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Ebonyeyes:
Hello didnt you see that thread about different guys confessing to have done the do with <60 yr old women? The thread starter is seriously considering sleeping with a 120yr old woman .

Well, u and i know that it cannot be seriously true, because u hardly even find 120yr old women on earth anymore

Ani Lee:
i'll pretend I didnt read that

No need to pretend anymore, i already spotted u were pretending from a mile away

Ebonyeyes:
And men are visual creatures and will hope on any attractive thing with a hole on it .

Most men have got self control, there's a difference between men and boys. But a 25yr old boy would hesistate to do a 50yr old woman, however the reverse is not the case for girls - there is absolutely no difference btw a woman and a girl. As long as money is involved, anything goes

Ani Lee:
shames, did a poor lexie go through such experience once or more than? ,,,,,,, u sound lyk u takn dis on a personal level

Its just an opinion.
But yes, i've seen pretenders and can spot them from a distance. Girls are good pretenders when they choose to, and guys have to be on their guards to prevent being decieved.

Ebonyeyes:
The girls are trifling too But you and I know men are 80% more likely to cheat.

Naaa, u and i dunno that, what u and i know is that girls are more materialistic and therefore more likely to cheat

If anything is too good to be true, it probably is too good to be true, beware women pretend well. . . Your bro may've seen this but u r still blind, open your eyes and let the scales be removed

Ebonyeyes:
Im not disagreeing with you. Thing is these trifling men hide it so you dont know and you think all is bliss in the hood.

Like girls dont cheat more

What an old man sees sitting on a stool, a small child cannot see even when he climbs an iroko tree.

_{For obvious reasons, pls stay away from that girl}

End of the day, a slut is a slut, the dressing doesnt even change much, its in her bloodstream and she cant let it go!

You need to employ a whole lotta patience in this one, cos to be brutally honest, it doesn't go very well what you're trying to do. Why not wait until you're outta their house?

Is she the wrong girl cos u live in her house?

Thats the wrong perception, you're just frightened

Talk of the devil

_{running for dear life}

jay bee:
we are not talking about good girls dressing up for their respective b/f or husbands. i am still scratching my head and trying to understand why a good girl will dress provocatively

Attention seeking!

Ebonyeyes:
You know your crazy right? I would love to see you fall in love one day im sure that will melt your defenses.

Babygirl, ask if u dunno me.
I'm the notorious one, there's practically nothing i've not seen. . .  and hey, right now, i am in love, but i dont allow it rule my decision making!
My girl influences me very much and it feels like i'm dreaming but there is a point it gets to that i suddenly wake up - and that is once she mentions the key word "Money"!

I like to do things for her - it makes me happy, but she cannot decide to rip me off cos she knows she has a hold on me. . .  That wont work

Babyboy26:
i ve asked many times and even at times to kiss each other,she might say that cos i ve taken bear that she dnt like the odour .But i beleive we alwys do this even when i was a junk drinker when i was in the university.

how do i control this situaution cos i ve promised to be one way to her (I mean i dnt want to have any date except my wife).IT IS POSSIBLE. I dnt lijke datting two ladies at a time it affects me as a person

If u call yourself a man, then u gotta go what u gotta do.
Show her who's boss, or sit like a wimp and worry all day

Ebonyeyes:
Negroid please

Biatch please!!

jennygirl:
after toasting u and all that shit,u finally fall for the guy and decide to give him a chance but once he's had sex with u he sends u this annoying e-mail saying that he likes u alot but cannot give u what u want or deserve and would like u guys to be friends if that's ok with u.

See mad skills

jay bee:
lol, at the end of the day na u be my oga  

I don born again ohhh

Ebonyeyes:
Go and date white girls then, I heard they are cheap to maintain and hopefully we will stop getting the "She is a golddigger" threads in NL..

Still fronting

jay bee:
pretty much

I always knew u were skilled in the art

London babes don tear many eyes

Shola2009:
yea, very true looks can be deceiving, but there are some girls who have "hoe,hoe,hoe" written all over their face! thats the truth

True.

Ebonyeyes:
@m_a_sene


If thats you, you are stunning

Not stunning, ok for those who dont mind square faces, boob size 0, and bony bodies

Lol, my baby even refuses money when i offer her for her maintenance. . . I end up hiding cash and love notes in places i know she'll eventually find them. . . or i use the rejected cash to get her the things i know she loves, flowers, perfumes and shoes. . . She cant refuse those

@OP: You can refuse to give her $500 for her hair, but make sure u throw something her way every once in a while.

@OP, I'm very impressed with u, talking with your ex and being friend with him - That shows a lot of maturity and wisdom - when people break up, they must not always quarell and never talk again.

I'll advise u to go with the flow abeg, if u still have feelings for him then whats the sense in fighting it? People break up and then get back together cos the love is stronger than whatever it was that caused their break-up. Sometimes u even date other people but u just know its not right with them, so pls flow with your man and see how u can mend things for good this time around.

Good luck with that.

I think dude is justified if he feels there is a problem at this stage.
What is she hiding? if she doesn't like the sex at this stage do u honestly expect that to change after marriage? This is exactly what leads to broken homes, sugar is sweet but not everyone will have a sweet tooth so guy u better know what steps to take and know it fast.

Sex is not just for having kids, it is essential in every relationship and so has to be enjoyed, u cannot manage or put up with or without sex just to please the other person. . . If its too much for u, then its not right, if its too little for u, then its not also right. You need to find the right balance with the right partner, else your marriage is doomed even before it happens.

Wake up and smell the coffee, or after marriage u'll be watching all your marriage video tapes in reverse. . . from the church, to your cars, back to your house, and back to bachelorhood

freeview:
There is no big deal in double dating,so far u r not yet married

No big deal in double dating abi?

I wonder why girls make a big deal of it when guys decide to do it too.

If u dance good, then you'll score bigggg.

Here's the deal. . .  Go to a gig, dance on your own [if u need the attention u need to dance alone for a bit]. Dance sleek and nice, you'll get their attention cos some of them are lousy dancers. . .  You often notice those sitting down begin to watch u. . .  At this stage u need to up the ante, it always helps if u know the song well cos your moves flow nicely. . .  It also helps if u end the song with a unique move. When the song is over, step off the floor and go get yourself a drink, you'll be surprised at how many girls want to pay for that particular drink!

Dont slack, take numbers but allow 24hrs before making any calls, when you do call it should be all about arranging a meet-up, a date somewhere nice, followed by a bout of cuddling at home over a movie. . .  You dont even need to make the first move!

If you're a lousy dancer, then u'll need to rely on other things like a decent conversation e.t.c. but those take much longer to score.

Many chelsea heads that were burning hot have now chilled off

Maybe Terry and Lampard will learn to shut up and win the cup before they start boring us in the media about how only them can win it

Ani Lee:
LOL @ whitelexi. When I am quiet, am either thinking "shut up fool" or am [b]floating in my thoughts[/b]

That must be fun - floating in your own thoughts.

If ever there was a tribe that was born to think - i'd be a member I can sit on one spot and think of all possible outcomes to any given situation at all. Its a part of me to try and predict how things are likely to happen, and that helps me eliminate wrong possibilities. . .  For instance, if people in a crowded all started running in one direction, it means either something is chasing them or they're running towards something, if it turns out that something is chasing them, then that eliminates the possibility that they were running towards something

LeAnne, Abeg oh, date the dude make we for hear word!