Health › Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Westerhoffe(m): 10:52pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: What I have a problem with is you pretending you can inject your delusions between the lines only to force it down my throat.  No… you should be worried about your inabilty to understand simple English sentences. Despite pointing out your error, you still tried to shy away all because you think no one can correct you. Well, that's your problem… not mine. |
Health › Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Westerhoffe(m): 10:35pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Again, OP's initial description does not include info on the umbilical cord being untrimmed nor of the baby being covered in blood ooo! 
Do you think my sanity is to be questioned in this case? It is possible the father had a hand in depositing the child were it was found so stop being biased in your conclusion.  Now I see you sure have a problem understanding what is written. Just get behind me, please.  |
Health › Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Westerhoffe(m): 10:21pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: OP's initial description does not include info on the umbilical cord being untrimmed nor of the baby being covered in blood ooo! 
Do you think my sanity is to be questioned in this case? It is possible the father had a hand in depositing the child were it was found so stop being biased in your conclusion.  I got out from the bus and went and view for myself, behold a dead baby (about 8 or 9 months) placed in the sack and no clothes, not cleaned, unblical cord dangling out. This is culled from the main post. It should help you.
Description from the OP clearly shows this was a crime of from birth to the dirts. And yes… your psyche needs being questioned because you're always controversial when everyone are being reasonable. |
Family › Re: I Made My Ex-girlfriend(who Is Now A Single Mother) A Deal, Would You Take It ? by Westerhoffe(m): 10:19pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
alizma: This is where you guys mistake our politicians. This is purely an offer, take it or leave it. The lady has through her path to enjoying her life, got pregnant and had a child/children for another man. Many of you trying to speak in the girl's favor will not for any reason, accept a single mother but you are here to criticize a man who accepts her with an offer. Rather that criticize the guy, look for the girl and advice net not to take the offer. In your eyes now, you've made a point? Never again tag me with any people who follows politicians blindly. And comparing this to politicians even does not rhyme with this case.
They say, "If you claim you know how to write, remember those who knows how to read. And if you claim you're a good orator, remember who there are people with good hearing capability.
You don't in any way give anyone this kind of a proposal. It's demeaning. Read the bolded in the post. |
Health › Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Westerhoffe(m): 10:03pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: HOw do you know it was a she that did this? What if the mother instead left the baby for the man only for him to choose to abandon it where it was found? Stop being biased in these things.  So, she had the newer born with umbilical cord not trimmed, blood and all newly birthed stains, she then carried it like that over to the father, who then took it to the trash bin, left to die.
Your sanity at times needs query.  |
Health › Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Westerhoffe(m): 9:35pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Anny69: I didn't actually know it's even a word. I luff you as a fellow Nairalnder. Don't mind me, I'm just playing. I no gree o! You must explain how you can luff me as a Nairalander. |
Health › Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Westerhoffe(m): 9:33pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Anny69: You're right. But what if she's poor and can not afford emergency contraception? What if the police can't do anything? What if the woman can't abort, because of fear of having issues with the womb? She could have wrapped the baby properly and kept him/her where good Samaritans can easily find him/her alive instead of the born to be executed method.
But the best still remains, abstain, if you can't take care of the child. |
Phones › Re: 3 Types Of People You Will Find On Whatsapp Status by Westerhoffe(m): 9:28pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Anny69: I fall between the first and the second category. 🙈 And that says… Normal Almost Mad.
No be me talk am o! |
Phones › Re: 3 Types Of People You Will Find On Whatsapp Status by Westerhoffe(m): 9:26pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Ceasarceasar: Movie?
 I tell you bro… especially these Korean series… |
Family › Re: I Made My Ex-girlfriend(who Is Now A Single Mother) A Deal, Would You Take It ? by Westerhoffe(m): 9:23pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
alizma: It has nothing to do with him if the offer is thrown to his sister, this is a personal decision. You don't take advantage of people because you see them as weak at that moment… that's what this proposal reeks. |
Romance › Re: I Want To Thank Nairaland Men For This Single Act. by Westerhoffe(m): 9:19pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
I might be sarcastic at times in my comments, but I'll always stand for what is right.
To be sincere, I feel really sorry for the lady in question. It is very devaluing to give someone such demeaning proposal. I believe the lady in question is struggling, including her family, hence he expects her to dive at the offer.
The section of the proposal that really got me triggered was:
Have 2 children for me, those 2 children will automatically become dual citizens and I might consider marrying you and adopting your child but even if I don't marry you, your 2 children that you have by me will be taken care of and being dual citizens of a developed country they can turn to a blessing for you and your whole family in future. Is it children or humans one can be predicting their future by now? Who knows what they will become in the said future?
The deal is not a reasonable deal… it's full of ego and belittling of the other party… and that's something of a character I am not raised to exude. |
Phones › Re: 3 Types Of People You Will Find On Whatsapp Status by Westerhoffe(m): 9:05pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Nehyooh: Don't mind them, I haven't view ordinary photo, much more videos. Those kind of people think everyone no get job like them   |
Health › Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Westerhoffe(m): 11:39am On Aug 29, 2023 |
Anny69:
Hehehe. luff Etymology From Old French lof. Collins English Dictionary states that this word is ultimately derived from Middle Dutch loef. Ellert Ekwall's Shakspere's Vocabulary: its etymological elements (1903) related this verb and loof instead to the East Frisian verb lofen, lufen, which would make it cognate to the French term lover.
Noun luff (plural luffs)(nautical) The vertical edge of a sail that is closest to the direction of the wind. By easing the halyard, the luff of the sail was made to sag to leeward. (nautical) The act of sailing a ship close to the wind. (nautical) The roundest part of a ship's bow. (nautical) The forward or weather leech of a sail, especially of the jib, spanker, and other fore-and-aft sails. Verb luff (third-person singular simple present luffs, present participle luffing, simple past and past participle luffed)(nautical, of a sail, intransitive) To shake due to being trimmed improperly. (nautical, of a boat, intransitive) To alter course to windward so that the sails luff. (Alternatively luff up) (nautical, transitive) to let out (a sail) so that it luffs. (mechanical) To alter the vertical angle of the jib of a crane so as to bring it level with the load.Extracted from the Wiktionary under the CC-BY-SA 3.0 licence[/b] Oya o! Auntie, come and explain your luff for me o!  |
Phones › Re: 3 Types Of People You Will Find On Whatsapp Status by Westerhoffe(m): 11:36am On Aug 29, 2023 |
Nehyooh: That's it bro, I actually have some particular people have muted their status because I know they won't post anything reasonable  Some will go as far as uploading a full movie as status… Like, who does that? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Man Reunited With Chilean Mother 42 Years After Kidnapping by Westerhoffe(m): 11:27am On Aug 29, 2023 |
Well, let me pen this here that, on her delivery date, I'll be so hard on any doctor(s) or nurse(s) who would say, "You can't go beyond this point." Because I must be there during the delivery, and be the first to carry my baby while I tie a scarlet thread on his right wrist before giving him out for the clean up.
Nobody will swap my baby for another…
Never!! |
Family › Re: I Made My Ex-girlfriend(who Is Now A Single Mother) A Deal, Would You Take It ? by Westerhoffe(m): 11:19am On Aug 29, 2023 |
Abifarin16: I think it's safe to say he is a narcissist. Yea… it's safe to. |
Family › Re: I Made My Ex-girlfriend(who Is Now A Single Mother) A Deal, Would You Take It ? by Westerhoffe(m): 11:18am On Aug 29, 2023 |
Abifarin16: Please help me ask him ooo. Because of dual citizenship. God Abeg no allow any human being show me shege for this life. Just negodu! |
Health › Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Westerhoffe(m): 11:18am On Aug 29, 2023 |
Anny69: I luff you.   You? Let me check the meaning of the sentence first. |
Family › Re: I Made My Ex-girlfriend(who Is Now A Single Mother) A Deal, Would You Take It ? by Westerhoffe(m): 10:12am On Aug 29, 2023*. Modified: 6:01pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
beekind: I have never seen this kind of response in forums in the western world, part of the reason we are a third world country is that people are unable to articulate themselves objectively. What is the point of this emotional rebuttal.
If someone gives my sister that option, its her choice not mine and I wouldn't feel anything since shes not being coerced, shes being given an option which she can choose to accept or reject.
As a matter of fact, it is better to meet someone who is honest from the get go about what he wants than to marry, abandon the lady and travel back abroad which a lot of Nigerian men do , they leave their wives here and refuse to sponsor her abroad.
So me putting all my cards on the table is a sign of integrity in case you do not realise that. Check your proposal and see if you'd like it if you were in her shoes. Your proposal is ego stricken. If you are going to marry her, do it and if you are not going to, let her go, and you thrash these egoistic proposal. Just read your phrases again… Jeez! |
Family › Re: Most Nigerian Parents Now Ignore Their Children's Moral Behavior by Westerhoffe(m): 8:54am On Aug 29, 2023 |
They're tired. |
Phones › Re: 3 Types Of People You Will Find On Whatsapp Status by Westerhoffe(m): 8:52am On Aug 29, 2023 |
TemplarLandry:  There's a fourth degree. When they flood their statuses with too many posts, that icon turns to a perfect circle. 🔮 I mute such statuses… And the most annoying part is, their statuses are usually senseless. |
Politics › Re: Presiden Tinubu Yesterday Unveiled An Eight-point Agenda by Westerhoffe(m): 8:49am On Aug 29, 2023 |
The last time an ex president said something like this, he didn't achieve it. |
Family › Re: I Made My Ex-girlfriend(who Is Now A Single Mother) A Deal, Would You Take It ? by Westerhoffe(m): 8:47am On Aug 29, 2023 |
What will be your reaction if someone gives your sister such conditions? |
Car Talk › Re: 18.3 Mpg by Westerhoffe(m): 8:33am On Aug 29, 2023 |
It's good.
That's approximately 30KM per 4litres. |
Health › Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Westerhoffe(m): 8:21am On Aug 29, 2023 |
If she now eventually get married and turned barren, she'll now be accusing her innocent mother-in-law and husband's families of being behind her condition, disturbing innocent media and blasting fastings and prayers.
I also blame whoever gets her pregnant. You don't just sleep with a woman for the fun. It's not just meant for fun. It's a process of bringing a life into this physical realm. And if you don't want to take responsibility of that life, don't tread the lane.
That's why before I'll walk down the aisle with any lady, I must see the desire of motherhood in you amongst other qualities, because I don't believe that bullshit of, "I love you" from any woman… |
Politics › Re: NLC Gives Police 48 Hours To Vacate NURTW Secretariat by Westerhoffe(m): 8:16am On Aug 29, 2023 |
What concerns NLC with NURTW?  |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu: I Won’t Beg For My Freedom by Westerhoffe(m): 7:13am On Aug 29, 2023 |
Nonybb: First they told him to counter Simon Ekpa, he did, condemning the Sit-at-home order done to make FG quickens his release. They even made him to write a botched up doctored letter to Mr Ekpa. Secondly, they wanted to humiliate him by making him beg for his life. Fulani people are wicked and inconsiderate Mehn! It was just like you were among them! Chai! |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu: I Won’t Beg For My Freedom by Westerhoffe(m): 7:11am On Aug 29, 2023 |
Just free him already… and see what happens. |
Crime › Re: Ogun Police Arrest 116 Suspected Gang Members by Westerhoffe(m): 7:11am On Aug 29, 2023 |
Cultism doesn't help at this age. But hope there are no innocent among the arrested? |
Politics › Re: Fuel Subsidy: Our Members Are Marginalised In Palliative Distribution – PWDs Cry by Westerhoffe(m): 7:08am On Aug 29, 2023 |
The last palliatives were hidden until all were expired, and anyone expects this? |
Family › Re: Residents Stunned By Goliath-sized Man Walking On The Road by Westerhoffe(m): 7:15pm On Aug 28, 2023 |
ritzyvic1: I will He has acromegaly It's caused by a pituitary tumor that is secreting excess growth hormone Yea… |
Romance › Re: Thread Of Celebrities Breakups That Shocked The World by Westerhoffe(m): 6:23pm On Aug 28, 2023 |
How is their breakup shocking?  |