so that they won't be of a burden..Everyone is entitled to come to the father now as Jesus has paid the price and you don't need any priest to seek his face on your behalf..Mind you, you can pay tithe to your father too..if you choose..
Going by your analogy did the Bible talk of giving to missions, needy, sowing seeds as it is the case of our time? Tithes and offerings were mentioned.

blink:
I just like the christian on Nairaland to help me throw more light to this,
I once had my tithe with me when someone walked up to me for an assistance to discharge her family from hospital. After confirming that it's true, I just dropped my entire tithe to pay the bill and believe I had paid my tithe but somehow I was told that since I didn't drop it in the church am yet to pay my tithe.

the purpose of tithe in the Bible is that they may be food in His house..The ministers were supposed to be full time and there was no specific stuff to use as tithe..If you are a farmer that's 10% also. .You have by your act sowed a seed that will keep that woman and family entirely grateful to God..And keep them serving him. You have paid your tithe..And hope you know tithe can also be given to your father?
And you don't need the approval of anyone in confirmation of your payment.Its between you and God

LincolnOnyeabor:
Care to share??

He was cohabiting with a lady from that area. Unfortunately she died without him doing any marriage rites. I can't remember if they had kids..I was quite young and I have not seen him in over 25 years. .Due to his love for her, he decided to take her body home..They insisted that he does all marriage rites and he did and on a certain day, he said kids were playing with his toes that this is their own.. They were to kill him that night and for some unknown reasons the room he was allocated to stay with the corps wouldn't open when it was time.. Early hours of that the following day, he miraculously made his way out of there without notice and fled for his life never to return. I was like 8 years when he shared that story and fear has not left my heart since then.. I sincerely fear anyone from Calabar as a whole and Ngwa since I heard that story..

There is also a place in Abia..My friend told me they eat visitors too..Fear did not let me follow him home..He said the village before his..They will go and mount road block and take people if occasion happens in their vicinity..So if they have a program, they escort their visitors to a safe place before they return . ..
Still scared as I type this..

Privatepart00:


Only heaven knows the number of human beings that will be a meal to them

They are all smiles to you, unknowingly they are codedly sharing your body parts among themselves

The more bigger you are , the more fighting to reveal who takes the buttocks .

For dash I won’t have anything doing with any girl from there

true..s family friend shared similar story

jeromestarks:
Only a virgin woman deserves your love and devotion.

Don't pay bride price, sponsor wedding ceremony and take care of in-laws just to have a woman who was fvcked in her best state (virgin) by a man who paid nothing.
You're not a fool.


Imagine how she moaned to another man's dicky before yours.
A woman whom u did nothing t disvirgin will fvck her ex the moment he shows up to her on Facebook or in the market.
Fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin. Nothing good comes easy.

Better to suffer to get a virgin woman and have a lasting peaceful marriage than to marry any girl and suffer in your marriage.

Marry a virgin or train another man's child and leave your inheritance for a child you did not father.

flesh and blood did not reveal this to you..too much sense..
Some go demand cow for person wey don sleep with man tire plus countless abortions.. when you marry una go begin go prayer house

MessiahMARLIANS:
Yes. Olden days Wisdom

So that it is approved that the daughter is not sold out at an expensive price.

Somehow in the future, if the husband claims that he owns full right over his wife and makes her suffer in his home; she can peacefully return 15 Naira back to him and leave his home.


It makes enough sense to me and this is how marriages should be coordinated so that many men would stop abusing many women over the expensiveness of the cost of dowry paid over their head.

Many Men are Pained by the High Sum of Money that they give away.




Atleast 10 Naira and 5 Naira can once again find themselves worthy in The Land of Nigeria again.

I don see wettin we go use them do for Naija.

15 Naira that cannot buy 1 sachet of pure water in UGEP nor Calabar.

if I want a refund I will give u the list back oo..You will provide.and if u insist on 15 naira ,it has to be the exact one I gave u...

dalass:
This bride price of #15.00 is funny.

However the Papa, Mama, relatives, community money and demands self is more than bride price

Wisdom no go Kee some people.

What you're adding with bags of rice, big cans of tomato paste up to 3 different seasonings

Hilarious

Africans just useless this bride price stuff..it's absolutely ridiculous..

excellence44:
I heard ugep people eat strangers. I hope you're safe over there?

them go off him lineage..Take him and him family do suya

LegalWolf:
Exactly, that’s the point my brother. See, let me give you an example so you would understand.

You may have heard that importing toothpicks is “banned” in Nigeria. But that is not true. When someone wants to import an item, he has to pay for the item but not with Naira but another currency. For our example, let us say US Dollars (since it is the world largest reserve currency).

But in Nigeria, you can only access dollars at the official rate through a system CBN controls (and which all Nigerian banks participate). So, our hypothetical importer can only pay for an item AT THE OFFICIAL exchange rate if he can get access to that system. However, if CBN shuts out the system for toothpick importer, that doesn’t mean that he cannot import toothpicks. Rather, he would have to source for the means of payment (I.e., dollars) outside the CBN system. This is usually what people know as black market and it is way HIGHER THAN THE OFFICIAL RATE. Still that does not mean he cannot import toothpicks.

Do you understand. CBN just made it more difficult and expensive to transact crypto but not ban. They do not have the constitutional power to ban anything.

I hope this clarification helps

I understand..And they felt they couldn't regulate the system..All they needed to do was to ensure we buy in naira, sell for naira and tax the transactions..by now may be the volume of revenue could have been robust..

OnionBandit:
bro, it's not always so. Most projects don't survive bear season. For most projects that have crashed from say 20usd to 0.01 USD, they don't ever recover. Only a few with good use case

There is always Ponzi in almost all spheres of life..we hope for the best ...If you are very experienced check Evergrowcoin, brise/bitgert and transhuman coin(THC)...
What do you think..