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The THINKING alone can kills. To be a man in Naija is never a day's Job.

The THINKING alone can kill. To be a man in Naija is never a day's Job.

Markieee:
BASED ON OBSERVATION
Top states you can get descent, trusted, hardworking and loving woman to make a wife...
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1. # Anambra_state
2. # Nasarawa_state
3. # Benue_state
4. # Ogun_state
5. # Delta_state
6. # Enugu_state
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Top state you can regret ever marring from in nigeria
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1. # Imo_state
2. # Edo_state
3. # Lagos_state
4. # Ebonyi_state
5. # Kogi_state
6. # kwara_state
7. # Abia_State
8. # Cross River_State
9. # Borno
ADD YOURS & SPECIFY IF BEST OR WORST
Not all the Ladies from these States are good or bad respectively. But Majority speaks the
Fact ....
You are entitle to your own opinion here sha!

I am from Benue state and codely dating two women, one from Edo and the other from Abia. And with this your list hmmmmm!

Well,both of them have been so sweet romantically and industrious in nature.

I am GAMOPHOBIC. GOD help me

3 years old girl that knows the difference between large and small penis... Something is wrong somewhere

MMotimo:
In my Yoruba family, paternal and maternal, the bride's family sponsors the introduction, wedding reception and engagement ceremonies.The wedding is done in the bride's parents' church. As far as I know, this is the norm in Yorubaland unless things have changed.

For real? And I was thinking to marry a Yorubaland lady would be expensive due to the plenty Owambe'.

Kachisbarbie:
Culturally, it's the woman's church... (so I heard), because she would be leaving her church to the groom's church after that day.

Wetin no dey cause problem for Nigeria sef? Location again? But they can travel to the US, that one doesn't cause problem.
Just do court wedding make everybody rest biko.

Seriously it's about compromise. One person has to play the fool, whoever decides to isn't my business right now.

My sister I tire ooo, to marry for naija no easy at all. Tribe,Religion,Location,Tradition,History, Language et al na part of its criteria.

nnapal:
Now 22+ and yet to have any real sex experience.lol. One girl I met a yr ago and have even lost her contact if she had not hook me up again through watsapp. She seem to have a genuine interest in me, and promise to visit around next month begining(didn' t tell u she don travel). As she dey come na godwin. I am actually planning to have nice time with her in one hotel nearby because I have a roommate in my lodge who is radically religious.lol. I hv planned it like eating out at one cool hotel like dat, then lure her inside a hotel 4 d main tin(nid to lelease, I mean release dose toxins inside my scrotum. Wasn't it on nairaland that I saw d benefit of sex.lol) But I don't know if hotel can accomodate in hourly basis or u must pay for a full day as I haven't been lodged at anyone yet. I just want to have her say for 2 or 3hrs. Who shall I even approach 4 d lodgings? What is d payment like? I dont want to hear stuff like villageboy, cos we all hv villages. I am even living in city nw. I have always been mama & papa's goodboy, na it cause am. Thank u all.

After fucking Her what will be your reward?

Oliviaarims:
I think this is worth making front page. But in my opinion,I'd say it's different strokes 4 different folks. Having more than enough money to spend does not guarantee happiness nd the success ov a relationship. There are so many ways to spice a relationship without d guy necessarily being rich. The attraction counts a lot...there's got to be love and a desire to stick together. There are girls out there who can conveniently put up with an average guy without looking out 4 some rich dude to come whisk her away. There are just certain things fancy outings nd instant luxury do not make up for. Buh,if u're lucky to get a man who's got doz qualities u desire plus money,then that's just some good luck. It's all about individual choices nd preferences. No die-hard rules...
I favour prospects,potentials...ambition....Again, I say..different strokes 4 different folks...






#Philosopher Quëën#

If only 80% of our girls could reason like you... Nice one Madam

GJames:
I agree with the OP. This is the reason I have never made any attempt to woo a girl.
Money first, girl later.

Make money and lavish it on a girl. na wa ooo

INDIAN,CANADIAN,TOGOLESE,BENIN,ENGLAND AND USA LADIES ARE SWEET TO DATE, THEY ARE NOT ALWAYS ABOUT THE MONEY....THEY JUST NEED A MAN. Seriously many Naija babes need to REVAMP The money money mentality

I DETEST THE ONES THAT CALL GUYS JOBLESS, SIMPLY BECAUSE THE SAID GUYS ARE BROKE AND STRUGGLING .

SHE FEELS SHE IS DOING A GUY A FAVOR BY CHATTING HIM UP...IRANU

Omotayor123:
You are on point... But OP is emphasizing on guys with no job at all. Trust me there are guyz like that Jobless and they don't care. They will even tell you to feed them.

And they don't care? for real? hmnnn

I admire the ways, the guys here are representing. Kudos to you guys...U are making realistic sense.


And all you liabilities infested ladies....continue oooo.

Guy must get job to date a broke lady...SMH

Decent ladies don't dabble into such acts.The stubborn ones won't listen

For me, It has not been easy as the first child with 6 younger ones.

*Any mistakes from the younger ones will be your fault
*Parent Mistakes made on first born is used as corrections for the younger siblings
*First issues suffer the most psychologically,emotionally and physically.
*No elder brother or sister to look up to
*Many first issues grew with fear.
*Most first child especially male marries late
*Many of first female child gets disvirgined or raped at early stage.
*Some First child go suicidal.
RESPECT TO ALL FIRST CHILD

Hmmmm had sex and she moved to meet an innocent broda. What a girl

trapQ:
because men are just a bunch of hypocrites

because some men are bunch of hypocrites.It is better this way

WarRLaY:
Logic:
When a key can open many lock:we praise the key and call it master key.
But when a lock can be opened by many keys; wow, the lock is fucking useless and deserve to be replaced.

Badt guy!!! lol

But Cheating is not an excuse. Conji ehnnnn

Oyind17:
you said u don't want to marry na. remain single u don't need advice

Shey I asked advice from you?,abi I tag you join my matter.

Moreover,those wey don pass through this situation before come overwhelm am,shey you better pass dem ni?

Oyind17:
older enough to advice u not to marry

OK Aunty,thank you.

Oyind17:
You get time dey advice this one.

Bawo ni?

Madam, na wetin bad if person advice another person?shey you be sadist ni?
na wa for you ooo.

All your mate wey use their precious time to say something constructive shey you better pass them ni? SMH

Omotayor123:
Badt girl



OP try reading about those with successful marriage. Take your mind off negativity you've heard about being married.

Omotayor thanks alot, You make sense

[quote author=Oyind17 post=39161866]Lol, do what I said earlier don't marry, you don't have a mind of your own [/quote
How old are you? no offense

You are the side Bobo and not the main one.

That girl might be a feminist, she is in control.

Harbosede02:
Ok.....u look good at the same time u dont,watz the essence of being a fine boy with no confidence at all.....u need nairalanders to rate yu so as to restore ur confidence??no one can rate u better than urself dear....rate ur self esteem first b4 u start talking abt looks.

My dear,people assertions matters at times.

Looking-glass-principle

texmi2u:
It's so sad that I get rejected by ladies I tried wooing... Not sure if am not good looking or just my wooing lines are so bad that they kept failing me all times. Or na witch dey cause am?

ABEG I NEED HELP restoring my confidence from you ladies ooo. Plz be sincere

Eeayaa, Bro, I was once like you.Don't mind those ladies falling your hand,ignore them.

My advice is for your to love yourself,value yourself,build yourself,build your self worth and esteem, make money,make money,make more money, hit the gym if your have the strength.
And don't make any lady feel like they are doing you a favor dating you.
IT IS BETTER THEY FAIL YOU,THAN THEM PUTTING YOU ON THE FRIENDZONE VEHICLE

*Travelled from Maiduguri to Kastina just to see my 2go lover. Waste of time,energy and resources. Got dumped later.

*Telling her I have power,I am strong ,my name is killer bla bla bla.

*Promised her marriage just for her to date me.lolzzz


I don mature now.

To get the right woman is like printing your own money. Aal is well

You wan start ashewo bizness abi?