₦airaland Forum

LoveMachine:
Don't cry if you cheered the destruction of pipelines. This is the result.

Pls don't shift the blame. The bulk rest on the president table.

Geraldyne:
Hi,
Its not a friends story or from a blog,its mine and I want you all to read and give me matured advice.

I've been in a relationship for almost 8 months now and everytime I go to visit my boyfriend..he must demand sex,even if I say am on my period.
Sometimes I just get furious and say am no longer interested in the relationship and he starts begging and because I love him, I forgive him.
He'll stop that for a while,then start it all over again.

He doesn't consider my feelings at times, there was a certain time I was still mourning the death of my cousin,he came around and after symphatizing with me,he wanted us to have sex..Gosh! I was so pissed.

The one that pissed me off the most was last night,after having like 5 rounds,I felt sore all over, I told him that and he stopped,then this morning, while I was trying to pray,he started touching me again saying he wants me.

I don't just understand whether this is normal,sometimes I just displease myself to please him but still he's not satisfied.

Am confused on whether to quit or not,cos apart from the sex thing,he still has his good sides and I dont want to make a wrong decision.

pls advice a confused sister...thanks

otokx:
All of you shouting no mercy, humanity this and that; armed robbber never jam you for house before.

I really don't know what this guy stole but some people deserve jungle justice especially armed robbers, violent kidnappers and rapists to mention but a few. I feel for the guy who steals 10 kobo and is set ablaze.

Izen:
I have one honest question for men tho. What else do you really have to offer in a relationship besides finance? Most women have been taught to lose every thing about themselves for the man they love since childhood. The only compensation they've been taught to expect is in terms of finance. So if men hate providing in this generation, what else do they really have to offer?
I'm asking it maybe because it beats me when I hear thing like this especially on Nairaland. It's like no one even values the role women play again. I keep imagining how I would have turned out if my mum didn't have to wake up early to prepare me for school, make breakfast, wash my clothes, care for me when sick, carry me about etc while I was growing up. She was a major part of my growing up years and I loved it. And she did all her wifely duties at the same time. But now, it seems the world doesn't think that's enough unless she contributes financially. Ironically, she does contribute more than enough and that makes her the super woman I don't want to be. Because all I see is her giving and giving and giving. Giving her time, her strength, her self, her money. It must get tiring at some point and I see the stress in her face. It hurts that I had to see my mum cry this year because of the stress of money which shouldn't be her burden.
Anyway, back to my question, honestly if men are not bearing the burden of finance, what else do they have to offer in a relationship/marriage? Is this new ideology of a woman must contribute financially justified or is it due to laziness and lack of responsibility of this generation of men?

The point you are driving at is far different from what the Op is saying. Firstly, he's complaining about his fiancée not being frugal but you're here talking about the struggles your mother went through( which is good by the way).
For you to ask such question (the bolded) shows that you know very little about relationship. It's no problem if you decide to be celibate

lestat:
Good evening all, this is Lestat once again.. and this time I bring to you another putrid , vomit inducing post!
Posts created by a subset of a subset of nauseating emotional man-boys! No I don't mean your regular still living with mummy and daddy 30 something year old baby daddy's..no. these are even worse than those these are a lower subset of angry , delusional , masturbators who belong to a wretched. Disgusting pit of fvck!
Did you just read this sh1t?
Do you all put yourselves through the torture of reading this poorly worded rant of a weakling attention wh0re of a man boy?
The OP deserves to be alone and sad for this garbage he made us read.
Shame on you OP. No pints for your id1ocy!
Go to bed and rethink your life.
No one wants to read your pathetic post because it's an insult to intelligence and imagination

Take it essy on the guy!! . He needs help.

gedtalks:
My people pleaseeee I need sincere advise here. Your advise will definitely guide me on the next step to take.

There is a beautiful girl I've been considering getting married to, but the way she requests money and fast food is making her look very ... lol.. "hungry" and opportunistic to me. The values she sees in a man seem to me like its basically what he will BUY for her. I confess that I made matters worse initially by "fast fooding" each time we meet... Now I think she sees me like a free lunch at crunchies. If I call her in the afternoon, she says I'm hungry.. its so irritating now.. in fact I lost a lot of regards for her..but she doesn't know yet.

Recently she asked me for some money and I refused very politely..she said she was "disappointed".

I wonder if she even loves any other thing about me asides the MONEY I WILL GIVE HER. she pays ABSOLUTELY NO attention the things I want her to see in me...like level of maturity, my leadership skills, I taught she was just being childish, but lately I discovered its just her nature. her ideology about a guy is WHAT WILL I GET FROM HIM.. I might dump her .. i wont even talk to her about it. please advise me

You've answered your question. I wanted to tell you to give him the benefit of the doubt but it looks like she will never change . Just move on.

CertifiedNaija:
What do you think about this shoot?

Yay or Nay

http://www.certifiednaija.com/2016/12/lady-pose-nude-with-holy-bible-in-viral.html?m=1

I don't blame her nah !! She can only do this witg the bible. Let her try it with the other book.

CastedDude:
According to reports filtering in from Yobe state, soldiers brutally dispersed Dariqa Muslims conducting Maulud celebrations in front of Emir of Fika Palace yesterday in Potiskum... The crowd of Muslims gathered in front of the palace of the Emir of Fika, Alhaji Muhammadu Abali Ibn Muhammad Idriss, to celebrate the event as done before in previous years.

Soldiers from nowhere immediately stormed the venue to disperse the crowd who all took to their heels with many abandoning their footwear and other items to avoid being caught up after the pandemonium broke out.

Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2016/12/soldiers-disperse-muslims-celebrating.html

Didn't know there was another sect aside Sunni and Shitte

ebube93:
I have been wondering why people see Lucifer as a bad name. And why people don't bear the name Lucifer cause I have checked to see what makes the name Lucifer a bad name. Please let's talk it out....

It's the person who bears that name that matters. Abi can you answer satan ?

beegameh:
. I still do. As I speak I hav nit being paid wages fr last mnth. I even work on sundays at times. Were anoda job wey I go resign now

My brother, it's not easy. People resign not because they don't want to work but because of poor working condition like yours.
I advise you to pray and expect something better. But if you have the means, you could further ur education while you quit the job.

Bishops10:
You were lucky to get a break...I work within the same time frame yet no break.
you don't sit down,no place to hide and rest, there's Camera everywhere....
A company at Amuwo Odofin industrial estate

. Is that a concentration camp ?

posh8701:
After the company I had worked for 3 years plus announced they were leaving Nigeria due to the harsh economic situation, I was happy when I secured another job on 30th of November 2016, which was the last day of my previous job. I couldn't wait to share my testimony here, lol.

Upon resumption, I realised people worked like horses for the company(Monday to Saturday)with no overtime bonus for working till about 10, 11pm if u have to, the best u get is a hotel room for the night if you can no longer go home. I was the only one going out for break and closing by 5.I understood because I was new, they didn't want to complain and wanted me to settle down. Hmmmmm, see work Oooooo. Although I had heard of such companies It was beginning to dawn on me that I had just gotten into one.

I terminated my appointment and no amount of persuasion from the management could stop me (If the offer is so cool, they should give it else with my experience and pay the person, shikena!)Why beg me?

I know the situation in Nigeria is terrible and many people doing such jobs are holding on till they get another job, its not easy to bear, sincerely.Employers especially Lebanese are taking the advantage to enslave Nigerians. Unfortunately, our government is still asleep.

I resigned because my circumstances at the moment does not demand for me to work under such poor conditions of service. But then, not every Nigerian has same circumstances and can take such a bold step.It is really heart breaking to see people suffer like this.

Have u worked under such conditions before? please share.

My brother, sometimes quitting is the best option. If you can quit such jobs, I wonder why this government is producing graduate conductors and people are lauding them.

GossipHeart:


This is what happens when someone decides to drop out of school and be a zombie for life

The meaning of batter is : Strike repeatedly with hard blows or pounds heavily and insistently

The meaning of Maltreat is : Treat a person or animal cruelly or with violence

Can you please explain how he was battered and maltreated ??

So, if that thug was strapped with bombs, the security personnels should give him access to go kill Goodluck Jonathan

These APC Afonjas and zombies always crying like a rat on mensuration


Break that fool's leg and make him cripple for the rest of his life

Can you run up to Buhari like this ?? Just because say na Goodluck Jonathan, you go run up to him like say he's your father

You can't even run up to Wizkid or E money like that

Please, go back to school

Dont mind the useless people. How many MOGS can you get close to like that ?

AdoraAmadi:
Godson just shared his story on Instagram:

This lady is really a devil ... I have been taking care of this bitch for one and half years now .. paying her bills and everything .. I have prove for everything cause I know after this she will say her own side of the story ....

the girl had a baby for me then want to turn me to mungun (fool) and started acting funny after she gave birth to the baby I tried a lot and all my best to work things out for both of us but bitch will Always act like one ..

am giving her 15,000 naira every Monday cause of the baby she had for me and this fool still call me useless man cause i ain't ready to let her turn me to fool ... she gave birth to the baby last year December 11th and since then I have been paying 22,500naira every
month for the baby day care fee for a year now ..

so this last week this bitch came back from school and told me have to pay December fees from November and I told her I don't have any money now that whenever I have am going to pay it .. not knowing this bitch been paying 5500 naira every month for the baby day care after am giving her own money 15k naira per week ( every damn Monday ) so I decided to call the day care last weekend and talk to the person incharge of the day care and the woman told me it was just 5500 my baby been paying for the day care ..

I was so shocked and I did not say a shit I told this girl I don't have a any money to give her again and the bitch stabbed me with knife then lock the door from the back telling me she wants me dead ..

my friend was there inside house with us ...I wanted to make calls and tell people what's going on In the house she collected my phone and brake the screen..
this bitch frustrated me she wanted me to raise my hand on her so that she can be telling her fake was friends am a woman beater .. I did not do anything or say a shit .. she left the house i went to the hospital ..

after 2 days she back to the house with one of her family member and they packed my things In the house .. I did not say a shit I called my parents and told them what happened they told me not to ever do anything sily ..bitch i thought j would be begging her cause.

please repost this .. cause this bitch is saying shit around telling her friends what am not .... I want all of them to read this before they started judging me ... bitch told her friends she's the owner of all the things she packed in my house without having any receipt...I pray all her friends read this and she say her side of the story too ..

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/12/babymama-stabs-man-Godson-domestic-violence.html

She must be a runs girl. I won't be surprised if you're not the true father of that baby. Go for a DNA test.

missKiffy:
i disagree on the @yahoo.com and @gmail.com point, some genuine companies still use it, the former company i worked still uses yahoo, tho its a small company but they are genuine.

True !! Most small companies do so. But multinationals and conglomerates won't do such...

BigBelleControl:
I think you are more handsome than Balloteli. Though form the profile picture, there's a bit of semblance.


On the other hand, why will you be curious to know if truly you look like Ballocrazy when people want to look like Ronaldo, Messi, Neymar and co?

.

He can't look like them nah ! Na de person he look like naim he dey tell you.

Berlynn:
oga Op And what do you have to say to those hot guys tend to believe they are mostly desire by ladies, however jumping from one punny to another breaking ladies heart upadan

. . It doesnt matter for guys

I've been following the thread but the Op didn't conclude his story. HardMirror, at what point did you become an atheist ?
Secondly, if you've been speaking in tongues, under what inspiration did the tongues come ? You told us that your tongues are genuine.

Bbsharon:
If you are pondering on where to go this festive season or your next holiday, I would recommend you take a visit to admire the beauty of nature. This my second time of visiting this place and to my surprise I had a totally new experience of the place. The water was so white that mere looking at it for long one can assume to be blind for some seconds as it makes you dizzy as you stare at the magnificent falls. The last time I was here was during the dry season and the view was not as beautiful as during the rainy season, it was like rain falling heavily non stop with very smooth and consistent rythm.

The Olumirin waterfall is a seven step waterfall located at Oriade local government in Osun state, Nigeria which is 2km from the main town Erin Ijesha. Interestingly each step of the waterfall has a flowing fountain which to me gives it it's unique nature. Based on some myth by the people of Erin-Ijesa, they believe that there is a big pot located at the utmost top of the cliff where the waterfalls flows from.  Also the falls was said to be discovered by a powerful woman called Akinla a grand - daughter of Oduduwa who founded the Erin-Ijesha town. Legends has it that when the fall was first discovered it had the appearance of a mysterious figure and was believed to be a very tall and huge living spirit whose height reached the heavens and  has several mouths  from which the water gushed out.

The place is not so developed as the entrance looks somehow deserted and before you get to the falls is not Interesting to me at least. And I really think Osun state government is not taking the place that serious as it meant to be a very good tourist centre and source of revenue for the state. The entrance fee was 500naira for adult and 300naira for kids, and things around there are just a little bit above the normal price especially when they know you are a visitor. Ordinary 30naira shower cap those very light one is 100naira and one funny looking bottle water for 100naira too.

Another interesting part is the mountain climbing and a good exercise platform. If you are looking for a good experience of mountaineering then you should not just stop at the 2nd floor as most people that visit do but proceed further to at least the 4th floor. The first time I was here I got to the 7th floor and didn't even get much time to have fun at the falls as we were eager to get to the last floor in time. To get to the last floor takes lot of determination and strength as it's more than an hour journey and the sun on the mountain might be scorching, I remember having to massage my legs for like 3days after. So this 2nd time I just decided to  chill at the water and enjoy it to the maximum, I must say the water was very cool and refreshing and keeps one wondering about the wonders of nature. 

At the 7th floor is a little settlement not even up to a village of mud houses, though they have an electric  pole and they had light when we visited. The place is called Abake and the residents referred it to " Ilu Aba-ke " in youruba which means the village on the  top ". There was a little river where the children washed and some were playing, speaking to some of them they quite understand English as they made us know they go to school down the cliff towards " Effon Alaaye " local government in Ekiti state. Sadly there is basically no infrastructure in this place not even a little clinic. They major in farming and thereafter go to nearby villages to sell their produce.

Also to spice up your fun there is an old man who plays the talking drum, I recognized him from the last time I was here about 2years ago. He plays the instrument with so much enthusiasm and at the end you will just have to tip him generously after he must have whine you to the last (lol).

Conclusively I had a great time and would visit again if I have the chance.

Lalasticlala please help move to frontpage

http://www.demitalks.com/2016/11/beauty-of-nature-trip-to-olumirin.html?m=1

As white as wool ?

CzarChris:
Una wake up late.
I have been called a wailing wailer and so many funny but derogatory names for not supporting the climb into power by this devil currently ruling us and his club of demons out to stifle life out of every Nigerian.
Una wake up really late .

Sai Baba till 2050...mtchewww

I wonder why the likes of Mbaka and Bakare won't speak against this.

oloriooko:
This man speaks like a toddler
A responsible leader takes it all- blames or praises!
When the man came out to contest, what he portrayed was that "I know the problems of this country, pls give me the opportunity to fix it"
It is obvious PMB was not in any way prepared to salvage the economy, he was caught unaware by GEJ concession of defeat.
So whenever I read people saying PMB is not the cause of our present predicament, I wonder if these people are toddlers upstairs.

On point !!
This Mbaka of a guy is becoming funny. When Fulani herdsmen men kidnapped and raped some Reverend sisters at his backyard, where was he ?
When a Christian woman was attacked because she does morning cry ever day, what did he say ?
Another Christian woman was killed by a Moslem mob but Mbaka kept quiet.
A Catholic church was razed down up North but Mbaka was no where to be heard.
A 14 year old Christian girl was forcefully given out in marriage to an Emir but Mr. Mbaka didn't utter a word.
Can this man be quiet for once . What does he know about economics ?

Legend87:
One day, you'll learn to understand in parables.

No waste time answer the moo moo

Tolexander:
Hope this statement isn't going to cause a friction with Morocco!

This man just speaks without reasoning

Gee001:
Aero served me and others one big eva water in a very small disposable cup. In the end they served just two big bottles of water for everybody.

That's so mean...

maximunimpact:
I hope the condoms will not be burnt like they do to charms, let it be shared among the choir and youths department for posterity.

You are not serious

FreshNaijaBoy:
For those who were shouting Nigeria doesn't need a foreign coach, we must use a local one bla bla bla. I feel Gernot Rohr have shown that what we needed all this while is a competent coach and nothing else. We were not short of quality players. We just lacked a good, qualified and tactical coach. I mean, the Eagles are a delight to watch now. Away to Zambia was a tactical master piece, so was the match against The Desert Foxes in Uyo. That was a game we would have been beaten by the Algerians. Bottom line is, the NFF made a good decision in getting a good coach, irrespective of where he comes from, and we are reaping the benefits now.

A good foreign coach for the matter... .

mrvitalis:
Recession is just a symptom.... We are here because of something and no body is asking what is it.. before Buhari came in we were already in recession.. .. so the question is why.. And how long can we stay here and what can we do do get out of all

When you guys give such excuse, I only feel like laughing. If we were already in recession, why were things not as bad as it is 2 day ?
Not only is recession a symptom, it's also just a word

Originalsly:
Anus is anus.... why would one believe that of the male is different from that of the female?..... why would one believe that the damage done to that of the male via homosexuality is not also done to the female practising anal sex? Men and women need to rethink. And yes... if a man finds anal sex to be sexciting... then he is one step away from being a homosexual .... if not already deep in the shhhhh... let me shut up.

You are wrong here. It's just like saying lips is lips so you can kiss a man's lips even though u are a man.