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@OP!!
It is Possible though..
BUT Very Rare..
In many cases, Either the Guy or Girl will fall in Love..

The sweet conversations, teasings, Jokes, Little Quarells and Coming back again is Always very Hard for them to handle!!

Also, One may be Feeling Romance or Sex-Starved and with No one to Turn to, Bestie becomes the quickest option!!
Dats why you Hear some Besties starts Fvckking each other!!
They didn't mean to But One Got Hot and the Other couldn't Resist!!..

So Dats it!! It's Possible but Hard to Maintain!!..
Personally, I advise against It..
Get yourself a Proper Girlfriend and enjoy ur Romantic Life..
So Mr OP!!
If you have any Girl that you are Getting too Close to, Try Reduce Communication with Her!!..
Besties Issues comes with too much Headache!!..

khia:
Sexy does not mean attractive, a person can be attractive but not sexy and those Hollywood actors were named the most sexiest by women and gay men.

Sexy... Sexually suggestive or stimulating and erotic. Is that what you see in those men?

Let's not Argue too much!!
Sexy means Attractive!!

If you see a Ripped Guy with Six packs and you say 'Hey, you re Sexy oo'..
It means Nothing@all..

It Actually means that d Guy has Nice body features and Should be Attractive/Sexy to Females, NOT to males..

When we say Ronaldo or Sergio Ramos is sexy, it's not for Guys, It means they are Appealing/Sexy..But to Girls..

When I used to Go to the Field to Play Football, doz days, One of my Younger Brother friend had six packs and a Big budge(dick)..
He was wearing only Briefs and The boys used to call him Sexy Guy L'omo..

Does that mean they are Gay??

So, understand..
Calling a Guy Sexy is no Big Deal!!..

KosiGee:
It’s also your mentality bro. Ladies also kiss each other on the cheeks, they also give each other lots of hugs and cuddles, they also call each other ‘love, sweetheart’ and other terms of endearment.

I had six packs like Dbanj but taller and more muscler than him. If a man call me sexy, I won’t find it funny.

Ronaldo look fit to me. I wouldn’t describe him as sexy.

Both you and Mr Kondomatic are Just 'Gay Conscious'!!
If you have a Free mind, Der's nothing there!..

A man can be Sexy!!

Sexy originally means Attractive..
Even David Beckham was called Sexy by his Man Utd teammates in the early 2000's..
It means he was Handsome and too Attractive..
None of Dem had Feelings for him!!

U Guys don't know d Meaning of Sexy@all..Gay Matter for Nigeria has influenced una thinking..

KosiGee:
The people you mentioned look fit and could motivate other guys to hit the gyms or start physical fitness programs. They are not sexy.

They are fit not sexy. If you find them sexy.....na you sabi.

They are Sexy, Bro!!
Na you dey Attach Bad meanings to the word..
How can you Tell me Dat 'Six Packs Master' Cristiano Ronaldo is not a Sexy Guy??

Doesn't his body Image look Attractive to You??
Maybe I should attach his Bare body picx on dis comment!!..

Ladies find Nicki Minaj, Beyonce, Tiwa Savage Sexy, Why can't Guys find Television Guys as sexy??
It's just ur mentality!! Change it Plss..

Kondomatic:
Oga.


What I see when I look at a guy is a either a handsome man or an ugly man like me.

When a look at a woman, I see a beautiful woman, ugly woman or sexy woman depending on the mood.


Any man that sees something sexy in another man should be tracked down and investigated thoroughly.

Lol,
You see am..
Dats y I added Nigerians!!..Our mentality is local and kind of warped!!..

Sexy means Attractive!! It does not connotes anything Gay..
A man can be Sexy!!

I just remembered..the following guys have won Sexiest man Award In Hollywood (US)
Keanu Reeves (Matrix)
Pierce Brosman (James bond 007)
The Black Guy who acted the Boxing Film 'Apollo Creed'
Etc
So 4get it, If you are a bit Tall, muscular, with nice built, you can be called Sexy, even by Men/Guys..

JovialJune:
So all married people are responsible? There are no responsible singles?

Don't know about other parts of the world, But in Nigeria..

Every Married Person is seen as Responsible!!
In most Workplaces, Single guys/Ladies are not taken serious because pple see Dem as NOT Responsible!!

Even some Companies/Church Organizations, etc, don't give you a Good Position if you are still single!!..

They assume you Fcvkk around with Girls/Men so they Favour Married pple..

Meanwhile some Married pple are even Worse..Fvckking dier housemaids, sister-in-laws, Drivers, Ex-boyfriends,etc..

So Dats it!!
According to Nigerian Law, Marriage makes you a Responsible person..

Mr FalseProphet1, My man!
You insulted her!!
Go and Apologize!! It's d Mature thing to do Right now!!
Most Girls/ladies of 27 upwards do not like such Jokes about Singlehood..
Sometimes, You have to respect the feelings of Others!!..

KosiGee:
How does a fellow man find another man sexy

I’m confused.

My Brother..
It's possible..
You can look@a Guy, and Say wow 'Dat Guy is Sexy'..
It does not make you Gay or weird!!
Just dat some Nigerians reason things Anyhow..
Personally, I find the Following Guys, Sexy Guys..
*D'Banj
*Cristiano Ronaldo
*Ramsey Nouah
*David Beckham..
These Guys are 35 or 40+ But They are still Trimmed and Sexy..They still maintain dier Six Packs!!.

paulolee:
alot bro...especially one damm nigaar gee n dt oda mosdi dt always say "Nigerian girls are useless, all of them" n even new yaba left patients..

Lolss..

U forgot MannaBBQGrill, D Prosident of ANZ!!(Association of Nairaland zombies)..
He has been keeping dis site busy with his Trashy comments and replies..

+Saphiere', D Bitter Feminist who keeps the site agog by posting Rape stories or Bad news about Men..

osamz007:
Growing up..my mother will use dat same groundnut oil to fry meat,fish,akara,potato and plantain...when the oil don settle,u go dey see all manners of particles for the bottom...she go later sey make we throway am,sey the oil don condemn....some of dis girls be like dat oil.

Kai!!
Na Girls you describe like dis so??
Condemned oil..

True Talk from this Actress!!

Dats y many Young Girls are unmarried@27,28,29,30,31 and 32..

They waste dier youth on Married men..some will be dating dier Boss or married company executives!!

They look at Young Guys as Trash!! Saying they are too Big to date N40k earners!!

and soon, they become Old Spinsters..
Later, they become Feminists, some shouting 'D Future is Female'!!

Bashing and Venting their Frustrations and pain@Men/Guys..
Saying Guys are Cheat when they were the ones who cheated themselves..

moshino:
Well, she's now a billionaire living in banana island with those her "thick legs". You, what have you achieved with your skinny legs, how much money is in your bank account? If you encounter a medical emergency that requires #10m (ten million naira) to cure, what will happen to you, will you live or die?

Association of Nairaland Buhari Zombies, of which he is an active member n is being Championed by dier Boss MannaVultureGriller will help out with Funds..
Don't worry abt him..

Enudapan:
Nah eh! No qualms

How this girl suddenly became the richest
Blogger in Nigeria, even richer than seun
Is one thing
I don't understand!
The future is truly femail abi Gmail

If a Guy and a Girl goes into same line of Business..
The Girl Must surely Outperform d Guy!!
The female gender attracts!! Boobs, Ass, Make-ups, Sexy Outfits, etc..
Even on Social media, Girls picx get Much Likes Dan Guys picx..
So Linda Got her Wealth from Blogging and also 'Patronage' from Big Men!!
It's a normal thing..

[quote author= post=103361617]Reading[/quote]Oh, Just Reading, abi??

Shebi You have been Shouting dat ur Darling Daddy Buhari's govt is Performing??

Big Man dun dey Chop crayfish for your Daddy Regime.. :
How you see am Now??

MaxInDHouse:
Sebi JWs told you people that the gods you're worshiping is not the same but then you'll drive us away from your house.
Oya go on your knees and pray together with your husband, the angel from RCCG and that of DOMINION will come to an agreement and tell you who should surrender to the other!

When JWs say there's no sense in marrying outside your church you people will say you're in Love. Oya make love settle the matter nah, abi Love no dey again?

You Guys are Religious Extremists!!
Jehovah Witnesses are only Christian group dat refer to other demonination as Unbelievers!!..
One JW guy refused to attend his Best Friend's Wedding ceremony..
when asked, he said 'Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers'!!
Jehovah Witness member that will Ignore his Hungry Blood brother...
and instead give the Meat to somebody from Kingdom Hall!!
You guys are Bad-ass christians...

CsRockefeller:
Let's say it's influence, my roommates and course mates were all Pentecostal, I soon found myself following them to their church since we did almost everything together.

Why I came back? Simple, "he maketh me lie down in green pastures" my green pastures has been in the Catholic church, I am a beneficiary of the enormous benevolence of the Catholic church from Nursery school till date so why should I leave were I was being fed spiritually and physically? Secondly, I saw the lives of my fellow Pentecostal friends and it didn't reflect any growth, yes they were all spiritual but mentally and financially, they were just hovering.

Nevertheless, I am grateful for the knowledge and experience garnered there, I was able to grow spiritually and took many things learnt there to the Catholic church. I still follow Pentecostal Pastor's online but I never hide my Catholic identity. Firebrand Pastors and Ministries are springing up everyday, are you going to be jumping up and down like a Kangaroo? The good thing is the Catholic church is open to some changes as I believe reformation per time is very important and we have been seeing such changes lately.

The work of the church is to help guide and direct you to finding Christ, I can agree to some extent that the Catholic church is lacking a bit in this aspect but the it can only get better, no perfections anywhere.

I was a babe, but not anymore have passed through that stage in my life and won't go back. The responsibility of my spiritual growth is first, in my hands.

Nice that you are back in the Fold.. :

D Catholic Church has alot of prayers/ spiritual nutrients you need as a christian...
Just dat there are not intuned with current challenges in Nigeria
e.g, Delay marriage, Spiritual attacks, No jobs, Problems from the father/mother sides,etc..
Dats y you see some People running away from Catholic Church and saying bad things about her..
because There are Societies you can join in Catholic Church to give knowledge on scriptures e.g Blue army, Block rosary, Legion of Mary, etc..
There is Bible Study!!
While some Rev frs have weekly programmes you can attend in d evening!!
But Many catholics do not identify with such groups..
They get influenced by one Firebrand Pastor/church and next thing, dey claim dat 'God is not in the Church'..

saxxyb:
I also need advice, I am a young man of 26 years old, I am from a Catholic Christian family, I gave my life to Jesus in November 2016 when i listened to a message of Apostle Joshua Selman ever since my life have been a wonder, that is my main place of spiritual empowerment.

Now the problem is that I no longer attend the catholic church because I don't feel connected there, I started attending Christ embassy because of a close friend of mine who is a member of Christ Embassy, he invited me during the pandemic last year and I was glad to go because churches were closed during that period and my spirit was dry so I have attending ever since, although I attend Christ embassy on Sundays, though I am not consistent in Christ embassy church because I value Koinonia and interdenominational ministry headed by Apostle Joshua Selman which i attend virtually I.e an online church and I can't be in two place at a time and I intentionally avoid taking responsibilities and taking up positions so that I won't be too connected to Christ embassy so that I will easily focus on koinonia and also make it easy if I decide to leave Christ Embassy when koinonia opens a church in Lagos, one problem my family members are against me attending Christ embassy and they criticize me because they think I am being brainwashed by Pentecostals, speaking in tongues is really a strange thing, my mum doesn't like Christ embassy all because she think they aren't serious Christians due to their dressing and the way their men relaxes their hair .

Talking about marriage I feel its going to be difficult choosing a partner coz of these church identity, I will want to avoid these same problem, so nairalanders I need your sincere and good advise because I am still your and don't want these kind of problem in marriage.

Young man!!
You are just being a Confused Soul!!
An Individual suffering bad from Identify Crisis!!
Dats Why you re running from Church to Church..
Soon you will end up in Grail Movement, Hare Khrishna or Brotherhood of Light and Star..

Thing is dat NOTHING IS WRONG with the Catholic Church!! You were just a passive member..
In Catholic Church, There is Tuesday Bible Study, Daily Masses, Morning and Night Prayers, etc..
You can enjoy God in the Catholic Church..
But most young Folks wants 'Swag' or Entertainments in Christianity,
dats why they bash churches such as Catholic, Anglican, Deeper Life or Lord's Chosen..

COME BACK TO THE CATHOLIC CHURCH WHERE YOU BELONG!!
All d years you Attended, Was ur Life bad??
Attend Daily Masses, Join a Society, read Catholic books, pray d rosary, Angelus,etc..You will feel God in you!!
God Bless!!

Woww!!
I have read 10 Pages on this Thread!!
And Surprise is!!..
Righteousness89 or Righteousness12 did not comment@All!!
Why does he Dodge or Run away from Christianity-Based Topics like dis??

If Una see am, Make una Help me ask am oo..

@SugarDick!!
You are a Brutal Man!!
With all your defences, what you did is Terrible!!..

But Really, For us Criticizing Sugardick, It's his type dat Bangs Pussy the Most..

Most Girls/ladies seems to fall for Bad/cold hearted Guys like him!!
Dey don't like Soft, Reasonable or Cultured Guys@all!

If you re a Guy n you re too Cool, No Pussy for You oo!! Better Change ur Style or Strategy oo!!

So Ina Way, I don't Blame SugarDick!!

LadySarah:
This is terrible!
You'd rather an innocent baby goes blind for life for something as silly as a carryover.

Pierce hers too

Nice one from You!!
You re objective and not Gender-biased!!

gambia:
Sapphire, come and see your genders. The future is female indeed.

You can't Find her Here. NEVER!!
Other Females have condemned the act e.g Pocohantas, Ishilove, etc..
Good, nice Ladies!!

But you see Saphiere..
Dat Girl is a Lost Case!!
I don talk to her Tire to Change!!
Like Pontius Pilate, I don wash my Arms comot for her Matters!!..

macdammy:
With due respect, you don't have sense e

Lols..
'With due respect'..
@Least, you have some little respect for me..
Dats not bad
No Lele!!

ney0hh:
What caused this to happen in your opinion.

Social media?

Bad role models?

Bad parenting?

Poverty?

Simple!!
It's Peer Pressure and mostly Social media Influence!!..

Both Males n Females Now wants to be like Davido, Migos, Drake, Cardi B, Doja Cat, etc and their Papa nor get money oo..

They want to Live Thug Life they see in d Media, Drive Big Benz and Do Wild Stuffs, just to Show off to their friends!..

So, some get dier Hands Dirty e.g Chidinma..

Her dad was giving her money, but she claims dat d money was not enough!!
No, She wanted to be an Hot happening Babe!!!
She wanted to be like Nicki Minaj, Megan tha Stallion, JaneMena by Force!!
An Instagram Queen/Diva, wowing and slaying Men while intimidating other Girls that they are LowClass Inferior Chicks..

So Dats it!!
Doz 70's,80's and 90's Times, People were not so Influenced by Media to do some Bad Stuffs!!

chatinent:
No, that's why I don't know them.

Ok, no Probs!!
Very soon, you will be Ina position to know Dem..

CharisEleos:
Parents of nowadays don't even care to know their children

I remember growing up, my elder sisters then will tell my mum who their friends were, the men toasting them. The one they like and dislike. And my mum will always advise them accordingly.

We were the smallys, so we just sat and listened to them, also picking the advice my mum dished out to them.

I also remember, then my mum would question them if they came home with goodies like pizza or tasty fiesta then and until they explained to the letter, no body will eat it. But some parents will see their children with big phones, cars that they know the child can't afford, they'll keep mute. How will the child not climb to worst levels?

Forget this generation. Though there are still a few good ones but majority are the cause of the communication gap between them and their children. No body cares these days.

Those parents you mentioned are 1970's,1980's parents!!
Dis our own generation can barely make good parents, really!!
Nah!!
Many of us the youth are into Yahoo, Runs, dating Multiple Partners,
+Watching Porn excessively,sex chatting, Smoking Cigga, Marijuana, Taking Tramadol, Rephnol,etc..
How can one have d Moral backbone to tell Kids to Stay off Bad things if he/she have indulged in some of the above listed..

chatinent:
I don't know my children.

You have Children, currently??
Just asking..

KiNg0G:
Mahn..I ain't married... neither got no kids.

But still....I wanna have 3 boys.

When I do


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Slawomirr ✓ ( if you know you know)

What??
You want your Child to be a Bomber (Internet Fraudman) like Slawormir??

This is Stupidest comment or reasoning I have seen Ina Long time!!

Let's just hope you re Joking!!
because Slawormir himself will NEVER want any of his Future Children to go into Yahoo!!

Even Slawormir sef, Is He Actually a Bomber?? Either Over-Hyping his Mini-transactions or Forming Braggadocio online, deceiving lots like you!!
Pls Get sense oo!!

Slawormir himself will not like dis ur Comment!

Nice Post!!
Has to be Picking of Beans!!
I just don't like it!!..
Once my Male bought out beans doz days,
I quickly move out as if I want to get sth, Stroll around and come back in 30 mins time..

Otherwise
*Sweeping
*Doing dishes
*Washing bathroom/toilets..
*Washing clothes..
Is Never a problem 4 me!!..

PAWG:
So if you go US and policeman slap you you’ll blame Joe Biden?

Mark Zuck may not even know who Tunde Ednut is. Besides, like someone said, it may be fake profiles.

Have you bothered finding out what Tunde did in the first instance? What if he was banned for a number of years which haven’t elapsed.

Build and promote yours if all fails, it’s a private business they can’t allow bullies use it destructively

My Brother!!
U are Good!!

Some Pple are too Childish and Act based on Sentiments/Impulse!!
You just blame Mark Zuckerberg just like That

And some think US is Nigeria where 'Anything goes'.. Looking for where they can be Misbehaving!!..

In d Arsenal news site I visit, also Chelsea, You need to See the level of decorum and respect members have for one another..
White Man ehn...
Unlike ours, e.g Nairaland where, Afonja, Conehead, Flat,Nyamiri Yam leg, Ur Papa dey Craze, comments has taken over!!

Most would want to Transport dis Barbarism or Craze to International site such as Instagram!!
Very Funny Goons!!..
Even saying Tunde Ednut should open site!! Fake News and Exchange of Curses/Vitroil will b the order of d Day!!

@the OP
Some of you Guys ehn!!
Tunde Ednut's account was deleted, you Quickly Rush, create a Post to blame Mark Zuckerberg!!
Do you know d Main reason why Instagram did that??
Have you bothered to Find out??
Some of you are way too emotional n Childish over Little things!!
You need to Grow up!!
Just like saying Seun is turning into something else if MannaVultureGriller's is Banned on Nairaland!!..
Pls, Stop dis Nonsense Reasoning!!
Thank you

Happy birthday to BurnaBoy!!
But he looks Older Dan 30!!
Same as Falz
Some pple really look older Dan dier Age Sha..