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CalliDora1:
This dirty looking thing?
Please, this thing should be cast into the red Sea.

No kill me with laugh abeg

Palema007:
Sister I know you do, I breaks me to see you in pains but the reality is He may not be Back. If at all he will, it may be with some baggages. I'm very sorry you are going through this right now but you just have to forge on, focus on your life and make it better. Sorry.

ummm.. thanks.

Palema007:
When a person has made his or her decision to let you go, never try to change it, you irritate him or her more. Op give him some space, learn to live without him ,he is gone.

With no hope of return? I actually do love him very much

Simieoni2:
My dear move on, its going to b hard. Yes i knw , its safe for ur mental health

Thank you for your time.

Simieoni2:
The issue called love is crazy.. but since u said uve been together for 4 yrs, try explaining everything again to him then give him his space, if he wants u he will reach out, if nt just move on

Thank you. I've actually done that over and over again he's still adamant.

donbachi:
give him space for now.maybe a week or 2,and see how he will react.

Alright. Thank you for your time.

donbachi:
He has met someone of same religion and ethnicity..no dey worry ur sef.

What do u suggest I do?

Hi everyone pls help me make sense of this. I'll just summarize it pls.
I and my boyfriend have been having issue for like months now , he's been acting aloof and all I asked severally he makes excuses, eventually towards d end of last month I was able to get him to open up and he mentioned something about meeting a certain mallam who said we're toxic together and dat we should be open to someone else.
We discussed dat and decided to pray on it, I did, the report are that were good together.
I told him he didn't really seem to believe it, was still cold n all around dat last month still we broke up a week after one man we both know intervened and we reconciled
He, I mean my boyfriend now mentioned things about getting angry quite easily and using words dat doesn't go down well with him and all dat, we fixed things Sha and for about 3 weeks now we've been cool and all but I noticed he stills holds back a little.
One thing though is he claims he loves me bla bla
So today I read a piece about a guy and his girl dat he had to let go of because he wasn't financially stable as at den but dat he's okay now and wants her back.d girl begged to stay but he insisted she left and now he wants her back but doesn't know how to go about it.
So I called him and we talked about it.
Only for me to find out that he's still holding on to past complains, specifically,religion and d behaviours he talked of even though it's no longer there. Now my confusion is , is it really fear of what he might have been told and according to him such behavior cannot be changed or he has an agenda he's just not saying?
That's what I've been confused and bothered about.
This is someone that always emphasized on religion and ethnicity not being an issue at all only for him to turnaround and keep saying they're issues now that back den we were younger and in school.
I forgot to mention this is a relationship of 4 years plus.

Whiteways:
Like seriously, all this excuses is not making sense to me.

If shes comfortable with you for many months or years of dating and never complained about your standard of livelihood why then would you look down on your self.

No condition is permanent as long as you are not relaxing waiting for miracle.

Guys, pls always beleive in yourself and stop breaking our ladies heart because of your high low self esteem.

God bless you for this. A sensible woman knows what she's getting herself into before agreeing to date a man that is a work in progress, how can a man know out of the blue say he wants to let her go because he feels she deserves better isn't that calling her a fool for accepting to date you in the first place? Or they haven't seen couples that built together and remain together till date, some guys are jus very confusing.

cryptotech:
if they can't get it in your region because the don't fancy schooling in your region as they got the best schools, when u all meet at national level they still disgrace u, most of ur best brain was train by the west including chinua achebe.

let me tell u a secret, the east can never compare there self with the west.

There's nothing special about either of the ethnic group, stop this unnecessary bragging gosh! Was any of this ethnic group created specially from others? so what's with this tomfoolery.

keentola:
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hello,
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ProfAmaben:
Hmmmm, so many bitter and hateful people. Someone offers people scholarships for free and another is vomiting fire. The hater has never assisted or achieved any meaningful thing in his existence, yet, he insults a former minister of aviation of the federal republic of Nigeria.

The bitter truth is that there are so many people like that on this forum, say something good, do anything good, they would insult you and send you death threats in your Gmail.

Vacancy: anyone with forestry or agricultural related degree B.sc or m.sc should inbox me, there's a vacancy at the National Agency for the Great Green Wall, Mabushi, Abuja, very urgent.

hello, can I email u pls

femi4:
You are not different from the guy that fvck her in the Church. Both of you lack fear of God. You fvck a choir member, you fvck someone that's not your wife.

The girl too no dey fear God. she fornicated both at home and in church .

Mosminic:
That's your criteria for a good actor? Have you watched Meryl Streep movies? Or Angelina Jolie? Or even Nora Roberts? These are refined and seasoned actresses, Genevieve is not far from that list internationally.
NB: The role all the actors play is not entirely dependent on them, Directors and Producers also have a say.

lol, we all love Genevieve but really she's overhyped same as some others, she doesn't deliver her roles flexibly just as someone mentioned. Can you even compare her actings to Ruth Kadiris', dat lady is super good.

Ausrichie:
You are arguing with a stark ignorant illiterate. You try oh.

I'm not jare his comment just irritated me

Successmind:
I don't support this as a Muslim....

May God increase you.

This is what I tell people, regardless of our leanings whether political,religious or others let's learn to apply sense in everything.

Elsaluus14:
Be a wise, who has bad mind on Islam, you have to know who are Muslims and who aren't, in Islam there no thing like 9th wife in Islam, support to know dis, and the age, yes is possible, is good to married under age than get premarital, in Southern is not crime to sex with under age even 11yrs as your girlfriend, but is crime to married the teenager, where is our sense Christian

Shut your mouth and use your senses that's why you were given. Both premarital sex and underage marriage should be done away with. Stop supporting nonsense in d guise of being loyal to a religion,when something is bad let's collectively condemn it. I'm a Christian and there are things I do not support concerning the religion,does that mean I love God less?
Your brains are not for decoration put them to good use.

Ningen:
You didn't scold your girlfriend; the one with the terrible anger issues but scolded your mother??

Chei! Your ancestors must be whirling in pain.

Keep tolerating her “anger”.

She'll put it to good use oneday and strike sense into your head, then you'll know it's time to RUN.

It'll end in tears.

hot tears

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Ehya,
That statement is very painful. It can make someone even commit suicide.


Now that you can't break up with the girl, kuku break up with your mama

abi, as em see trouble say he wan put head inside. Someone you've not even married and she's this rude and disrespectful.mtchew

emmyN:
Thank you Ybaby. I've read lots of your comments here and I am quite pleased that we still have women that honour the traditional role of family setting. The man the provider, and the woman in the kitchen, living room and other room. This is against the ideology of most women of the 21st century claiming woke and brandishing some horseshit called feminism.

You said you've been married for up to 19 years, and I believe you've inculcated same value in your children. Surely you have a daughter of near marriageable age. 18 years is standard. I am a man of means and well able to take care of my own house (not bragging). If you would be so kind, I would like to have one of your daughter's hand in marriage. She needs not bother about school as her primary responsibility would be to give me peace, companionship, anything intangible. These she must have learned while growing up with you as she doesn't require a formal education to offer them.

I promise to continually fulfill my role as the provider in the family while continually pointing her to her place in the kitchen. You know some of these feminists can easily impress on young girls. I will make sure to uphold the value you've so carefully imbibed in her over the years by seeing to it that she grovels at my feet while I spare her some crumbs from my plate and spit on her face. This lifestyle requires discipline from time to time. I will make sure she gets an equal dose of it whenever she errs.

If this brief account of my competencies intrigues you enough to lend me one of your daughters, please do not hesitate to send me a PM.

Yours

This got me laughing out loud

southniyikaye:
reading your story was like me reading my own story.
Only three diff.
1) I am younher
2) fortune has not smile on me yet but am hoping and praying.
3)for eight years, I was the only one doing the whole sponsoring, she was jobless.
Now she is living in a fools, paradise, I created another account on fb and chatted her, a rich guy's profile.
I told her to break up with me and she did last night.
I was just laughing.
It's a very bad thing for the bread winner to go broke, I am a living testimony to rhag

It is well with you and may God perfect all that concerns you.

McClean573:
Why do we kill people who kill people to show them that killing people is wrong.

It's a life for a life

masterflowx:
Kanu is the greatest!

Meanwhile, Does Cristiano Ronaldo know that he is selling Titus fish and Turkey at Ipaja Lagos?

why em no go know na endorsement na lol

Agboriotejoye:
Charade? Osama is a charade? Soleimani is a charade? Your homemade shekau is a charade? I guess even Mohammad is a charade then. Go kiss ur Alfas dick it's noon

I no need answer am again. u don do fr am

PigTormentor:
Tell that to you delusional Christian brothers who are always in the habit of talking about other people's religion forgetting that their own has plenty of issues too. I don't talk about people's religion as long as you don't talk about mine.

Wrong. One thing is whatever anyone says won't change nothing. And see you contradicting yourself, theirs has ''plenty of issues''according to you and yet you don't want dem to talk about yours?
And as an addition, I have no delusional brother, mister.

PigTormentor:
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Borrow or buy some sense. So we need to eradicate churches to get rid of child molesters/pedophiles, kidnappers, cultists and Christian terrorists? Most of the kidnappers in Nigeria as of today are Christians from SS and SE.

You have 3 billion Christians and you have 2.7 Muslims and you think with your Infantile brain that you can stop Islam? In Fact Islam is the fastest growing religion to overtake Christianity in about 10 to.20 years.
Grow up son.

Overtake at what cost? I'm not part of bashing any religion as na God know who dey serve am but will u guys just keep quiet over this overtaking shit, Is worshipping God and having the largest followership now a criteria for making heaven? u need to grow up as well.

nairalandankrah:
Evacuating your Nationals in other countries with foreign airlines,
While foreign nationals in your country are being airlifted by their own domestic airlines...
Our politicians are EVIL

Shame no dey dere body

winterfell007:
This one enter me well , even though I be confam igbo guy

E funny die, u guys should ease up biko we're one

Davash222:
My dear, he doesn't even need your endorsement. Your endorsement is like the P in psychology.

on point. completely useless.

But why can't they just remain in a place, this is becoming very annoying haba! why dey choose to constitute nuisance is beyond me. mtchew

Lee84:
Hypocrite! Because he is Christian, he will bring moral bankruptcy.. Is it not the girl that refused to let go. Hypocrite!

U even get time dey answer am person wey no well

VillagePeople11:
A bird might love a fish, but where will they build a home together

Wisdom