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Mr Fly.
He is fond of chasing after students.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
And how does a woman proposing relinquish one's birthright?

Even a blind man can see what is wrong there.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
You are not mentally ok..
What on Earth is wrong with a woman proposing to the guy she loves?
Pls and pls don't let religion stop you from thinking for yourself..

Everything is wrong about it. It seems you men have decide to relinquish your birthright to the women in the name of modernization.

May God bless and protect you Rev. Fr. Ejike Mbaka for speaking the truth according to the directions of the Holy Spirit.He who have ears let him hear.

Rev Fr.Mbaka, God will surely fight for you and your enemies will be put to shame, in Jesus name. Amen

BegAt40:
Only if you can say this rubbish in my presence. BASTARD

You just confirmed my statement.

Holy Mary, full of Grace the Lord is with you blessed are thou amongst women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus Christ. Holy Mary mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen

OnyeObodo:
You think its a joke?

I just read a post where Theonlysonofher was complaining of his wife poisoned his mother with salt. And some men were doubting of what happened.

Let me tell you something youngman, there is 99% chance its a deliberate act. She is a murderer. She deliberately poisoned your mother. How did I know?

If it was her own mother, she will be extremely careful about her health. She will not feed her salt.

My Grandmother is living in our family house now with my mother and I see how my mother treats her diet. She is extremely careful about what doctors said she should eat or not eat. She is so cautious about this.

Check well, your mother is influential in your life and your wife is seeing her as competition. She wants to eliminate her. Nigerian women are that Satanic.

If not that Nigeria is a huge crime scene, many so called men who died in this cesspit were actually murdered by their wives through food poisoning. Most times, its slow. Atimes, its quick. Just to acquire your wealth and live the life she never had at childhood. Nigerian women are hard hearted. Know this and know peace.

Reason smart men use them for rituals when they are done bearing children. Or Divorce them the least. Ask FFK.

From a bitter and destructive soul. Accept JESUS and have peace.

BegAt40:
I've watched several YouTube videos on it but I don't think anyone of them is correct and they're all click baits.

I just want to piss inside these useless things and feel fulfilled.

We have alot of sick kids on this forum.

HenryDion:
So, my friend just called me early this morning to let me know that his newly married wife have a tattoo around her vagina area.

I was dumbfounded, cause that can only mean one thing, but we could be wrong.

Right now this so called friend of mine is confused and restless, and they were the 'no sex before marriage' crew.

I didn't bother asking for a picture, even though I was tempted to ask.

Dear NLders, what do you think about the tattoo? Should he be worried?

Are you trying to justify sex before marriage, by your fabricated story?

annyplenty:
The Dream I had about the Pope signing a document, while surrounded by many clergymen and what the Lord said

In the early hours of Monday, 8th November, 2021, Nigerian time, I had the following dream.

In the dream, I saw Pope Francis, seated, in the Vatican. He was in white attire. He was the only one in white. Many clergymen, I think, Hundreds of them, all of them wearing black suits and white collars like bishops attire, were seated round about him. He was seated in the centre of them all, like in a circle

A document was in front of the pope. Then he signed the document as the clergymen watched him signed it.

As he signed the document, the voice of the Lord came to me and said, *'now start buying food to keep'*.

Immediately as the Voice said that to me, I understood that very soon, it might be difficult to buy food and that document signed may be the trigger.

The dream ended.

Shalom

Why not pray for the Pope, pray for the church to prevent such an incidence to occur.

Curvinus:
OP I think you are taking this redpill talk to an extreme and toxic level that may end up consuming you. To put things in perspective, Redpill is not the same as hating women. Its like you've never been cared for by women, hence the bitterness.

Personally, I've benefitted a lot from women so I dont go about bashing them needlessly. However, there are the entitled class of women who want to exploit you without contributing meaningfully to your life. It is this lot that redpill teaches you to avoid.

A lot of women in our society today are bread winners for their families. My own sister has been the one catering for her family since she got married in 2012. Her husband is unemployed and she even tried raising money for him to go into agro business bwhich didnt turn out well. I lent her some money to start up her own business after she got fired working as sales attendant in a pharmacy and today she has opened a business for her husband from the proceeds after repaying part of the loan.

I have a lot of respect for Nigerian women because of what they go through on a daily basis in this weird system we are operating. Nigeria is a known poverty capital. What did you expect that the women will lie down and rot without trying to survive. Men and women are at the receiving end of this harsh economic climate and it's pointless just bashing women endlessly.

A lot of this women, what they want from a man is just commitment that could lead to marriage and once they are in a relationship with you, they do everything within their powers, like washing, cooking, cleaning, sexing and some even spending on you just so you could end up as couples and start a family. But In the end, most men will still leave them for a younger and prettier girl.

I think you are too detached from what is happening in the trenches to make valid contributions on this redpill talk.

On point.

ngoziwrites:
So, I met this great guy online. After 2 weeks, we met in person and everything was perfect.

It's almost 2 months since we have been together.

He asked me out while we were together and I gladly said yes. (I have met a lot of players�). So while we were together, a discussion popped up and he said he can't discuss anything related to marriage until after 6 months. I pretended not to hear.


I don't know his financial capacity but I know he is doing okay. He controls the family business. They sell trucks, trailers and all. He is also a landlord in one of his father's houses at Festac. We stayed at a hotel. 25k per night. He paid for 2 night and I paid for one night. But during these times, we went to his house.

He said he didn't want me to come to see his place because it's the first time. And he said the house is very hot too.


Our communication is great but he doesn't look like he wants marriage soon. He has said things like marriage is hard work. He has also said in 10 years time, people will hardly be getting married.

Then one night, we were talking and he said I "see my wife as my responsibility"
I will take care of her and of cos, I am okay but I will still be very very rich, so I can't bring in any woman to suffer now" .. That's what I am sure I heard but I was scared to ask him to explain further or repeat himself.

He is actually okay, he has two cars but importantly, he has sense and he is very hard-working. But he is very principled and we have actually had several instances where he doesn't pick my calls at night. It happens often but I am starting to trust him, because sometimes I call by 5am and he picks and says he slept off. Sometimes we would be chatting on WhatsApp and after I call him 20 minutes later, he won't respond. He is not married!

So, I currently earn 450k monthly and I have been able to save something meaningful, so I can start a good business before getting married or after. I haven't stated because I don't know which one yet. I started a restaurant business when I was 23 but it failed.

If I ask him and he says 1 year, of course, I can wait. I will be 26 years next year April.

We will seeing for the 2nd time next week. I plan to ask him when he sees himself getting married but I am scared and the way he carries himself makes me reluctant to ask such.

About two weeks ago, I wanted to even surprise him with gifts. I asked for his account number and office/home address. (He picked me up the last time I traveled to see him, so I don't know the address". Well, he didn't give me these details. He said when it's time I will have them.


Two days ago, he said a friend's younger brother is getting married. He laughed and said people just dey marry. He has once asked me "You dey find husband?" jokingly-

I would like to settle before 27. Is it bad that I am thinking this way? If he says he is looking to get married in 2-3 years, i think it's a bit far. 2023 is still fine. But the problem is he doesn't really sound like marriage is on his mind. He will be 32 next year April too.

We vibe a lot. But he says I love you sparingly. Sometimes I say it and he doesn't respond, he will say tomorrow I will tell u or no, I told u yesterday.

But we are really really cool. I like him a lot and he likes me but I think I like him more. He gives me attention, I don't have to ask.

If I was 23, I won't have a problem waiting 3-4 years. But since I am ready mentally, financially, I am looking for someone who wants it within 6 months to 1 year. I can still try to do 2 years if I get someone great.

Both of you didn't define the relationship before embarking on it. If you had, you could have known whether he wants to marry you or not. But from your write, I think he is not a serious candidate for marriage. Next time, try and define a relationship before embarking on it.

munarule:
I created a post about my brother mental illness last year https://www.nairaland.com/5455661/only-brother-been-afflicted-mental
I want to thank everyone that supported me in prayer and most people that called me personally to pray for my brother. may almighty God bless everyone of you in Jesus name.
Unfortunately my parent paid the money and my brother became so calmed and balance(meanwhile it was after staying in psychiatric hospital for 2 weeks that he was taken to the church). Now my only brother have started roaming about and fighting everybody again just as the way it happened last year. After my father was convinced hes well, he sold one of his land and gave him 800k to go and start life afresh. I told this boy to get a shop in Enugu or Enugu environment for his business but he refused and went back to minna. just 3 months of been in minna, he have started going to control traffic and leaving his business in shop. The worst is he's fighting everybody and my prayer is they shouldn't just kill him. This is my only brother and I don't know what to do again. Now that hes in minna we dont know what to tell him so he can come back to village. please your advise is highly needed.

As for the people that think I just made up the story and trying to talk down on churches, below is the poster of the pastor that collected 120,000 from my parent to heal my brother. They also sow seed and bought koboko, salt and anointing oil for exorbitant amount

Sorry about your brother's health. How is his situation now? Hope he is getting better?

Jesus is the King of Kings!
The Lord of lords!!
Jesus Igweee!!!

MsFaith:
As in, I don’t know why he’s not seeing it that way.

He thinks he’s the redpiller here meanwhile she’s also using him.

Using him to satisfy her sexual urge

Exactly.

Sopies:
One of my ex gf turned FWB just visited me for the weekend, and from my observation I could only marvel at the level of simping from guys out there. This is a girl I quietly broke up with when I observed that she's this kind of girl that likes keeping guys around for monetary gains without really being sexually involved with them, she leads them on under the guise of being in a relationship with them promising them sex when she's ready. Of course the sex never comes till the scales falls off the magas eyes.

I just kept her for knacks and other financial perks since mumu guys is always loading her with money. She stumbled on my real gf one day in my house which led to a bitter breakup between us. Some months later we reconciled but based on FWB levels.

Now to the real gist, this girl is dating about four guys, the one she came to my house from his place already paid her school fees and other expenses. She even came with 15k that the guy gave her which we of course squandered together. The painful part was when she was on call with the guy, oga was sounding so clingy and needy, asking the girl to promise him that he won't share her with someone else. Person wey dey stroke my preek in readiness for another round of sex.

The guy brought up the issue of sex starvation and the babe immediately used reverse psychology on him by feigning anger and accusing him of being after her body. Oga started begging.....chain. This is an average looking girl with just small small curves here and there.

The next one called and it was still the same story, that one is based in Lagos and had sent her tp to visit him but she kept spending the money with excuses, Oga sent 22k in my presence for another tp with a promise of giving her 150k for business if she comes. Babe change am for am o, that if her coming is a prerequisite for the 150k that oga should keep his money. Oga started begging that she should give him time to gather the money.....Smh.....of course he hasn't even seen color of tight.

Another one called in the middle of a romance and the phone would occasionally fall of her hand while she's moaning, oga was on the line shouting hello.....hello....baby are you okay??....what are you doing....hello pls talk naa.....what's that sound..... Babe go pick up tell am say she dey experience mensuration cramp hence the sound......chai

I can go on and on, I've advised her to quit that lifestyle cos she might meet a guy that she won't scam and get away with it but she said she's doing nothing wrong.

Who do men this thing abeg I'm just so unhappy what my fellow guys are going through. One of them maga even has my number, I don't even know how he got it , each time dey have issue he would call me and I would tell him how to handle the girl so she will be loyal, the ode go carry every thing go tell the girl.

She's laying on my bed naked while one guy has been calling for like forever, she would pick the call and be rubbing the mouth piece on her hair, oga go dey shout hello hello. When she manage talk na tear she tear for the guy cut call, oga just dey drop text like rainfall, calling himself all kinds of derogatory name like idiot, foolish etc.

Honestly I'm sad, she's been touching me but I'm not just feeling her again.

Well, you are not left out. You are her intimacy gadget.

BadRadio:
When2

Hmmmm

Tannhauser:


Stop the marriage scam una no hear.
When will sil.ly men realise that the only reason women get married these days is just to have a roof over their heads, an ediot to pay the bills and father their numerous basta.rd children while providing a cover of respectability for them to carry out their olo.sho business.

It seems you are a product of such marriages.
Chai! Sorry. I can feel your pain.
But I want to let you know that some men are enjoying their marriage. Don't use your regga and spoil another person's blues.

Where are the men supporting polygamy, what do you have to say about this case?

kelvin1191:
You said marriage vow must be taken in the body of Christ before it can be complete abi? When God joined Adam and Eve together were they putting on clothes? The man has gone scriptural

Atimes, it's good to keep silent than to spew nonsense.

Pls free her. From your write up, it shows that you don't love her. You are only attracted to her money. Discontinue the relationship and return all what she has given to you. Go and look for your fellow graduate and marry. So that she can meet the person that is meant for her. Your type will be insulting her in marriage, for being an illiterate whenever both of you have a misunderstanding. Pls free her, and save her the headache.

Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.

Evil generation!

johnw47:
habitual blasphemer and fraud jw janosky

you cannot answer anything honestly, of course
the question was not what a earthly father's son is called, but
do you call your earthly father by his name

the answer is no, you don't call your earthly father bill or bill smith or smithy, you call him father etc.


Jesus didn't say to call God jehovah, but said to call Him Father:

Mat_6:9  After this manner therefore pray ye: Our Father which art in heaven
Mat_7:21  Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven.

Well said

Iyaebe:
He will still cheat,men that are pampered are heavily prone to cheating than the ones who is having it slightly hot at home. Women should learn to create fears in their husband's heart(make he subtly dy fear you but dont be wicked)so that whenever he's having the intention of messing around, he'll have a rethink knowing fully well what you are capable of doing. Pamper your husband only when he's old and tired.Don't quote me please.

Lol! You will make a good comedian. Why waste your talent on Nairaland.

[quote author=MaxInDHouse post=107218548]According to Exodus 6:2-3

Then God said to Moses: “I am Jehovah. And I used to appear to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob as God Almighty, but with regard to my name Jehovah I did not make myself known to them. NWT

David said:
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That men may know that thou, whose name alone is JEHOVAH, art the most high over all the earth. Psalms 83:18

Jesus said:

I have manifested thy name unto the men which thou gavest me out of the world: thine they were, and thou gavest them me; and they have kept thy word. John 17:6

And I have declared unto them thy name, and will declare it: that the love wherewith thou hast loved me may be in them, and I in them. John 17:26

And Malachi said:

Then they that feared the LORD spake often one to another: and the LORD hearkened, and heard it, and a book of remembrance was written before him for them that feared the LORD, and that thought upon his name. Malachi 3:16

The God of Egypt is called by his name "Ra", the God of Greece by his name "Zeus", the God of Rome by his name "Jupiter", so the true God want the whole earth to know His name but Satan keeps fighting hard to stop it. The Jews who killed Jesus were the ones that started this madness but Jesus said God's name must be known and pronounced.

If Jesus taught people in his time that God's name must be made known who are those saying it must not be mentioned?

Well if you must know Satan is the initiator of TRINITY doctrines, he wants people to believe that this theory is for Jesus but TRINITY is totally against Jesus that's why it is called the "AntiChrist" now you and your children don't know the name of the true God, if anyone ask your children about the name of the God of their parents they'll say "JESUS" because that's the name they always hear you call, whereas Jesus himself said:

And this is life eternal, that they might know thee the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom thou hast sent. John 17:3

Does it makes sense to you that your children knows the name of the Son of God but don't have any idea about the name of Jesus' father when Jesus said their salvation is tied to these two persons? Joel 2:32

May you have PEACE!












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Who said or what proof do you have that Christians don't know the the of God. Can any child claim that he or she doesn't know the name of his or her father?