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Chrisbenogor: Yo,
I feel your pain bro, I get where you are coming from but you need to keep your eye on the big picture. It is a good thing you do your screening at least one month into when you think you are beginning to "like" her and face it man you would still move on. I never appreciated this until I dated an SS girl way back then in school, she was beautiful so beautiful I was shocked when she said SS a couple of months in she had a minor crisis. It was not funny at all, no one should pass a human being through that type of pain because of love. She hated her parents for it.
Take your time boss, do your screening as always very early.

Alika what's up?

Most of them are fairy tales.

NO

@neliaperez01: kiddo move over...... U sound like a teenager to me....got no time for nansense or e-fight!

sexkillz: [color=#000030]I dey laugh. . .

This is a nice example for his congregation to follow. Thieves!
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Be nice!

@neliaperez01: first of all yes I'm a Nigerian and I hate it when people like you come here and say trash like this, when uR own people are not in anyway better so ur apologies are in order!
Secondly, u made us understand in ur post that the insecurities started after u guys did it, which means he performed below expectations. So is that enough to come up here and say Nigerian men are insecure before you coRrected urself and added "some?"
U might mean a different thing but babe you got horrible communication skills!
Lastly, don't make deductions based on what people say on this forum, its anonymous and no one takes it seriously, that's the difference between "elites" like you and other people like me.

Good Girl: Friend, insecurity manifests itself in many forms. Just because a man walks with his head high up, wears flashy jewellery, talks with a loud voice and molests anyone that comes his way doesn't necessarily make him confident or "secure". He may actually be the most insecure man in town. Looking for constant attention and reaffirmation is actually the biggest sign of insecurity.

Any man that talks about how good he is in the bedroom is an insecure goat. Period.
Me sef I wonder why that is the only tool some men have at their disposal.

Sorry, I'm talking about a man! And to me those things u mentioned don't define a man for me! What defines a man for me is how he comports himself.

neliaperez01: Sweetie...you best get off this post, cos from your statement you dont even sound qualify to comment.

And u exhibit ur qualification by making deductions based on what people say on a faceless forum? Or getting pants down for a guy who brags about his sexual expertise? Lmao..... If u wanted love in the first place u wouldn't have fallen for a guy who brags about how good he is on bed....common sex should have told u such guy is still a child! A man doesn't kiss and tell!
Since other women have told u their experiences with Nigerian guys why did u hook up with one? No offense but u seem a kid to me!

If all the Nigerian guys you have met are insecure, maybe you are dealing with high school boys! Cos an average Nigerian brother will never feel he is not good enough for you no matter who or what u are!
Carry out ur survey on Akatta girls on the performance thingy, its not really my area of expertise.

Nigerian men might be everything but not INSECURE!!!!! I wonder what the definition of insecurity is in Latin! Insecurity is an individual thing not a culture!!!!
If a Nigerian man is not good for u, stick to the Latinos or Chinese!

Babe you met the wrong Nigerian man! Take a flight to Nigeria and ur life will never remain the life!

berem: I thought it was Rod Stewart that first sang it?
@post well the first cut wasn't the deepest.the second one was so deep that it hurt so much.damn!

Yea babe Rod Stewart sang it first, but sheryl Crow sold it just like Whitney Houston sold Dolly Patron's "I will always love you."

Come on guys! Don't tell me you all don't know? "First cut is the deepest" is a song by Sheryl Crow! The "cut" means heartbreak.

For me NO! The first cut didn't even leave a scratch.....but the last cut? That was the deepest!!!!!!!!!

malaria: Did u jst type painting toes. Do u mind if I borrow ur bf 4 a second.

Lol....

fluid26: can we fight now?

No! Take your Shawn Michael's power to somewhere else.

fluid26: As a matter of fact, it's not the only thing I'm up against. I picked that one out because it appears as an obvious fallacy of false analogy and irrelevant conclusion. Women (even those with all the glamour, education, exposure, dreams, focus...etc...etc) tend to be consistent in making horrendously silly mistakes! Which sparsely suggests any form of intellectual sophistication.

Your write-up is a good attempt at appreciating the female folk. However, it is flawed with emotions. We both know that emotions becloud reason.

Cheers!

Bia nwokem no di kene ala n'oche...... All these gRammar na to show say we no sophy pass una? Appreciate women for once biko!
We are all that and so much more!


Thanks op for making them realise that! Maha kwenu!

rokiatu: Fighting.

Lol....bad girl.....after the fight comes the ****
That works for me too *winks*

[quote author=tashanja]Aunti, abeg no vex; but you are supposed to say which one you enjoy most: For example, between giving him that kind fish or meat (kpomo) from behind and him painting your nails, which one you like best? [/quote)


Uncle, abeg no vex, whether na kpomo oR bone all na meat! These aRe the things I love beside the smooching......etc, if uR babe neveR give u kpomo before make she try am and ur ministry will never remain the same.

I like all of the above. I also love when I'm cooking in the kitchen and he comes in and hugs me fRom behind and I will give him a piece of meat or fish......, when he lies on my legs and tells me about his day, when he paints my toes with nail polish,,,,,,etc *winks*

Mynd_44: Yeah right. You are a midget stop denying

Lol....really?

tashanja: ^^^^Kpele, don't mind the shameless traitor; meanwhile just try camouflaging with higher heels, sooner or later your luck will shine

Lmao ok before this tuRns to signing of consolation register....lmao dude I ain't a midget oo! Check my profile.......I was just tRying to have fun.

D-Explorer:
C'mon babe, don't cry! Am also a midget with a sweet dream of having a woman 6.2tall. I won't mind climbing a stool to kiss her

Lmao....and u said I shouldn't cry? So who aRe u leaving ur fellow midgets foR?
*the cRying tuRns to scReaming*

Mynd_44: Yeah there is hope. There is hope for everyone sef

Lmao.....thank you!

[quote author=fluid26]Hmmm...Vivian...

Hey buddy, what's up? Welcome back!

I'm shedding already......teaRs of joy. Oh what the heck! This is a fiction.
*wipes the tears*

sexkillz: [color=#000030]
Nice message.

I have mine for you too: Go and sue your English teacher! It is a sin to make other people read thru your shorthand and lack of writing skills!

Fornication is one of many many sins. If you have ever sorted out your papers, or peeped at your friends exam paper in an examination, that my friend, is a sin as well!

Don't judge![/color]

Sexkillz abeg no kill me this morning o LMAO!!

Hello....I'm a midget......is there any hope I cud get picked?
*cRying*

D-Explorer:
Dude, the insult isn't neccessary. Present your opinion and halt the jabs!

I think you need to understand that showbiz is different from politics. In showbiz you also need to understand that some celebrity choose to be controversial to earn or keep on the fame. It all works in any field.

Now, at bolded, you crack me up. You calling her a low class makes you sound ridiculous and don't forget that the low class lass is getting the best of guys in her kitty. Hahaha
Michelle won't survive in Kim's world, Kim can't fit Michelle's world. Their world powers their actions and attitude. No FLOTUS gonna act like Kim if she still want the political ambition of her husband intact and Michelle will never gonna make frontpage the way Kim does. Dude, don't let your hatred for Kim K defile your sense of judgement...and again, the last time you checked, you checked the wrong date. Michelle is more influential because she's presently in power, what's her track record before now? Give her more years, she will go the way of every FLOTUS and later adopt charity to remain in the news. Don't get it twisted, i'm no Kim's advocate, i root for a Michelle anytime because her kind befit my profession.

D-Explorer:
Dude, the insult isn't neccessary. Present your opinion and halt the jabs!

I think you need to understand that showbiz is different from politics. In showbiz you also need to understand that some celebrity choose to be controversial to earn or keep on the fame. It all works in any field.

Now, at bolded, you crack me up. You calling her a low class makes you sound ridiculous and don't forget that the low class lass is getting the best of guys in her kitty. Hahaha
Michelle won't survive in Kim's world, Kim can't fit Michelle's world. Their world powers their actions and attitude. No FLOTUS gonna act like Kim if she still want the political ambition of her husband intact and Michelle will never gonna make frontpage the way Kim does. Dude, don't let your hatred for Kim K defile your sense of judgement...and again, the last time you checked, you checked the wrong date. Michelle is more influential because she's presently in power, what's her track record before now? Give her more years, she will go the way of every FLOTUS and later adopt charity to remain in the news. Don't get it twisted, i'm no Kim's advocate, i root for a Michelle anytime because her kind befit my profession.

Why am I falling in love with u? QED bro!

I'm gonna ask u one question; have you found the love of uR life? If yes then the rest doesn't matter! 2 years is not a big deal ok. I know it wasn't uR agreement but don't u think he knows that going for that course will secure a betteR future for the both of u?
Pls don't have this notion of "I will get marRied after 6 months of dating" cos its a huge delusion. If u leave this guy you might end up with the one that will date u foR 8yrs.
It has not happened to me tho, but I have a close fRiend who thought she will get maRried after a yeaR of dating her bf.....but something happened...the guy went abRoad for a couRse, came back and struggled with employment.....they ended up dating for 5ys but they aRe getting married this month.
Baby pls life is so unpredictable, stick to ur man, he needs you!