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mashnino: i didn't say she should jump at any man for marriage

neither did i say she should forcefully get married

all i am saying is that there is sense in what her mum is saying

her "prime" age is almost at it's peak, she should pray for luck to hit her

so she can see the right man.. and wen i say right not all those things we watch in movies oo

i mean someone that she can be with and without any conversation she still gets blown away..

so you understand what am saying or u re yet to understand?

U didn't say it like this, if u did I would have undeRstood tRust me I'm not daft. But u were being unnecessarily sarcastic!
I didn't say I'm pressuRed......this is what eveRy lady go thRough unless you got married at 18........I find it funny not pressuring. I just love the drama behind all that. Do u understand me now?
That's her heart desire and soon is gonna happen, but it won't happen cos she wanted it, no, it will happen cos I have found someone worth making it happen with!

@dailynews: you cannot compaRe Nigerian giRl to otheR foReign counterpaRts? Why does it have to be women? We compaRe ourselves to otheR countRies in teRms of development etc.......we strive to achieve it and corruption creeps in. How can we aspire to be like them in all aspects and then hide our ladies? That doesn't make sense don't you think?
No one is saying there are no bad girls in Nigeria but you guys blow it out of proportion as if it only happens in Nigeria! All we are saying is ouR foreign counterparts are woRst!
I don't even want to get staRted on Nigerian guys but we still manage u people! And honouR you, and defend you!
I have observed the way u bash ladies in heRe so I'm gonna you this; if u only attRact bad giRl pls check youRself.......something is definitely wrong somewheRe!

BefoRe I say anything are u her fiRst boyfRiend? If yes then pls foRgive her, talk to her about this and since she has promised to change give her sometime ok. Whenever she does that pls don't flare up, be more loving and that will build heR confidence and guts. She is still a kid ok... And on the touching paRt? Since it makes heR uncomfortable foR now just let heR be, show her u are moRe inteRested in heR than heR body.
But if u aRe not her first boyfRiend you can still do as I said but be careful, most people like her are dangerous.

Speechless......

Pls continue o........don't stop now!

dontador: It seems like the guys typing this trash about nigerian girls are born and breed in the village.... All i will have to say to all these guys typing trash about nigerian girls should just for once travel out of this country and see wot other foreign countries girls are doing.... The only awkward thing i noticed about nigeria girls is that they are too materialistic... All other things are less compared to the foreign countries i have been to.... If i am to get married tomorrow my only choice will be a nigerian girl cos they are more homely and well trained (for those i have seen) more than most of the foreign countries.... So, to me i prefer nigerian girls... ##God bless nigerian girls (the good ones ooo)...

Thank you brother! Pls help me tell them ooooo
Guys from otheR countries appreciate NigeRian ladies! My former Korean boss adoRes Nigerian giRls.....he used to tell me how betteR they are compared to Korean ladies!
I have a fRiend who is a PA (personal assistant)to one time NigeRian governoR who imports foreign giRl. FoR the governor! Most of my fRiends in Canada don't complain about Nigerian giRls cos they are nothing compared to caRribean giRl! Then talk of ghana, south afRica, zimbabwe, malawi, mozambique, cameRoon, ivory coast etc. Then are we talking about the US where eveRything oRiginated fRom?
I head someone talking about nollywood? What about ghollywood and hollywood? Nollywood is the most decent movie industRy in the whole woRld! In hollywood A list super staRs act nude yet they aRe still Respected! Talk of ShaRon stone (Basic instinct), these AA women that staRed BRown sugar and how stella got her grove back. Then are we talking about their music industry where the likes of J.lo, Beyonce etc shoot musical videos almost nude? The list is endless...,..
Abeg make we heaR woRd jooR..... I only blame some of ouR giRls who allow these bullies to tear them apart to boast their egos! After all it takes a con to know a con!

Well, guys don't disrespect or bluff me in real life. When I talk they listen! Nigerian lady or not the respect you command is a function of how u caRry urself! Treat urself like an object people will play with u. So its not peculiar to Nigerian girls alone!
I have seen girls from other parts of the world and they are not better, just that Nigerian people blow things out of proportion! No spirit of oneness!
Things that happen in Nigerian are nothing compared to the ones that happen in US, UK, other African countries, Carribeans etc.....
What's that lady that gave a one time US president a Mouth Action? Is she Nigerian? People should suck it up joor! Thank God for the current research that is going on (tho US is the case study), the wind will soon blow and the fowl's butt will be seen!
Like I always say, if a Nigerian lady ain't good enough for u, Chinese ladies might be better!

Why do people keep complaining about Nigerian ladies when their foreign counterparts are even worst? Nigerian women are the stRongest women ever! If u doubt it come down to Nigeria and stay for a month....you will know the difference between 6 and half a dozen!
I'm proudly Nigerian, if that ain't good for anybody then the ocean is not far from u, take a dive!

Nice.....and noted!

Ok, I will answer for myself....... I have a very special connection with music (R&B; secular or christian) so when a guy or anybody sings around me he reaches out to me, he gives me something to believe in and he makes sense of my world! And for that 4mins the world won't be such a horRible place anymore. That's what so special about singing (for me).

No, I don't lock my phone with password, I drop my phone anywhere within my reach. He is free to go through my phone......but I won't have the time to go his!

Ok guys slow down! This is not about me ok, she ain't putting any pressure of me! This is about what mothers do once their girl child grows up! If u have not experienced it..wait foR it....wait for it.
I created this thread for us to have fun and exchange our girl-ish stories.

mashnino: dey dre dey laff..

by the time yo stand up from that ground

you go don old finish

so you think your mum doesn't know what she is doing?

no go find correct guy marry..

and you are 25 oooo

okay...

ehen..and no let your mumcy laff you back..smh...that will be very bad for you..

Hey buddy; this is a survey ok, you would have known that if u ever went to school or made use of ur senses for once! Now the last time I checked u are a man..... Are u gay?

First it started with my fRiends....they aRe oldeR than me. It amuses me how they dRead going home oR picking their mums' calls because they were dodging the usual "mother and daughter" talk about the "M" word! I used to laugh whenever they replay the whole drama! Aha! Now it has started happening to me as well but not to the extent I dread going home yet! I will be 25yrs in 3 months time and my mum has started acting funny already (tho I'm the first child). Whenever she visits me all she prays about even to my own hearing is "God bless my daughter with a good husband so that I can carry my grand child." Now she has stepped up fRom just praying. She has started heaping fiRewood (foR my Trad. MaR. I guess), buying stuffs like kitchen utensils but the one that got me rolling on the floor is she has gathered all the baby things she used foR us; cloth diaper, plates, baby clothes, crib etc....and she said "I know u and ur husband can afford all these but the joy of eveRy mother is to see her daughter use the things she used! Lmao.....now she informs me about whoeveR that is getting maRried.....nd wakes me up at midnight for this "usual" discussion and its so funny, lovely and mind blowing! Lmao.....
Now ladies is this common to all of us? Have u ever experienced this "usual" mother and daughter talk? Did u experience it before you got married? Share ur funny stories with us! And if u aRe yet to experience this "usual" talk fasten ur seat beat dearie, live and learn! Lol.....

@Sir jonse: ok fiRst of all I'm sorRy the way I said it ok, it seemed I didn't put ur feeling into consideration by romancing the whole thing. But I wanna tell u something, a lady who really loves u would neveR cheat on u Repeatedly! Having said that....I was once in uR shoes, and I was miseRable for a veRy long time. I was mad at him foR so many things but I stuck aRound becos I was cRazily in love with and I was hoping things will get betteR! But guess what it never got betteR! One day I stopped hoping, I grew tired of being miseRable! Did I Regret loving? No! Did I Regret sticking even when it was obvious it was over? Yes! Cos I gave away so many months of my life that I wouldn't get back! So buddy u decide what to do! Stick around and be miseRable? Hoping things will get betteR? No they won't! So get up and move on! You might be a good guy, and a lot of us will kill to have a faithful man...pls don't waste it all on a lady who is obviously ungrateful! Move on honey!

At my age now......a youngeR man is a NO!

@Acidosis: dude I ain't marRied yet! But my husband should better be the best kisseR o! So till he finds me this memory will have to do.... I guess!

Dump her butt and move on!

@mynd: lmao...yea it was that horrible that I wished I could undo a kiss! Lol....nah.... My stupid phone is just messing with me.

My fiRst kiss was hoRRible! In fact I never liked kissing till I met my last boyfRiend! I would give everything just to kiss him one more time!
*sad*

My fiRst kiss was hoRRible! In fact I never liked kissing till I met my last boyfRiend! I would give everything just to kiss him again!
*sad*

I might not give a guy I'm dating cash cos I don't have! But I'm good with gifts.....I love buying gift foR someone I love. So does gift count?

@chRisbenogor; nwokem behave or I will spank u! Lol.......
@sweetlemon: nne rapu okwu...... I get ur point ok......most of us heRe face this same challenge but its ouR duty to pRove them wrong in woRds and in deed! Let this matter die before it gets out of hand! The most important thing is u know urself and the stuff you are made of!
CheeRs sisteR!

xynerise: @op. What qualifies one to be an Osu? God did not create anyone unclea[quote author=xynerise]@op. What qualifies one to be an Osu? God did not create anyone unclean so why are u still believing that fetish story? Gosh! Some Nigerians are still primitive

Mr. U just experienced what is called culture shock. That doesn't make us pRimitive neither does it make u moRe civilised!

@chRisbenogoR: bia nwokem shift kene biko.......... I already addressed the thread imo! That write up addRessed the notion that most supeR sexy beautiful women are vain. Biko activate ur comprehension skills or look for a translator! Ikpokwam afam ozo mu na gi ga ese ezigbo okwu!

@sweetlemon: By flotus I meant First Lady of The United states! And yes her qualities doesn't make her a super woman! She is a woman in the truest definition of a woman and that's what every lady should strive for super sexy beautiful or not! But certain professions don't really allow you to be that 100% and celebrity is one of those professions. KK is a model and that doesn't require brains, it requires stRategy and being supeR sexy! That's why most people don't see that pRofession as a talent!

What's all these rants about Michelle Obama sef..... She is Flotus for crying out loud! The way she carries herself is what is Required of her as flotus! Kim is a hollywood celebrity and being sexy and hot is requiRed in that sectoR! And that's why every body like heR (celebrity) strive to be sexy and hot..., cos in hollywood sexiness pays period!

And about this super sexy beautiful women are dumb? Yea a lot people are under that impression! And I think its ur duty to prove them wrong. I'm a beautiful woman and when people see me they think life is so easy for me......that I get everything on a platter of gold just by smiling at men but when they come closeR to me they will find out that I stRuggle just like eveRybody else.....I work my butt off to put food on my table and I don't depend on any man oR smile at any man for favour! WhateveR good thing that I have now is a product of God, dedication, hardwork and perseverance! I'm a combination of beauty and bRains period! But if I had chose to be a celebrity trust me I will do everything to be hotter and sexier than Kk....! And if a guy sees nothing in me other than the sex symbol, it will be moRe of his pRoblem than mine!

Mynd_44: Fraud alert

Guy apply jooR! Lol.....I know u want.....pls make the application open o cos I wanna see ur lyRics! *winks*

@serendipity; I just told you wheRe I come fRom we don't care about such things. My parents will be moRe interest in him and the kind of family he is fRom! But let's assume they care about "osu" and kicks against ouR marRiage? We will put in efforts to convince but if they are still adamant..... I will maRry myself off to him free of chaRge...less expenses for us sef lol...we will start living as family and kids will start coming, wheneveR they aRe ready to accept us we will come back for the bride price! Lol.....so my paRents know better not to tRy me with such thing o!

I like moderate and fit! A skinny guy is a no no for me! In fact, I have this huge phobia for skinny guys! Lol.....pls don't ask me why cos I ain't telling!

@MrbRownjay: its obvious u can't make a logical argument without trying to bring the other peRson down.....soRry that patteRn doesn't work for me, I can fight faiR and win! So befoRe this turns into exchange of insult pls......let's respect each otheR's opinion!
CheeRs!

No business plan no money joor.......u must make suRe she also has managerial skills, oR is theRe a plan to hire a tRained manageR?