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Romance › Re: Why Are Some Woman More Attracted To Bad Boys,than The Good One?(photo) by Westerhoffe(m): 7:19pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
After Bad Guys have shown them Hell on Earth, they'd now start looking for a Good Guy to settle down with… that's a complete imbalance that should be reversed. |
Politics › Re: Why Nigeria Has Not Experienced Military Coup Since 1999 - Obasanjo by Westerhoffe(m): 7:17pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
ronalmagic10: There's a coup now in sadeast
Simon Ekpa has successfully dethroned Nnamdi cownu Can you guys please stop these? It's becoming stale and annoying. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Wagner Group Boss Prigozhin Appears In New Video, Says I'm Not Dead (Video) by Westerhoffe(m): 5:06pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
Video was released on August 23… |
Career › Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Westerhoffe(m): 1:45pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
IconicR: My friend already resolved never to have anything to do with the company again Those staff will never respect her which is why I'm against the way my friend's mother scolded her before her staff. You know one thing is, tell your friend not to always let anger becloud her understanding. Saying she'll never have anything to do with the company is a mistake. Tell her to do what I told you earlier and see what her mum will spill. |
Career › Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Westerhoffe(m): 1:35pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
IconicR: They are stealing her money as well and she doesn't know, they are scared my friend will know their secrets You really don't know these people You think she doesn't know? She knows they're stealing from her. But she's weighed the differences and recovery. Don't let your friend put herself in any harm's way. Whatever she has to tell her mum, she should do it at home and let the mother take decisions at work.
You'd be surprised she'll reply with, "I know" when your friend tells had they're stealing from her. |
Career › Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Westerhoffe(m): 1:25pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
IconicR: Nairalanders please is it fair for a mother to suspend her own daughter for fighting her staff?
My friend's mother owns a large company with lots of staff, so she recently completed her nysc program and waiting to be called up for a job so she had to put up at her mum's company as an intern and she was doing her job well to see things done.
Most of the staff do not like to take instructions from her and this has resulted to altercations with most of them, they keep reporting to her mum till a meeting was finally called.
The staff seems to have connived against her and without even bothering to hear her side of the story her mum said she knows what she can do and she won't allow her to cause problems in her company, so she immediately suspended her and ask her to leave and go home.
The staff were happy with this judgement and some made some snide remarks while she was leaving.
This thing has really troubled her recently and she's thinking maybe her mom doesn't like her as she stated that if it were her brother she won't give such judgement.
Was she wrong in trying to put things in order which resulted to most of those fights with the staff?
Was the mum right to have passed such kind of judgement before her staff ?
My friend's mom told her to go resume next week on the condition that she'll behave well but my friend told her mum she's not stepping foot in her company again.
Nairalanders please without being biased who is at fault here? Mmm… Let me tell you something even if it was you.
Parents are bound to make tough decisions and take difficult steps at times for the good of their children.
That mum is wise and only trying to protect her daughter. That mum noticed no one was on her daughter's side! Which is a very dangerous situation for the safety and well-being of your friend in that environment.
She would have made a huge mistake if she had taken the side of her daughter, putting her in harm's way when all the staffs are already against her.
So when she gets back home, let her be the first to go and meet her mum and hug her tight, with, "Thanks mum for being there for me." and it will shock you she might reply with, "I won't let them kill my daughter for me." |
Politics › Re: Residents In Awe After Witnessing Rainfall In Only A Section Of Their Street by Westerhoffe(m): 1:06pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
I've witnessed it several times...but one thing got my attention one day when I came across it in the Bible…
“And also I have withholden the rain from you, when there were yet three months to the harvest: and I caused it to rain upon one city, and caused it not to rain upon another city: one piece was rained upon, and the piece whereupon it rained not withered.” — Amos 4:7 (KJV)
What signs do you think this is giving us? |
Crime › Re: Man Wrongly Arrested And Held Testifies After 10 Years by Westerhoffe(m): 1:01pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
Mmm… This force… |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Gabon: Ali Bongo Reaction As Wife Talks To Military Officer (video) by Westerhoffe(m): 12:48pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
Fear of the unknown… |
Celebrities › Re: Gistlover: Ini Edo Or Who Among These Celebrities Has The Worst Bbl Liposuction by Westerhoffe(m): 12:42am On Aug 31, 2023 |
Jeon:

This will favor Nigerians and their families.  In what way? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Breaking: Russia Intelligence Claims The US Sponsored Gabon Coup by Westerhoffe(m): 10:01pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Interesting… |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Gabon President Who Blocked Internet Access Is Telling People To Make Noise by Westerhoffe(m): 4:37pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Chinjo2: Karma is really a bitch You should bold that. |
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Family › Re: If You Were Their Mom, What Would Be Your Decision On This Issue? by Westerhoffe(m): 2:43pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Simple! Apply Solomon's wisdom and see what happens. |
Family › Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by Westerhoffe(m): 2:41pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Chizzy7890: I traveled to Togo against my parents wish in the year 2021 for a greener pasture I left behind my 3 years old daughter with my parents , although the reality I have seen in Togo was not as expected, but I was at least working and sending something home to my parents.
Communication was less because I couldn't afford to calls more often. I returned back home this august the 7th and my daughter was nowhere to be found.
My parents first lied to me that she was with my mum's sister that they will send someone to pick her up but to no avail. So myself I went to my mum sister house and my daughter wasn't there and she doesn't know where she was.
I asked my parents over and over again all I could get is insults from my dad , he is angry whenever i bring the subject and my siblings are not cooperating and they've refusing to tell me the truth.
I am sick and tired of asking and no getting any answers I am trying to be calm to avoid disrespecting my parents but I am loosing patience.
So many things is going throught my head I will have no option but to take things into my own hands and hurt my dad the outcome may be deadly ,
Please no insult how do I handle the situation without disrespecting my parents or do you think I should take the matter to the police ? Firstly, try to know if the child is with her father. If he's not, then something terrible must have happened.
Just involve the police. |
Health › Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Westerhoffe(m): 2:37pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Anny69: Sharing it too.. Wehdone… continue dribbling so'gbo? Maa ge mi o… mo mbo.  |
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Politics › Re: How Lawyers’ Show Of Shame During Football Match Mars NBA Conference by Westerhoffe(m): 10:44am On Aug 30, 2023 |
Vawulence Pro Max Football Match. |
Phones › Re: 3 Types Of People You Will Find On Whatsapp Status by Westerhoffe(m): 9:40am On Aug 30, 2023 |
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Health › Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Westerhoffe(m): 9:40am On Aug 30, 2023 |
Anny69: I agree with you. I don't support child abuse. Cool.  |
Health › Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Westerhoffe(m): 9:39am On Aug 30, 2023 |
Anny69:
By liking your posts. Are you sure it's just that?  |
Romance › Re: Anybody That Blames The Girl Is A Fool, He Deserves What He Got! by Westerhoffe(m): 9:20am On Aug 30, 2023 |
This is not right. You don't make this kind of a prank… it will surely go wrong. She's clearly heartbroken and devastated. Anyone would. But the lady went extreme damaging that car. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Sets 3-year Economic Revival, 50million Jobs Target by Westerhoffe(m): 7:38am On Aug 30, 2023*. Modified: 1:23pm On Jun 20 |
50 million youths!? You guys are going into the military!  |
Politics › Re: Southerners Vs Northerners: WHO Is AT FAULT? by Westerhoffe(m): 7:07am On Aug 30, 2023 |
Well said. |
Politics › Re: Don’t Use Political Powers To Squeeze Judiciary, Society - Jonathan by Westerhoffe(m): 6:58am On Aug 30, 2023*. Modified: 6:48am On Sep 02, 2023 |
I find real and big sense in what the former president Goodluck Jonathan said. Politicians should tread softly now and not continue to oppress the people. When the oppression becomes too much to the point it is completely unbearable, people will react.
I think this is finally the generation of those who won't take it anymore. Gabonese Military too has taken over. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Military seizes power in Gabon by Westerhoffe(m): 6:56am On Aug 30, 2023 |
What's happening in Africa o!  |
Politics › Re: Please Help! I Am An Obidient Who Do Not Know How To Use Twitter by Westerhoffe(m): 11:14pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Leave Obi alone and face yourself… He does not know your ass, nor would he have given a damn about you it he had won the elections.
So, face yourself. |
Health › Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Westerhoffe(m): 11:07pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: You injected blood where there is no mention of blood, distorted the claims made by OP to add that the umbilical cord was left untrimmed along with mentions of after birth. Wetin you wan make I do with that? Nod my head and say yes your twist is the correct version of events? Abegi  Get you through the post again. This time, read with an open mind, break down the sentences and understand their meanings. You see this, and you're still arguing… placed in the sack and no clothes, not cleaned, unblical cord dangling out.Honestly, I doubt your sanity. |
Family › Re: I Made My Ex-girlfriend(who Is Now A Single Mother) A Deal, Would You Take It ? by Westerhoffe(m): 11:04pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
alizma: I don't post for acceptance, I say what I think and believed should be said and that my view has brought mean to where I am today. Then you shouldn't have quoted/mention me in your comment. You should have just passed your comment with the normal click on the (Reply). |
Family › Re: I Made My Ex-girlfriend(who Is Now A Single Mother) A Deal, Would You Take It ? by Westerhoffe(m): 11:02pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
NNEVERAGAINN: why talk at her sister? Did anyone force her ex promiscuous girlfriend to sex around? You idiot and fools are quick to point peoples sisters and mothers. Why will my sister go sex around only to bring unwanted babies home🤮🙄 That's one problem with people like you… You just comment trash thinking you're making sense. Can you idiotically classify the points and reasons, situations and circumstances that can make any girl/lady/woman become a single mother, even with the possibilty of her being decent, and raised with high moral standards?
You added 'promiscuity' just to savor your comment, but still, can't you see you just sound stupid as even the OP didn't mention that yet about her?
Do you even know what your sisters do in the secret?
Come, don't make me ram at you tonight. |