Why would you choose a wrong narrative to explain the situation?! Why would you say "if you don't want to sleep on the road for THREE DAYS" why?!
Must you mention Dangote?! In fact, the busy roads have nothing to do with Dangote. I've been to Lokoja and back to Obajana today without any hitch. I'm not denying there ain't traffic on that axis, it happens only on Fridays-Sundays and it's caused by influx of travellers and not Trucks. If you wanna Lie, lie small small.
I never intend to insult you, if you feel otherwise: apologies
well it's clear you don't understand figure of speech.. Definately all d trailers don't belong to Dangote. My message in clear terms was d road is blocked. The rest na u sabi
If you continue like this, you will work with Liar Mohammed.
am sure you don't understand figure of speech..Dangote doesn't own all the trailers in Nigeria..I just used it to butress a point..it's a figure of speech
Ojusegunola: It's a big lie,I'm Infront of obajana cement factory at the moment going to Abuja from ilorin.if you are familiar with that route ,it can get blocked anytime .nobody released any trucks.
well I was there yesterday for 6 hours btw obajana and lokoja.. if you met it am sure you now believe.
I'm a Dangote Staff and I reside in Obajana. Normally, the roads do get a bit busy on weekends Fridays-Sundays.
But the op is a stupid Liar
well you have insulted. I was at lokoja yesterday by 12 and left the hold up by 6:30 pm..I expirienced it and gave warning but you chose insult. Since you are in obajana why not head up towards the bridge or better still go to lokoja with your car
If you don't want to sleep on the road for 3 days, do what ever you can to avoid lokoja obajana kabba road.. Dangote has released all his trailers. The road is totally blocked.
marvelck: Was Toke Makinwa the reason why most people didn't watch the recently concluded Gulder Ultimate Search TV show...
Maybe, the organizers need to either bring back Chidi Mokeme or hire Frank Edoho to replace Toke Makinwa
A lot of people didn't watch nor follow the show at all... They didn't even know the show was still on, until the winner was announced on social media...
can down for wetin?? That's how you people let men get depressed..Father's do so much more and in d process neglect themselves so family can be fine..then these set of kids grow and only remember their mum...Men start to care for yourselves...Ur sacrifices are not seen
Metrix147: Born into the family of late Chief Louis Nnaji and late Grace Oriaku, Dr. Nnaji Ebenezer Chibueze is a native of Umuezibuoko Umualu in Isiuzor local government area Enugu State.
He commenced his primary education at Odorbia Primary school in Umuezibuoko Umualu in 1994 where he obtained his first school leaving certificate in 1999. He then proceeded to community secondary school Umualu where he obtained JSSC.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lo5TiKclLZM Shortly after this, Dr. Chibueze then headed to community secondary school Ihaohuala in Ihamufu Isiuzor local government area Enugu State where he obtained his West Africa Senior School Certificate in 2005.
He then secured admission into the Institution of Economic Education Thinker College Enugu, in the year 2005/2006 where he read Political Science, Social Studies and graduated with distinction. He equally earned his First Degree in Enugu State University of Science and Technology (ESUT) where he got a Bachelor of Science Education in Political Science, Administration and Supervision in the year 2010 with a cumulative grade average of 4.40.
In the year 2012/2013, he was admitted into the Master's Degree programme in the Department of Education, Administration and Planning of Abia State University he obtained his Master's Degree in the year 2016 with a cumulative grade point average of 4.35.
Without hesitation based on the recommendations offered to him by respective lecturers who taught him, most especially, Prof. Esther Nwosu, who is now retired, Prof. M. C. Amina, who happens to be his 2nd supervisor in his Doctorate Degree Programme, to mention but a few, Dr. Chibueze commenced and completed his Doctorate Degree in the year 2019 in the same department of Educational Administration and Planning with a cumulative grade point average of 4.3. While still in the service of the Nigerian Police Force, he earned his PhD as a police corporal.
His interest is in teaching as contained in his hobbies, particularly lecturing in higher institutions. He also enjoys reading, research, and football. His favorite club is the Manchester United Football Club.
Talking about his career as a police officer, he was enlisted into the Nigeria Police Force in the year 2012 after his university education. He only had to grab the opportunity because unemployment in the land is out of proportion. He was to be enlisted as a cadet officer but not having a 'long leg' as we say in our parlance killed that dream. Notwithstanding, he made vigorous and multiple efforts, applied, and passed successfully at the state level. But this dream was however truncated at the zonal level when he was asked if he knows any senior officer, the likes of IGP, AIG, DIG or politically exposed persons who can help him.
To this, he answered, "I told him, I had no one other than God Almighty who bestowed on me excellence in knowledge wisdom, and understanding. Only Him enabled me to excel academically and have my good records.
"Thereafter because I had not to help, regrade could not work. Alternatively, I had already participated for recruitment the same 2010 after my graduation for people with NCE, OND, and HND. Then I was advised by a serving police officer to forget about the shame, upon my higher Education, I should start from the lower cadre".
Without minding the discouragement, also as someone who was a dedicated, patriotic citizen who was ready to deliver his best to serve his country, and contributes meaningfully to national development, he was enlisted and he completed his course at the Police Training College in 2012.
He was posted to Abia State in 2013, deployed to Abiriba police division. That was actually when he started his journey to PhD programme at Abia State University.
Having completed his education and having bagged his PhD, he made vigorous and meticulous efforts, wrote to various police authorities for the acknowledgment of his academic breakthrough and the need to upgrade him from a recruit to a cadet officer as a way of motivating him. All the effort could not bear any fruit.
He stated further, "When I bagged my PhD in 2019, on 19th December 2019 to be precise, I wrote my first letter, attention was not given. On 9th January 2020 police lawyers had meeting with the Inspector General of Police, after the meeting some of the lawyers and friends who feel my predicament on daily basis told me that the IGP told them that, any interested person with Masters or PhD who wishes to lecture in Nigeria Police Academy Kano State should apply, that such person will be recruited and posted to that place. As a book lover, academician, and researcher, who is willing to perform at a given opportunity, I wrote on 15th January 2020 but my letter was not given attention."
Thereafter on 20th/24th February respectively, he wrote another letter to the Department of Finance and Administration, Department of Training and Development, and Department of Information and Communication Technology ICT. After praying for God's intervention that his plight will reach the attention of the Inspector General of Police, as God may have it, after one week, he received a call, and the lady caller asked if he has anybody monitoring his letter, he said no but God, she asked him to call her, so that she can monitor the letter for him.
Then on 9th March, he met a retired Deputy Inspector General of Police, Ivy Okoronkwo. After laying his predicament to her, she placed a call to one CP, Mike, though Dr. Chibueze never knew the said CP, however, spoke with him through DIG Okoronkwo.
He stated, "The woman now explained to him that I have tried and that I need help, he ought to have entered as a carded but no body to help him, the man now asked me if I have the IGP authority for my PHD and I said actually I got my first degree before getting the job but because of my love, dedication, and commitment to my job, I did my PHD as a part-time student and was also placed on permanent night duty base on the arrangements during my master degree before the commencement of my PHd, the man said ok, since I did not indicate so in my previous letter, that I should write to him directly, which I did without hesitation on 9th march 2020."
Then he included all the necessary documents, indicating that he has gotten his first degree before joining the police. As God may have it, the retired DIG also continued monitoring the letter until Dr. Chibueze was recommended as a lecturer into the Nigeria police academy and as human resource personnel.
She continued to congratulate him. Then in the month of May 2020, it became a great tragedy that he lost his father, who is supposed to celebrate his success after suffering to reach his academic height.
He says, "Then after two weeks in the month of June 10th, I received a call from one SP Solomon from the Department of Training and Development in respect of my letter to IGP and recognition of my PhD and a position as lecturer in the Nigeria Police Academy dated January 2020. He wants to advise me, he asked if I have the IGP authority, I said I don't know the person speaking with me and the letter you are referring to and that I have so may letters in the office of the IGP and DIG Training and Development.
"He said specifically the one dated 15th January but the former IGP has ordered that it is processed but the problem now is if I have the authority and who asked me to write I should not reply back that if I do the police will query me or default me.
"I asked why will the police query me or default me for which offence, that I went to school for the improvement of myself as an individual, improvement of my organization, improvement of the society, country and of the world globally and then he later told me that I can reply the letter.
"Thereafter I called the woman who has been monitoring my letter informing her about the whole scenario, the woman told me not to mind anyone giving me such information, maybe the person has seen the of recommendation and he's looking for a means to extort money from me.
"I told her that I rely on her even though I have not seen the letter, eventually the letter got to me on the 10th of July 2020, but dated 19th June 2020, the formal DPO, SSP Kenneth Nwajuwa presently Commissioner of Police who was in charge of the division where I work as the division intelligence officer, saw the letter and was mad.
The DIG for Training and Development ordered me to avail them with the IGPs authority for my PhD studies that it will enable them to facilitate my letter, on 14th of July 2020, I replied the letter with its attachment that I have gotten my first degree before I was enlisted into the Nigeria police force.
"Secondly that I had my Masters and PhD under part-time studies and because of my love and commitment and dedication I have for the job and as a patriotic citizen ready and able to serve the country at any given time to the extent that since I have started my police work, I have not gone for any annual leave, to show commitment and how I have been performing my duty professionally.
"In furtherance, I added that I earned my PhD as a self-financed program and self made effort and also there's never a time of study collided or hindered with my job or prevented me from performing my duty professionally or excellently. As an educational expert, I still plead I should be moved to the above-mentioned institution so that I will be reciprocating in the area I will be functioning and be an asset in that area. It is good that when one combines what he or she acquires, one will be able to see the effectiveness and efficiency of any individual a product to take place.
"In addition I am 100% ready to transfer my service to any organization especially academic institution for the purpose of teaching, reading, researching so that I will continue to function effectively."
public service has rules. Emotional black mail won't help. If u have degree and entered with lower certificate, it will be treated as such.. There is what is called study leave. If it's not approved your other degrees are a waste unless they want to have compassion on you.. Obviously you didn't follow the rules..That not withstanding, ur not tied to the police na..as a PHD holders numerous schools will scamper for you but public and private..Don't waste in the police..If you want a higher rank as a senior officer you will need to go for fresh training and start to grow with fresh people.. Discharge the police and go and follow your passion joor
drizslim: A Twitter user has revealed how a family in Eleme, Rivers state, paid back a man who helped them financially in hopes of marrying their daughter.
The man reportedly built a house for the family of his lover and shouldered their financial responsibilities.
However, when it was time for marriage, the girl decided that she wanted to be a model and eloped to Paris, France, with a white man.
The distraught man allegedly threatened to demolish the house he built for the family, but they pleaded with him and asked him to marry his ex-lover’s younger sister instead.
The Twitter user, @MaverickThamani, who shared the story online wrote,
“A guy in Eleme built a house for his girl’s family. Carried the whole family on his shoulder. Time for marriage, she said she wants to become a model. Left him and followed one white guy to Paris. Baba said he will demolish the house. Family pleaded and gave him her younger sis”.
this is the opposite of Jacobs story in the Bible ..But the interesting thing is that it may end in a similar way ...Jacob worked for the second sister,and he was given the first..so he had to work more and got the second. ...so if the guy works more he will get the first daughter as well as the second.
distinguish: We have been married for a year now. We have been trying to conceive. Because of the emotional stress attached my wife said she can't be staying at home alone, it causes her stress. She said she wants to start doing something. At least a business.
I took a loan from my place of work and we started the business for over 2 months now. The issue now is that, I don't always have cash on me anymore. Any little money I got it's for the business. Basically, we mostly feed from the business.
Yesterday, after we returned home, she started giving me attitude, I asked her what the issue was, she started telling me how I am killing the business, not taking good care of her, not having money to take care of her and all sort of rubbish, she brought out how incompetent I am as a husband and what have you. I never said a word to reply her and its eating me up seriously, I could not sleep the whole night. This is the person that I sacrificed a lot for. I was supposed a take a professional course this November, but because of her I had to postpone it.
Please I need your advice.
PS: I did not eat the food she prepared last night.
Your mental health matters. You have to ignore some of these things women say. You made a boss move by opening the business for her.And you are a good husband.you are not incompetent. Many men ur age have not married and are still living in their parents house. Besides Your wife is an adult and should also be able to contribute..which one is ur not taking care of her? You are to take care of each other..can Okonjo Iweala , ibukun Awosikan, make such statements? Are they not women?..As the head u guys need a very good ,firm and matured discussion. You are a team and not into competition with anyone else...
ahnie: I dunno. In my own case the bond I share with my kids is far more solid and stronger in quantum than the one I share with my husband.
Sometimes sef,I dey even forget say I get husband.
Pls nobody should quote me oh,I have gone to buy paracetamol.
what's all these about care self..All what a man needs fr a woman is sex...and the woman needs it as well..if you forget say u get husband he is happy as hot chicks wey never born they wait am..with styles wey u no fit imagine bnotbto talk of doing..Don't forget to add vitamin C
The lady in question is so confused on what to do.
Please advise her responsibly:
(Matured Minds Only)
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Good morning, I am married into a very wealthy home, my husband is the eldest child, they are four, 3 male and a female.
Last two years I got a nanny, she's 32 years, my husband is in charge of his father company, his father has houses everywhere around the world but he's leaving with us, because of loneliness, he lost his wife 12yrs ago and since then he refused to marry again, he's 65years old but still young, I have a supermarket, so my nanny cook and takes care of the home while I'm away, my nanny has been sleeping with my father in-law but I didn't know, March this year we found out she's pregnant and she said it was papa that was responsible, when I ask her how long she has been sleeping with him she said since last year.
I was shouting at her when my husband shut me up that I shouldn't talk to her like that, that she's not a child, my own house help! When my husband talk to his father about it, he said the girl, that is my nanny has been his companion that he wants to marry her, mogbe I said over my dead body, my own maid, instead of my husband to be on my side he said if marrying the girl will make his father Happy that he has his support, the house we are living is build by my father in-law, it's a duplex, Mummy as am writing you my husband and his brothers followed my father in-law to pay my nanny dowry, they came back yesterday.
I didn't go with the children because I can't Believe my father in-law stoop so low to marry my maid when there are other women out there, last night I was talking to my husband and he told me to stop referring her as my nanny that she's now Married to his father therefore I should be calling her "Aunty mi", and my kids who usually call her Aunty should start calling her "Mummy", and I asked him what will she be calling me, he said anything she likes.
I am just here crying, someone I brought into my home has now turned madam over me, what should I do, and I can't tell my husband to rent another apartment when he has a duplex, papa can't leave either because he want to be close to his son, how long can I take this, please I need advice. Thanks. Married for 10years.
What a Life!
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She would be in the comment section reading.
Hard luck. You situation is a sad one emotionally. And apparently your husband that is in the position to set things right is not doing so. You may not be able to do much in this situation than to talk to the lady in question when you ladies are alone. As for other young ladies make sure u know 98 % of the state of mind of a man you are marrying.. How a man thinks is more important than his money. Thinking influences everything in life because it's how he processes every information and acts..and this talk of I don't wanna suffer in my father's house and still suffer in my husband's house or I prefer to cry in a Jeep than on a bicycle needs to stop
irunoko: Thank God you made lemons out of the lemonade life threw at you and made something meaningful out of your life and I hope your irresponsible sperm donor has finally received sense
Josephali: For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child, Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?
if she didn't do surgery 6 weeks is fine..if she did then at least 3 months..How do you cope? Sex is a thing of d mind. Keep away from Instagram girls, clear ur mind and think of how to make more money..sex will leave..na ur wife go dey beg u self and to avoid pregnancy let her go to the doctor.. She will have a contraceptive implant..one lasts for 3 years but you can remove when ready to try for another baby.
SavageResponse: This is a trait of someone who grew up in abject poverty.
They always use every opportunity they get to show everyone that they have finally made money
aAbject poverty .. Those that have real money don't show off. Besides he can't Say all his money is legit.. This is what makes him lose election in a free and fair setting...
sirjamesjnr: . Women are not responsible for your sexual immaturity that is my message. It is their body, respect it.
Sex is really a complex thing. It is really pleasurable to both parties and also brings premium tears..It is physical as well as emotional and if not properly handled, the premium tears will be uncontrollable.. From STDs, to Unwanted pregnancies, abortions leading to issues that affect wombs which inturn affects future child birth.. Unfortunately men can only get STDs and can't get pregnant.. In our society whre ladies are used by Yahoo plus guys, one needs to be really careful. Everyone makes mistakes but some are not so lucky and a mistake ruin some lives for ever..Buy everyone has his or her choices to make and the benefits of the choices to enjoy whether good or bad. And for the author, a professional prostitute knows her way around sex. Try one.. if issues don't result fine but if it does, don't go to apostle Suleiman
Celebrities › Re: I Was Engaged, Working Two Jobs At 17 – Maria Chike by vince96w2(m): 6:13pm On Jan 31, 2022
...so if the guy works more he will get the first daughter as well as the second.
