₦airaland Forum

kobonaire:
Well, if she's not happy she can just organize a shopping therapy trip in Dubai for the weekend

Shopping can't cure konji.

Stolen:
The biggest problem we have in this country is the Nigerian Army.


The 1960s pogrom against igbos in the North was led by the Nigeria Army. Tens of thousands of Southerners perished.


That almost divided Nigerians.


Today, the Northerners are victim of the same Army, leading a genocide against its own people because they are from a different religious sect.

As an Igbo, i will not say it is good or pay back but i condemn it in the strongest terms

Wat is bad is bad. Evil! This is wat differentiate us from Yorubas, we tell the truth.

If one condemns what the army did, he will be tagged an IPOB youth. If he says "well done" he will also be tagged an IPOB youth. Whichever way, you will be blamed.
May be one should be indifferent.

kobonaire:
and who says money cannot buy happiness?

And u think she's very happy ?

akp202:
U see d implication of voting for a dullard as a president?

The bad thing be say na de 5% suffer him tyranny.

Creativity

Stanleywaxy:
Kai ! Van Gaal don kill me today

Abi ur game cut ?

Buhari is a bigot and he can't hide it. Yet there are people hailing him.

BossWike:
Fellow Nigerians, at this point I have to conclude that Buhari is a monumental failure

But 10 months is too small to repair all the damages done by pdp. Give him at least 8 years.

puffynana:
Pastors this is where out tithes and offering should be going. Not for businesses "building schls and colleges" nor international aids.
When money come I am so boycotting the churches and use my tithe for the necessity

Pls, give the pastors a break. At least Dunamis pastors did something like this in Agatu.

mile12crises:
donate/contribute your own and stop calling on others.
****


Blame your **** Buhari for faulting the crackdown on bokoharam.
call on Buhari to cut the expenses incurred in his mindless voyages and use it to better the lots of those subhumans.

How many of you called for the help of Agatu people

Gej is no longer around to be blamed. If not, Channels Tv would be the first to blast the news.
The North/Northerners are the problem of Nigeria. Bokoharam, from the North. Fulani herdsmen, from the North. Religioun violence, from the North. And Agatu problem was caused by the North. God save us....

360frolic:
The Presidency has released information about the entourage of President Muhammadu Buhari's trip to China.

The President's entourage will include some state governors as well as nine ministers. They are the Ministers of:

Agriculture- Audu Ogbeh
Water Resources- Suleiman Adamu
Transport - Rotimi Amaechi
Defence- Mohammed Dan Ali
Power, Works & Housing - Babatunde Fashola
Industry, Trade & Investment- Aisha Abubakar
Federal Capital Territory- Mohammed Bello
Science & Technology - Ogbonnaya Onu
Foreign Affairs- Geoffrey Onyeama


http://www.newshelm.com/2016/04/list-of-ministers-going-to-china-with.html

Minister of power is going while leaving us in darkness....

iyb:
Thats true but most are what will take a reasonable woman to go and stay in a hotel alone

So any single woman who goes to a hotel alone must be doing runs . Haba !! So if you send you sister abroad for instance and she lodges in a hotel alone, then she's doing runs?

Justmary06:
And den you MURDER the man wen caught?

No. I'm trying to look at things from both sides. People are very angry and frustrated. Things are very difficult.
Robbing a poor man of his life savings is tantamount to killing him.

boneruns:
The south is under siege by these Fulani herdsmen. And the earlier we eschew our tribal differences, the better for us all.

This is not a period for chest-beating. These herdsmen have something up their sleeves.

Yes true. But their commander in chief is in Aso Rock doing nothing. Haven't you noticed that they are more daring than before ?

lebroske:
Dear nairalanders, please i need your advice on what to do. My wife had been seducing men in the compound where we live lately. We are just newly married, less than a year now. We live in a story building and the windows are made in glasses. One could easily see through them especially in the night. So, what she does is each time she finishes taking her birth, she exposes her body knowing quit well that men around can see her through the window. She does it in the morning, during the day when she notices that i am not around and in the night.

The day i discovered, i confronted her, she said it was her body that it was not none of my business. Though we were quarreling before then. But i knew that was not the first time, she has been doing it before because each time i open the windows in the morning, i always notice that people(men) will just be looking towards my direction. I kept wondering what they were looking at until the day i discovered.

Dear nairalanders, what can i do to make her stop it. Because its getting out of hand. Now she hides and do it and she knows i am not happy with her now.
Great nairalanders, please i need your advice. Thank you

She's an exhibitionist. It's another form of deviant sexual behaviour. Speak to a counsellor about it.

doskie:
I have been robbed yes! but that does not make jungle justice any less horrible and condemning than it should be.
I watched on nta news as a child in benin the burning to death of an alleged witch who sat by the road side and could not express herself properly. she only said she was travelling and her vehicle broke down on the way. she was stripped naked and burnt alive after a terrible beating. few minutes later, another breaking news; her son had arrived the scene and confirm that his mom was ill and they were on their way to ubth. (uniben teaching hospital) and yes they were travelling together, their vehicle broke down, so they got to benin in different cars and at different time. now put your self in that mans shoes and tell me how you will feel every time you remember your mum was burnt to death. dont talk fooolishly like a kid my dear. I have many other cases and stories of the barbaric act of jungle justice.

I'm not here to exchange words with you, my dear. I only thought you would be open to reasoning. The example you gave has no bearing with the topic. Witch craft is not a crime. And please I expect you to be civil enough not to mention any member of my family for your illustration.
If for instance your mother was raped by some cultists, won't you kill them ? (Of course it's rude to use such examples).

doskie:
We are really cave men. im sure its africans the white man saw that started making them postulate theories that men evolved from monkeys. yes! Nigeria is still in the neolithic era. stone men. its time we passed a law against jungle justice. its barbaric.

Have you ever been robbed before. You are here celebrating whites but you have 4gotten how their policemen kill black people.

DjAndroid:
Jungle justice not the way but if you have been robbed by these elements, you go shoot robber if given a gun.

I feel you. Just imagine a struggling man comes out from a bank with all the money he has only for a man in okada to snatch it from him. .

dangotesmummy:
Nigerians and beggarly attitude.smh .instead of asking David to take them to where they will fish they are asking for fish that will just last them for a day


I don't blame Davido and olamide na.they too have responsibilities and family needs to attend to.their house is not charity foundation. It can be tiring na

That they're celebrities don't mean they don't have their needs to and Davido too should stop all this unnecessary show off on instagram .Every time flaunting New car,New wristwatch,New chain etc.nkan taba bo lomaniyi.If he doesn't flaunt they won't know what he has and if they don't know they won't come.his own karimi is too much

Not like the people you're helping give a damn about you.If the Money disappears tomorrow, off they go.igi da eye Fo loro won

As he advertises his wealth, he shouldn't complain they are begging him. He's lucky he's not in a place like PH. By the time you experience 2 incidence of kidnap, you will thank God for Lag.

FlyoruB:
Smh. Nigerian leaders can be so mean, greedy and selfish. We are talking about people who are already MADE here o,that ALREADY have more than enough looted funds stashed somewhere, enough to last them at least two lifetimes. Yet in spite of all that they still just can't help being greedy while impoverishing the masses (considering how relatively POOR Kwara state is in this instance). Mynd44, Lalastclala.

See the change of Apc. But Tinubu did far worse than this. . Let Saraki face the music.

mimzy:
How

You say, men this, men that...

mimzy:
Growing up as a Nigerian female, you're told to sit, talk, act and respond to situations in certain ways or you'll be branded as "unladylike". Women are conditioned in a certain way and most of us have adhered to these rules.

Notwithstanding, these questions have always been a puzzle to me, other women and, I suspect, even men:


1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally?

2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores?

3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into?


4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women?

5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same?

Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS?

You are guilty of number 4 as well

ujoseph006:
Tinsel Fast Rising Nollywood Actress "Flawless Blessing" Stuns In New Photo

Flawless blessing who’s a fast-rising talented Nollywood actress, who’s appeared countless of times in the Tv Soup oprah “Tinsel” puts her cute body on display.

See photo below:-

Source:- http://9jaflaver.com/tinsel-fast-rising-nollywood-actress-flawless-blessing-stuns-in-new-photo-see-here/

All this kind pose wey girls dey pose as if dia legs dey pain dem . Na who be de first woman to pose dis Yeye pose

mascot87:
One has to be careful this days with who to chat with cos the person you are chatting with out of hatred or aiming fame may just expose your private chat to the world just to humilate you. When u are chatting with ladies, we could just be funny in different ways or we can have different strategies to use just to win the heart of our prospective babe. If u are not interested in the guy or the way he his wooing u then why not ignore him or block him? You don't have to bring your private chat with a guy or a lady to the social media. It is very wrong.

One just has to be careful. One angry lady can just decide to blackmail you or show you pepper. But how can the guy woo a lady he really doesn't know like that ?

Bugatie:
But his blackness never stopped his nomination in the first place.

No mind people.

Polar3:
the analysis of a parasite..why dont u go away with ur 97% and be on ur own,in ur own arewa country and let da 3% be on their own? The 3% are begging u 97 to go away...or do u need da 3% for u not to be like a fish out of water?

Na aboki dey worry am.

Fmartin:
Op to be sincere, among north and south, wic geo political zone is more populated

Do u mean:

north east + north central + north north

South south + south east

Is South West not part of South . Do you know the population of Lagos ?

Toks2008:
Its olatokunbo again and today i want to take you all into my world to share with you 10 reasons why I CAN'T indulge in sexual recklessness and i believe this holds true for countless sexually decent and responsible guys out there so grab a bottle of soft drink or wine,sit on your sofa and enjoy this thought provoking piece.

Before i list these reasons first let me define what indiscriminate sex means from the male perspective:
Indiscriminate means not to use any judgment and you tend to go for any lady that you are sexually attracted to or any lady that tends to be sexually attracted to you. So in other words, in the context of sex, it means you are having sex with anyone and you just don't care who it is as long as the lady is sexually appealing to you.

Now here are the reasons and it may make no sense to some but as i always reiterate,this remains my stand-view.

1. The wastefulness of resources: I guess this is simple to understand.By the time i try to keep up with 2 or more ladies at a time,i must be ready to spend on them and even if i have all the money in the world, i will soon come to realize how huge i have spent if i sit down to do serious calculation.


2. The negative stigma: Contrary to the belief of many guys,it is indeed a shameful thing for me to be called a dog. A man must have dignity and sexual integrity which goes a long way to boosting his self worth.

I cant imagine walking down the street and ladies looking at me as a wayward guy who can woo a cockroach in skirt and more demeaning is when i eventually woo a lady i really desire and i find out that i have once dated her blood sister or cousin.Indeed there is a stigma associated with sexual recklessness even in men.

3. The use of condom: Yes this will sound foolish but i believe using a condom is like suffering myself and also very very dumb.Sex is never the same with a rubber no matter how quality the rubber is,what you enjoy is psychological sex and not real sex.

Asides that,as an oral s.x lover I tend to ask myself that of what use is it when i do oral without using mouth condom and then when its time to do the main thing i cover my stick with a rubber,how dumb.

I believe it makes more sense to have one HIV negative partner and do crazy stuffs on her without hindrance and of-course there are other safe ways of preventing pregnancy than the use of a disgusting rubber.(But if you must indulge in indiscriminate sex please use a condom)


4. The risk of STIs: It is no longer disputable that indiscriminate sex is a good template for contracting deadly sexual diseases but i am not talking about sexually transmitted infections but SPIRITUALLY TRANSMITTED INFECTIONS.Many people do not know that when you make love to anyone,you are actually striking a covenant with such person because you only become one in sex. which means when you make love to someone,you share all the spiritual curses of that person and not blessings because the sinful act only attracts the negative curses. This is why you see some philanderers losing the grip on their finances and they always fail to realize that it is because of their sexual recklessness.

5. Prostitution: Oh yes whether you believe it or not, a guy who indulges in indiscriminate sex is a male prostitute.Whether it comes in the form of you being the spender,Gigolo or freelance donor,it does not change the fact that you are indulging in prostitution and you are not different from the female counterpart that stays in a brothel.

6. Peace of mind: Guys will understand the task involved in keeping just one affair let alone keeping many. In fact i wonder what goes through the minds of these guys as they are always devising one means or the other to play smart and avoid terrible clash of titans because most times,when these ladies clash,the man will be the one to suffer because as they say,"Hell has no fury like a woman scorned" so i believe it is better to just maintain one lady and reduce the stress.

7. Living long: Many guys are so ignorant that too much sex kills and while they enjoy having Toke as breakfast,Kate as lunch and Ronke as overnight toy,they are gradually killing their heart and it might just be too late when they wake up to hear the question; "what killed you on earth?" Another fact many guys don't know is that some ladies are so mean that they don't mind killing you rather than allowing another lady to be with you...a case of "if i can't have you,no one will" abeg don't dare ladies o,play safe and be with one lady.

8. I can always get my spec: This is one fact i have come to realize. Out there, we have billions of ladies and they come in different shapes and sizes and trust me, each man has his desired body frame and YES each man can always get his preferred type of lady.

Lets cut the chase and leave the talks of behavior first.I always believe that "whatever is pleasing to the eyes will please the soul" therefore it is important for me to relax and get the body frame that catches my fancy first and foremost so that i can always be glad that i have my choice. To me, its the same hole but different casings so the best bet is to go for my preferred casing and be happy with it.


9. It is a sin against GOD: Of-course the holy books can not stress this enough. If GOD calls it a sin then who am i to go against his wish because at the end,it will be for my own good and the rewards for remaining sexually decent outweighs the sacrifice made by me to obey GOD.


10. My personal principles: Sometimes i tend to believe that principled people are better than religious people.
Religious people could easily fall into sin and ask for forgiveness while principled people will seldom do the things their principles go against..

Nothing will ever make me woo a lady i don't see myself marrying or make love to a lady i can't marry or go out to woo a lady just for sex or pay for sex. This is why i believe these laid down principles are more of my guiding rules than my spiritual inclination.


In conclusion, i will say it makes no sense in any way for a reasonable guy to start sleeping around with every Tola,titi,shade and kafaya that catches his fancy.Go for one lady that is appealing to you sexually and enjoy your life...if it does not work out,try again but avoid being called a dog.

Your number 9 is the only reason for me. Number 7 is the most ridiculous...

MaleoPearls:
All is well that ends well. We are waiting for April 7th Dr. Kachikwu

He sed he's not a magician..,

iduzebaba:
Woman.. as a fellow medical doctor.. this child might have had a fixation at either the oral or anal phase of the sigmud Freud growth stages.. a full mental mental stage examination myt not reveal much especially for a 9 year old who myt have been traumatised by her step father with an evolving psychosomatic or personality disorder.. evidences have shown that a high percentage of such children are intelligent...it takes an intelligent chap to pull such off.. my advice..... if u wish to better the girls life.. just continue helping her with her school fee,let her see a child psychiatrist..cos she myt need help..and let her remain in naija.. get an experienced nanny for ur child and still monitor with ur cctv.. cos I bet u..if u keep such child.. there wil be a second time..and ur child myt not be lucky this time

Segmund Freud keh ? I don't buy that. I will port the girl back to where she belongs....

SpicyJosBabe:
CELESTINE BABAYARO & EMMANUEL BABAYARO

Retired Nigerian football legends and brothers

The Babayaro brothers were adopted. They are originally from the South East.

modelmike7:
He deserved the sack after not upholding to the Oath of Office he took when he accepted to serve the Nigerian Army. He is not a loyal soldier but a cash and carry one. He should thank his stars he wasn't sent to jail. He should have cooly retired after PMB won. Well, he should just go back to his village and enjoy the rest of his years. . . . God bless Nigeria.

But let Buhari presentbhis certificate. By now we should have seen it...