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Femsyn: Well, I follow Zodiac signs/astrology, but I don't dwell on it. Although, after a careful study of d signs, u can't help but see traces of similarities in people, especially, intimate friends. For example, a Taurus Male tend to do well with a Pisces Female, except in a few special cases.
PS: don't be too quick to discard what u haven't made a thorough research on.

micklplus: I treated this topic extensively june 2010 on nairaland. I am using my phone so, I can't send the link but, u can get the thread and check out the topic " sextrology" you sure would learn one or two things.

The truth is, astrology is real and I have studied well in the past. I have come to a conclusion that, astrology compatibility is like a law that guides us. Like someone pointed out above, you can damn some pointers IF you are tolerant enough and IF you can always consider the how compatible you are to your spouse and then, work around it as a guide.

For example, I am a cancerian likewise my wife! The astrological says" it is a hell hole of boredom" ( cancer cancer relationship) but, I have come to work around this "boredom" and we are doing great after about 5 years together.

If you are spontaneous, creative and understanding enough, you should be able to work around astrological compatibilities! If not, I'll advise you to seriously consider how compatible you are with your spouse before you tie the knot.

Above all, love is very important. Cheers

Ok, thanks guys.

binger: @Vivian,lol. i didn't mean to sound funny.Just considering the worst possible case scenario...for e.g,the poster above me infers the Astro stuff doesn't work for him since he frolics with Capris...Anyways,you're welcome.

Yea I understand. Just that for a little moment we got really scared cos astrology says I ain't compatible with my friend. But things are really great between us.............

I just let this stu...pid thing got to me. Discarding it asap.

jacobscros: astrology says me and Capricorn are a no go but I get along with Capricorn ladies die!

Hehehehe ..... I'm capricorn too and astrology describes the combination with my friend as 'Hell.' That really got us scared. But we are moving on jare, if God wills it, he will make it happen.

Mynd_44: I don't know why guys think cos they sleep with a girl the first time or second time that they've got game. It is a silly notion.

For all you know the girl might actually be looking for someone to have sèx with and you came along. For all you know, her BF might have travelled and she was cold.

And her you are thinking you are a playet when the truth is that you might have been the one who was used.

smh. Humans

Exactly.

adexsimply: take it easy ma'am..to me the lady deserves a ricocheting slap

ok, slap the girl while I slap the boy. Deal?

acidosis™:
Lets face the facts bro... This is exactly what undergraduates do... Infact, channel 190 sounded like a young dude in this bad game..

Atleast he is not co-habiting in school.. that makes him a better student..

Go to UNIPORT, go to UNILAG, go to UNIBEN, visit everywhere and see whats going on...bro..
Some of the girls and guys on this thread dated and slept with their lecturers, coursemates, neighbors, indigines & aborigenes while in school..
Some co-habited for four years in school... spending all nights with guys and girls... There is no point insulting anyone...


As a matter of fact, all unmarried non-virgins all to bow their head...read and pass this thread without a comment....cos thats what we they all DO!!! Period!!

Acid! Don't make me spank you this very very cold morning. So you think this is enough reason to bring it to the internet? To brag or what?

Chei babes don suffer! If only we knew ................ whoever that opened this thread deserves a resounding slap!

binger: Astro what? Its crap as far as am concerned...what if the signs says a mad woman is compatible for you,will you go ahead and marry?

Hahaha, u are funny, thank you.

Mynd_44: You live, eat, walk and love on earth and you want to allow your life to be directed by things that are light years away? I make my own things happen so I will say Hell No

I guess you are right. I don't pay much attention to it(anymore) but someone I'm close to does hence the question. Thank you.

KINGwax: Seriouzli, i dnt knw o.
U knw, i dnt wanna biliv in dt ish, bt then smtms ago, i decided to look into some flourishin reltnshps and some disgrunted ones, wen i checked the situation agaisnt the zodiac signs and compatibilty, i was amazed at the result.
U dnt need a psychic to tell u. Biliv me, it's real bt nt necessarily necessary.

Ok, thank u.

Hi guys, I don't know if this topic has been dealt with before. I just need peeps that have a better understanding about this to enlighten me more on it.

Does astrological compatibility really matter in marriage? If couple are not astrologically compatible, does this mean their marriage won't work?

Please I need help on this asap.

Thank you.

alutacontinua: eeyah! i feel u...i gbadun ur maturity jawe, sum peeps wld just keep suffering in silence but all d same, wish u d best

Thank you sweetie.

alutacontinua: sowi 4 d lil derailing. Aunty, since u posted dt issue abt d friend dt was making ur heart to beat 2ce as normal anytym u're 2geda, u didn't even tell us wot eventually happened again...u just said it has been settled. How was it settled, pls? sowi abt d akproko

Offtopic: Lol, u too like aproko, . Well, I told him how I felt about him and he said he felt the same way about me, but for some reasons I can't disclose we decided it was best we remained just friends. It hurt initially but with time I got over the feelings.

freecocoa: Abeg all you kneelers in the house, I'd like to know what a woman will do that would warrant her kneeling to beg?

Nne eh, I still dey wonder o.

So true!

Idowuogbo: yea, in dis circumstance? respect is reciprocal. but.. u still gats to go down low and beg mehn...

Shattap before I sound you now.

free2ryhme: the question is only refering to a situation if you find ya sef in a public environment .. none is asking you to carry ya sef from ya house and come wash ya dirty linen in public...

And I said NO I won't. Btw, what is it that I will do in public that will require me to kneel down and beg?

dabrake: that, to me, is the only exception here. I would expect her to apologize there. Any other thing noooo!

Yea I believe in the golden run. Whatever is it my husband did to me I will endure till we get our privacy. Its very disrespectful to tongue lash ur husband in pubic. I can't let me husband down not even before his own brothers. I also expect him to do the same to me, respect me, protect my image.

free2ryhme: when has kneeling down in public become people knowing whats going on in ya home or private life ... who cares you still beating the bush here ... and evading the truth... what is wrong with a woman being sensitive doing the right thing there are ending it there in good faith if kneeling down will soothe the hurt/pain?.. are u not postponing the evil day

Right now u are not making sense ....... So when I go to the middle of a market square and kneel down for him.... We go carry the gbege from house go there? Abi no be there I offend am?

goodmike7: Smh
So you want to protect your ego at the expense of your matrimonial home. U never hala

My dear, them never conceive that man wey go humiliate me in public!

free2ryhme: dis is fat lie... u are not bin true to ya sef ...

Not being true to myself how? If u can accept it when ur wife tongue lashes u in public, that's for u, I can't condone it.

Idowuogbo: endure? hin name na endurance? madam! tbh, i for like make he endure till we reach house o! but to trash d mata dia and den, if it takes kneeling , biting, crying and caress-sing... omo i go do am! i sendeth not d ragga muffin excrembres dat call it humiliation.

As for me, I'd knee down and beg inside the house, I will even cry.....and he can shout and freak out on me all he wants provided we are inside. But in publi? He should endure, I should also endure till we get home. Its not about pride ok, just that no one is supposed to know what goes on in my home.

Idowuogbo: okay no beg na! pray d guy follow u go house o! am sure he'll b wiv moi up in my suite having a bottle of calm d Bleep down and d oda bit dat sends u packing.

Lol.... But seriously why would my husband freak out on me in public? Whatever is it that I did he should endure till we get to the house. From the look on his face I'd know he is mad at me. But displaying in public is not acceptable by me.

free2ryhme: the question is not saying him suggesting to you, u kneel down for him... but if you can kneel for him.... #simple

I stated the circumstances that will make me kneel for him in PUBLIC, other than these is a HELL NO!

Idowuogbo: hehehehe.. so lets say u did something extremely terrible, and he freaked out like mad whilst in public, u no go cry-kneel beg? hian! u go jonz o!

And why would my husband freak out in public? Is he high on weed? Save what ever freaking out till we get inside the house, unless u want a battle of freaking outs!

The only thing(s) that will make me kneel for my husband openly. 1. Traditional marriage, 2. Wedding... 3. Traditional social gathering.

Where I come from, you knee for ur husband and his brothers as a sign of respect and submission, then u bend ur waist for them as a sign of ownership i.e, they own ur waist .

Apart from these, there is no reason whatsoever for me to kneel for him in public and he dares not suggest such thing. But inside the bedroom? I have got a lot of kneeling down to do. *winks*

HBD girl, have fun.

ubong560: I am well convinced now dat girls cant do w/ut dependng on guys financially. I stil find it dfficult 2 bliev dat once a guy says 'hi' 2 a girl, it automatically means total responsibility frm her head. WTF. Honestly I enjoy spending my money on my gf but 2 som certain limits. I better stay alone than over working myslf only 2 com and spend it extravagantly on someone's else daughter. Am i her father or guardian? Unemployment is not an excuse here. Thousands of other things are ther 2 do bt she hasnt shown any interest. May be she shld also wait 4 me 2 giv her money b4 she buys pad for monthly stuff. wtf again.

@uj sizzle, i think u hav so much similarity wit dis kind of girl - the idle and over dependent type. I wil travel at d velocity of 10000km/sec on sighting a girl like u. Too much wahala abegi.

@other girls, i think dats why most of ur BFs are going into armed robbery, kidnapping etc now just to satisfy ur endless financial wahala and wen he's caught, u r no wher 2 b found.

My friend comot for ur road abeg, how much do u even have? Why are u still with her in the first place? Considering u term her 'lousy?' You have no iota of shame or respect for ur gf by coming here to spew this nonsense. What does it take to help someone get drugs? Are u that wicked? Com'on! What are people turning into? What's actually wrong with u? This is something u can do for anybody, gf or not without bringing down the heavens for chrissake!

Do you know how many people I have helped with drugs? Given food? Completed their fares in the bus, etc? Do u know how many people have rendered such help to me in a double portion? Dating or not? Cos I know that point in that u need it, tomorrow might be my turn!

What does it take u to be human for once? My friend grow up joor and have a sense of human in you! Tufiakwa!

chronique: I'd pretend I didnt see this.

Ewo! Sorry, I didn't mean trouble o, no vex biko.

chronique: *sights Sexkillz around n starts to pack toothpaste,brush n tissue paper into napsack just like Gani used to do way back.... Sits @ d corner,waiting to know if kirikiri will be next port of call tonight* God,when I grow up,I'd love to be a moderator on NL..

you no just get head. I see u going to that kirikiri o

Gosh, some people are just so heartless! She is sick for crying out loud! Have u ever considered that this lady might be searching for a job but couldn't find yet?

Working or not working, if a man I'm close to hears that I'm sick and couldn't even do a little thing such as buying drugs for me, then he is not worth me. I'd dump him asap!

Too much drama all the time, na real wa!

May God bless u Greatgod! Just what I needed!

You guys should keep it coming jare, Jidegirl I'm peeping o. Really busy now, will come back to read this bit by bit later.