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D-Explorer:
In another words, you are cheating tonight

A little flirting won't hurt joor! It spices up things...........so I'm free tonight.

D-Explorer:
Makes 9 Na here Ike go show em manpower

No! I'm playing the fields tonight.......*winks*

Ah ah! oya na make una start na........

Hmmmmmmmm......interesting......

Stop giving in to sex easily! Do not expect too much from men! Cut down your fantasies! I know we all have them but learn to draw a line between fantasies are realities! Just live your life! A song writer says " life happens to you when u are busy making other plans!

Being an independent woman doesn't automatically make you a man! And it really pains me when women blame their inability to be a real woman on "independence!" A woman should be a woman anytime any day! Being independent is just an added advantage!

@ op, I'm gonna be as blunt as possible...... The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is to marry a woman who can't cook or keep a house together! A woman is supposed to be a home maker! Forget this love matter.......na u go tire by the time it starts frustrating you! This is not yankee or Jand! This is Africa for goodness sake! Here in Naija, men come home from their hectic jobs to a delicious home made meal prepared by their lovely wives, not order for chinese food joor! Don't even think of house helps cos its gonna get worse, and the lineage passes over to ur kids (girls) cos a snake begets a snake! If she can learn fine, in fact if she truly loves you and she know what marriage is all about she shouldn't wait for you to say something before she starts making an effort! But if she doesn't want to make an effort pls drop her like she is hot!

In fact, she is even missing a lot! Oh yes! She is missing that innermost joy that every woman feels when the man she love eats her food and almost chop the plate join cos he enjoys her meal!

Well, I'm not a mum yet, but I'm a guardian. When my younger ones misbehave, for the teens first of all they will be technologically grounded; no phones, tv, movies, music, pc, etc. And to top it all I deny them my smiles and sometimes I beat them too. For the kids, I just threaten to send them to the village, no movies, or I bring out my doctor do good....lol....they sit up big time!

Provided its a fault I can condone I will accept him the way he is, if I can't condone it I'd take a walk! I ain't looking for who to fix!

No!

190-the-clown:
[color=RED]it is better she does it front of the camera dan behind the camera and behind your back

where she would always still end up doing!!

how are u sure that gurl isnt cheating on you already

isnt she NIGERIAN [/color]

U know you are my guy any day any time, I too gbadu your swag! Lol.......... But pls do not spoil this beautiful relationship!

If this is what she has chosen for herself; her career, then you have to support her. She loves and respects you enough to even seek for your permission. Its not gonna be easy but its possible! All you need to do is activate your highest level of understanding and maturity, and always remember the fact that whatever she is doing with another guy on stage is acting, but with u its real. You own her love, heart and body!
If I were you, I'd be more bothered about the fame and publicity and how its gonna affect our personal lives! Dude, this is what u should be more concerned about! You guys need to have a SERIOUS talk, lay down some ground principles! Cos trust me once she hits it big, your private life could be officially over!
Good luck lover boy! Lol.......

1. Fringe.
2. Prison Break.
3. Legend of The Seeker.
4. One Tree Hill.
5. Lost.
6. 11th Hour.
7. Commander In Chief.
8. Events.
9. Desperate Housewives, etc.

My best NLers:
Sexkillz.....he is intelligent, strict, a man of his own that can't be pushed around. A true definition of a man.
Slimyem......she is smart, intelligent, blunt, real, she says it the way she feels it.
Iduwogbo.....I love her craziness, and she makes me laugh a lot.
Ikekings.....the love of my life

My worst Nler:
Mrjaybrown...... He is intelligent and a good adviser, no doubt! But he is arrogant!
Dailynews........He is a hypocrite! I'd rather punch his nose than shake his hands!

Rhymez: aww! Thats sweet. So who is dis hypnotizer?

Ikekings!!!!!!! That guy don scatter my dada joor. Pls let's talk later, Ikekings and I are very busy now. *winks*

Rhymez: Vivian u are viewing and u cant reply my greeting?

Sorry dear, I was carried away by love. Hello to you too.

ikekings: Lol... Wetin nw?

Baby mi, pls don't come home late o o, I made ur favourite, and ur "other" favourite *winks*.

D-Explorer:
Vivi, isn't that supposed to be without demand

Nah......sometimes u gotta say it. It sexifies the whole scenario.......as in coming from a lady.

akpu nku: no bragz but iv neva begged any of my EXs, they always take my soft hrt and humility for granted, but by d tym they will realise watz up i am long gone and dey will be all apologetic, God do forgive easily no akpu nku.

Your name alone is scary!

D-Explorer:
Romance need no tough tone na. Somewhat high sound etc. Any sensual, cool and slow/accelerating songs will do when it's just the candles on

I'm with you on this joor! But candles? I hope say no be these local candles o cos I can't imagine getting burnt while on the act! Lol.......so I'd prefer a dim bulb light,....let's say a blue light.

Nice one!

Mrs.Chima:
No sex for six weeks.

Lol.....u are mean!

Lmao at all the comments.

Make love to me.

ikekings: Girls can dream... All the same, its all about the fun...

Yes na, just like i dream about u! You are hotter than all those celebrities put together joor! Lol.....

duke4ever: Okwu ya gbagoro-agbago. She is yet to make any sense!
We are talking of bring something to the table and somene is coming with her moribund mentality of Odoziaku, can you imagine! Nawa for some women sef.

Nwannem nwoke rapu kene ife a, a lot of women are breadwinners in their various homes. Forget the mpompo wey many of them dey do when they were single. Once they sign the doted lines on that marriage certificate is goodbye fantasy and hello reality! Unless the very foolish ones that don't want to build their homes.
If u doubt me, come take a ride with me I have got a lot to show u. Na when dey enter man house ka ha ga amata na otu bitter kola si ada n'onu aburo ka osi ato. Ekwusigokwam ka ora m n'onu!

@malaria: Nne okwu gi kwu oto ka cigar!

190-the-clown:
Vivian please Marry me!!

And I'm serious this time, please marry me

No, sorry I belong to Ikekings!

duke4ever: she must really be a different breed of Naija gal. Probably bred abroad. What do you think?

No, I ain't bred abroad! I was bred in Nigeria and so are some ladies out there! And I wasn't up to 7yrs before I understood that life is not a bed of roses; there are good times, bad times and tough times.
And this "financial security?" is a big fraud! Cos within my short stay on earth, the things I have seen and experienced I can beat my chest and tell u that the life of a man is a mystery! A man's story can be re-written in a blink of an eye!
So if a lady capitalises much on this "financial security" she could be disappointed big time!

People differ, families differ and so are the ladies they breed. Teach a young girl how to be independent, teach her that life is never a bed of roses and when she grows into a lady those things will never depart from her.
I have met friends who depend on men for everything, not because they can't afford those things but they are always like "if I do all these things for myself then what are these guys doing around me?" And its been working for them, it might not work for me, things and people like that don't inspire me.

I don't know what an average Nigerian girl has to offer but I know what I can offer. And I'm grateful for the kind of women around me, the single and the married. Whenever I come around them I feel challenged and I just know the kind of wife I long to be someday.

Well, it can work for me provided we are just dating. When marriage is involved he has to get something doing!

Mynd_44: I did not want to quote you before, but I just wanted to see what you would do.
I am waiting. Take your best shot

Thank God its internet! But don't mess with me, don't goad me ok. I don't want trouble, I beg you!

yes, that was my culture in those days, where I come from women were seen as ori aku, but now times and things have changed. Women (around me) are now a lot more than that, they contribute their own quota on the table of their relationships especially in marriage.

So with all due respect I disagree with you.