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Feraz: I hate that zone......has happened to me so I know what you're saying......probably I delayed too much.....lol.....most times, if I see guys that really like my female friends, I'm like pls release them if you're not interested rather than keep them waiting......

Yeah you probably liked her a lot and was waiting for it all to be just right before you asked her out (that's what we get when we try to be Gentlemen).
Normally guys are supposed to know when the iron is very hot so that they can strike before it cools into friendzone.

Friendzone usually happens when the girl has "Seen you finish"

I have escaped from friendzone twice myself. After escaping the first i was captured like 2 weeks later and put back.
The second one pained me most but i escaped and had her coming for me

phaya: A friend is someone who knows u well(ur likes n dislikes). I can date my friend

It's not that kind of "friend" i'm talking about.. There are some guys that pass through the "friend phase" before they finally start dating the girl.
But for "FRIENDZONE" the girl likes you as a friend but for as little as 2 reasons she cannot date you, you might even be the MALE BESTIE. Ladies you know what i'm talking about

Cweetie: Yeah I mean dating (entering a relationship)

Yeah if you've evaluated his character to a satisfactory level and you like him enough then don't play hard longer than necessary

Imprida: all girls are not the same.

Oho!!

Youngsage: things like what pls elucidate expantiatively thanks

Show her care, listen to her, be someone that she feels secure and safe around...

mabebe1: i wudnt mind at al, we gist n joke abt anytin n evrytin. I used 2 tel him d no of guys dat asked me out. Its fun esp wen d trust z der. U shud try it

@imprida and luvmijeje, what do you think about this?

sexkillz: [color=#000030]It's not wrong to ask, but it is wrong to be too inquisitive. What happened in the past stays in the past. You should know the person you are in a relationship with, so, that makes it reasonable to talk about the past, just for the sake of really knowing them better and knowing what they have been through before meeting you. If after you have discussed and accepted them along with their past, asking them periodically about their past smacks of immaturity on your part.

They have chosen to be with you, and you, with her. Any other barga is inconsequential. If any of her ex boyfriend is butting into her life, she reserves the right to tell you or not. If she tells you, how you handle it further showcases your maturity. If she doesn't tell you, doesn't mean she doesn't love you or that she is betraying your trust. If you find out somehow, swallow your foolish pride, listen to, and understand her

Her choosing to remain with you despite intrusions should send a loud and clear message to you, and you should make the most use of that, rather than castigating her at any given opportunity, taking a step forward into the future, and Five steps into the past.

Na headache you dey find, and you go get am wella. . . [/color]

oga Sexkills. I'm talking about the present, we've moved past the past. I'm talking about current guys, colleagues and male friends..

sleekymag: It's a long story bro. There had been imminent cracks along the way, but all changed when she was finally out of NYSC and got a job. She wanted to be free, and to test the waters, since we were together throughout her university days; besides she was a very smart girl who made a 1st class. But i guess it was cos, she started making new friends and forming new habits and i was like curtailing her.

Hmmm too bad. 5 years just went like that. There is really no guarantee for things like this

It's been fun. Time to unfollow this thread. Till next sessions thread

sleekymag: Well, at the time with my first, it was like, yea, this is it! I definitely was in love (or chose to mentally be in love, whatever that is). My second spell with her only proved that love had vanished after her earlier betrayal.

With my second, i felt yea, this must be the God-ordained love i was looking for. We were together for like 5 yrs or a bit more. And she reciprocated my love until the final year (people change too).

However, i recall the second wasn't love at first sight or first date, but more like friendship that grew into love. The first (i think) was more of my attraction to her physical beauty, but the second was more than just physical. However, both share the same birthday.

With hindsight, i feel the first was probably not real love, but so many people are in this type of 'love state' today, that they think its love instead of 'infatuation'.

After 5 years!! What changed in the girl?

Imprida: it is very wrong to ask, means you dont truth your girl.

It's not by that one oh.. Sure i trust but that doesn't mean i should close my two eyes.
Because i trust my fence and gate does not mean i should not know my neighbors and the type of neighborhood i'm in

Imprida: No! as far as she is not cheating on you.

mabebe1: ask

Hmmm. So you wouldn't mind if he asks you about a guy that says hi to you (his name, where you met him e.t.c)?

Is it bad to want to know about her male friends or colleagues? Whether anyone of them is interested in her? Or asking about one that is trying to be close and friendly to her? Knowing full well that she is beautiful and there are bound to be plenty to chasers.
Or is it better to just ignore it so that it won't seem as if one is jealous or insecure. As for me i might not necessarily be jealous or insecure but just curious..
Which action is more preferable to take? Ask or ignore and pretend?

I recently developed a theory about this sort of thing and it's what i've noticed about ladies HERE IT GOES :
A girl can always fall in love again even after a previous level of love with an ex. This new love can even match or be greater than the previous level of love.

This is why you here girls say things like " I never thought i could love anyone more than i loved my ex" or " i never really loved my ex, with you i now see what true love is".
Just check out the latest episode of vampire diaries and hear what Elena told Damon towards the end..

As a guy. Don't waste too much time, do the things to ensure she falls in love with you then strike before you get put into Friendzone or ever worse brodazone

If you are able to steal the girl from your friend. What guarantee do you have that someone would not later be able to take the girl from you?
If she is showing you all these signs that she likes you even when she has a boyfriend (and i assure you, he does not know about all these things she's doing for you) what makes you sure that she won't do it for another guy when you're dating her.
Personally i can't be with a girl whom it seemed easy to steal from her boyfriend or who is displaying such attributes to me as the other guy..

Twisting: I don't think the chakra they felt was modified Naruto' chakra
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If they didn't feel 10tails chakra which is numerous times greater than kyuubi's,then it => that the new naruto chakra is more sinister than juubi's own...
The chakra maybe from the 'One(s)' they wanted to see....

Perhaps it's because it's naruto's own that he's more familiar with, and the fact that he also knows the 9 tails chakra and he's bothered because
1. The fact that naruto's chakra is fused with that of the Kyuubi
2. That he can sense it thus far even over the 10tails own that he has been sensing since

OmolodMilkman93: Ralphjoe,...... Otikpoko realy said u culdnt finish d 19GB, nw u proved him rite, hpe u dey prepare ur money to subscribe again

Long time guy. How your side

jidesp: I don't think sasuke was scared. The song, Clique by Kanye West is just playing in his head. "Aint nobody messing with my CLIQUE"

Lol. He's fearing that something can mess up his clique bad..

Ralphjoe I think you already know to an extent what you did that is why you even had the idea to do it in the first place.
So i want to ask a question. Are you a nice guy? Because i want to PM You on how to get this amount of data you Have on your airtel sim

I'm back after my Sabbatical !!! I see most peeps are still here..

Ehen me thinks it was naruto that sasuke, Orochimaru and the rest of Taka felt when they were in Konoha and sasuke was a bit Scared

Ihedinobi: If Naruto no jejely go marry Hinata, I go use my leg enter d manga beat jutsu comot him body.

Gbam!! That's just it... Well i no worry about that one cos Naruto has already been betrothed via the blood of Neji

CuteJAY I'm on my knees begging you not to turn bad. Don't let one man create another bad girl in you... Be true to yourself. The man wasn't there when you were growing up and being shaped to what you are now.
You say you hate men for the now because you ran into this wrong man while i myself can confidently say that i have not a single cheating bone in my body only for me to realise that women are now more prone to cheating than guys, but that won't change who i am, because with the right woman i'll be the right man

What is everyone talking about?
It is very easy not to fall in love when you want to remain single even when you have female friends. don't call any one except that you want to find out important information and don't spend too much time with the friend than is necessary and don't spend time thinking about the person and importantly don't let the girl show you too much love.

The real Challenge i believe is not falling in love even when one has a girlfriend and i believe that one does not need to love his girlfriend, only like here enough to not want to loose her enytime soon (it' not love yet) finish, every other extra baggage attached with love is removed. the key to this is

BodyKiss: One proven method that has worked for me is not idealize the person. The human brain can't differentiate between reality and imagination, when you idealize about somebody, for example, by always sharing good moments with them together, or even getting married to them in your imagination, you will get fond of them, hence falling in love. The human brain can't tell apart reality and imagination.

1. Don't dwell on the good times together too much
2. Try to always tell yourself that this relationship might soon end and there's no guarantee that it might go far
3. tell yourself of the possibility of the girl cheating on you (forget the level you have enetered her brain to, this possibility is always there)
4 remember how bad heartbreak will feel
5. remember you don't need to love her to make her happy only care, understand and tolerate

But all in all if the girl continues to prove herself to be consistent and showers you with love then brethren it is only a matter of time before love catches up with you.

3rd batch list is out.. This is confirmed... For those of you who used your long legs in trying to secure your admission should go check

firestar: What the Alliance is doing.....
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Yes Dangote is recruiting