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tsdarkside:
security people shouldnt show their faces on videos....
the person that was filmin this dont think....

atleast blurr their faces before postin it online....

They are looking for GLORY at the expense of their privacy and security of their loved ones

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

Baba calm down. Someone's daughter just gave birth to your Son and you're bickering over 300k. Cut her some slack

Yugoslavia247:
Same people that castigate single mothers

Will come and castigate her.

She does not want the society stigma

Please don't mention me.

Either we change the stigma or we experience this.

So we should start honouring singe mothers?
Then we will add LGBTQ+ community to the list. Then also put armed robbers and kidnappers to the list and let see how the society turns out.

slimzypink:
So quick one, I will try not to make it long.
I was living in an Asian country and I met a Nigerian . I had a very good job, apparently I got a better offer to another country. But then I was seeing this guy . He proposed marriage i was a bit held back as I wasn’t so sure of it. Anyways his parents came to mine in Nigeria and we did a kind of online trad wedding. I moved without him to my new country. While he was left back in Asia. Told him he would have to come to Nigeria so we do court marriage then I can apply for him to join me.

The issue now is that before he came to Nigeria as I was coming for a short visit, I broke up and said I don’t want to do the court marriage . But he insisted his family kept begging and I stupidly agreed.

There have been so many red flags that made me scared

1-he drinks a lot and I have tried to caution him . He said he changed
2-he was illegal in the Asian country for over 6 years making it seem like he is using me for visa purposes
3- his anger issues is top notch and it seems I really can’t control his anger
4- he has nothing doing just anywhere hustle is he does , no focus . all he has is big dreams and he said I should take a loan for his dreams.
5. Told him that if he eventually moves in with me he must work. But I am scared that the lazy attitude he had will still be there . And for some reasons he always attacks me that I am proud cause I have a good job.
Now I am not looking down on him to be Honest. I can be with a man who I am higher than but he should show prospect of wanting to be better than me or at least prospect of wanting to work.

Now he has been illegal in Asia for years so he never left cause he had no papers but because of the court marriage he took the leap and left. During the court marriage on the the day I said I couldn’t go on with it.all my friends that knew him said I shouldn’t go on with it . And he begged and begged. Felt bad for him and I agreed. At least so I take him out of naija back



I went back to my work and he is left in Nigeria just for me to process his papers . But I am having those fears again. That I made a big mistake. My brother met him and the first thing he went doing was going to buy alcohol about 33% own and he downed it in front of my brother he was just meeting the first time . Even on the day of the counselling at regristry the lady there was saying your husband is not patient and all. So I am in a dilemma

I want to look for a way out . How do I divorce him. I fear he will not give me the divorce. Court marriage is barely 2 months as well.

Admin please don’t take this to front page

This is what happens when adults don't know how to say "NO".

Na wa. Cheating inside poverty..Trash

It seams to me that you want to leave not really because of the viability of the prospect but on emotional grounds.

Personally, I would not leave my state for a teaching job, be it Federal, State or Private.
As a young man with limited responsibilities now, this is the best time to learn a skill that can change the course of your life forever.

Get your priorities right my nigga

Taylor90:


Do you know that it’s the responsibility of the brides family to pay for wedding expenses?

They’re just scamming us

This is not true for most African cultures.... The fact you saw it online doesn't mean it is a general practice. In my place the groom's dad is responsible for all the wedding expenses

🎶 Make we sorry for them? No sorry!!!! 🎶

Osariemen12:
He didn't go to school. Simple.


He only traded drugs illegally. Come to think of it, is it possible to be attending classes and be controlling cocaine consignments from the Mexican borders? Hell no. He only did the latter.

Maybe he was a trans woman at that time...

Jennyclay:
Stupid country

Stupid English accent

Ghana is the most useless country in Africa. I wonder why sane Nigerian would go stay in Ghana .

Why not stay in your country if you can't abide by the laws of your host. Stupid girls always dragging Nigeria to the mud

Tourist123:
Bye bye Nigeria

Free advertisements for the Bank wey sabi

All other french colonises should follow suit and align. Africa for Africa

Unclebayo:
I will come down from the car and take away those trash problem solve

That was how Jared Bridegan the Microsoft Manager was killed.

It's not too much. She is not only paying for your time but also for your experience.

kokoBoii:
Guy see as this car clean if only I get the money

No be to buy am be the issue. You get 50k to fill tank?

OP leave this matter. Fuel price is 615, dollar is 800+, price of commodities, housing, Transport, Education have all skyrocketed and it's not even December yet.

Leave that high value man talk for US people. Naija get him own issues.

Why not? When Nigeria have become dirt cheap. So foreigners can buy Nigeria's asset for little or nothing.

Devaluing your currency when you have 2% export, 98% import and zero incentive for reverse the trend is tantamount to economic suicide

Privacy is Key.

Has she broken up with Eazi? Why girls in relationship keep flashing is beyond me. Respect your man and put some clothes on.

SHiNJA4RMDWEST:
Other countries are boasting of technologies ,new inventions ...

This head slamming cow is boasting of rearing cows like him ...

No wonder this country is going backward..

Anyway God bless the good people of Southsouth and Southwest..

Is it technology/new inventions that you will eat? The man is doing well for himself whilst provide food for Nigerians. He is Ranching his cattle unlike those that destroy other people's farmland.

The level of hate on this platform is unbelievable.

Jman06:
While the Southerners, especially SE and SS understand, criticize and avoid marriage until they make money, northerners like op marry even while still poor and breed like bedbugs. With this, the north continues to grow in population and the political class use this to maintain political dominance in Nigeria. No wonder they organize mass weddings for poor people over there!

To what end? Political dominance for poverty?

There is no correct answer to this. It's all about the priority of the family. The priority could be fame, economic freedom, or family. Most times when an individual is on his/her deathbed, the first two doesn't really matter.

Purvan:
The day my wife choose to become a house wife than career woman is the day she stops becoming my wife and moves back to her father's house

Imagine nothing beats marrying a career woman especially if she works in healthcare or tech

After she had a stressed day from work , she came backs home to you and you prepare a meal for her while she takes a bath then you can give deep sensual massages that'll have her begging you to bleep her

Where will you get the energy to do this everyday especially after working 9-5 yourself?

The parents should get good lawyers and sue the agency of every last penny they can get.

Nice car for daily driving. Good fuel economy. Low maintenance cost as parts don't breakdown frequently.
However, the handling is terrible if you are transitioning from a German car. This has been my only regret.

KingintheNorth:
Guys I'm asking for a friend , if you are based abroad and earn 2.5 million naira after tax, what would you invest in Nigeria??

If he is based in the US, let him save up 3 months salary of his yearly income for 5 years and invest same in Apple|Google stocks for long term. Or he buy real estates and hold them for long periods as well.

But starting a business on the side of the pays better though it comes with a lot of risk

OP, pray no one of your family or Friends in the east don't have a medical emergency on a day designates for Sit At Home. Then you'll know the devastating effect it has on the society.

No person/group should be able to restrict our freedom of movement

Foodqueen:
Bought a cartoon of broiler last month, loss 20 out of it. The weather I guess.

Though it hurts, but still, I rise 😭😭😭

That's the mindset. Much respect. Just hope more people will learn from this thread

Whether they approve it or not. My philosophy is to stay away from processed foods and drinks as much as possible.

Anytime I see news of marathon competition in Nigeria, I get taken aback. Personally, to me Nigeria has no business organizing Marathons for East Africans to come win all the prizes.

Just imagine, for this competition alone about $200k pocketed by East Africans. Why not use the money to sponsor football competition for under 13 boys across schools in the country and the winning school gets $50k while other top performing schools share the balance $150k.
Image if this was done annually by 2 or 3 States. The level of transformation would be unprecedented for the kids, the schools and for sports generally.

Almunjid:
For this period of hunger, somebody wan pack 4 Million go buy car. This life no balance wallah.

It's about time and seasons. Not necessarily about balance. It doesn't rain everywhere at the same time. Continue to grind, your season will come.

Since January 2022. This sounds more like something that can only happen in a less developed country like Nigeria.