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KINGwax007:
Builder. Though, every professional must be invited at the right time.

But as a builder, your main job is a site manager. You must have knowledge of everything being done on-site. Your mission is to interpret the drawing, physically on site.

That is why,

We were being taught accounting
We were being taught structural engineering
We were being taught architectural design
We were being taught electrical technology
We were being taught carpentry works and wood design
We were being taught bricklaying
We were being taught law in contact management
We were being taught building services
We were being taught soil technology
We were being taught land surveying
We were being taught estate management

We must understand everything and everyone...

I can go on and on but why shld I?

You wanna take a dose, go study building technology!

Bit the truth is, the most lucrative among building technology, architecture, structural engineering, estate management and quantity surveying is the last one- Quantity surveying.

I always wished I didn't shed off that course after my ND. But hey, I am a farmer now, a builder, a serial and dynamic entrepreneur. Who cares abt the yeye certificate?









I do

Don't mind them, idleness and recession is worrying them all.

fuckingAyaya:
see them with deir different up and down attires upon she came to seek refuge chai AFONJA YY

Do you know what is the most dissapointing thing about your post: you descended so low to be a scaughter in Lagos, Afonja's headquarters despite their shortcoming and to me that makes you a shameless ingrate.

Preserve the value in that Money.
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Price: 180 m. negotiable.
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olokeded:
http://punchng.com/breaking-construction-vice-presidents-gatehouse-costs-n250m-melaye/

www.nairaland.com/attachments/4817549_2_jpegea571676ce9b75b0730a5d56350ae93e

I offer myself to build it at one third of the estimate and with better quality.Guaranteed!

osahonmk:
A full system collapse occurred yesterday evening at 6.00 pm when the country power generation recorded zero MW power supply which resulted in total blackout, with average power generation crashing to 1, 618 megawatts hour (MWH), down from 2, 904 MWh generated just before the system collapsed dropping generation to zero megawatts.

This has been one of the worse performing week for the power sector as multiple system collapse were recorded this week, information obtained by Energywatchng from System Operators a branch of Transmission company of Nigeria (TCN) shows that generation level collapse to 10MW on the Sunday, 15th January. Moreover, another system collapse occurred on Monday, 16th were generation dropped to 108MW, same system collapse occurred on Wednesday when generation dropped to 42MW. However, the daily operational report from the Nigeria Electricity System Operator, an arm of the Transmission Company of Nigeria (TCN), showed that nine electricity generation companies, GENCOs, sent out zero electricity to the grid.

The nine GENCOs are Gbarain, Rivers Independent Power Project, IPP, Trans Amadi, ASCO, and A.E.S. Others are Olorunsogo IPP, Ibom, Gerugu NIPP and Afam IV- V. In 2016, a similar incidence of total systems collapse happened 16 times.


“The huge debts owed for gas, and recent attacks of gas facilities are limiting supply to the power plants. For instance, an oil/gas pipeline facility blew up this week in Ughelli, Delta State and it connects critical Generation Companies (GenCos) like Ughelli, Sapele, Benin GenCos,” the official said.

http://www.energywatchng.com/total-blackout-power-generation-falls-0-mw/

Yet elementary physics taught us electricity is one of the most abundant element in nature. It is present naturally in us even merely rubbing two hands together generates static electricity.

PinkStarsFallIn:
Have you ever had to exchange words with a die hard MMM member?
Those ones u look at while they are talking so pationately and you wondering
If they have brains at all or they are high on oxytocin

I am not at war with MMMites, I am a Nigerian and I know how hard and difficult it is to live in a country
Where 1 dollar is 495naira, or where kerosine goes for as high as 500naira
Or where petrol sells as high as 145naira and even on d vedge of more increase.
Our politicians and leaders are thieves and our financial institutions are not helping us either
But in d face of all this, do we really need to start feeding on each other's flesh to survive?

MMM kills but yet, it is not illegal to engage in it, if you wish to engage in it fine, but please stop insulting our inteligence and cajoling other less Witty members of the populace with the following ideologies

1. MMM OPERATES ON CROWDFUNDING like seriously? Do you even know what crowd funding is? Do you know crowd funding conflicts with the main ideology of MMM which is "peer to peer system"
What is crowdfunding?
Crowdfunding is by definition, “the practice of funding a project or
venture by raising many small amounts of money from a large number of people,
typically via the Internet.”

Yes, MMM involves members who are friends,customers,colleagues,neighbours,that we know, but are we realy pooling resources together? Are we aiming for a particular sum in capital to engage on a project for on MMM?
*Crowd funding must involve a central account(s) on which everyone who wants to pool funds must pay into those designated account. Does MMM have a central account? I thought you say it is peer to peer, so where do you "pool" your funds?
*Crowd funding must have a perceived sum in view in which members can know how much has been pooled together at any time
Does MMM has this feature? Can we know how much has been invested in d system?
Crowd funding is an example of when we contributed for OJBs surgery not each n everyone paying to individual accounts n calling it crowdfunding.

2. MMM is like your local esusu or credit n thrift society: I laugh really, I heard this from a graduate n I was amazed.
Do you know how a reasonable credit society works?
A member contributes 1k for 5monts =5k
He asks for help. He can be allowed 100% of what he had put into the society. I.e 10k
This is where mmmites definition stops. They wunt tell you that you are to payback the whole 10k
You collected + interest even tho small like a meager 6% ontop. So, you must payback 10,600 naira back into the society.
Is this how MMM operates? No, you put 5k in MMM u get 6500 + 20$ and you are not under obligation to pay back.
Even when u desire to plough back u can decide to put in 1k, so inverably u card away with d rest, but mind u, u still have
300 naira to enjoy from that your 1k at the end of d month. So, please where is the balance in d system?
MMM operates on the basis of free money while credit society operates on the basis of complete restitution with additional interest
Payback for its members. So, please it does not work like a cooperative society.
Even in the normal ajo u do in ur office. The fact that u collect 1st 50k from a 5 man ajor means u will pay back 10k in 5months.
That is a balanced system of needs.

3. Provide help and Get help : this is what some use to deceive you that u are a philanthropist in the system.
That your name is in the hall of fame as a benevolent member of the society.
You provide help of 100k and you in turn Get help of 130k. This is what the Pharisees n saducess will have engaged in in Jesus time
Sheer hypocrisy. You are only robbing someone in a digital sense cos your 30k is not justified on any ground.
This is why this scheme is plain immoral even though not illegal.

4. MMM has made people millionaires, it saves lives(financial independence) : guys no one is disputing you can make millions on MMM
Someone said if not for MMM he/she would not have gotten his present job. He had excess money from someone that has
Just paid him and as such could travel to a distant place to take an interview.
MMM helped him do a world class wedding, buy his first car, complete his new house, revive his business.
Yes, it does this. But for each n every of those success stories, lies hundreds of people with woes tale.
How different are you from that person that went to do juju so other people's success will come to him?
You have only gained n enriched yourself with other people pain n poverty. You my friend are killing people's destiny.

5.MMM is a business/investment after all you have seen from 1-4 I need not beat too much about this, it is neither both.
You just climbing other people's head to make it, my brother, it's a desperation for money that is driving you into this
The same desperation that makes people do money rituals and sell human parts for money.
Yours however is a digital and online ritual, that is how bad it is if u let your mind free n see MMM and others for what they are.

Gone are the days people post life changing information on investment and business section.
Alot have learnt skills and trade on NL here, I personally learnt importation and graphic designing here.
I learnt hardcore excel here, I got ideas from smart people here, but it's all on a decline because of MMM
All u see is, invest 1000 and get 100,000 in 24hrs, please all this must stop, if MMM dies, dey all die too
And intuitive people can come back online to share ideas. Let's use wisdom to help ourselves out not feeding on each other through useless referral bonuses. It's killing our creativity.
Thank you

Cc seun, lalasticlala, mynd44 too much education can never be enough it's lack of education that can kill

Bros or Sis, if you do all this for something, well I understand, man must wack, but if all these is for nothing because of MMM, honestly you are too idle. Please you can do better as internet marketer, freelance writer etc

AlamienDagash:
Here is a question, when a drunk driver causes a car accident, we never blame the car manufactures 4d violent action of that driver, this is bcuz we understand we cannot blame an entire car company that produce millions of safe vehicles just bcuz one of their car iz hijacked by a reckless person whu used it 2 cause harm. so what right do we have to blame an entire religion of over 1.6billions peaceful pple bcuz of the actions of a relatively insignficant few.. i hv been thinkin about this for a very long perieod of time, why is it now, even in movies, the gangster,terrorist are mostly moslem (why muslim always?) some whud say muslim in kaduna,kano etc beat people in d month of ramadan just bcuz they saw them eatin or drinkin, let me tell u those are so called muslim, cuz they are totally illitrate. the problem we are facin is that some of moslem acts bad,shows hatred towards non muslim, and that is a big problem.
hate cannot drive out hate only luv can do that -martin luther king jr.
To Be Continued....

You have spoken well. But be more sincere or real as the case may be on whether Boko Harams are Muslims or not.
Besides this sermon should be more applicable to those Muslim's who embrace violent version of Islam. pls help get it to them.
Together we can change the world.

Aminat508:
See earlier thread here https://www.nairaland.com/3542639/400-level-uniosun-student-found



Source, : http://www.amiloaded.com/2017/01/read-full-story-behind-death-of-uniosun.html?m=0

This is exactly why JESUS came into the world. If you are not in Christ, you are as vulnerable.

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tiwaz:
Source: http://www.monitor.co.ug/News/National/Officer-buried-Shs200m-bribe-God/688334-3511412-btf5qi/index.html

Typical of Africa

seguno2:
I am sure that you can show us from the history of our oyinbo masters, where God came down to help them "defeat principalities and powers of darkness". Not so?

Bros it's like we will need divine intervention in this our own case o

dabossman:
I dey come comment.

Yes, I'm back. So let me get this straight. Are these GENCO's not private companies who were giving licences to generate power? Now, this N460 billion debt owed to gas companies, was it incurred by the GENCO's or did they inherit it from the government when the sector was unbundled some 2-3 years ago? We need answers to this questions. If some of these so called GENCO's are not capable of doing the business they signed up for, they might as well pack up and go, and their licenses be rescinded. And the same goes for the DISCO's too.

As for the government, they need to bring in real power sector players into this industry,not all these charlatans that are only out to exploit Nigerians. And they must also create a more conducive environment for these GENCO's and DISCO's to flourish. Wecan't continue with this one step forward, two steps back madness.

For those blaming Fashola, sorry but your Minister of Power is a lame duck who can only regulate the sector,formulate policies and issue out licenses to private sector players. The only part of the power supply chain under his ministry is the Transmission Company of Nigeria (TCN). In other words, he can only transmit what is generated by the private GENCO's. I doubt that he can generate 1MW on his own without private sector participation. A review of the whole sector is needed.

With God we shall defeat principalities and powers of darkness in Nigeria

ObiOmaMu:
Yebowale shared these photos of her friend whose husband beat to a pulp till he broke her ankle a day before last Christmas on Twitter.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/01/nigerian-man-brutally-beats-wife-breaks-ankle-photos.html

though it is written God hates divorce, but I think it's better than murder.

Ugosample:
What is this one saying?

he is a bush man

rhymaholic:
A wedding billed to happen on 27th December 2016 was cancelled after the man Izuchukwu Ekweanua found out his proposed wife to be Uchechukwu Obi was still seeing another man days before the wedding. The traditional and white wedding was supposed to happen at Nnewi but got cancelled. The man have since announced on his Facebook page that the wedding is cancelled and the woman's cousin have confirmed what broke the proposed wedding off.

Sometimes I cannot imagine how some people cope with double dating. It seems impracticable to me or maybe I am bit old fashioned. lol.

Genesis-the Seed of the woman who shall bruise the head of the serpent. Genesis 3:15
Exodus-The Pass over Lamb. Exodus 12:1-7
Leviticus- High priest. Leviticus 21:10
Numbers- Rock that produced water in the desert Numbers 20: 8-11
Deuteronomy-He the one who decides who is blessed or cursed. Deuteronomy.23:8
Joshua-Commander of the army of the Lord. Joshua 5:13-14
Judges Faithful Judge Judges 2:18
Ruth-hope of the hopeless. Ruth 1:16
1 Samuel- all in one, Prophet, Priest, King
2 Samuel- Just God full of mercy and love. 2 Samuel 11, 12
1king- Beginning of Knowledge and Wisdom. 1 king 10:24
2 king- Consuming Fire 2 King 1:10-13
1Chronicles- Son of David, root of Jesse
2 Chronicles –the king whose throne is for ever
Ezra-Covenant keeping God
Nehemiah-the restorer of lost destiny
Esther-our banner of protection
Job-Faithful and Merciful God
Psalm-The one who inhabitest the praises of Israel. Psalm 22:3
Proverb-our wisdom
Ecclesiastes-he is the True life Meaning
Song of Solomon-Fountain of Agape love
Isaiah- Wonderful, Counsellor, The mighty God, The everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace. Isaiah 9:6
Jeremiah- the Spirit of Prophecy
Lamentations-Sacrificial Lamb for our sins
Ezekiel-1:24 The Almighty.
Daniel-The fourth person in fiery furnace.
Hosea-faithful bridegroom to the lost bride
Joel- the one who poured out His Spirit in the last days. Joel 2:28-29
Amos-He is the righteous judge
Obadiah-the deliverer and restorer of house .of Jacob
Jonah- the mission commissioner
Micah- Trusted friend and confidant guide. Micah 7:5
Nahum-proclaims future world peace we cannot even imagine
Habakkuk-the one whose knowledge shall fill the earth as water covers the sea. Habakkuk 2:14
Zephaniah-the Lord of the Great Day
Haggai: the owner of silver and gold. haggai 2:8
Zechariah- he is the wall of fire round about Jerusalem. Zechariah 2:5
Malachi-sun of righteousness who brings healing. Malachi 4:2
Matthew- he is the Emmanuel (God is with us)
Mark- the son of God. Mark 1:11
Luke- He is Jesus, the Son of man
John- he is Christ, the Son of God
Acts-the same Jesus that will come the like manner He was taken to heaven
Romans- the righteousness of God
1 Corinthians-the Christ, the power and the wisdom of God. 1 Corinthians 1:24
2 Corinthians-the Christ, before whose judgment seat we shall all appear.
Galatians- He is Christ who lives in us. Galatians 2:20
Ephesians- the Christ, head of all things
Philippians-the joy of our life
Colossians- all that is all. Colossians 3:11
1 Thessalonians- the one that will descend from heaven in the last days. 1 Thessalonians 4:16
2 Thessalonians- the one who shall destroy and consume the Wicked in the last days. 2 Thessalonians 2:8
1 Timothy-Savior of the worst sinners
2 Timothy- the one who shall judge the quick and dead 2 Timothy 4:1
Titus- Savior, whose glorious appearance we hope for.
Philemon- He is our consolation in persecution
Hebrew –our High Priest, after the order of Melchisedec, who the same yesterday, today and forever
James-He is our consolation in trial and temptation
1 peter –Our hope in times of suffering
2 Peter-the one who guards us from suffering
1 John- the greater one in us than he in the world
2 John- Christ who came in the flesh
3 John –The Lord who prospers us body, soul and spirit
Jude-the one who is able to keep us from falling from faith.
Revelation- Kings of Kings and Lord of Lords.
The Alpha and the Omega.
The beginning and the end.
He is coming again and the One who makes all things new.

easymancfc:
The level of ignorance of history is appalling, some people think Christianity stopped in acts 28 and resumed with their Pastor in the 20th or 21th century...

Concerning the Cannibals statements:
the Bible states clearly in Mathew, mark and Luke that Jesus said "this is my body" "this is my blood", in John 6 he says to eat his flesh and drink his blood Even though people left him for it he didn't call them back to say it was a symbol.. Paul talks about same in 1 cor 10 and 11. If you don't believe then it is you are calling Jesus a liar or saying he didn't mean what he said.

On being around in during the apostles time, Yes indeed, No other Christian religion was in existence then, definitely not these Nigerian Churches.

On the Trinity, iYou obviously don't know history and scripture if you think it was for a pagan emperor it was done but rather to settle the issue of Christ's divinity .. Go and study about Arias and the Arian Heresy and the Council of Nicea

The only comment I have is that I don't see Christianity as Religion, but as a way of modeling man's life after Christ Life.

bebe2:
Hello all

I want to your opinion on this estimate, i think it's its high but my contractor insists there is no west we could do it cheaper.

Foundation for 6 flats, i.e Of 2bedroom each. 3flats ground floor and 3flats upstairs.

Is there any area of this estimate that we might be able to reduce to make a saving?

Spydder880
Mufutau55
Erico2k2

All experienced builders in the house pls chip in

Roughly if it is to dpc (German flr.) it may be OK. but if it's not it's on the high side. esp the supervision.

Well said my Father in the Lord. Quote me wrongly and u won't see the end of this year

aah for Christ sake.

iksmoore:
I have taken a closer look at the roof trusses of the collapsed building and i cannot but agree that there is a failure in the conceptual design analysis. The loads were not distributed uniformly and there was no support at the center hence the collapse of the roof.Authorities concern should step in immediately to avert reoccurrence.

From the pics. I can see the problem lies with structural integrity of the steel beams and trusses. From the pics most of the main beam and bars are deformed under their own dead weight, let alone the strain they will experience under imposed load of roof, wind etc

The people are ready to endure but my sincere advice to Mr. President is not to be anti people. If you cannot support, then allow initiatives that will help the people and do not intrefare because of inability to do due diligence research. A word is enough for the wise.

Luke 10:30 And Jesus answering said, A certain man went down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and fell among thieves, which stripped him of his raiment, and wounded him, and departed, leaving him half dead. 10:31 And by chance there came down a certain priest that way: and when he saw him, he passed by on the other side. 10:32 And likewise a Levite, when he was at the place, came and looked on him, and passed by on the other side. 10:33 But a certain Samaritan, as he journeyed, came where he was: and when he saw him, he had compassion on him, 10:34 And went to him, and bound up his wounds, pouring in oil and wine, and set him on his own beast, and brought him to an inn, and took care of him. 10:35 And on the morrow when he departed, he took out two pence, and gave them to the host, and said unto him, Take care of him; and whatsoever thou spendest more, when I come again, I will repay thee. 10:36 Which now of these three, thinkest thou, was neighbour unto him that fell among the thieves?
Let's ask ourselves, as leaders, followers, organisations, corporate body, individuals.
What are you doing to help. How is what you are doing helping people. Infact, a good way of assessing efficiency of any social system is by identifying if the majority are benefiting form it as opposed to minority. One great mind once said, "greatest goods is the one that got to greatest number of people.
WHO YOU HELP

His humble background despite a noble lineage Matthew 13:55, Matthew 1:17
His humility despite early success in ministry matthew 24;9
His respect for humanity both rich and the poor, great and small. Matthew 8:5-8
His fairness to all. Mathew 14:1-21, Luke 7:12
His disposition in standing for the TRUTH. John 8:1-7
His refusal to take advantage of ministerial success to enrich himself. John 6:15
His subject to constituted authority. Mark 12:14-17
His major focus on knowledge, wisdom and power of God rather than materialism. Luke 12: 15-36, Matthew 23:23
His transparency with finance in his ministry John 13: 29
The sophistication of his ministry organization structure Matthew 10; 1
His availability to commoners despite large size of his ministry. Mark 2:4, Matthew 20:30-32
His control over bureaucracy. Matthew 19:13-15
His simplicity in public appearance Matthew 26: 48
His dependence on divine protection despite the general insecurity of His time, Luke 22:49
His creative and unique style yet humble way of projecting His public image. Luke 19:37-38
He has more friends among the poor-total grassroots public figure. John11:47-48
Humanitarian service provider. Matthew 15:38
Great human resources manager John 13:5
He laid his life down for his followers. John 15:14, Romans 5:

mikaj:
pardon

Meaning from our signature you can guess what we can do for you as far as built environment projects are concerned.

mikaj:
Send me a mail so we could talk about the project.

The location is Ikeja.

We can be your construction manager

uchkochi:
NOT PAYING YOUR TITHE IS LIKE PUTTING A GUN ON THE FORE HEAD OF GOD AND ROBBING HIM. YOU NEVER GO FREE. BECAUSE EARTHLY DEVOURERS WILL ALWAYS TAKE IT FROM YOU STILL.

Beloved, there is a power to get wealth and it resides only with God. He is the owner of the earth, the silver and the gold. Wealth does not include only money, but health, protection, peace, joy, honour, wisdom and eternal life. What is the power to get wealth. The power to get wealth is tithing. The tithe is compulsory. It is ten percent of your increase. The tithe is compulsory because whether you refuse to pay it to God, you some how pay it indirectly through treatments for sicknesses and diseases, payment for losses and misfortunes. It is either you pay it to God willingly or the devil takes it from you unknowingly. The above scripture says; that you shall remember the LORD. To remember the LORD is to give HIM ten percent of what comes into your life as increase. Giving God 10 percent multiplies the remaining 90 percent that it results in wealth. You also get other fringe benefits like divine health, divine provision, protection, divine ideas and many other things that money cannot buy.

But why is it that many don't pay tithe, even those that pay it don't pay it regularly and correctly, and some pay it but with the wrong attitude. The first thing you must know about tithing that will give you grace to pay it no matter the amount is to understand that it is not your own. If your receive 10,000; do not see the complete 10,000 as your's, 9000 belongs to you while 1000 belongs to God. Do not calculate the tithe as your money, that is where many people miss it. Malachi 3:10, Matthew 23:23.

The more you are committed to tithing, the more God brings opportunities your way.

pls preacher I want us to know that this is information age
also know that teaching on forum is different from preaching in local assemblies where you are surounded by yes men.
The mathew 23:23 you quoted caution the people in countext not to misplace priorities by knowing assessing divine blessing involves more than merely payning monetary tithe. It involves weightier matters such as law, judment, mercy and faith.
We shall mislead a lot of folks by connecting divine blessing to monetary tithe only, if they obey and yet did not have the promised blessing. Sometimes I feel the local assemblies overflog the issue of tithe only because they see it as a major source of income and not because they really love the people.

sarrki:
In as much I don't condone criminal act
Both the robbers and the people that set them on fire
They committed same crime

Don't blame the people but the corrupt public institutions

AdoraAmadi:
A Facebook user, Akande Thomas, shared this experience of an MMM participant who claims God rejected his tithe from MMM earnings and clearly told him Christians involved in the scheme have had their names removed from the book of life.

Read post below:

The Reality of MMM.
(From a participant)

When I was initially introduced to MMM, I went to God in prayer to seek for HIS approval. HE clearly told me that I cannot engage in it because those Christians involved in the scheme have had their names removed from the book of life. I was seriously troubled and at the same time afraid as I prayed passionately. As soon as I finished praying, I thought within myself ‘could this voice restraining me be of God?’. Just as I was meditating, another voice came saying; ‘It can not be of God but rather from the devil trying to tie you down in perpetual poverty for the rest of your life.’ So I quickly neglected the former voice for the latter.

I decided to try the scheme with 250k. At the month end, I was so happy when I saw the return of the investment. Could life had been better than this? God punish the devil that would’ve restrained me from this ‘bumper harvest’. Then I decided to pay my tithe. Just as I was planning to make the withdrawal, God ministered to me – ‘I don’t have anything to do with such money.’ I broke down in tears regretting what I have done in disobeying God. I pleaded for forgiveness of which I know HE has mercifully answered. I closed my MMM account but till now I don’t just know what to do with the money God has rejected.

I’m sharing this as a result of the concern for the brethren in this last days. Though some people may decide to be asking rhetoric questions but I believe serious minded Christians will go to God to also hear from HIM.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/12/god-will-remove-your-name-from-book-of.html

Please I have similar project to MMM that will help people and I need sponsor, kindly mobilise others like you donate MMM money for the cause of this project. This one is approved by God. God bless as you do.

bamisepeters:
It might sound somehow though, but let's face reality because this is very common among us. Not just the married ones, those courting are often caught in the act.

Even if you claim you are not a jealous type you still do this once in a while either by error or willingly.

I remembered the day i did this, i was fingling with her phone, trying to set some applications she needed and then a whatsapp chat came in which i couldn't understand.

I don't want to be left in the dark, i had to open and see what had been said to understand, but thank God it is not the one that gives heart attack because that is what you can possibly get from spying into your spouse's chat.

I don't think it is doubt of trust to do this but not advisable.

It is not just men that do this, women fall prey too, i don't want to say women do more, yet, they claim they will never touch your phone without your permission.

But immediately you come out of bathroom you will notice change of position of your device while the men will pray you get something to do in the kitchen and you forget your phone behind.

It is human, trust is not the issue but curiosity. We want to know what they are doing behind us to be sure if we are safe, yet, we know it is not right as it can cause HBP, unsettled argument and others of there kinds.

The question is ; have you ever spied on your spouse's phone? Why?


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/11/moment-of-truth-have-you-ever-spied-on.html

I am married and a believer. I harbour no secret. My phone is open to my wife and my social media is open Hence I reserve the right to access her accounts as well. We must watch each others backs. That's partnership. When you are about to go down I pull you up. Jolt you back to your senses. Thats how to roll. But if I don't have access to your secret world it can become weakness and later temptation.

As rough rule of thumb, pay 10 percent of the contract sum.

Enuguboy4nsk:
you're correct at the emboldened... nothing like Afonja land...All lands belong to Nigerian Government including the oil wells in se/ss

so go and sleep

It's easier said than done.