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 Investment / Re: MBA Investors Forum by WackyJ1(m): 9:46am On Sep 28, 2020 |
LudaChriz: I did not address you. Do not reply any of my posts if I did not directly mention you or quote your own post. 1 Like |
| Investment / Re: MBA Investors Forum by WackyJ1(m): 8:06am On Sep 28, 2020 |
airsaylongcom: What do you have to say about my post above. Did MBA Eventually release an official statement? |
| Investment / Re: MBA Investors Forum by WackyJ1(m): 8:05am On Sep 28, 2020 |
Haywhy433: iyobosadavid: https://sec.gov.ng/activities-of-unlawful-market-operators/
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| Investment / Re: MBA Investors Forum by WackyJ1(m): 7:57am On Sep 28, 2020 |
airsaylongcom: Hello. You work with MBAtrade right? 1 Like |
| Adverts / Re: Buy Your Grammarly Premium Account For ₦7000 Only by WackyJ1(m): 6:59am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Bought a grammarly account from someone and they kept deleting the document I was working on. Have you experienced this before? |
| Business / Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt From Making A Million A Week In This Covid Times. by WackyJ1(m): 11:02am On Jun 10, 2020 |
I've run into you several times on Facebook. I first saw your posts on Headstart Africa My question is Many people teach but they don't show "HOW TO GET CLIENTS". They teach but they don't show the actionable steps that students can take to practice and then evaluate whether or not they are growing in that skill. Many people teach and then they leave the students on their own or become irritable when they start receiving questions. This is understandable due to the price of the class and the demand, however, it is never stated in the pre-sale copy. Do you handle all of this in your class? 1 Like |
| Romance / Re: EVERY Girl Has A Side Guy. by WackyJ1(m): 9:14am On May 13, 2020 |
lefulefu: I agree. Never take them too seriously. |
| Romance / Re: EVERY Girl Has A Side Guy. by WackyJ1(m): 9:13am On May 13, 2020 |
lammylam: Many girls deceive themselves that they are not giving it a thought by suppressing their desires to the point that they deny the reality. I once knew a girl that kept on telling me that she wouldn't sleep with someone else and then two months later she told me that she did and that she didn't know she was going to do it until the guy kissed her while she was in the car with them and then they did it in the car. Many girls deny the strength of the temptation, overestimate their own strength and then they end up putting themselves in compromising situations that on the surface appear harmless. That why you start hearing stories that involve: "It just happened" "One thing led to another". 1 Like |
| Romance / EVERY Girl Has A Side Guy. by WackyJ1(m): 8:27pm On May 12, 2020 |
Every girl has a side Guy. The only difference is whether they are fucking them or not. Read that again. Girls like to demonize guys having side chics or girls on the side. But they always have one. Every girl has that guy that she likes just as much as her boyfriend or at the very least close to. They have that guy that they find sexually attractive and would sleep with him if they decide to. Every single one of these guys will sleep with this girl if given the opportunity all she has to do is say yes. Unlike for guys that it take effort to cultivate and maintain the attraction and attention of these side chics, girls simply have to exist and occasionally give signals of interest to the interested boys to keep them thinking they have a chance. That is why you have girls that sleep with their other guys withing the 3 or 4 days that they have issues with their boyfriend Or who immediately start dating a new guy within two weeks to a month of them breaking up with a previous boyfriend. They simply move to a backup that they have been having there since. Girls are incredibly jealous because of their competition anxiety.. So they do everything they can to limit the options of their boyfriend so that they do not feel too threatened in the relationship. But they will always maintain their options with excuses like "He's just a friend" "He's the one on my case" And so on. Excuses that experienced guys know to be false. == == == I fully expect the childish feminists on this forum to come and attack me. They are the no 1 people guilty of this. 11 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance / Re: I Can't Maintain A Relationship For A Long Time (advice Needed) by WackyJ1(m): 2:52pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Preshieben: Alright Message me, Let's talk privately since the answers to your questions cannot be posted here. 1 Like |
| Romance / Re: I Can't Maintain A Relationship For A Long Time (advice Needed) by WackyJ1(m): 5:30am On Apr 16, 2020 |
[quote author=Preshieben post=88414184] now listen I only hang out with those men because i love their vibes Okay??[/quote]  Lmao!!! Okay let me ask some questions to get to the root of the problem What is the age of the boys that you have been trying to keep a relationship with? What has caused the breakups in each case? 1 Like |
| Romance / Re: I Can't Maintain A Relationship For A Long Time (advice Needed) by WackyJ1(m): 5:56pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Preshieben: You hang out with? Don't you mean you Fvck? When it comes to matters of relationships, at 19, you're a kid. This offends you? Then it further proves my point that you are. Your future 25 year old self would agree with me. And hanging out with me old enough to be your father does not make you more mature. Infact it even destroys your prospects of getting married at your desired age even more. At 19, I'm sure you have a slew of immature behaviors that you exhibit that you will not mention here. Only those who have dated you can tell us. These might be the actual reasons why you cannot keep a relationship. 7 Likes |
| Romance / Re: Man Credited Lady's Account With 200k Just To Go On A Date With Her. by WackyJ1(m): 12:18pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
simplepee:I knew a girl would come here to Broke Shame boys. Congratulations on being the first one. 1 Like |
| Romance / Re: Man Credited Lady's Account With 200k Just To Go On A Date With Her. by WackyJ1(m): 2:10pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
FatherBona: Rickjordan: FACTS 1 Like |
| Romance / Man Credited Lady's Account With 200k Just To Go On A Date With Her. by WackyJ1(m): 10:52am On Feb 17, 2020 |
As seen on twitter live today. I know some ladies will want this kind of guy and will call other men broke for not being willing to replicate this level of Muguness. Such is the Nature of Our Nairaland Feminists or Female activists. Gentlemen, will you do this for a lady?
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| Romance / Re: by WackyJ1(m): 6:05am On Feb 12, 2020 |
CokeBar: I love what Tallesty1 says and I agree with his suggestions. You also said certain things about his character which I believe is contributing to this. You said he has complexes. This might be inferiority complex or low self-esteem. You said he was the least performing child and the last born, which might have been because of or resulted in the low self-esteem. Even if he doesn't have it now, he definitely struggled with it in the past. When you have that description of the least performing child, it means you were constantly compared to other children your elder siblings or even others outside. That affects a child's esteem badly and he won't be able to speak up for himself. That is what is going on with him now. He is most likely also codependent. He probably spent two decades of his life trying to win his parents approval and now he has a conflict that won't make him go against their wishes and gain their biggest disappointment, what do you think he would do? It would be very hard for him to contemplate any form of action that would involve putting his foot down. Please understand that even the contemplation of their disappointment will cause him to sweat under AC and have anxiety attacks. This is something that he has been facing long, long before he met you. So do what Tallesty suggested, talk to him. Try whatever you can to improve the relationship you have with his parents. If all fails, then move on |
| Romance / Re: by WackyJ1(m): 5:56am On Feb 12, 2020 |
I888: See your head |
| Romance / Re: Men Who Go For Really Young Women ( Photos) by WackyJ1(m): 5:48am On Feb 12, 2020 |
This was an attempt by females to blackmail men on twitter, like they do every once in a while. She was thoroughly tackled. When girls are young, they look down on their fellow agemates or even guys that are just older than they are with 2-3 years, They love older men because they are more mature. They say older men know how to treat women better. They get gifts and financial assistance from those older men. They even keep sugar daddies. But when these ladies get old and they start seeing that they are not young enough or fresh enough to keep up with the younger ladies, they turn around to post nonsense like this. 40 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance / Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by WackyJ1(m): 5:00pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
healthserve: If you still stand by this She loved him nonsense then you are still grossly Naive. How many "I still love you" will you fall for? Evaluate love strictly on actions before not on the intensity of the tears when showing remorse. You need Read Ubunja Miseducations at miseducations dot com and the Rational Male posts at his website. (Google Rational Male) 4 Likes |
| Romance / Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by WackyJ1(m): 10:02am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Respect55: Midnighter !! Come here! Healthserve MissCookie Time proves a man's decision right. 1 Like |
| Romance / Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by WackyJ1(m): 9:45am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Sleevia: Na great victory be this my brother.! 1 Like |
| Romance / Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by WackyJ1(m): 9:36am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Respect55 We back here again!! Wooo. This is a great victory. I supported you against those ignorant females and males and now we've been proved right. See ehn! I am going to tag all those girls. Chin up man! You dodged a bullet. This her pregnancy sweet me. Good for her. She don Learn lesson. Nonsense. 3 Likes |
| Family / Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by WackyJ1(m): 5:23am On Jan 15, 2020 |
Do not let your wife take your Child away. Call her people and your people and let them settle the matter. Tell them about the high rate of divorce in the united states. How women are the usual parties to initiate it. Tell them that the same pattern is what is influencing your wife here. Check her phone and you will definitely find evidence of infidelity there. She might not be having sex with someone else but she will definitely be doing the thing that she is accusing you off. She is looking for a way to leave. Tell her to her face that you know her true intentions, that she should stop deceiving herself that it is because of a post you made ten years ago. Don't argue with her, tell her in a matter of fact way but don't exchange words. Do you argue with someone that what goes up must come down, this should be the same way. Let her know that she is free to travel but she cannot travel with your child. Someone else suggested going to the embassy and telling them that your wife wants to take your child away without your consent. Do this and also find other ways to make it legally impossible for her to travel with your child. This will give you more time because she will not want to travel without your son. 2 Likes |
| Romance / Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by WackyJ1(m): 12:00pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
smat101: I came here because I wanted to give you some careful valuable advice. I hope I can articulately type everything I want to tell you in a way that you will understand. Your Sister wants to have sex with a man that is 27 years old, someone who is older than her with 13 years. And you want to beat her. After beating her what next? You tell her don't do it again? How effective has that been in changing anything? The runs girls and the hoes out there were all beaten by their parents but it didn't stop them from being promiscuous. Beating, flogging is easy because it is easy to dispense and it saves the adult from doing what is more difficult, Actually talking to the Child. Read what I wrote again, "Talking to the Child". Not Talking at the Child but actually engaging in a conversation where you strive to understand what the child feels, striking a rapport with the child and then passing your message across through that connection that has been established. Doing this requires emotional intelligence and understanding of psychology with the majority of people in this country and even the world at large lacks. Nigerian parents and perhaps African parents at large believe that flogging with solve everything so they end up raising children that suffer from trauma. This is the same way most American parents respond to problems with their children by administering drugs but they are better than us in the sense that they also take the children for therapy and counseling. Enough of the background story. Let me tell you how you must approach this situation. You must first understand what motivates young girls like this. You must also talk to her like someone that UNDERSTANDS. Not like an adult reprimanding a Junior and dishing out the commandments, thou shall not. You must sound like someone that knows how she is thinking at the moment and what she is thinking and this is where your emotional intelligence comes into play. Anything else and you risk not connecting with her and all your words are empty. She will only act like she understands. Now let me talk about her motivations and what she is going through. 1. Curiosity. 2. Peer Pressure. Every young girl is curious about sex, they want to know what it is like, they want to know how it feels. Most of this pressure comes from the kind of company that they keep. Their clique of friends and what they discuss. It comes from boys they have a crush on and the ones that pressure her for sex. This is a point where I must mention another truth: She is going to have crushes on 60% if not more of all the guys that she meets until she is 20 years old. These guys are going to have an influence over her because of what she feels for them. It is this influence that they will use to try and get what they want from her. Everything I have just told you (From the word: "Truth"  , you should tell her, So she knows that you know and that you understand. Tell her that it is normal. Tell her that if she gives into sex with every single guy that she is going to have a crush on then she will have opened her legs for 15 guys before she is 20.3. Connection. How is the home environment like? Does she get to talk well with her parents? Do your parents understand her or are they too old and outdated to do so? Does she have a best friend who understands her? Is she lonely even in the midst of many friends? You need to know the answers to this. Sometimes what she is seeking is that Love and connection. This guy is offering it to her and she wants to reciprocate it by giving the guy what he wants which is sex. 4. Ask her about her sex drive. Does she have the urge to have sex constantly? Does she have to urge to continuously view pornography? If she does, that is where the problem is coming from, her body is constantly pulling her towards a path that she cannot resist. This is the point where I tell you another truth that you must tell her. If she starts having sex now at 14, she will get addicted. She will crave more and more till she gets to the point where she cannot say no to any guy even if she doesn't like his character. Once she gets addicted she will discover that she will sleep with as much as 10 guys in a year. This is even a conservative figure. May girls do as much as 2 a month, totally different guys. They can't help it, in fact they love it. They want to sleep with a guy just to taste him. 5. What are her goals for the future? Is your family well to do? Or are there financial issues that the family is struggling with? Does she want to become someone well known and respected in the future? Does she want to be someone who can get excellent grades in Senior Secondary School and the University? If she starts having sex now, she will not be able to concentrate any longer. She will never be able to focus, the number of men in her life will never allow her to do so and if she can not concentrate she cannot study and if she cannot study, she cannot get good grades and she cannot become someone of importance in the future. You need to let her know all this. I have more to say, but I have gotten tired of typing. We can connect via PM and eventually talk on the phone. However, read what I have written and if you have not tried this approach then it is imperative that you do so. 3 Likes |
| Romance / Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by WackyJ1(m): 11:03pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
osaskywire: She is monitoring you this close and yet she was able to hide another boyfriend from you. Keep female friends and let her know that those girls are female friends. If you are hanging out with them let her know that you're hanging out with them. Tell her they mean nothing to you. Jealously keeps her on her feet and lets her know that if she fvcks up that she can easily be replaced. Do not allow any girl to control and isolate you. If she cannot stand the situation, then she should leave. That is even a good outcome for you because you get to regain your freedom and won't struggle with keeping your emotions in check. |
| Romance / Re: Should I Break Up With Her? by WackyJ1(m): 9:26pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
osaskywire: Any girl that agrees to date you under duress is not going to be loyal to you. Neither is the relationship going to last very long. The best relationships come when the girl has invested in you and is the one showing she wants you with her words and with her actions. If a girl is into you, it wouldn't take her two seconds to say yes to your proposal. Infact if she really likes you, you may not see any need to ask her out because she would already be acting like she is your girlfriend. You're a clingy guy. When the girl refused to give an answer, you should have moved on to other targets. Right now you probably don't have other options which is why you're here crying to us about a girl you forced into a relationship. If you invest your heart into this relationship with everything you have seen, it will end in heartbreak for you, while the girl that claims she loves you will surprise you with how easily she moves on to someone else. Girls love to have multiple eggs in multiple baskets, you should do the same. Remove your emotions from this relationship and play along. And most importantly GET MULTIPLE BACKUPS. |
| Romance / Re: Why Are All The Guys Getting Heartbroken? by WackyJ1(m): 8:24am On Dec 24, 2019 |
1. Because Guys are human beings too. They fall in love, they get played. 2. Because women also cheat. Just as much as men in fact. The only difference is that a cheating woman will complain of men cheating to anyone who would listen, ensuring that they have and maintain the image of the victim.. 3. Because these guys have not learnt to not take the words of a woman seriously and only take their behaviors as the true revealer of character. 4. Because it is easier to bare your mind and your pain under the anonymity that a public forum provides than show weakness in the real world. 5. Because they have not yet read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance / Re: Is My Girlfriend A Threat To Me? by WackyJ1(m): 6:27pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
JustMe407: I'm sorry but I doubt this your story of her finishing top of her Class with distinctions. The defining quality of scholars is Focus. The ability to focus on one thing and see it through to the end. Focus is possible only through discipline. From what you have described about her, she does not have the ability to focus. There was a slight miscommunication and misunderstanding in your relationship and she is already finding solace in another man. Nope. Doesn't align. You also said that this is a girl that loves attention way too much. That factor alone makes it impossible for her to graduate top of her class when she is following boys except she is a Genius. Anyway. Assuming it is not fried dodo that you are feeding us here. These two factors that I mentioned about in Bolded is all the red flag you need in this world. If you proceed with this girl you will regret it. This is a guarantee. The biggest guarantee that I a stranger that you do not know can give you. |
| Investment / Re: ⭐⭐ Opening A Fully Functional Paypal Account In Nigeria & How To Withdraw ⭐⭐ by WackyJ1(m): 3:13pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
yizzyweezy: Yes there are rules against it I believe. It's better you make a Telegram channel and invite people there. You'd have better control over what you can post. |
| Romance / Re: My Feelings Is Eating Me Up.. Please Help Me by WackyJ1(m): 8:25am On Dec 19, 2019 |
Your height is not a bad thing. What is bad is the way you talk to yourself in your head. You have got to realise that many times we are the ones that tell ourselves the story of others not liking us when in fact there are many that do. You have to start speaking to your self positively. That inner conversation you have with yourself has got to change and become encouraging. Your subconscious believes whatever you tell it and when you tell it something positive, it begins to find reasons to justify what you have told it. The same thing happens when you tell it something negative. Tell yourself, "I am awesome" Tell yourself "I am wonderfully made" Tell yourself "I am a masterpiece" Tell yourself "I am unique" (Aren't you?) When your inner talk changes, then your confidence increases and it begins to reflect in your attitude and the way you carry yourself. This attitude and your confidence is what now begins to attract people to you. Because you might think that it is your height that is your problem but it is Your inner self talk => Which makes you feel insecure => Which makes you act insecure => Which makes it difficult for you to keep friends So when you change your inner self talk, your confidence increases and you become a more attractive personality. You can also start doing exercises, pick up a sport like basketball, go to the gym. Confidence comes also from being skilled in something. That capability also increases your confidence because you're proud of yourself whenever you're able to use that skill to achieve something. When you go to the gym and you're able to change your body to something more chiseled and attractive, you become proud of yourself and then girls are also attracted to ripped guys. Remember whenever you're learning a skill or trying to get ripped in the gym, never let your inner self talk make you quit before time. Never! I'm 6'2 and I once had a girlfriend leave to someone your height. So you see, it is not about your height. Change the way you think. Focus on becoming the best version of yourself. Goodluck! 3 Likes |
| Romance / Re: The SUBTLE Difference Between A Friend And My Friend by WackyJ1(m): 7:27pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
AkeNathan: And did typing this response here in the romance section make you a dollar richer? |
| Romance / Re: The SUBTLE Difference Between A Friend And My Friend by WackyJ1(m): 7:26pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
PrimadonnaO: I'm sorry but I don't know how to cheat is the slogan of many a great cheat. |
What can i say? I was never at any point gainst Respect55 infact i feel how he feels by all this, but i remain solid in my stan,e that the girl loved him but gave in to nonsense(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) (of 144 pages)
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