₦airaland Forum

FlyoruB:
Smh. Nigerian leaders can be so mean, greedy and selfish. We are talking about people who are already MADE here o,that ALREADY have more than enough looted funds stashed somewhere, enough to last them at least two lifetimes. Yet in spite of all that they still just can't help being greedy while impoverishing the masses (considering how relatively POOR Kwara state is in this instance). Mynd44, Lalastclala.

See the change of Apc. But Tinubu did far worse than this. . Let Saraki face the music.

mimzy:
How

You say, men this, men that...

mimzy:
Growing up as a Nigerian female, you're told to sit, talk, act and respond to situations in certain ways or you'll be branded as "unladylike". Women are conditioned in a certain way and most of us have adhered to these rules.

Notwithstanding, these questions have always been a puzzle to me, other women and, I suspect, even men:


1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally?

2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores?

3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into?


4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women?

5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same?

Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS?

You are guilty of number 4 as well

ujoseph006:
Tinsel Fast Rising Nollywood Actress "Flawless Blessing" Stuns In New Photo

Flawless blessing who’s a fast-rising talented Nollywood actress, who’s appeared countless of times in the Tv Soup oprah “Tinsel” puts her cute body on display.

See photo below:-

Source:- http://9jaflaver.com/tinsel-fast-rising-nollywood-actress-flawless-blessing-stuns-in-new-photo-see-here/

All this kind pose wey girls dey pose as if dia legs dey pain dem . Na who be de first woman to pose dis Yeye pose

mascot87:
One has to be careful this days with who to chat with cos the person you are chatting with out of hatred or aiming fame may just expose your private chat to the world just to humilate you. When u are chatting with ladies, we could just be funny in different ways or we can have different strategies to use just to win the heart of our prospective babe. If u are not interested in the guy or the way he his wooing u then why not ignore him or block him? You don't have to bring your private chat with a guy or a lady to the social media. It is very wrong.

One just has to be careful. One angry lady can just decide to blackmail you or show you pepper. But how can the guy woo a lady he really doesn't know like that ?

Bugatie:
But his blackness never stopped his nomination in the first place.

No mind people.

Polar3:
the analysis of a parasite..why dont u go away with ur 97% and be on ur own,in ur own arewa country and let da 3% be on their own? The 3% are begging u 97 to go away...or do u need da 3% for u not to be like a fish out of water?

Na aboki dey worry am.

Fmartin:
Op to be sincere, among north and south, wic geo political zone is more populated

Do u mean:

north east + north central + north north

South south + south east

Is South West not part of South . Do you know the population of Lagos ?

Toks2008:
Its olatokunbo again and today i want to take you all into my world to share with you 10 reasons why I CAN'T indulge in sexual recklessness and i believe this holds true for countless sexually decent and responsible guys out there so grab a bottle of soft drink or wine,sit on your sofa and enjoy this thought provoking piece.

Before i list these reasons first let me define what indiscriminate sex means from the male perspective:
Indiscriminate means not to use any judgment and you tend to go for any lady that you are sexually attracted to or any lady that tends to be sexually attracted to you. So in other words, in the context of sex, it means you are having sex with anyone and you just don't care who it is as long as the lady is sexually appealing to you.

Now here are the reasons and it may make no sense to some but as i always reiterate,this remains my stand-view.

1. The wastefulness of resources: I guess this is simple to understand.By the time i try to keep up with 2 or more ladies at a time,i must be ready to spend on them and even if i have all the money in the world, i will soon come to realize how huge i have spent if i sit down to do serious calculation.


2. The negative stigma: Contrary to the belief of many guys,it is indeed a shameful thing for me to be called a dog. A man must have dignity and sexual integrity which goes a long way to boosting his self worth.

I cant imagine walking down the street and ladies looking at me as a wayward guy who can woo a cockroach in skirt and more demeaning is when i eventually woo a lady i really desire and i find out that i have once dated her blood sister or cousin.Indeed there is a stigma associated with sexual recklessness even in men.

3. The use of condom: Yes this will sound foolish but i believe using a condom is like suffering myself and also very very dumb.Sex is never the same with a rubber no matter how quality the rubber is,what you enjoy is psychological sex and not real sex.

Asides that,as an oral s.x lover I tend to ask myself that of what use is it when i do oral without using mouth condom and then when its time to do the main thing i cover my stick with a rubber,how dumb.

I believe it makes more sense to have one HIV negative partner and do crazy stuffs on her without hindrance and of-course there are other safe ways of preventing pregnancy than the use of a disgusting rubber.(But if you must indulge in indiscriminate sex please use a condom)


4. The risk of STIs: It is no longer disputable that indiscriminate sex is a good template for contracting deadly sexual diseases but i am not talking about sexually transmitted infections but SPIRITUALLY TRANSMITTED INFECTIONS.Many people do not know that when you make love to anyone,you are actually striking a covenant with such person because you only become one in sex. which means when you make love to someone,you share all the spiritual curses of that person and not blessings because the sinful act only attracts the negative curses. This is why you see some philanderers losing the grip on their finances and they always fail to realize that it is because of their sexual recklessness.

5. Prostitution: Oh yes whether you believe it or not, a guy who indulges in indiscriminate sex is a male prostitute.Whether it comes in the form of you being the spender,Gigolo or freelance donor,it does not change the fact that you are indulging in prostitution and you are not different from the female counterpart that stays in a brothel.

6. Peace of mind: Guys will understand the task involved in keeping just one affair let alone keeping many. In fact i wonder what goes through the minds of these guys as they are always devising one means or the other to play smart and avoid terrible clash of titans because most times,when these ladies clash,the man will be the one to suffer because as they say,"Hell has no fury like a woman scorned" so i believe it is better to just maintain one lady and reduce the stress.

7. Living long: Many guys are so ignorant that too much sex kills and while they enjoy having Toke as breakfast,Kate as lunch and Ronke as overnight toy,they are gradually killing their heart and it might just be too late when they wake up to hear the question; "what killed you on earth?" Another fact many guys don't know is that some ladies are so mean that they don't mind killing you rather than allowing another lady to be with you...a case of "if i can't have you,no one will" abeg don't dare ladies o,play safe and be with one lady.

8. I can always get my spec: This is one fact i have come to realize. Out there, we have billions of ladies and they come in different shapes and sizes and trust me, each man has his desired body frame and YES each man can always get his preferred type of lady.

Lets cut the chase and leave the talks of behavior first.I always believe that "whatever is pleasing to the eyes will please the soul" therefore it is important for me to relax and get the body frame that catches my fancy first and foremost so that i can always be glad that i have my choice. To me, its the same hole but different casings so the best bet is to go for my preferred casing and be happy with it.


9. It is a sin against GOD: Of-course the holy books can not stress this enough. If GOD calls it a sin then who am i to go against his wish because at the end,it will be for my own good and the rewards for remaining sexually decent outweighs the sacrifice made by me to obey GOD.


10. My personal principles: Sometimes i tend to believe that principled people are better than religious people.
Religious people could easily fall into sin and ask for forgiveness while principled people will seldom do the things their principles go against..

Nothing will ever make me woo a lady i don't see myself marrying or make love to a lady i can't marry or go out to woo a lady just for sex or pay for sex. This is why i believe these laid down principles are more of my guiding rules than my spiritual inclination.


In conclusion, i will say it makes no sense in any way for a reasonable guy to start sleeping around with every Tola,titi,shade and kafaya that catches his fancy.Go for one lady that is appealing to you sexually and enjoy your life...if it does not work out,try again but avoid being called a dog.

Your number 9 is the only reason for me. Number 7 is the most ridiculous...

MaleoPearls:
All is well that ends well. We are waiting for April 7th Dr. Kachikwu

He sed he's not a magician..,

iduzebaba:
Woman.. as a fellow medical doctor.. this child might have had a fixation at either the oral or anal phase of the sigmud Freud growth stages.. a full mental mental stage examination myt not reveal much especially for a 9 year old who myt have been traumatised by her step father with an evolving psychosomatic or personality disorder.. evidences have shown that a high percentage of such children are intelligent...it takes an intelligent chap to pull such off.. my advice..... if u wish to better the girls life.. just continue helping her with her school fee,let her see a child psychiatrist..cos she myt need help..and let her remain in naija.. get an experienced nanny for ur child and still monitor with ur cctv.. cos I bet u..if u keep such child.. there wil be a second time..and ur child myt not be lucky this time

Segmund Freud keh ? I don't buy that. I will port the girl back to where she belongs....

SpicyJosBabe:
CELESTINE BABAYARO & EMMANUEL BABAYARO

Retired Nigerian football legends and brothers

The Babayaro brothers were adopted. They are originally from the South East.

modelmike7:
He deserved the sack after not upholding to the Oath of Office he took when he accepted to serve the Nigerian Army. He is not a loyal soldier but a cash and carry one. He should thank his stars he wasn't sent to jail. He should have cooly retired after PMB won. Well, he should just go back to his village and enjoy the rest of his years. . . . God bless Nigeria.

But let Buhari presentbhis certificate. By now we should have seen it...

RedCapChief:
Jonathan's only problem was his indebtedness to many people because his government was filled with round pegs in round holes. His desire to have a second term made him turn a blind eye to many cases of corruption. He didn't want to offend anybody but ended up offending everybody.

When he went hard on Boko Haram, Northern Elders accused Ihejirika of genocide. (Remember: An attack on BH is an attack on the North)
When he went soft on Boko Haram and allowed the Northern Elders to fix their issues locally, they accused him of cluelessness and insensitivity.

Paradoxically, Nigeria is best governed by a military man like Buhari who doesn't care about making people happy, rather who just does what he feels like.

Your last paragraph. If Buhari doesn’t care about what people thinks, why did he appoint ministers with cases if corruption ? On the contrary, the people he's making happy are those in the inner circle of the Apc abd the Fulani herdsmen.
I think I agree with you on your submission of Gej. But Buhari has not proved to be any better...

adegunwa4real:
Seriously...is it the guy of the Bae

It's tne guy..,

rheether:
Now what's your definition of the word ugly? Cus mr ibu is good looking to me.

He's been taken

favoured234:
The guy saw beyond the skin color so the tattoo didn't mean a thing to him ....

Beyond wetin ? On the other hand, he saw Green card..

onatisi:
Please show me a political office holder that has spoken out against the excesses of these fulanis except fayose? Even the so called APC dumb stupid leaders kept their mouth shut when fulanis were killing ppl in Lagos . Noone wants to incur the wrath of buhari ,because they know that buhari silence on the issue simply means no one must say anything. Nigeria is gradually sliding into dictatorship rule,maybe by the time these fulanis kill some apc leaders wives and children then they will speak out

.

It will soon come to that. Even our so called activists are quiet. Have you heard Soyinka ir Bakare speak ? Can you remember when the FG planned to remove subsidy sometime ago ? Bakare was at the forefront campaigning. Today he has lost is voice. When it. Comes to Buhari, they will reduce the bar.

Babacele:
and while your hypocritical self feign ignorance of PMB's achievement in less than a year, I bring to global notice the following so that u can be assessed:
1. Security is the most important factor in any development plant. in less than a year PMB has won the war on Security especially the Bokharam which d GEJ administration pampered for 6 years.
2. Corruption is now being properly tackled ,n now stealing is now corruption u like GEJ who openly supported it. Presidend Buhari knows that corruption is inimical to any growth n resource distribution among citizens hence we Nigerians who voted for him are not disappointed by his anti corruption approach so far. Several members of the last administration and previous governments are returning looted public funds;while some are facing prosecution.
3. investors now have confidence in the nation and are already coming in to invest.
4.Several youths eg corp members are getting agric loans up to N2m each for agribusiness. go ask Bank of Industry
5. in few weeks time about 10million primary school pupils would be served a free meal daily with chains of jobs attached to it.
6. There is a serious and sincere plan by the government to unleash our potential in d mining business -a multi billion dollar sector. so far about N500m have been made from license registration n renewal alone.

1. . Buhari has won bokoharam ? Even Lai Mohammed has learnt that it's too premature to make such claims. The last time he said so, he didn't forget what happened. When you talk about security, you forgot to mention Agatu. Do you know how many people have been killed so far by the herdsmen? I wonder what you think about over 300 people who were murdered in cold blood by Fulani herdsmen. If you take it with a pinch of salt, then you don't have a conscience.

2. You make me laugh by saying Buhari is fighting corruption. 78million naira was used to build a website by a governor and guess what happened. He was made a minister. Amaechi used over 40 billion naira to build 1 km monorail and he's a minister. Silva was charged for several billions he stole but the case was thrown out.

3. Hahahahaaa. On the contrary investors have been closing businesses. A lit has been lost in the stock exchange.

4. Mention the youths that are receiving N2m each.

5. When that time comes, bring it up.

6. Sincetity alone is not enough. Gej, Obj, Abacha were all sincere.

Mentcee:
But was the writer wrong? Disprove him.

Zombies loading..... . By 2019, he may not have light to type what he's saying.

DamZik:
"Are u Zombie saying one year is too short4 buhari to perform? my dear it's not, soup wey go sweet? na from d aroma u go take know, no b when u wait till d soup ready! one dat keeps blaming his predicesor for one year? I'm sorry,has notin to offer Nigerians"

I think you were replying the wrong person.

abacrested:
Whether you like or not we had two governments under Gej.
One is legitimate and answerable to the electorates and headed by Gej while the other is in the north headed by northerners which all their leaders were answerable to.
The northern government was working hard to discredit the legitimate government of Gej so as to get power back to the north which they succeeded with the help of the sophisticated south west.
Imagine what a governor is saying!

This governor is a slow spoke to the core. Sometimes I wonder if these abokis are human beings. A governor like that can't take responsibility. One of the trademarks of this Apc as a people is trading blame. Nothing is ever their fault.
They created bokoharam in order to frustrate Gej's government and they still blame him when bokoharam carry out their mission. Why did he ignore security report ?

myfantasies:
For dis hot weather person dress like dis

Ninja

omenka:
Yet some people were mad angry both parties eventually reached a peace agreement, preferring that the killings continue simply so they can have a good reason to insult the President.

They care less if thousands die, just as long as it makes Buhari look bad, it is okay for them.

As they wish death upon the people of Agatu, I hope their desires come to pass even in their own living rooms.

Peace will reign in Agatu, amen.

Because you support Buhari does not mean u should support the evil that goes on. U say you are praying for peace. How can there be peace when there's no justice ?
I think you are the one who cares less if 1,000s die. Afterall, you are either in Lagos or a safe place behind your handset. You don't know the trauma people are going through because of the injustice met upon them.
Everything is not politics. Don't sell your humanity/conscience for peanuts. If same happened under Gej, you won't be saying what you ate saying.

kenonze:
Yes they do.

Most importantly we should identify the actual cause.
We shouldn't politicalized everything.

So many conspiracy theories.

PMB and his intelligence team shld find the real people behind it.
We have to know if it is the same Fulani herdsmen we see or not.
Terrorism can come in different disguise.



It is Agutu today,

It may be your home town tomorrow

PMB is not interested. You can see that from hid body language.

onila:


all her siblings
her both parents are late hence not in the picture

That girl by the extreme left fine....

. Which kind role play be this ?

Eddygourdo:
the massage parlour is a lovely idea. I intend it should be a front to offer love-vendor service to high end clients while one cuts a commission.

We offer all sexual solutions to people discreetly at a fee, while the massage parlour operates normally.

A parlour in the mainland or island would require great investment, it must be beautiful, quiet and serene. Good and well trained masseuses. Who could offer a decent client happy hour service.

I love the sex industry, so far the service is good and can be discreet because of the Nigerian hypocritical disposition. One would be packing money in droves.

. So true

Atutupoyoyo....

This is becoming more horrible by the day.

OrlandoOwoh:
How I wish Femi Falana was present, he would have taken Aribisala to the cleaners.

Aribisala should learn to put the defeat of Jonathan behind. We all saw how he campaigned against Buhari last year.

The action of those Unilag students shows how lost they are in the reality of things.

So you are now blaming the students for applauding him ? Mind you, many of those students also voted for Apc. He's not as if they are IpoB youths.

dulaman:
Did anybody read the part where he said "a section of the country" hmm your guess is good as mine. E be like say femi dey visit nairaland

Something is wrong with him .

This same people hurled insults at Gej when he dud not visit Chibok community.