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four4:
Base on our two major religion perspective (both Christian and Islamic), it is not possible they called it demonic but base on our traditional religions and believe it is possible

four4:
Base on our two major religion perspective (both Christian and Islamic), it is not possible they called it demonic but base on our traditional religions and believe it is possible

Tolexander:
The guy that poured water has to be sued and punished!

There is no law that states they should not have sex in the bush.

The early men and women were having sex in the bush

freeze001:
The statutory number of days within which to appeal is 14 days. Provided it wasn't appealed after 2 weeks, the time of appeal is in order.



Why would the judgment of the Court of Appeal serve as a bitter lesson if it did not strip them of what they considered the gains of the judgment of the State High Court which it set aside?

Philosophia:
Hello Romancelanders,

Please help me! I have a very serious issue on my hands. I opened this account because of this, for advice from you. It's actually a long story, but I will try to keep it short.

I have been in a relationship with my gf for 3yrs+ now. We had both not been ready for marriage at the time. She said she had things that she wanted to achieve so she would give herself 5yrs. I felt the same way too but I was looking at my age to settle down as 29 or 30. She was almost 21 at the time, I was 24 at the time.

When I met her she was a shaken, frightened, stubborn and love-starved young lady. Her parents were trying to force into marriage with a "family friend's" son whom she did not like plus she was not ready to settle down at the time. Her father is a retired military man and would use extreme measures like locking her up in a room for days. Anyways, I supported her in everyway I could at the time even at a time meeting the so-called "family friend's" son. I did not intend to get into a relationship at the time but certain things happened and I began to fall in love with her plus she needed love and care so badly. She is a very smart, motivated and beautiful young lady.

We got into a relationship and with time, the pressure as regards marrying the guy died or so I thought. From then till now, we have both been striving hard to make things get better. She was trying to run a business while I was working at a small magazine company. Unfortunately I admit, even though I was not earning much at the magazine, I was careless with my finances. I would spend on her, us and on a couple of mundane things but the bulk was on her and us.

Well, the financial crunch hit and I lost my job being owed several months in back-salary. I had very little savings. Things were not going too well with her in her business either. And so what little savings I had plus borrowed money from my parents joined with her own funds(including borrowed money), we started a business. We have been almost a year into the business now. Things are so dull. She hardly comes to the office anymore. I manage to go with little funds raised from teaching at minor places plus my parents support. We have been trying a "new" field though which seems a bit positive.

You have the back story now. Here is the problem.

Of recent, her body language and speech + whatsapp chat seemed to be dodgy, non-committal and atimes even coated with disdain. I knew something was wrong. I had wanted to talk to her and she said she wanted to discuss something with me as well, but she had basically refused to show-up when I call her out. Well, I was not so much a fan of going to her house because of chances of meeting her mum plus her several siblings But I braved it and showed up at her house on Sunday. I asked her what the matter was.

She told me of how her family was pressuring her and almost everyone she met was telling her to try and settle down. She said how she knows that I am not ready to settle down anytime soon. She said she had been praying about it and she has received an answer that she should settle down and that she do so before this time next year. She wants to get married before her birthday. People, she said several things and I said several things and I walked out angrily and dazed but I just gave the highlight of the issue. I could not wrap my head properly around it for a while but later I calmed down and I asked her a few questions.

It seems her mind is made up on marriage. She says she would prefer if it was me because she loves me, but if not, it is the will of God. She said some other things. I am just dazed and I don't know how to take it or how to act or what to do.

My life is not where I want it to be. I don't have the resources to turn things around right now. I am in a quagmire. Please Help!

Yormit442:
sure,u were with the lady for just few weeks.My own case is so funny I was unable to express my feeling to a level mate through out my stay in the University 100l -500l

ogtavia:
Bro,she is really going through some emotional strain...keep your distance but don't be too far,help her get over you but don't be mean....be firm with her and don't give out any hopeful vibes.....she will definitely move on...she is just finding it difficult to cope with the pain...you can hook her up with any of your responsible friends...not anyone who will exploit her or take undue advantage of her though...

ogtavia:
This is one of the saddest mysteries and paradox of human inter-gender relationship....boy likes girl a lot, girl doesn't reciprocate...girl likes boy,boy doesn't reciprocate....

Truth,if one gives it his/her best shot without any luck then it's best to move on..if as a lady n,you give him your body,gifts and practically worship him,he still might not love you...conversely,if as a man,you give her gifts,become the kind of man any woman will want and practically worship her,she still might not love you....its best at this point,not to hang around anymore,because,beyond this point,all that lies therein is heartbreak,more heartbreak and emotional torture....

Make no mistake,she doesn't hate Him and He doesn't Hate her....He/She isn't just in the same place with the other person emotionally,he/she doesn't have any emotional connection with the other,He/She can't give/provide the emotional response the other party yearns for..if he/she yields at some point,it might be out of pity and pity isn't a good foundation for a relationship....

It's just life...I have experienced both(girl likes boy,boy doesn't reciprocate in like manner,guy is crazy about girl,girl doesn't give a damn if he exists)..

Move on...true love might be around the corner...one thing is sure,you can't force anyone to love you,you can't buy anyone's love either...everyone deserves to be loved for what it's worth and not out of pity...

emmykk:
instead of the current most educated,intelligent and economically ground emir to contest for president he settled for village things.
letting buhari the grandpa without understanding of economics who ought to be cuddling grand children to going here and there making blunder

Integral2xdx:
What is the cut-off mark please? My friends got 48,49,52 and 57 respectively