₦airaland Forum

Poorboy:
you don't understand motherly love.

You don't know the sacrifice the mother might have made to the lady in question .

It's not a matter of loving the husband but her own personal conviction that her mother deserves a car.

The boy(husband) in question is a jealous type, the wife knew telling him he won't allow her buy the car.


Don't compare mother with husband it doesn't fall in the same sentence.

never assume a thing in marriage untill you discuss it. that lady is an embodiment of secrets...... she just started feeling out her personality

this is one year marriage and she's starting to keep secrets

the poster

please don't share frnds issues without their permission

his wife did not love him, check well ....that marriage is patching up

UjuJoan2:
Why are men of these days so lazy and dependent on women? I just dont get it.

So if his wife buys him a car he will drive it happily? What about pride? Chivalry? What about self dignity?

That aside, do you know the bond between the lady and her mother? So because he gave her a ring, he thinks he is now more important than her own mother? What has he done to earn such privilege?

Lazy men everywhere looking to live off their wives. If your friend cannot keep trekking let him buy himself a car, simple!

guy I don't know y u wrote this jargon but if this is how u are thinking

u must be a single man with no plan to have a family

secondly I religiously pray u meet a woman that will support her mother and leave u to slave for her.

if u av any reply to this u are wasting ur time.
this piece shows u lack wisdom

you see this Nigerian entertainers ehn!

they are worse than Nigeria !!!

rolled with them sometimes ago,

the industry is filled with morally depraved and upside down ppl.

the only thing they do best is sex n drugs and then seek public sympathy after ruining their existence with foolish spending

u av to be high than the most high to believe their stories, you will never get to the bottom of their endless lies.

I was brought up not to accept the food and I find it appropriate

i don't take it dosent mean am against the neighbours religion, it is self discipline to face your course of life and religion squarely.

this is disgusting

if anybody insults you insult them back, why must you use national resources at your disposal to settle personal grievances

disgusting

don't you know BVN is Nigerian invention

do you expect it to last?

hehe!!! who tell you that one!!

do you know how dependent couples become after years of marriage ..... forget their fight and gragra the man do oooo!

some men can't eat food prepared by another woman and gain weight, some even loose confidence once they fight their wives at home.

living with someone for years and sharing everything no be moimoi

men don't loose interest they only take their wives for granted, knowing fully well, she no dey go anywhere, na their property for life.

maybe you av been exposed to the new kangaroo marriage by naija celebs and wannabe celebs and their followers.

you can't loose interest in your spouse I can tell you that confidently ... you can only take them for granted

N. B. Exceptions to kangaroo marriage pls

isn't it what they like.

tomorow pls funke don't say you said it basically to shut blogger up ooo
that you are av ur own accolades

she's should av ignored this arrant nonsense

now a sensation has been created. G. Nnaji will be feeling ..... complete am

my guy ehn, you see....... the science of photography and video recording baffles the devil himself because he was caught in camera as a serpent and as a woman atimes.

finally if you don't quit .... your photo will be used to motivate others like this

good for them..... we are still hustling to cater for the family daily needs.

that's our greatest gift for now, praying God bless the hustle

thank you

it means you pay attention to relationship development. kudos

man is a bundle of more or mix of these traits you listed.

Everyman carries a thing called burden, our imperfections and failings.

unless u are an embodiment of all these traits which is rarely the case. there's no one with perfect distinction from faults

today's reality has given a new definition to relationships ; topic for another day though

Dear Friend

am a married man with enough experience
the handwriting has always been on the wall, but the fear and social stigma some good men feared of failed marriages kept you(us) going

you have started fighting fir your life, sanity and future, bear in mind the consequences of all your actions on your children

I am not saying and would never advise you to take such a woman under your roof again(although we haven't heard her own side) but on basis of this values you presented here and because it is a situation many of us are familiar with, we believe you might be telling the truth

please don't stop untill she's utterly destroyed, I mean rendered incapable of sabotaging you.

she's no longer your wife

She will come back with sober stories or plot bigger styles, be prepared

stay sharp

CEOs are technocrats and career civil servants

ministers are political appointees

this is public admin in practise and be rest assured

the minister would not sack the CEO again but you will be frustrated and ur MDA become redundant

ask what late Abba Kyari did to the Health sector.

that is why he never patronised Nigerian hospital n refuse aid from the FG except from the presidency

toffyz:
Her aunt said to her boss " you will get to know one day why men visits her"

From that statement, It's possible the victim is suffering from nymphomania.

A 20year old girl with a 2yr old child...speaks a lot about the victim.

I think the aunt has known who she is, that's why she's taking advantage of her and commercializing her unusual condition

u should keep this opinion to urself in this kind of matter

why are these famous rich artiste always acting like kids

we do see how intelligent their counterparts are overseas, when they speak and what they do with their wealth.

Lexusgs430:
I don't have to, human species like you have presented us enough research materials......

writing rubbish unconfirmed and baseless opinion just because of ur bitter experience

you are adding fuel to d faya day will burn u

death equates all, victim, perpetrators and the hangman

Pale cold death

Nigeria is the hovel

Lexusgs430:
You enter trap be that .......

Most especially men that still have crude mentalities and mostly avoid those that would attempt to use bible passages, to subdue their wives........

marriage researcher


have u published ur findings

you will write grammar and confuse confusion and marriage

everything in marriage is by mutual entitlement !!! if u wan speak grammar

by the way how many years experience do u av in marriage, are u even dating a serious guy b4 we ask if u married !!

if your story is true.... enough if this nonsense tradition

trying to create convinience where none is affordable?

mehn!!! one child is ok, wetin concern u and the woman naaa. this is lust excusable.

guy u don't and u must not. anybody wey loose husband should remarry not start fucking relatives in whatever guise.

sick tradition traction

Akanistic:
I love ur reality as it is similar to mine!! Everything a family needs for a comfortable living was provided from the get go!! Landed properties, buildings, shops etc Now due to old age, I am 'broke' no cash but assets and my wife is now working!! All above conditions by the Ops are outrightly sexist and demeaning!! Broke my big phat ass!! Why should a woman diss her husband because he is jobless?? No body is happy being jobless but living off a husband's assets and disrespectful because you have cash is deliberate disrespectful!! The guidelines are really disguised slavery!!!

you have laboured when you need to, and it's coming to everyone either sooner or later.

you have laid that foundation and it is all what is needed in a home ....foundation by the Man.

but one thing the OP really portrayed is the modern millennial family style, there's a kind of detachment like you pointed out.

such marriage exist though and some actually prefer it.

Godbless your home

it actually applies to some categories of marriage but not all.

from my own experience

I actually was an all provider guy from day 1 of my marriage, so in my down time and wife was ahead, it is now on her to watch what she does to me and arround d house.

in short she took to doing things the way I use to stock the house, diff is her pay might not allow it fully.

But in all, I think a man should lay that foundation , once the foundation is there ... if u fall later, I don't think your woman will go haywire on you unless she's gunning for divorce or separation

marriage is tough but I believe a man should remain tough all through marriage these times.

they will the state apparatus to hunt the money if they pay u.

hmmm!

look for a bullet wound, rigor don't bleed unless body broke.... there's an entry and exit wound to cause that blood dripping

likely suspect ..........

watch it: people who are tasked to protect us.

instinct tells me....... hmmmmm

Miss, for you to have that opinion at 14/15 means you are an habitual unrepentant bully and a f**kn racist.

a little power and prowess you will pour shit on blacks publicly

if it was an opinion she has nothing to be ashamed of

but these are racial abuse and derogatory statements AT A GROUP.

I don't pity you dear. I blame your background that gave you that orientation

I am sure she's not repentant, the haunts only frustrated her goals and made her sober.

if you know southy well, you will know she's still a bigot at heart

you throw a child into marriage without proper counselling and she turned into a knife wielding ninja and u arrested her ....

it will never be well with these northern leaders and culture

ooooh who kon stop the fight naaaa!!!!

I pity police ...... they too dey show say Dem no dey fear and every member of armed forces hate them.

if this country will divide, police will be nuetral and probably defend the status quo

armed forces are too attached to their command and superiors, the are not trained to respect their nation.

that's why USA will always have the best armed forces in the world. the order is : America, my Command and my comrade

UK : for the King/Queen and country

Nigeria: Oga, money and ogogoro

Racoon:
Just imagine.No respect even among comarades in arms.

which comrade in arms!

police no be armed forces ooo
the force in their name refers to "a body of men"

it is the nature of threats in the world that is causing the mobilization of special units that looks like armed forces.

but still police is a civil law enforcement officer not armed forces.

anyway naija is the reverse if any sensible thing

Chepos1:
If the human part can produce money as insinuated, why should the part dealer demand for 1m from them instead of to use the part to make money for himself?

if u re a xtian u ll understand that :

the gifts of God are free

if u re a freethinker u ll know

the best things in life are free.

the dealers and the ritualist can't pay the price of all these diabolism

eventually it is doom.

money without peace

don't be fooled

even Nigerian investors are aware the economy is lottery.

everyone knows how a loose girl attracts all dicks