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The lady in question has zero accountability. How does going to empty waste bin become MIA for two hours and she doesn't expect any questions on her whereabout.

For her to explain her whereabouts she begins to cry. For what exactly? And you OP could not see beyond her crocodile tears.

The bro should do away with her sorry ass. Her eye still dey outside.

Anyone who saw the last two games of Super Eagles would agree that this Cape Verde team are way better than Super Eagles...

Simon Ekpa said Biafra Resistance Fighters now in Abuja last month. Na the result be this

Instead of person to enta this kind level, e no betta to enter farming. Use all him power take gather money, wen e go use japa go US. Once e reach, e sofree join us Navy or Marine.... Automatic Us citizen, Automatic respect, free healthcare and cool cash for life

denzel231:
Nigerians playing like kids.. every year same ssshittt and no improvement

Very true...

Ground ball 10%
Ball Control 30%
Possession 30%
Pass Accuracy 40%

I don't know if it's the pitch, cos these guys ball well in Europe.

The only reason why the kidnappers are free today is because no high profile victim is involved, they would either be in jail or 6ft by now.

saustine52:
Nigerian singer and songwriter, John Ighodaro, popularly known as Johnny Drille, has welcomed his first child with his wife, Rima Tahini. The couple announced the good news on their social media platforms on Tuesday, December 28, 2023, with adorable videos and photos of their baby girl.


https://akinsete..com/2023/12/singer-johnny-drille-wife-welcome-first.html

Awon boyz will never learn...

Story don't add up. How does someone rape you when your husband is in the same house. Abeg leave that tory

I hope they have charged her sorry ass for attempted murder...

Those guys are wicked... I remember a friend made a similar mistake. He demanded for 250k monthly during the interview. After the entire process he saw 16m per annum on his offer letter.

HR reps should learn to do better. Situations like this will do more harm than good. Now they have successfully engaged a disgruntled employee which will likely rub off negatively on the team.

EreluRoz:
Is your husband that cheap? Only cheap men sleep with their house help who is answereth to them and supposed to be under their protection

Is the wife not also answerable to and under the protection of the husband?

Cheap? Dey play....

saphiere:
Nigerian men are afraid of independent women.
They are intimidated by our successes.
They need women that are solely dependant on them so that they can use those women as they whish.
Genevieve Nnaji,
Funke Akindele
Tonto Dikeh
Are a proof that Nigerian men can't stand independent women. They need people they can intimidate. People to bruise their ego on.

If the aforementioned women weren't independent, they would have been in their husbands' houses.

I spit on a gender who hates other gender's successes.

Can you see how the above monikers made mockery of Nigerian women? Asking if it's Akeke bread or sliced bread. Because for their minds no Nigerian woman deserves to be a breadwinner.

You forgot about these amazing women
1. Mercy Johnson
2. Stephanie Okereke
3. Ngozi Okonjo Iweala

Sorry OP, this one don cast.... Move into the next...

But we suppose dey log all these hoes details for future reference

kilisi:
Good day friends and trust we are coping with the current state of things

I plan to resign from my current job by the end of February 2024 so that I can go into full time agriculture. That's my discipline from school anyway.

I've been able to raise just 1 million naira within a year and 2 months and the plan is to plant cassava and maize on a 12 acre farmland I'm about to secure.

6k per acre of land

I also plan to use about an acre for planting pepper and tomatoes.

I hope I'm not making a hasty decision by resigning from my job soon.

While this is a laudable ideas, I will not recommend you quit your job just yet. I suggest you get your wife or a trusted relative to help run it for a while so that you don't begin to live off the farm

Oga OP, move on... This one don fail. Imagine the lame excuse.

Christianoir:
I’ve been writing exam since i haven’t gotten any carryover…Just had one today God [u] I feel disgusted and ashamed.. since I started writing exams since Monday all my grade have been A throughout
It cbt exam once you finish writing you will see your score

I wrote and score 40/100 which is F (carryover)
The course wasn’t that hard..I read it, it was time
60 questions to answer 20min too small.

I don’t know what to do….this is my first
This is my first carryover course since
It breaking me down

I don’t even have to zeal to read for next course again

It's not as big deal. Just learn from it n move on

Paystack:
What will your hate do to my tribe?

Who want your smelling love.


I rather form alliance with The North than with you guys.... rubbish.

Nobi only hate


Which tribe in Nigeria even like South West people🤣



Hate or Love from now until the end of Nigeria


An Igbo man will come to wherever you are and do business, Make money and go back to their states every Christmas to enjoy the money like it or not... You absolutely can do nothing about it irrespective of who is president rubbish

Paystack:
Immediately I go throw front page post and see those tribalistic comments I get disgusted and just exit the thread

It's very disgusting. Even post that doesn't concern politics those idiotss and fuuls will flood there with nonsense tribalistic rubbish.

Seun needs to do more to stop the nonsense.

Worst still please seun introduce a block or hide button so we stop seeing post from someone we hide their comments.


It won't cost you any loss of traffic.
Just introduce a button that can help one hide comments from certain people it's personal something please.

Hate you and an entire tribe? For what exactly? E get wetin me and you dey drag?. Abi, only me go dey beef your full tribesmen? I was only reminding your post on tribalist comments because I feel NL is now a really toxic place and I agree Seun needs to do more to address it.

My point is simple. Don't be a part of the problem.

OP is this your post not also tribalist? You don't resolve issues by making it worse. How does this adds value to anyone? Except your intention is to make more people hate your tribe...

Nancy311:
Commerce B3
Marketing B2
Economics B3
Government A1
Literature in English C4
Civic Education C5
Biology C6
Mathematics A1
English language C5

Please I need advice cause am really confused, my parents and siblings won't let me go for theater arts they keep saying the course is useless.
What other course can I go for that is good, that I can get a job with and make money (my parents no.1 concern).

Theatre Arts all the way... Who says you can't become the next big TV director.... Bro live your life.

Klass99:
I am not in the diaspora but I stumbled on a thread where someone made a sensible comment about this same issue.

They said something to the effect of everyone being too smart because of their papers/stay, nobody wants to compromise or make sacrifices, for the sake of an authentic relationship because too much sense is worrying all of you there.Na una know wetin dey worry all of you sha!

From my observations, there's a tendency in most of you japarians to gravitate towards self conceit and a vain superiority complex, where you start to think you're better than other Nigerians because;

1. You've lived in obodo for XYZ number of years or you have papers, so even new immigrant Nigerians are like an affront to you guys (meaning their very presence in your host country is like an offence)

2. You think with your papers you have finally arrived what can any Nigerian offer you again. But your papers alone don't provide healthy social interactions, good friendships or companionship, laughter and fun moments with others.

I see that superiority complex even here on NL with folks who haven't lived overseas for 2 years, I smile and shake my head, thinking to myself, poverty is really not a good thing. When you grow up privileged very little about the white man trips you to a point where you start to insult or look down on your country and fellow country men. Because you grow up knowing what your own people are made of and capable of. It's not so much about privilege alone, but having a healthy dose and sense of self worth, self esteem and self love.

My friend engaged an asian cabbie in conversation in the UK, while riding in his car. The cabbie told her it is very disappointing to see the way we Africans/Nigerians in particular behave overseas. He said we are quick to throw away our cultural values to embrace western ones, we are the ones who are quick to talk back to parents and disrespect them (that was an incident he witnessed in his cab with a Nigerian family)

Whereas he sees Indians, Chinese and some Asians hold onto their cultural values and practices, maintaining the family unit, and refusing to let the west negatively influence them. I think the cabbie's experience and narrative, may help you understand why you are having a hard time finding a Nigerian date.

The issue is not only with Japarian's.... It's with us as a people. We see it everyday in work places, families and the society generally in the form of segregation and the "I better pass you mentality". Maybe it's more obvious with Japarians, but we have it ingrained in us. That's why different tribes believe they are superior to others.... And like you said, it all comes from deprivation.

No Airbag for passenger side?

YourBestWriter:
During my nysc, there was this ss2 student that was trying everything possible to have sex with me. I thought it was teenage hormone, but then I discover that she was 21 years old.

Unfortunately for her, I held reputable positions, and also, I am not easily attracted to anything on uniforms whether student or nurse or police.

My fellow corps members however never mind as they took turn to sleep with students both teenage or adult. The students throw themselves on these corpers that I sometimes wonder what parents are doing. But later i discovered that some parents even want their children to sleep with corpers. lol

Infact, after everything i saw during nysc, I began to suspect every corper I see on the road as ashawo. lol

Say the truth and shame the devil. Did you eat the forbidden fruit during your nysc?

With the plethora of issues in the country right now, things like this shouldn't be a concern.
That corper when you dey suspect fit never chop.

Jennyclay:
May God help you broke and struggling men!

Biko, stay away from a relationship in order not to put someone’s daughter in poverty

Nobody wants to settle for less my dear!

Nice one... So guys, when your container land, don't settle for less too..

Gadafii:
How many wedding dress she wan wear that days?

Those are for bridal shower, traditional, court and church, I suspect.... Africans and copy copy

Nukilia:
Very good pronouncement! Enough of the violence against women. I am expecting the grooms mother to also admonish the bride not to disrespect the husband

I only hope that she has taught her daughter to be respectful, otherwise all this threat means nothing.

He can shock all he wants, we keep buying. The fundamental issues remain unsolved.

Realashbobby:
Dear Nairalander,

We met in 2005 while i was in secondary school and he was working in a bakery then, we started dating and i saw him as a man with vision because of his leniency and a very bright man.
In year 2007, he got admission to pre degree in the university , i was at home ans i later got admitted into polytechinic for ND program in 2009. i came back from poly in 2011 and started looking for IT placement while waiting for
for It placement i lost both of my parent and became an orphan. a month after my parent death i was able to get placement in a bank and that how i started the IT, after one year i was to go back to school for HND / Direct entry, luclily i applied for the two and got admitted but
i consider who will finance it since i have no parent and my siblings are not capable of sponsoring me, i dont want to be a burden on anyone even if i am to start the programme with the little saving i have while doing IT
but it wont be sufficient to see me through. so i took a tellering job in a bank and thats how i left our house and rented an apartment very close to my office then.
I started living alone and he almost done with his study in the university too about going for NYSC, anytime he is in town he always stay in my place, then i was transfered to another branch of the bank which made me move to
another place that is more comfortable and he always joined me. He proposed we take the relationship to the next level and ask if we could start our life in this small apartment and i agreed since i know he was a serving corp
member and things will get better. thats how we started life in 2015, had our introduction in my brothers house in 2016 and got married in 2017.
He served in Lagos and he tried to secure job in lagos but he was able to get a menial job which he is not comfortable with, until sept 2018 that he got a job with a telecoms in lagos. meanwhile, i couldnt concieve on time not
for about 2 years after the wedding but later concieved and gave birth to a baby boy in june 2019. when he got the telecoms job he felt a little relief and comfortable staying in lagos and stop coming to ibadan to see me like
he always did before. he several complains and he said i need to move to lagos.

I tried to persuade him to be patient with me and allow me to finish a degree programme i put in for in UI at least to get the certificate and start a better life if i get to lagos. he wouldnt listen, his attitude changed towards
me in the house whenever he is around and i became cold too.

One faithful day, i was sick at work and went to the hospital and i was given injection and they told me to come the following day for the remaining injection and on getting home that night i met him in the house, i wouldnt know if he is coming
around or not because he has stopped talking to me at all not even on phone and i dare not call him, he wouldnt pick up. so, i met him in the house and the following morning i left to working after preparing my baby food
and little sister staying with me tp take care of my baby during the pandemic period. getting to work i took permission to go and get the remaining injection at the hospital and get some rest at home, on getting home i met his
two brothers in our compound and i entered but he has locked the bedroom , he ran out and i ran after him to give me the key to my room to get some rest . he told me i cant access the room, i forced myself into the room andi discovered he
has started parking stuffs , he has removed the matrimonial bed, unpacked the all the clothes wardrobe, i was surprise as i dont have the idea of what is about happen. I called his father, i called my brother and my big sister too too and they said they are on their way to
our house, he came in and heard i was talking to the father,his father called that he is not coming again that we should both should come and meet him in his house. i called my brother back that my father in law commanded me to meet in his house and my brother said he will join me there
he left the house before me with his brother but i was surprise i got to his father house before him, he later met me discussing with the father and later my brother and big sister joined us . his father insisted i must move to lagos with him now or nothing and i made them understand i
have to seek permission and get approval in my work place before i move. as we are discussing my husband stood up and said he is going that all stuff in the house has already been moved to lagos as he was speaking.
he left and we started calling him but he will not picked , my brother sent him atext to return stuff that belongs to me as he cannnot forcefull take me to lagos but he didnt answered, i went to police to report and we were advised
to arrest his brother that helped him pack the load while none of us is present there.
The police arrested the brother and the DPO said they shouldnot release him until he brings my stuff back to ibadan as i dont know his new address in lagos, he brought at the third day and thats when the brother was released,
alot of mu stuff got missing and he refuse to bring some back from lagos as i was advised to let go some stuff. since then he stopped communicating and the next thing i get is a petition from his lawyer and he is seeking for divorce.

Your Kind advise will go a long way. Thank you

You crossed the line by arresting your brother In-law. That act is totally unacceptable.

Athena6:
Thanks for the advice, I have sold it this morning, I lost about 500k but it's better to have peace of mind than always checking whether the dollar will increase or not.
Anything investments, I am not doing again

This is like a baby deciding not to walk anymore because he fell at his first attempt of walking

Sometimes last year I bought dollar @695. About two weeks later it deprecated to about 650. Based on the fact that I was low on cash I couldn't buy more, as most people were rushing out. Today it's where it is.

With all the recent news about dollars losing against naira, I just look for new entry points.

So, op do what ever you like. It's all part of the learning process.

Humans were not designed to be alone. Through marriages we achieve both companionship and procreation.

Personally, I feel you are not matured enough for marriage. Because your idea about it is warped. Marriage and Raising a family is not self servicing. It's a duty you owe to humanity. It's living for something greater than you... Yes, it has its ups and downs. But that is not enough reason to relinquish your responsibility.

It's funny how you always reference the negative aspects of marriage as a valid reason to remain in your situation.

Nonny95:
Carpenter Economics.

Your lawmakers just purchased bullet proof cars worth 160m naira. From a foreign brand.

What's your take on that?

Carpenter Economics? But you will rather pay millions of dollars to Harvard grad consultants to tell you the same thing.

For my take on cars, go and reread my first comment.