₦airaland Forum

Hadez:
I find this very interesting to discuss here and I will go straight to the point.

I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him. It is important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life.if you are his friend,you act like his friend and if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife, you also act like one.

A woman is meant to be explored..if am dating/courting you and during the course of that I cook all my delicasies for you, what threat wil I give you when we get married?
I can't find myself loitering around a man's kitchen when am not his wife! What are your opinion ladies?

men are also free to air their opinions too...reasonable comments please..thanks

It's just part of the exploration and testing

Progressive01:
Oga oo.. Me personally dey complain. My pastor launch two high end rides on the same day.. I dey suspect the man.

You and your pastor again ? Make you ask am to show u de way..

CelebrityGist:
Mrs Dolapo Osinbajo (Vice President's wife) who some some months ago advice Nigerians to eat what they plant shows pictures of herself harvesting yams from her backyard in Aso Rock. See more pictures below.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BM8tRrRDscu/?hl=en

http://celebritiesdailylifestyle..com.ng/2016/11/dolapo-osinbajo-harvests-yam-from-her.html

So me wey dey live for flat, where I go plant my own

Progressive01:
Make I mention so that if you be member yougo go do amebo to the pastor say person dey talk him mata on nairaland abi??

Him go come stand for alter dey speak him big big grammar dey yarn how the "wrath of God will visit anyone who speaks ill of him" abi?

I just dey observe am first.

Time will tell.

Hahahahaaa. You funny too much. .

chiscodedon:
Brave men of our time.
You don't need much excuse to showoff your bravery. You don't need a second invitation to be a judge.
In daylight you unleash a darkness worst than midnight. You are fighting a trivial "badness" with a terrible evil. You won, you killed him. A bragging right against the devil. Hope you kept his skull? As a trophy, your cup, a memorabilia. To prove to your future kids what a brave lion their dad was. The lion of the tribe of murderers.
But sometimes you need to be big enough to see how small you are. You need to be brave enough to see what a prosaic little coward you are.
To err is human but your stupidity is divine. You are a slave to your own foolishness and whoever took these pictures share in this foolishness. Your temperament can't accommodate thieves yet government rob you daily. You are robbed of your right, your privileges. Your future is stolen and your destiny being moved. None of these sparked your revolutionary judgmental bravery. You chose a petty thief to decorate. A fatal decoration. A tire necklace and gasoline perfume. This is 52 shades of dark.

This one na poetry ?

The problem I have with jungle justice is that innocent people could be victims. . Or the punishment could be to severe for the said crime. Other than that, rapists and violent criminals need to be beaten to stupor .

Progressive01:
Not just Dangote brother. I'm also suspicious of our big big General Overseers like Oyedepo, et al. Have a strong feeling politicians launder monies through their churches and enterprises.

My pastor just buy brand new Range Sport and a 2017 Camry. I don dey take corner eye dey look the man sef.

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. See wetin member dey talk ! Which church be dat sef ?

Raine80:
No cannot relate to that. Why beat about the bush it's exhausting. If I am not interested I say so, I am not rude. The ones that persist ( some men cannot take no for an answer) I will break it down point by point as to why it is never going to happen.

Many ladies still play hard to get, though.

ever811:
a man who did nothing whit oil at 150 Dollar per barrel will run to hiding even giving to chance to come and rule unopposed now that oil price is 47 Dollar per barrel...

What is Buhari doing with the oil he's selling

kinggogo:
Hmm free buh PERSONAL tutorial 4 APARTMENT

I dey feel u my guy

HML

Na tutorial or totorial ?

ollah1:
Use your brains completely. The situation is NEROSKY is very bad even though you aren't there and you don't even know much about it but you are downplaying the incidents happening in Syria and Yemen where air strikes, suicide bombing et al happen on daily basis?

Bravo!

I don't think you have been in Syria either. Since you guys love propaganda, it's unfortunate that we have to depend on foreign news. You only want to hear what Lai tells you. It shows how naive you are. May be you are downplaying what's happening in Maiduguri.

So FRSC don become revenue generator for FG ? I no go drive car nah

recievesense:
The fight against terrorism is more about covert ops and strategy. I have always advocated for fighting these terrorist from within. Plant a mole in their midst either by bribe or by Intel since u have some of their guys in custody. It's a thing of morale.

Counterterrorism is a new way of war and not arms. We have enough but as u can see, it's only through war that governments and military divert funds in the name of arms deal. Buhari has learnt from the previous govt and wants to get his own share.

They have the Intel to end this people but someone is benefiting somewhere.

That's the job of the DSS but they prefer to break down the houses of judges and arrest political opponents.

BlackBaron:
Probably the same type of faulty Western analysis/methodology that polled Clinton as probable President.

Countries like Syria, Iraq and Afghanistan in that order individually outstrips our combined nationwide insecurity issues.
Not that we don't have our problems.

Other countries like Yemen, Libya are engaged in day in day out state wide conflicts, yet we are number 3?

Can you trust our press ? How many times does Channels TV, AIT, or NTA tell us the truth ? When 105 soldiers were missing last year, did you hear anything from our news stations ?
Bombs are going off every day and more soldiers are being ambushed. If not for social media we would be in the dark. Let's not blame the West. The situation in the NE is very bad.

amadiwati:
something has to be done as quick as possible. the army has been infiltrated. this frequent killing can demoralize soldier

When Gej hired mercenaries, there was result. Some zombies were abusing him.
Buhari Promised to lead the fight. But has he visited Borno ? Soldiers keep getting killed and Liar Mohammed will continue lying. If Buhari is sensible he will either hire mercenaries or equip our soldiers.
Our Soldiers need to change strategy.

Winnelyn:
curvy just like me

Make we see

wink2015:
[b][size=14pt]The good people of the Niger delta will not forgive Minister Ameachi for condemning the maritime university at Okerenko, Delta state. A strategic project that is been built in his constituency – the niger delta.

Amaechi seems to have carried his misunderstanding with the Jonathan too far. He had problems with former first lady, Dame Patience Jonathan and with President Goodluck Jonathan, the then Nigerian president. He use that misunderstanding to rub everything link to Jonathan which was not fair.

He started a war with the Jonathan and the Wike in Rivers state and turned to Delta state to denied the people of riverine their first maritime university.
Ameachi did not reason properly before talking. He was so carried away by the position of a minister forgetting that one day he will be dropped as a minister.
If Ameachi knows that he is not just a minister but he is also representing the Niger delta and rivers state he will have think twice.

This is a project an Hausa man, Yoruba man and Ibo man will not condemn if it is sited in their own domain. Amaechi went out of his way to utter gabbage condemning all aspect of the project thinking he was pleasing Buhari.
Ameachi think he will remain a minister for ever. There was minister before him and there will be minister after him.
It is unfortunate that Ameachi has created unnecessary hate for himself especially in the Niger delta region. The handwork of Amaechi will show clearly to him as at the time President Buhari drop him as a minister. He will certainly have no constituency to turn to. That is the sad tale of a man who fail to reason intelligently.

Amaechi should have respected the adage that “Silence is golden”

I wish to thank President Buhari, the senate, and Minister Kachukwu ( minister of state for petroleum ) for using wisdom to handle this delicate issue. It is in Buhari best interest to see that the Maritime University at Okerenko is completed and the EPZ project completed as well.
In same manner, peace will be achieve in the Niger delta region.
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Well spoken !!

richidinho:
why cant you seek for more information before commenting here?

No mind am. U go know when zombie dey talk.

BeeBeeOoh:
I once said on this forum that our media house(s) are not reporting the real events on ground about the fight against terrorism but, guess what, zombies attacked me left, right & center that day and at the end of the day I was tagged IPOD Yoot & Wailer as they always do. My very tight friend(a soldier) has been in Bornu state for over three years now, we always chat about events on ground & what he always say about fight against terrorism is different from what our media house dishes out to the masses. Buhari & APC has gagged our media house, they can't talk and the worst part of it is that the top military men are not helping out either. They always report what the FG would like to hear. If you are still in doubt, Why Is It That At Times Foreign Media House Would Report An Attack In Maiduguri But, None Of Our Indigenous Media House Would Carry The News??

if you are still doubting, do you remember that earlier this year it was reported that 105 soldiers were missing. The army debunked the news but, its true. Boko Haram Are Annihilating & Decimating Our Soldiers On Daily Basis, But To Buhari Supporters, WE ARE WINNING THE WAR AGAINST TERRORISM..

Remember that Buhari made us & UN to believe and understand that boko Haram has been technically defeated, but that same Boko Haram attacked UN convoy. Buhari and APC are pathological liars, but Buhari in particular is a monumental failure..



I Will Lead The Way Against Terrorism- Buhari..

Buhari Promised To Visit Bornu State.


Has He Done Any Of These?? Your guess is as good as mine.

You can say that again. Let zombies continue blaming Gej.

It's actually ridiculous to hear someone say he doesn't believe in the supernatural. I laugh. If they really want to know, they will know. Let them first and foremost visit a shrine and defecate on it. Most traditional rulers e.g chiefs, obas etc are very fetish.
Civilization does not mean supernatural poerrs don't exist.

anny268:
someone did it for me.. I don't know d app.

But you said you also paint in your free time. Will you paint me nudr

anny268:
Abuja is fine dear

I like the painting in your dp. How do I get my done ?

Timoleon:
For what its worth, this observation seems kinda stale...the cbn governor already addressed this topic extensively months ago when it was hot as a topic. As for the airlines, they have been known to cut corners over the years wether forex be available or not. I am of the opinion that the airlines can pull thier resources together in a consortium and buy up or partner with one of the oil well owners, and refine their needed aviation fuel.

Ps, i agree that the state should distance itself from religion...i just feel this particular scenarion here has been addressed months ago and is a case of flogging a dead horse.

Are you for real .

anny268:
Abuja is fine dear

Ok. Good !! Just landed there. Will get back to you.

thewife306:
Before anyone would ask if he wasn't like this before marriage. No he wasn't. He never cautioned me harshly in private not to talk of in public.
When we were newly married he shouts at me in his younger brother's presence. (Why will they give me respect)
He did it in the presence of our plumber cos I told him the prices of the items were expensive.
Then our househelp. He does it so often that I begin to wonder what point he was trying to prove. To the extent that the lady started losing respect for me and giving me attitude anytime I caution her. That he even told her not to do what I asked her to do.
Then the most recent was in church. He was struggling wit our toddler that he fell and I asked him to leave him. He just started shouting and everyone was looking.
I really am not happy. And unknown to him, this is reducing my love for him. Cos i cant love someone dat disrespects me. I use to love telling people how wonderful he is but these days I cant. It's affecting my relationship with him.
I'm considering embarrassing him back the next time he does it so he knows how it hurts cos he doesn't see anything wrong with it and never apologize. He says he doesn't like hiding his feelings. I ask "even when your words hurt your spouse".
I'm worried cos we might be travelling soon and if he embarrases me in front of family members i might lose my temper.
I need mature advises here pls. As i do not want to involve 3rd party.

When he shouts at you, how do you react ? Do you just act like it's okay or you're not moved ? Your silence might be encouraging him to do more.
When next he shouts at you in public, just walk away and ignore him for that period. If you guys are at a function, sit on a different seat. When you two get home, you talk to him about it. I don't think shouting back is the best. But when you give him the silent treatment for a while, he'll get the message.
But be honest with yourself. Hope you're not the one provoking him .

[quote author=nwabobo post=51040913][/quote]It seems patriotic9ja boy has been noted

anny268:
I don't see any reason why any lady should prefer a married man.. I rather date a playboy than a playhusband if there is any word like that... A woman's husband is a no go area to me no matter what.

That's what we see these days.
How far. How's Abuja ?

T9ksy:
But your brother who has been living in the north since 1971, barely a year after the civil war which saw the devastation the northerners heaped on his fellow ibos is not a zombie?

He has lived all through the religious riots in the same north wherein ibos are the main casualities and yet he did not see fit to remember his homeland. It's only now that the chicken has coome home to roast that he realises that one nigeria is a sham.

In actual fact, your brother up there is the most annoying of all "fake nigerians".

So is it wrong for him to live in Kano ? Are there no Hausas/Fulani down South ? You talk as if its just easy to relocate. May be you need to put yourself in other people's shoes.

hotice01:
Those of you supporting the killing of members of this sect are hypocrites!
I just pray this doesn't snowball into a hydra headed monster that will be difficult to eradicate.
They are playing the victim card,taunting the government to make mistakes such as this so as to gain international support and sympathy,when they go on the offensive,they may be worse than Boko Haram.
They know they might be killed and brutalized but they still come out,both old and young.They don't fear death,that makes them even more dangerous.If they decided to go on the offensive by forming a terrorist organization,I fear Boko Haram will be child's play!
May God help Nigeria and give our leaders wisdom.

Then let Buhari release their leader. But why us he still holding their leader in custody ? He released bokoharam suspects but he keeps this one under lock. But sincerely, I see no reason why El Zakzaky should be in custody

This people are stupid...