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last night (she thinks i'm addicted to my medication)when was the last time you showered. (haha) |
not that he tells the truth (he doesn't). He speaks his mind. his mind isn't always right either. And there are just times you just have to shut up and be quiet. i wouldn't think he's a fair judge. he's more on the extreme side. why says no to a guy who can sing just because she's fat or he dressed in pink? those are just plain discriminatory practices. what i think is that maybe his dad used to criticize him a lot or he recieved tons of it and heaps of insult (i wouldn't be surprised) when he was younger. So he has to carry out this frustration on people who he feels he controls their destiny (at least some)...But then those who go on AI knows what they're getting into so... |
Haha. maybe you should get married to him or be friends with him or something ![]() if he's not racist to you that is. ![]() |
i don't know if i should be mad at you or whether i should just ignore you!! ![]() that site is offensive to me. i don't know about you but telling me to go to some frigging WHITE SUPREMACISTS site for advice on what they think about divorce? i don't give 2 cents about what they have. except maybe to read the garbage they have to present. I actually have never seen such a site. i knew they existed but it's my first time coming across one. Why you don't even know about the site!!!!! . It's some organization that says blacks are dangerous/bad, divorce is wrong, and whole ton of rubbish. why do you believe in their words?just because they say "christian" doesn't mean they believe or have your own specific perceptions regarding morality, scripture e.t.c. geez. why do you expect me to believe your info when you don't give evidence or how you came to the conclusion. and when you do, it's that site you come up with. I knew something was fishy from the start. i'll advice that you look through that wesite properly from the home page to the forums to most of other topics it contains. familiarize yourself with the site before taking stuff out of it thinking it supports your statement well. IT DOESN'T!!. and no i couldn't read the divorce article because it gave some error message but i was able to view their home page and other articles and their dumb forum. i don't know what to say. except it's all good ![]() We know that the US, and their laws, was founded on Godly principles until of late when they began to embrace terrible and warped patterns of lifestyles and laws.yeah. this is probably the only thing of yours that i'll consider true. Yes America of today is less religious and more liberal than when it was founded. But then if you know the history of America, you'll see that people came there from Britain for the sake of religious, social, political freedom. A place where people will be able to have his/her own believes without any restraint from gov.t or oppression from others. Where every one has his right to "life, liberty and property". (these were philosopher John Locke's words i think) But then i would say the immeasurable rate of corruption and intolerance, poverty in Nigeria is ironic in the face of the fact that Nigeria is one of the most religious nations in the world. ![]() |
I want that girl "Paris" (?) to win. she can SING. ![]() and yeah. some guy challenged simon yesterday. he sang this Cher song and simon told him to become a "femal impersonator". I knew simon was going to make such comment because Cher in the first place sings like a guy (i didn't know she was a lady until i saw her pic.) and then, the guy sang the song exactly like Cher!!. Simon is homophobic and needs help. he has serious issues!! Ashton Kusher/ Ryan seacrest (sp?) were making fun of him once on how he wears those black shirts that are way too tight/ small for him and look like he got them from baby gap. And how he hangs out with girls that are WAY too hot to be with him. |
the best for children to punish their parents or make them appreciate you more is to move very far away from home (when your old enough of course). or put them in nursing home when they're reallly old. and the best way for a parent to punish a son, daughter who's gone away to be independent is to die. the best way to avoid horribe punishments as these is for parents/children to learn to understand each other which sometimes isn't be possible without both being punished for change. This is a catch-22 i know. |
It's normal for a person to have a not-so-good relationship with his/her parent. a lot of people don't get along with their parents. so it's normal. the only times people have perfect relationship with their parents are when they are very old and when they are very young. ex, you'll get along well with your parent and love them well when your a baby, 10 years old e.t.c (because they basically decide your life and you can't think for yourself then) and the only other time you'll love them again is when you're old (this time, you both share the same interests and older people's understanding so it's rare that you argue a lot) . But when you're in between young and old, you two are like two diferent opposite people with totally different interests and thinking that it's hard for you to get along with them (ex, let's say both of you go to the mall to decide a dress, she'll want an old fashioned dress and you'll try to convince her that it's not a la mode so you guys argue for a little while then do whatever and then the next day, you argue again over how she likes something that totally disinterests you. it happens with me and my mom although most of the time we get along good. my dad doesn't argue that much. probably because i don't hang out with him as much as i do my mom). so don't fret. It's totally normal. you don't hate them, you just don't agree with their ways of thinking e.t.c. You'll see that once you move out of their house or get married, they'll be the one coming after you and begging you to visit them. You'll realize how much you love your parents during this time too. just be nice to them and be honest with them. prep talk at least once a month to share stuff/feelings e.t.c. it'll probably strenghten your relationship a little bit. use that time to tell them things they never knew about you and make them tell you things you never knew about them. it'll probably help you understand each other better. disclaimer: this ^ may or may not apply to people with Nigerian parents. . |
or your could microwave the ![]() i kind of miss icecream. .. . . 4 months more and i'll be getting tired of it. |
ono:and why is the second source from "christianparty" ? You know it's biased. why challenge me for putting up a law website and then coming up with a "christianparty" website. those people will tell women to remain in their marriages in the name of God even if those women were being tortured and raped to death by their husbands. Facts on Bestiality:That's my point exactly. Only insensitive humans engage in beastiality like that. and you can't tell me all the insensitive humans reside in the US alone. To have sex with an animal is like taking advatage of the animal. Animals have rights too. That's why it's illegal in the us to kill animals just anyway. But some people who claim they own the animals they're having sex with and try to get their minority rights well, get it. Beastiality is also practiced in Nigeria as well as many other countries in the world. and as your quote says: "IT FLOURISHES AMONG PRIMITIVE PEOPLE AND AMONG PEASANTS" AND INDIRECTLY: "AMONG EXTREMELY UGLY MEN WHOM NO WOMEN WANT TO BE WITH" now what are primitive people?. They are those who lived like thousands of years ago and founded the basis for civilization in today's world. You can say that they're likely to be on the middle side between human and animals so basically semi animal having sex with a semi animal is kind of understandable. Primitive can also mean some one who's not civilized/educated. those that go about naked and can't speak languages instead they make animal noises (africa def. have more of these people than US) peasants are basically farmers. (africa also have more of these people than the us) ugly men. that's also understandable. they'll prefer to do this inside than outside though so no one knows about it. other than these three classes, beastiality isn't common. and as you can see, it's practiced in other nations too! It's like your misinterpreting wikipedia's info or something. So, knowing all these, I wonder why some states in the US permit bestiality in their domains! Answers is not far fetched: Exposure to sex education at a tender age, misplaced priorities, over exposure to adult related matters in the name of getting smart at an early age, refined civilisation and urban life.This is the worst argument i've ever heard anyone make in my entire life. Makes no sense. what has sex ed. got to do with the government and their policies? your saying civilization is bad? there's no conection whatsoever in your premise and conlusion (your arguement is as good as saying:" people eat rice that's why the sun comes out" . No need arguing with you. makes no sense to me.your actually saying the opposite of what wikipedia says. they says it's more commom among peasants. when you think peasants, you think rural farm setting. meaning: it's less common in urban settings!! And as an advice:AGAIN, BIASED INFO!!! (you only have to look at the site title to know). Now all these ones contributed to my conclusion that the american way of life - your social values, norms, public behaviour or behavioural attitude, are the worst the world over.HAHAHAHAHA. you make me laugh in chinese i just wouldn't say anything. none of those things you said contributed to your conclusion. you need a major premise then a minor premise before you can come into any logical conclusion. other than that, it's just your opinion rather than a conclusion. It's actually one of the best in the world all over. . . Nigerian's is one of the worst i should say even though there are a few countries worser than it. def. not the US. (i hope it gets better though).i'll have to come to my conclusion that you maybe have "anti-american" sentiments. okay? |
ono:I thought so. why make up a fact and just think people will believe it whether true or not? And whether divorce is a social or sexual issue, and if a minority few practice bestiality in the US does not move me an inch. We both know Wes that all these social evils stems from people's inability to control their emotions and gluttony. Exposure to such things as sex and sexuality related discussions at an early age only add pep to the these social malaise.stop making it seem like divorce, beastiality is only practiced in the US. Both are practiced in Nigeria too as well. With all the sex education and all the marriage counselling thrash in the US, they still have the highest divorce rate in the world. The US without sex education some 100 years ago, wasn't like that, right? Did we have such stupendous divorce rate as at that time? NO. Were kids properly brought up during this period, YES. Some of the best of brains in the US including your retired Reserves Chairman, the Legendary Alan Greene, is of the old stock.sex education i reapeat has almost nothing to do with divorce. did you read my last post? it gives/ states the reason why people divorce and i explained it. If Nigerian women are respected more or aren't being shunned trust me, the divorce rate will go UP. The women are scared that they'll end up poor and treated like trash if they divorce their husbands. The husbands on the other hand can easily do it without any social consequence. sex education is to reduce the amount of sexual abuse, HIV/AIDS in the united states and educate teenagers and youths about sex and how to be safe (so that when they read romance section, they know they are reading it not to go and have sex 2 min. later). Because everybody has his own liberty to read the romance section only very explicit stuff should be sensored other than that, education will be able to guide the youth in knowing their right from wrong so they don't make wrong decisions. At least most youth in the US know how to avoid the dangers of sexual abuse and how to prevent themselves from HIV/AIDS. Maybe Nigerian youths need education in this area. Sex education has only aggravated the sexual problems and other social vices you have in the US. QED.there you go again stating made up facts without proof or reason to back it up and later when i ask you how this is true, you'll say it's only "your view". Putting "i think" in front of this kind of "opinions" helps. you keep stating them like their solid facts or something when there's lots of evidence to proove it wrong. |
the last time i had icecream was 2 weeks ago. i got it for free too. I think the guy that was selling it, his freezer broke so he just gave them out. ![]() i eat lots of icecream only in the summer time (my fridge gets loaded with junk food,drinks in the summer for some reason). right now, it's too cold for icecream. you eat icecream i guess ![]() |
no. she just thinks it's a waste of money (they're adhersives). they're really that out of fashion? .. . why are they so expensive then?? i'll probably just change my mind and get whatever is IN fashion. i hope they come back though. |
thanks. there's this thing i just heard about. it's some cheap adhersive you can paste on your gas,fridge, dishwasher e.t.c to make them look like stainless steel. i told my mom to get it and she's like "i'll smack you" (in yoruba of course). i so much love stainless steel. ![]() |
@mimmy1 why are u acting like her mouthpiece or is she paying you to be her rep? we aint going to do anything to her. we are justing making fun out of it.who knows. she's probably making fun out of you guys posts too. laughing her head off at you guys. ![]() the thread says "post a picture of your kitchen or dream kitchen" not "let's start some drama". anyways: just like a kitchen w stainless steel appliances.
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ono will. i wrote it for him. since we're having a conversation and he doesn't mind. (or do you mind ono? )i also hopes that when he replies, he doesn't state just any made up fact that stem from anti-american sentiments or just scapegoat justifications to the troubles in Nigeria. i'll also like him still to tell me where he got that statement "It's generally acknowledged the world over, that the present day American way of life is unarguably the worst in human history." The only people i've heard that from is you. so i don't think i see how that statement is "generally acknowledged all over the world". you need to verify that. then i'll believe you. edit: queenzy? ![]() |
Beastality isn't practiced only in the United States. It's actually practiced in many other countries too. Just as homosexualism isn't "American". Although Americans tend to be more tolerant towards people regardless of orientation e.t.c. Your talking about the legality of the act and i'll agree with you that it is legal in some states in the United States but that doesn't mean i support it even though i have nothing against gay marriages. Every Nation has it's own policies and i think in this case, probably a factor is protection of minority rights. and lets get this straight, there are probably only a very few minority in the US that practice beastiality. just because these people are being protected by the law in some states doesn't mean every teen/adult practice it. Actually there's a certain age you have to be according to these laws. There are people who practice beastiality in Nigeria too. whether you want to know the news or not. These acts are done in private is just the issue. And it has nothing to do with teenagers or sex education. I don't think this is as bad as the cases we have in the Northern Nigeria where people are being dehumanized, amputated, stoned to death. through the Sharia laws.with the govt. doing nothing about it. you say gay marriage is the worst form of marriage in human history? first of all, what is marriage? doesn't it have to be with the consent of the two individuals involved? if it was a human marrying an amimal it would be wrong because the animal obviously didn't consent to it. It's not even like that happens. Do you know what i think is the worst form of marriage in human history? POLYGAMY, FORCED MARRIAGES (i.e parents marrying off their 13 year old daughters to some 60 year old), These two practices are/were actually very common in Nigeria., DOMESTIC VIOLENCE (where the husband beats up the wife daily and the wife can't diorce her husband because "it's wrong". that's one of the worst forms of marriages.) so when you say "human history" make sure you actually know what forms of marriages there have been in human history (and youhave to look at africa too as well as other european countries even from the past). and do you think jailing homosexuals is the best form of human right in human history? Now let's talk about DIVORCE. First of all, it is true that the rate of divorce in the United States are high but this actually isn't caused by the education of american teens about sexuality. It actually helps reduce it. as far as i know the main causes of it are: 1. "there is little remaining social stigma attached to unwed mothers in some societies. The subject of divorce as a social phenomenon is an important research topic in sociology" http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Divorce This means that in the United States and other European countries where there are high divorce rates, women who are divorced are treated almost as equally as married women. They aren't shunned like in Africa or mistreated and called names. They are respected so they don't fear getting out of a marriage they're uncomfortable with. There is reason for many women even in Nigeria to divorce their cheating or violent husbands (speaking from personal experience of my mom's friends and statistics to back it up) but they can't get out of the trap because they know the Nigerian society isn't tolerant. so this is a social issue rather than sexual. 2. A[i]n annual study in the UK by management consultants Grant Thornton, estimates the main causes of divorce based on surveys of matrimonial lawyers (see [1]). The main causes in 2004 (2003) were: * Extra-marital affairs - 27% (29%) * Family strains - 18% (11%) * Emotional/physical abuse - 17% (10%) * Mid-life crisis - 13% (not in 2003 survey) * Addictions, e.g. alcoholism and gambling - 6% (5%) * Workaholism - 6% (5%) According to this survey, men engaged in extra-marital affairs in 75% (55%) of cases; women in 25% (45%). In cases of family strain, women's families were the primary source of strain in 78%, compared to 22% of men's families. Emotional and physical abuse were more evenly split, with women affected in 60% and men in 40% of cases. In 70% of workaholism-related divorces it was men who were the cause, and 30% women. The 2004 survey found that 93% of divorce cases were petitioned by women, very few of which were contested. 53% of divorces were of marriages that had lasted 10 to 15 years, with 40% ending after 5 to 10 years. The first 5 years are relatively divorce-free, and if a marriage survives more than 20 years it is unlikely to end in divorce. Regarding divorce settlements, as defined by this survey women obtained a better or considerably better settlement than men in 60% of cases. In 30% of cases the assets were split 50-50, and in only 10% of cases did men achieve better settlements (down from 24% the previous year). The 2004 report concluded that campaigns like that of Fathers 4 Justice must succeed in increasing the percentage of shared residence orders, in order for more equitable financial divisions to become the norm. [/i] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Divorce as you can see, when a husband isn't being faithful to the wife, she has the right to divorce him and she does unlike other societies where the wife stays and doesn't complain (due to problems she might face as a results. these problems aren't existent in some european countries. even if they are, they're minimal). Instead she sees herself as inferior to the husband. this also has a lot to do with gender equality and rights than teenage sex education. women who divorce their husbands in Nigeria are also left out homeless without property (which the husband's family claims even this happens with death) In European countries on the other hand as you can see, there is better "equitable financial divisions" which most of the time even works in favor of the women. also wives who suffer physical/emotional abuse in africa can't divorce their husbands without having major problems (see #1).whereas in the United States, they can!. All these causes are very rampant in other countries too. But the effects vary widely. another issue is time and change. The United States today is more liberal and very different from the United States 200 years ago. probably divorce was illegal then even if the husband is beating the wife to death in the house. Today, women have more rights (plenty compared to some countries) Africa on the other hand is one that's very conservative and changing a little bit more slowly. With time, I wouldn't be suprised if gay marriages were legalized. Believe me Wesley, most of our problems in Nigeria were actually imported from the US in particular and Western Nations in general. And we are working very hard to retrace our steps and go back to our roots, no matter how crude those roots are.This is one quote of yours i don't get. can you please elaborate more? nigerian problems were imported from the US? you mean the corruption, lack of electricity, water, AIDS(started in africa), You can't go back in time. The goal of every nation should be to move foward. Nigerian condition as bad as it maybe i would bet is certainly better tha 100 years ago. so why not think of moving foward and advancing in the areas the United States have succeded in instead of saying we want to go back? ---------------------- It's sort of obvious to me that you don't know what "sex education" means. I take it in my health class and each year we advance more and learn a lot about relationships, what mistakes to avoid, HIV/AIDS prevention, abstinence as the best solution, STDS, safety, medical precautions, Child to Parent relationships, Peer Pressure, how to handle abuse, reporting victims/ suspected abusers e.t.c. as you can see, sex education doesn't mean you go to a class and have sex! as that's what i believe you're thinking. i know many Nigerians who say to me "my mom told me you get pregnant when you touch a guy". that's just plain ignorant. and you need not tell me about abuse in United States because Nigeria has it's own share in the area (let me not even talk about teachers sexually harrasing/abusing students who don't know enough to report this to the police). telling a person to avoid sex education before age 18 can be dangerous. you don't know what your friends might be advising you (like you mentioned about that thread) so it's better to know what's right and wrong so that you don't have to ask unqualified people or peers for sexual advice. |
goodluck |
Now, how do you think I will take one smith-lawfirm seriously on this issue? Pointblank, I will not take whatever any American law firm has to say on this matter seriously. For all I care, it's one of your lawyer friend website. http://www.smith-lawfirm.com/sex_ed.htmlfirst of all, info on the importance of sex education is all over the web. If indeed you need mroe links, here they are: http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/sex-education/CC00032 http://www.advocatesforyouth.org/rrr/definitions.htm http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_education If you want more links. I'll provide them. I have no affiliate with the author of that first website and if i should guess, those facts are basic truths to prevent cases of abuse where people sue each other. check out the other websites and don't come telling me wikipedia is my grandpa's bestfriends's cousin. ono:The rest of your post ^ lack credibility as you have no evidence to back up your assertion that gay marriages e.t.c are the worst form of human life in history. even your statement that they stem from parents attitude toward their kids is even more astounding. have you ever heard of the statement "liberal" "freedom" e.t.c? i know you have. and there should be a connection going on in your mind. CNN gives you facts but do they tell you if these facts correlate with worse way of life in human history? I'm not even going to count "your friend". doesn't CNN also tell you that Africa has the highest rate of HIV/AIDS in the globe (lack of sex education e.t.c are HUGE factors) and can you give me the source where you found this info: "They are even spreading their diseases towards Europe and Africa!" what diseases? HIV that has it's origins in the Congo, Africa? Did you know that the United States as well as other european counties actually fund tons of money to relieve Africa in the HIV campaigns? The United States doesn't have the highest sexual abuse record in human history as you suggested (without evidence to back up your assertion) http://www.hartford-hwp.com/archives/37/018.html neither does it have the highest rapes (even though the rate compared to many european nations is quite high) the reason you think it is is because many countries don't publish or give statistics and news on what's going on. The amount of rapes in Nigeria alone i wouldn't be surprised if it was higher than the United States. If i were to go on, with this, it probably wouldn't end. It'll be an understatement to say Nigeria has one of the worse way of life in human history. Since most true facts and violence that go on there are most times unannounced (wasn't there a controversy on whether to jail the journalist that dared to capture the news of the 11 year old burnt to death? wasn't AIT banned for showing some news on TV about a plane crash and deaths?) now think of how many cases as such there are or have being that have gone uncaptured/ recorded (considering the fact that most news in the US is covered). I'm not making a case for the United States, i'm just trying to justify the importance of education including sexual education for teenagers. and you need to start backing up your facts with evidence and source. as i don't know where your getting those random facts from. they might as well be made up. |
ono:No you didn't. You said (and i can quote you in like three places) specifically physics e.t.c. learning is a broad term is my point exactly!!!!!!Romance forums also are educative whether you want to believe it or not. you said girls shouldn't learn about sex or visit the romance forums instead they should limit their knowledge to only the math, physics and some sports and technology forums. Is there any gap between knowledge, maturity, age, and learning? Methink they are all inter-woven one way or the other. In fact they all depend on each other for survival, if you'd ask me.there are gaps between these stuffs you mention. some not so much as the others but there are! you can be a 30 year old guy and still not know that it's important to protect yourself when having sex. That's why sex education is important. Also, you get marture as you get older but maturity combines other factors too. I said the girl's 17yrs old. Editing was almost zero, if not zero. You can see the sections already, from the heading.Now if i were you, what i would do is tell these girls the importance of not having unprotected sex or the maybe consequences onf engaging in sexual relations at an early age. That's what the Romance forum's for: to teach, educate, inform each other on these matters, and share experiences. You can't say that if they were reading "physics" and "physics" only, no girl under 18 will ever have sex. actually there are more danger and hurt to a human than sex. social, emotional distress are just a part of it. |
U are obviously the one using a strawman approach here. You call it a MYTH. I call it Creationism. Why don't you start a thread on your case against the supposed myth and we battle it there. This thread is on the errors in the evolution theory. Thank Youcreationism as i know it is a myth. "creation myth" as it is called. And there are actually different versions depending on the geographical areas and time periods. Some building on each other. you say there are "historical proofs". I would like to know these prooves if you don't mind and don't give me a "this is a case against evolution" thread story. I'm waiting for the historical proofs you've got on how the world was created in six calendar days. Maybe when you bring those prooves (they have to be reliable too) I can take back my position on creationism being a myth. Also i think you should also take a look at this book The Epic of Gilgamesh http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/014044100X/103-6468954-1296611?v=glance&n=283155 (the copy i own is a David Ferry rendition because it's less complicated since i was 13 when i acquired it) This book certainly outdates the book of Genesis but share lots of similarities on the Flood (Noah's ark) the question now is: Is Genesis a sort of copy of the Gilgamesh epic. i.e, did Genesis copy Gilgamesh? There's lots of evidence to support that it did. the story is certainly a myth (you'll see if you read it that it certainly wasn't real. The story in itself is sort of primitive and very simplistic. the Genesis version is more complicated and makes more sense as it is newer. After you've fully answered Nferyn's questions of course. |
now that's one heck of a s[b]mile[/b]y ![]() |
treize:that's sooo cute .awwww ![]() |
all she will need to do is click "this is spam" whenever she recieves any of his messagesLol @ that. ![]() the reason i said that was because some guy in my school got suspended for harrasment because he kept sending this girl love notes all the time even when the girl said she wasn't interested. I guess the internet is different. anyways. most girls won't really be excited when some guy is repeatedly spamming you w/ stuff like that. It's scary. |
that's not nice. snazzy doesn't even like you either. ![]() |
hezekiah2:@ Seun, i was referring to the quote in bold. That would be called harrasment. wouldn't it be? |
hezekiah2:The last time i checked, that was called "sexual harrasment". *goes to check again* oops. it's still called sexual harrasment. I can tell you one secret. it's called: How to become snazzy's hero): *jump into a well* shhh. . don't tell anyone. it's top secret. Snazzy will be happy with you for the rest of her life if you could do that. |
muhahahahahhehehkekekekkakakaka @ oh boy,hezekiah. .Lol. ![]() *dies* |
or maybe they feel that they have better technology and stuff now than the limited ones they had in the past to make the newer versions better than the old ones. ![]() these movies they remake are usually classics too meaning : they live forever!! (maybe they don't want the stories to die? ) |
chillin:i know right? ![]() hezekiah, can we see what you look like, maybe snazzy will be able to judge if your good enough for her or not. obviously your posts don't meet up to her standards (as she's not falling heads over heels for your words). maybe your looks will make up for that. hehe. goodluck in finding your love ![]() |
i love your pics Hotstepper (all three). I have this cute t shirt too that says "1 <3 Naiija". |
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(she thinks i'm addicted to my medication)

. No need arguing with you. makes no sense to me.
