Rokiat: And yet they will be complaining that Nigerian women like money but will be giving it out to other women interesting.
una nyash no big reach their own na..plus them the money is just to make them happy but Nigerian girls want to alleviate poverty from their generation with a man
Litmus: So he or she can spread thire bare ass cheeks against the windscreen in traffic or beside the road because the vehicle is private ?
I believe the poster you were quoting was right to sugest that the display of intimacy gadgets, books and random material in your vehicle in a way that is exposed to public view, including children, is possibly illigal under relevant local public decency/indecency laws.
I believe we are saying diffrent things here.If I put stuff in my car, someone must be a very big amebo to see it..you must make a conscious effort to come close and even look into the car with definate intentions to be able to see stuff like that.
You can't be trained in Nigeria almost free of charge (because u paid chicken fee as tuition fee compared to Europe) without paying back to the Country, but using that knowledge to benefit European countries.
I share your sentiment. How I wish this can be implemented
then every citizen that has a higher institution certificate must stay..not only Doctors. All of us paid chicken change since our education was subsidized but doctors chicken change school fees was higher.. besides you can't employ everybody..The few you employ you don't pay well...Do the right thing, pay well, employ, fix our hospital with equipment and you won't need any laws to prevent people from going..people will even return..Nigeria is the only country that compares only good parts of other countries with itself and leave out the bad parts.. That bill is human rights abuse
This is good news. UK is not helping matters too. They have been indicted of enslaving Nigerian doctors.
5 Years Before Going Abroad Doctors Bill: A Clinical Stitch In Time
Nigeria's House of Representatives in its tweet on 6 April, announced that a bill sponsored by Rep Ganiyu Abiodun Johnson to prevent Nigerian-trained medical or dental practitioners from being granted full licences until they have worked for a minimum of five years in the country has passed second reading at the Nigerian House of Representatives https://twitter.com/HouseNGR/status/1643996023885533184?s=20
My First Reaction
At last! It came late since I wrote to recommend that this law be passed for years now but it is still better it is coming this late than never. I support this bill be passed as law and the President must quickly assent to the law for immediate implementation and subsequent domestication by every state of the federation .
The unregulated exit of Nigerian government-trained doctors here in our country has almost crashed the system yet there are several reports and complaints that they are being enslaved overseas.
The way the law will be effective is to delay the process from when medical induction oath taking takes place to when you recieve provisional and full permanent medical license to practice as a medical doctor.
All travels by those set of doctors covered by the law will be required to get official permission from the Secretary to the Government of the Federation (SGF) for travel within that period and the list to be shared with the Legislature and Immigration service on a periodic basis.
The law will make defaulters who flout the 5-year moratorium liable to conviction if they leave Nigeria to permanently reside and transfer their tax-expense acquired skillset to a foreign country before 5 years.
Anyone still doubting if this law will work should ask any professional this rhethorical question : You do not want a criminal record as a professional or would you want to be prosecuted?
The ship has set sail and the rest of the loose ends will be sorted out even though I suggest that this law be accelerated.
What Are Nigerians Saying?
There are two courts in the land, the more powerful one is the court of public opinion in the scheme of sociological perspectives.
Those who ignore the power of public opinion later realised too late.
There are some erstwhile powerful trade unions that underestimated the power of public opinion and today not enjoying the public sympathy.
That is why I am staying on the fundamental and basic question of "Must the taxpayers lose on all sides?" I am not about 'whataboutism'.
Like this problem of young doctors leaving immediately after training which remained unaddressed until now, I believe that one day, the issue of paying huge subsidies on petrol and electricity to only a set of Nigerians while millions of other Nigerians without roads and electricity have no equivalent subsidy yet forced by the system to pickup the social cost and burden of the debt and fiscal capture of state resources for a privileged compatriots will get to this level of national bill too.
Everyone of those with elitist education seem to want to take advantage of the system and when you ask them a basic question on why should a tax payer train you and when you finish your training you immediately take your skill to another country, what I recieve are cocky answers telling me "whatabout" so so so and so in response.
To make it mandatory for young medical doctors to stay back at least 5 years after being trained with tax payers money is not too much to ask from you if you attend government universities where your education was heavily subsidized.
Right Family Values On Decline.
Parents who scatter their homes and raise children who grow up to run far away from home are on trial as well. It is not just the young professionals using the japa syndrome as smokescreen.
It is abnormal and dysfunctional for a young man and/or woman to finish school and immediately want to move several thousand kilometres away from his parents and deny those who trained him of his skill. It is against natural justice and these young professionals will lose.
In my opinion, this law asking them to stay will turn out to be a blessing in disguise for them.
How did government train me. I paid the highest school fees than other courses in sch.i didn't go to school free. And if u say it's subsidized, them other courses got more subsidy than me..
Why can't government pay same salary as the countries you listed but want same effect?
Can government employ all medical practitioners if they decide to stay? Some state government don't pay salaries, no equipments to work with even in some federal hospital so why don't you make the pay ok first, ensure you can employ every one, make all necessary equipments available before you raise and enact a law?
Just like removing fuel subsidy when non of our refinaries work..
Cuba trained their doctors by exporting, paying the fees and returning them home with enough salary and comfort..today Cuba has one of the best medical doctors. Can you say same for Nigeria?
I think its either your family member is a politician or you are no different from them since all you people want is for people to suffer..
This is just han right abuse..and even if they stay 5 years, what if all of us that have more than 5 years leave, who will train the rest? You guys will make things worse because I can graduate and not work as a doctor for 5 years then leave and do a master's and still leave the country..
Bimpe29: Seems to aid brain gain for the affected countries.
Ireportlive: Non that I know of... However a Police officer has the right to detain you for questioning if he thinks you are about to commit an offense of public indecency later with the gadget
Bringing out a Sexual object or material depicting sex is an Offense " Public Indecency"
However if it's in your glove box, or boot covered away from public veiws, the officer can only warn you not to bring it out in public
Ntigha: There are protests currently ongoing around Abule-egba and alakuko axis of Lagos as commercial bus drivers are protesting the increase in daily fees being collected by Agberos to 13,000 naira. the bus drivers who blocked traffic on the Lagos - abeokuta this morning claimed that the government of babjide sanwolu should come to their aid as most of them are being attacked and beaten by the agbero touts for being unable to pay the daily levy of 13k, but few minutes ago the police came in to disperse the protesters by firing teargas and shooting,
Pierocash: Why is Wike no longer insisting that a Southerner must replace Ayu? He welcomed him with a smile.
Wike wasn't really fighting for equity ,he is fighting a personal battle using equity as a cover
flesh and blood did not reveal this to you..Wike has self written all over him.. "Instead of me not getting it make everything kuku scatter..Atiku miscalculated..him for use am for vice Sha..after first tenure allow them to impeach him
stillme231: This coach na fool...remove Simon from this useless match
He has to go when his contract expires..Thank God it's a one year contract..He is not good at all..and he collects 70000 dollars monthly..First of all, iwobi can't run or mark but is the most creative midfielder why not play Ndidi and Onyeka so he will be free to create..Our midfield is weak and Oshimen has no service..Moffi should go to wing and iwobi should go forward so he can create for Oshimen..Chukwueze is just a selfish useless player.
obembet: Many women have become a single mother today due to mistakes they were force to make by Thier partner.
[b]It's very easy for a man to move one and remarry whenever he desires while many single mothers out there looking for who they will spend the rest of Thier lives with.[/b]Did they do mistake to pull their pants? Climb the bed and be making annoying noises? It's not mistake..If they could not abstain, what of condoms or morning after pill? The pleasure was not a mistake so u should marry oo and treat they should treat each other nice too..Both of them helped each other in times of konji needs
So, Should a man be force to marry a lady he impregnated by mistake?
IyaebeTheGreat: Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours
All I can see here is selfishness..You don't wanna be hit even if u hit..I go panel beat u if u hit me oo..Normally I don't beat women unless u touch me..As a wife if you hit your husband you gat no respect.. On the issue of second wife, if you behave yourself, do what you are ment to do, respect, sex, food and being a kind hearted and responsible woman. Even God will fight a man that gets another wife unless otherwise culture or you both agreed before hand.. On the issue of kids, No child is illegitimate abeg..Affairs can but humans can't.
Finally, in our world whre a woman will have 3 kids and non is for her husband yet she will be begging for the man to forgive her and take the kids as his own i.e if he finds out oo, you having a list of unforgivables is rather ironic.
IyaebeTheGreat: This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable
you never can tell..The truth is most men don't tell the reason on Social media..U can see the case of NEDU, if not when the wife was destroying his image so much, u would not have know the first kid was not his but hers and her younger sisters husband.. Secondly popular actor Jonny Depp..you can also browse the story...Women are mostly responsible if a man goes to marry again..And besides, there is a story of how she snatched Yul from her room mate at sch..it could be karma
9jaChooseTinubu: The third class from university of Nigeria still maintains his third class in Nigeria election, some things are not just coincidence, dem really swear for that man with third...
you,wey na certificate of attendance you get nko.. bloody baboon
And whoever feels he is bold and strong enough should default orders and feel full wrath of Biafrans
So how will the ordinary citizens do business and feed themselves..And ur Biafra enforcers will kill those who come out..what a country Biafra will be..no regard for human rights..Just decree and kill those who intentionally or unintentionally flaunt the order . Allow Simon Ekpa who enjoys a good system abroad to keep you in bondage instead of making you own work
Upset700: I've been having issues with guys for years now, especially with guys I sleep with. Whenever I like a guy, or get interested in a guy and then i have sex unintentionally (he wants it but I don't).. After then there's this irritation, I loose interest, I cut the person off.
It's more like he has sold his value to me, like there's no prize, probably he is a great guy but that act alone makes me very uncomfortable. I know this is usually a guy thing, but I've been struggling with this for years.
I feel men should also stop selling themselves cheap...cus they are women who wouldn't value what they can get easily.
To date you go sweet oo..I will enjoy myself and you will lose interest
Then let's use the old notes till you get papers..I don't understand the incompetence in our country..This one doesn't even need a degree but common sense..How won't you have option in abundance before you take away a source? No logistics, you don't have enough paper yet you start a project and ur gross incompetence is making a whole nation suffer..
if he didn't put it in camera, and you see divorce, people will say He cheated or He was violent against her ...Now we all know why some divorce happens..In the past we had better women..Now it's such a pity..He doesn't have a wife yet..He just has a baby Mama..And he should do a DNA test..To make sure the child is even his..
LilMissFavvy: Must he tempt her? Why not give your wife the car and stop tempting her with a Keke. He knows his wife deserves better, he just wanted to tempt her and disgrace her in public. The unfaithful*faggottt* can't try that with his side chick, he knows his side chick would give him a sound slapp. Nonsense'
LadyRosa: Easier said than done. No matter the kind of money it won't solve loneliness in old age when family ain't around. Many of them pensionable old men are around my estate,some are retired into duplexes with their driver, dogs and dusty rooms.
They pay exorbitant prices for sex, they rarely enjoy. They pay for for companionship, because no girl will stay that long with an old man.
One retired officer tried it, married a kaduna girl who packed and ran away with a young boy she met few blocks away in their street.
They don't know how to spend the money they made na...What happens to adventures, traveling to see the world?..Well me am used to loneliness Sha..I was an only child and do stuff alone..have little or no friends..If you make money travel round the world..No be Nigerian girls alone dey this world
all4zionlover: Young men need to understand some certain things in life. Because you're strong, healthy now , does not mean you're going to be that way forever. Love your wife, let her know you do. Show your children you love them and their mother. Especially male children.
Otherwise, you will suffer when all your strength and your cheating skills are gone.
Your children are watching.
All those attitude you display when your wife is pregnant, in labour, child birth and critical moments, she can never forget them.
so na only men they cheat abi? Well done...And no only men they missbehave
LadyRosa: Very reasonable response. Don't expect your children to cling to you when you are old ,esp when you didn’t cling to them in your prime.
whether I cling or not, they will go and get their families and u will hardly see them and ur wife will go for omuguo... Solution make money and pay for service when ur old..no send anybody
when men were chasing the women as young girls una no know abi?Guys go they hustle una go reject am for rich men..when them dump una and him don make am, una go use him picture go Shiloh..Deceive am with love and wife material stuff .him marry una come say make him no enjoy wetin u enjoy? Baba na lie oo..I will be rich and if I notice my wife and kids doing that I will go and marry another and will everything to her
onumadu: This is not always true. At all. In fact I've seen quite a few cases where this happened and the men involved where EXCELLENT fathers and husbands. The problem is natural. Monogamy has a reductionist demand on men that is impossible to meet. A women for example would want to avenge the fact that her husband looked at another woman 30 yrs ago! It is not that the man looked at another woman. It is that she is looking for a pretext to abandon him in old age! A man gets married and at first controls 90% love and admiration. But as he ages, and he keeps investing in his wife and kids, he gradually drains himself of that love and admiration because he empowers them while he dis-empowers himself. Over time, he would be lucky if he controlled 10% love and admiration. How does love and admiration come about? Through MATERIAL THINGS: money, properties, etc. Once he depletes all that and the kids grow up, the wife becomes "free" of the kids, and since he is sexually emptied as well for his wife, he loses everything and gets abandoned. Life is NOT sentimental. That is why a smart man must plan ahead and keep his materials very close to himself until his old age. With those materials firmly under his control, he would retain love and admiration whether his wife and kids like him or not, or else ...
you don't need to use chess bro..Just pray u make money..once you notice all these , pay people to take care of u or marry another person and give her everything once u die
Choilila: Because Men abandoned women during their youthful days chasing girls in the name of sidechicks. So it's the responsibility of the chicks to look after the Men when their old age rocks.
this is a general statement..It's not so most of the time
Hopeba: Last week Friday I woke up and discovered a discharge from My penis. I was scared, so I ran to the toilet to pee. After some seconds a clear watery discharge started coming out again..
I went straight to Google and started searching for the symptoms of gonorrhea, and I found out I am having one of the symptoms. But I am not having painful urination or swollen testicles or any sore around my dick..
I guess it UTI.. I have started taking injections and the clear discharge has minimized. And again my pee is now white unlike few days ago. I have spent over 10k..
I have learnt my lessons. Pls anyone with a similar experience can still advice me further..
You still need to do HIV test..That one is more serious than Gonorrhoea
These people are just wicked..before they said 450 now is 800..so my small car now will need 28k for full up and 112 k for a month..how much is my salary? Well, they will breed Corruption they have never seen before...plus to treat malaria hold 100k
marlow1962: Here in asaba, some fuel stations are selling 390/400 especially those in express, some inside towns are selling 300/350.
Funny thing is that, these petrols are hard to find and even if you find them, it’s going to be bunkery fuel.
What amazes me more is that Nigerians are now comfortable with it, everybody now is “e no concern me”.
My bro Nigerians need to suffer for another 8years bfr they can get sense, but for now everybody is catching cruise.
The annoying part is that ppl are still praising the ppl that made their life miserable.
they are not concerned because every one is planning JAPA..Besides Buhari doesn't give a damn neither do the politicians..NLC planned protest against hike in fuel price. The stupid government destroyed distribution lines so the masses will suffer..