Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...
Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.
triple996: D story is not complete. I know our soldiers can b unprofessional atimes bt how can a soldier jus beat u up like that 4 no good reason. The story is not complete
Useless idiot commenting without reading the story.
eloquently: Do you know many people hate using condoms now? Many people love having sex raw unlike in those days where people were scared and may love to use protection. Do you know some fresh people are HIV positive and don't know about it? Some may still be catwalking with large breasts or curves; some may have six packs and biceps, and may still be HIV positive. Do you know some fresh ladies and guys are taking anti-retroviral drugs? Do you know that when you meet these fresh people, you may want to sleep with them without condom because of their freshness, yummy body, big buttocks, muscles and how healthy they look..
Let me tell you two encounters: I know a former neighbor lady that had big breast, and I think I have lusted after it; maybe more than once; though I was younger then. Imagine if she allowed me and I slept with her. She died of HIV/AIDS. I also know a married woman. One day she was busy and she tied wrapper. I was looking at her buttocks lustfully. She died of HIV/AIDS.
Mr and Mrs raw sex. Please avoid pre-marital sex. They said "AIDS no dey show for face"
O boy na only u know aunty ur neighbour wey get big breast and married woman wey tied wrapper wey HIV killed.. how u take know na HIV kill them.. Oga u sure say no be HIV go kill u too .
22o62021: My girlfriend has been faithful but I just decided to taste another babe.
Now I have contracted gonorrhoea, i feel pains while urinating and a discharge from my penis.
I couldn’t risk having sex with my girlfriend as I noticed it but she forced me to have sex with her last night.
Now I’m spending a lot of money to treat the both of us.
I feel bad.
The only problem I have with you is having sex with ur girlfriend .. U can just tell her u noticed something unusual in ur private part and u need to find out what it is I believe she will understand and u can treat urself U dont deserve that innocent lady in ur life I hope she understand be4 it is too late
postbox: WhatsApp has become the source of many online conversations and is used to communicate with family, colleagues friends, and new acquittance and just like in physical meetings and discussions where conflicts and argument takes place, conflicts and argument takes place here and can lead to an unhealthy disagreement.
Blocking a contact on WhatsApp is a means to limit communication with someone who you don’t want to have conversations anymore. People get blocked on WhatsApp for different reasons best known to those who block other people.
Here are ways to know if you become a victim of the action that stops an interaction with someone who blocks you:
1. Visit their user’s profile You should visit the WhatsApp user’s profile, where you can see the person’s name, profile photo, and when they were last seen online.
The trick here is that you cannot see any of that information, other than the name if the person blocked you from chatting or calling them.
An easy way to check whether you have been blocked by the user is to tap on their profile. If you have been blocked, you won’t be able to see when the person was online for the last time. Instead of their profile photo, you will see a standard grey and white icon that is given to ever user without a profile photo by default.
2. Send A Message Or Make A Call WhatsApp functions as a messaging and calling app, so when you want to know whether someone has blocked you, you should try texting them and if you send a message to a contact who has blocked you, you will see one checkmark, meaning it was sent from your phone. However, the one checkmark will never turn into two checkmarks, so the message never gets delivered to the person
Another method is placing a call and this can be an effective method of checking whether you are blocked by someone. When you try calling someone who blocked you, WhatsApp will allow you to do it just to conceal the fact that you had been blocked. However, the person will never pick up.
There are other reasons why your calls may be unanswered but if it happens continually then blocked.
3. Add The User To A Group This method is the most effective method or approach to knowing if you have been blocked. While the other methods described above don’t provide an actual assurance of giving you the result you need because they can happen as a result of network problems or the person’s lack of desire to update their profile, this last method is the most effective one.
When you have a feeling that someone blocked you on WhatsApp, what you can do is create a group and try adding the person to your group.
If you haven’t been blocked, you will have no problem doing that but If it happens that you were blocked, you will see a message saying that you are not authorized to add that contact. This is the assurance needed to know that someone blocked you from having conversations on WhatsApp with them.
These are three major ways to discover if you have been blocked by someone and it is was written with the hope you find it useful as you interact with people.
omolola100: Whenever an American citizen wake up in the morning, they will pray that God should bless America.
This country is turning to something else and i dont think Nigeria can ever balance again, my cousin who works in a private school got back home after the proprietress sacked her for asking the student to pray for the redemption of Nigeria, and also telling the student to observe a minute silence for the COAS and the military personnel that lost their life in the plane crash.
Is it a crime to pray for one's nation again? The woman is an enemy of the nation for her to have rejected prayer for our dear nation.
Over sabi can destroy.. The Children you asked to pray knows nothing about Nigeria situation and all they look up to are dere parent who provide all they need.. To make matter worst u asked for 1 minute silence for COAS I'm very sure 85% of dose kids do not know the full meaning of COAS neither do they know the person that died. Thou the school authority action was harsh who knows may be they have been looking for ways to downsize dere working force and the lady jst play to the game. Always do Normal ....
BonPatrick: A mother of two who pleaded anonymity has taken to social media to ask members of the public whether it was wrong to ask her husband to do the dishes. According to her, her husband lost his business to scam and she has been the one catering for the family with the little she earns from her restaurant business. She said: “Truly, My husband was the one who opened the restaurant for me, I cook very well and I still do my cooking by myself as I only direct my staffs on what to do.My husband lost his business to scam and since then it’s been me carrying the responsibilities, most of my staffs left because I could not pay them and at some point, all of them left and I had to do everything by myself.
“My husband is doing nothing yet, he just sits at home and maybe go pick the kids from school and all, so yesterday I had lots of customers in the shop, I was doing everything by myself, so as soon as my husband walked in, I asked him to help me rush to wash a few plates while I serve, and he looked at me in some strange way, I repeated myself and he slapped me in public, and walked out.
“I ignored the embarrassment and even most of my customers left, when I got home I noticed that he moved his things, I called his phone and he said he is in his friends place till he gets a job he will come home, that I should take care of the kids.
“He cut the call I tried to call and the next he blocked me.
“What did I do wrong, who is supposed to be upset? I just need to clear my conscience.”
U dont deserve that man... What if he did not show up wont u get things done.. Useless and ungrateful women everywhere once u loose ur source of income dere love go jst vanish.. Women no get any true love na money dey motivate them.
family6644: I need serious advise from experienced nairalanders, please forgive my lengthy message because it requires detailed explanations.
I lost my wife exactly 3 months ago, 4 years of relationship and 13 years of marriage with her before she passed on, she left behind 3kids, 13yr old girl 7yr and 3yr old boys. I understand marriages are full of their challenges but we have been through the journey and we came out victorious having a loving and happy home, a union other partners appreciates.
My late wife was so organized and we trainned my kids to be independent while she travels on local business trips. So I just needed to continue our family habit of buying and stocking everything at home while they manage themselves with the help of an older maid who has been part of the family for many years, in short, we are faring quite well as I continue to mourn my wife and carry on with life.
Here is the problem, from a lot of condolence messages coming in on my Facebook, I had the chance to reply some of them 2weeks ago, I met this single mother of two who invited my kids to her daughter's birthday party, i was reluctant but she said it is time to start taking the kids out since they are yet to resume school, exactly what they needed at that point was the usual outing which has been missing for a while since their mother's sickness and after her demise, approx 6months in total. She said it's not a loud party that she needed only my kids for the small sitting room party.
I decided, went to the party with the kids, it was fun for the kids, I have not seen them happy like that in a long while, it made me happy too, they fell in love with the two sisters and their mother all like a miracle, my little 3year old boy started calling her mommy, others follow and it all seem like a family reunion. We left late at night with her girls asking that they meet again the next day which was a Sunday. To cut it short, my kids and hers agreed to meet the next day except for me. To be honest, the lady is a nice and lovely person to be with, she's a realtor who can work from home, she's real and beautiful, she has been a single mother for 4yrs after her husband travelled out and abandoned them to marry another woman, that's according to her.
She called me that her kids could not allow her rest, they said if we can't come, she should bring them to our house, I mildly rejected but i was persuaded by my daughter and my first son to have them around, I could see that they have bonded quite well, I want my kids to be happy too, that's what I have always wanted for them so I agreed and gave them our address. To cut the story short, I find it impossible to separate the two families that has come together to become one, when they were leaving back to their house my kids pleaded with me to allow them go with mommy to her house, I understand that is real because she's lovely with kids. I had the confidence to trust my kids with someone for the first time in my life. They didn't want to come back, I had to go and pick them up the next day, all of them made sure they came back home with me, we started living together as a family and everyone was enjoying it.
It became an automatic affair with her, I was worried about it been too early, I had to involve few of my friends to seek opinions, some were happy that i could get a good mother for my kids this soon, others asked me to stop the family union and give it a little time to study her character. I suggested some space but she felt very bad, she thinks I am sending them away. I had to allow them stay while I use the opportunity to observe the new found love and family.
12days after, I realize that in a bid to reorganize me and help me to move ahead in life, she totally disregards anything that concerns my late wife whom I still hold dear to my heart, same as my daughter and my adopted daughter, I don't like to address her as a maid. We loved and cherished my late wife, everything she introduced seems to be strange to the norms of the family. If I try to raise my concerns for her to adjust, she will simply tell me that the dead is dead and I should just forget everything about her including whatever she stood for as a mother and wife.
If I try to talk some senses into her to make her understand that brooding over the dead is different from honouring and respecting the deseased, she gets really angry claiming I am comparing her with a dead person. Whatever she discovers as our way of doing things in the family she disregards it and replaces it with her own way without minding how we feel as a family or how easy or difficult it is for us to adjust.
It looks like we are the only ones tolerating and accommodating them here, I have tried with no avail to stop her from insulting the memory of my late wife. I discussed with each and everyone at home, they all wish I could perform a miracle to have them leave because no one can tolerate the mother and kids anymore, I am equally fed up myself and willing to take a break.
I have a friend who is aware of my problems with her, he told me that I am the problem here, he said it will be hard for any woman to fit into our family way of doing things and it will be difficult for us to cope with a different way of life introduced by another woman.
I hope I can get one or two advices that could help. I am quite confused
It is just to early for you to cohabit with another woman even me that like puna so much would never do such a thing no matter how the situation presented itself. Your wife will be ashamed of you. 3 months abi I no sabi read ni. Pls let that woman go back to her house with her kids and you can always take your kids to play once in a while not all the time and let the children understand why it has to be that way.. If u dont act fast ... May u not regret ur life in short time after 17years of peace and happiness
Mrskillz1: I am from a family of three. I have two brothers. One older and the other younger than me so I'm the only girl in my family.
I grew up seeing my Mom mad. By my teen age, I got admission into Nnamdi Azikiwe University alongside my elder brother who was to study Engineering. By the time I was in my finals, my brother was getting ready for IT. One day, his roommate sent for me, he said they couldn't sleep the night before because my brother was talking to himself. Before we knew what was happening, my brother was getting violent and so we took him home and he never got back to finish school. I proceeded with my education and finished. Went for NYSC. While serving the nation, My Mom died. When I got home, she'd been buried. But my brother was still mad.
I later got job, took my brother to a Psychiatric hospital and the doctor after examining him said he is Schizophrenic. He was asked to stay in the hospital. I paid. He then stayed there for one month. When I came to visit him, he pleaded with me to take him home that he didn't like it there.
So I took him home. Every month, I buy drugs for him and he gets injected. He usually puts up a fight but with the help of my younger brother, neighbors and a certain nurse, he receives the injection, forcefully and against his will. Often times, he pleads with me not to inject him, the very time I obliged him, he scattered things, didn't allow the neighborhood sleep, talked throughout some nights and wouldn't eat sometimes. He looked really sick then but with the injection, one will hardly know he's not normal. I told him that I won't let him miss his injection ever again.
Now, on Monday, my younger brother woke up and was unusually quiet. He normally wakes up and begins to play music with his phone or he will turn to football channel and watch until I leave for work. But I didn't go to work on Monday and I noticed he was quiet, then I asked him why he's quiet. He didn't respond. After some hours, I asked my Dad if he feels he's okay, My Dad said that he wants to be quiet and that I should let him be.
Then, that night, around 4am, my brother began to talk. He was shouting and some of the things he said were not coherent. He talked out of point. I and my Dad, with my elder brother surrounded him and I couldn't help crying when my Dad was cautioning him to keep quiet and he refused. Neighbours thought it was my elder brother's voice they'd heard that night but by the time they heard in the morning that it was my younger brother, they visited my Dad in the evening. By then, my brother was still talking and even burnt his clothes yesterday. My Dad got a few guys to chain him because he was violent yesterday when I left the house. I know the problem is spiritual. I have prayed, fasted for my elder brother and now this! I'm so unhappy.
Can someone suggest a place I can take my two brothers to so they can be cured, please.
You really need to start praying and go all out spiritual for yourself cos it is coming to you and by that time there wud be nobody to care for anyone This is a spell within d family and it actually happen at an appointed time .. May God be with ur family and deliver you all from every curses and evil upon your family in jesus name
udoji2021: Life is sweet generally but can be cruel to others.
I was once a happy guy with a bright future but marriage is practically killing me. It all started when I become sick and was admitted in a hospital. my aged mother was the person staying with me and was responsible for my everything. inside the ward, another patient was with this very beautiful girl that was very hard working, my condition was critical that my mother will have to bath me sometimes, this girl now started helping my mother and to a point, my mother will leave her to be taking care of me and go home.
I become close to her, but i use to think that she just pity my condition and wanted to help so I did not think of having any relationship with her. I was later discharge and went home but since we exchange our contacts earlier, we use to talk often. I asked her one day to visit me which she agreed. To my surprise, this girl brought some provision for me and slept over in my house. she continue visiting till one day, I told her that if i was strong and capable, I would have loved to date her. she confessed instantly that she was really interested in me and did not care about my condition. According to her, she was born in a poor family and can handle the pressure of been broke, that she will be the happiest person if I love her back the way she loves me. I was moved with her words and to cut the story short, we started dating.
Her parents were highly against the relationship initially but when they become tired of us, they allow us to do our thing but never involve them if something happened. fast to December last year, we got married. I was not even able to pay 1h to her parents. she just pack her things and join me in my house. we were the happiest couple on Earth till things started going north.
First, we agreed to do many things in the farm against hunger next year, we started with melon farm, then groundnut and yams. we were still on this and I must confess that she is hard working but pregnancy came and this girl started misbehaving, she will not follow me to the farm again and will not even cook for me. I dare not complain cos she will insult me seriously. sometimes, I will tell my sister to cook but this girl will not eat it because the food is bad.
One night, she sent me out of the room in the night that I must get bananas for her to eat. I suffered that night till I got it from one woman on credit cos I was not having money on me. last month, she was sick and visited one private clinic, I was to give her 10k for her treatment but did not have the money so I told her to give me 4days to look for it, there was no insult I did not receive that night. I have to sell my yam seeds and pay. infact, I'm tired of this life presently cos i use to think that she will help me but the reverse is the case now.
Please I need advice on the way forward, I want to run away from home but she is pregnant, her people refused to help us too cos they warned her before.
pls advice me
You guys married each other out of pity.. She was desperate but you are just to blind to noticed it and you are also blind because you only reason about her wealth and you thought she will make you rich. Another angle may be it was just pregnancy pressure because some women are just like that when they are pregnant but you really need to find out and be honest with yourself..
You guys married each other out of pity.. She was desperate but you are just to blind to noticed it and you are also blind because you only reason about her wealth and you thought she will make you rich. Another angle may be it was just pregnancy pressure because some women are just like that when they are pregnant but you really need to find out and be honest with yourself..
Just one head down, we won't hear something again on nairaland.Since the formation of ESN, they gallant group have been eliminating useless Nigerian army without any fuse. Mediocrity will not kill you people.
They killed him for protecting his people against idiotic useless Fulani bandits. Ikonso, is a hero, his blood will never go in vain.. very soon he will be celebrated all over BIAFRA LAND.
The struggle continues and we are not slowing down anytime soon till the dream of our fathers , grandfathers and great grand fathers is actualized who paid the ultimate prize for this same course.
Rest on brother.
4 dis comment 2 generate more than 100 LIKES shows the biafra supporters on nairaland is huge . Only God can make dis country PEACEFUL
Mrlcredible: she should shut the hell up or is she ignorant that the cases in COVID-19 has risen? Even Schools and businesses should be closed for now and everyone should be required to stay indoors till the cases decreases. Let's stay safe please. Eko oni baje
You are the miserable person here .. Simple question does corona virus attack people around 12am to 4am . Not just reasonable at all and what cases are you talking about ..
Faber: God bless Seniorman Kelechi Iheanacho Congrats Odogwu!
3 Igbo strikers are on a scoring spree dominating Europe Simy Nwankwo just broke George Weah record in Italy, and is close to breaking Aubamayang record Paul Onuachu is the highest goal scorer in Belgium for this season. Kelechi Iheanacho just became Leicester city's highest scorer for this season and fired them to FA Cup final since 56 yrs
Meanwhile the Fulani captain Musa is now playing for Kano Pillars and was unveiled some days ago in a cubicle
Igbo Amaka
Football Amaka
I swear not jst dis country d citizen are seriously SICK.. Tribalism.. The US would hv never be d world power if they hv dis kind of idiotic mentality like u.
robosky02: Most girls of nowadays sleep with married men, it has become so rampant and so bad that I can put the statistics at around 90%. And the worst part is they actually enjoy doing it, and most of them do it because of money (sugar daddy tinz), some do it because it's a no "commitment" relationship that gives them the pleasures of a normal relationship but without accountability and policing that normal boyfriends do.
A married man doesn't have time or moral justification to be checking or monitoring her life whether she is cheating or not, after all he is a cheat too, so they enjoy being cheats together without condemning themselves. So she has her "freedom" intact while she is sleeping with a married man. They also do it because of social connections, because generally the married man is older and might have a social network that she can connect with for other benefits besides sex, like job connections or business connections.
Some girls do it because of ego, they are egomaniacs but because their boyfriends are alpha males too and won't lick their shoes or kiss their ass, they run to a married man that will worship and pamper her emotionally with sweet words and call her queen all the time and fill her head with adulation and adoration lies, while she gives him the cookie jar to eat for being a good boy unlike her dictator boyfriend that dictates to her all the time.
But the WORST ONES, are the girls that just do it for the THRILL of it. These ones are natural psychos, with twisted minds. THEY SLEEP WITH MARRIED MEN FOR FUN, for the fun of making themselves feel higher and better than his wife, for the fun of feeling they are too beautiful and can snatch any man they want from any woman, and for the fun of watching another woman suffer as she makes her man choose her over the wife or the fun of feeling good about a man rejecting his wife because of her..................... Fear women, after devil, na dem
HONESTFACT101: Abeg pray for your friends and family in the army
Meanwhile I can never understand why people consider suicide......signing out
You cant understand because you dont understand dere situation ... Dis life people are going thru a lot and no genuine love in dis country everything is just show off.
galaxylauncher: Watch the moment governor Hope Uzodimma of Imo state blamed the attack in Imo state on "known Imo politicians" for destruction of the state by hoodlums. The governor went ahead to accuse the politicians of trying to derail the government of APC.
Idiotic set of people.. Infact who'ever claims they know perpetrator of criminal acts without naming them should be prosecuted. Nonsense people na so fayemi talk say den offer am bribe bt he cant mention any name ... What a country . If u know but u cant expose them then it is honorable to keep ur stinking mouth shut 4ever.
jawalis: A twitter user “ bthemovent” has taken to his page some pictures taken on a date with his female bestie. Twitter users has come for the both asking what kind of friendship it could be. While some sees nothing wrong in it, other viewed it as totally unacceptable. What’s your take on it. Can you allow your boyfriend or girlfriend go on a date with so called bestie and end up this way?
Go and never come bak 2 me.. but me I always want to d.man involved in dis bestie stuff with any female ... Sweet romantic wit no commitment .. Everybody go jst dey alright
Jah1: Lady accuses her husband of kicking her out just because she tattooed Tinubu on her back..
You recall a woman who tattoo the great politician Asiwaju Bola Hammed Tinubu face on her back ?.
Well their sis another breaking news about the woman. She came to her page on social media to cry out on how her husband chased her out of the house.
She cries out in her page recently claims that the tattoo she did on her back has caused havoc in her marriage and she was been sent out of the house.
Meanwhile, this breaking news has cause alot of controversy among Nigerians and has drop comment of different kind.
Wahala be like Bicycle!!! “My husband has chased me out of the house because of the Tattoo” - Nigerian Woman Who tattooed Tinubu’s face on her Back Cries out
elisha820: Happy new week everyone. I decided to bring this up on this platform cos I want candid and lucid advice. I be brief on this.
I am a Pharmacist working with one of the government owned health care centre. There's this girl I've been with for more than 2years now. She is a law student in her penultimate year in university. Like most Nigerian relationships, we started with lot of distractions and lacked commitment but over time it remained just the two of us.
At the beginning of this year 2021 we made relationship goals and decided to be transparent to each other. We shared every secrets, went through each others phone and asked questions where necessary. All went well until last month when I went to check on her in the university, asked for her phone as usual wanted checking her whatsapp. She didn't let me, said till she comes for weekend when we'll have good time for that. I was surprised, had my doubts but let it slide. She later came for the weekend, I acted as if I don't care anymore and that was it.
Similar event happened last night after she went through my phone (whatsapp, facebook, twitter etc) cos she has my password but I don't have hers. I unexpectedly asked for her phone too, she said it's late and we should leave it till am back from weekend call later in the evening. I kept my cool last night but was bent on seeing her chat this morning not until she bursted into tears. I ain't perfect, have my flaws but I am free spirited whenever I am around her. It normal for a lady to have lots of guys in her dm, but I think it's a problem when it becomes secretive to your partner.
Should I play along, start having secrets too or what's your thought guys.
NB: I skipped so many things, decided being straight to the point.
Lalasticla...I remain loyal, hoping you'll do the needful
It will end well for her but end in tears for you.. Boy if she can't allow u 2 check her phone even wen u agreed 2 be open 2 each other then it is time 2 let go or find a replacement by d side so dat wen she hit ur heart wit hammer u go see wia 2 turn 2 avoid suicide..
Xilsbridalhouse: I know I know...trust me I am always so careful, today was just different...this scammer will forever feel these pains of mine! Tonight I’ll report the scammer to God...all his generations will suffer for this!
Which 1 be all hin generation.. No be dem scam u now and y u want create more problem.. hw @ u even sure d guy might be member of ur family and u don put anode curse upon urself unknowingly.. No wonder generational curses plenty like dis na una dey cause am.. Curse d person wey scam u and nt his family[/quote]
Which 1 be all hin generation.. No be dem scam u now and y u want create more problem.. hw @ u even sure d guy might be member of ur family and u don put anode curse upon urself unknowingly.. No wonder generational curses plenty like dis na una dey cause am.. Curse d person wey scam u and nt his family
Romance › Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by wallarwallar(m): 7:11pm On May 29, 2021
