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Racoon:
Hehehe! An illegitimate president can not command respect. AU and ECOWAS are grossly useless.Mali and Guinea and now Niger Republic. Meanwhile, we are still counting

NIGERIA COULD JOIN THE WEST AFRICAN STATES RULED BY THE MILITARY.

IF THE POLITICAL CLASS IN NIGERIA FAILED TO AMEND THEIR WAYS.

MILITARY MARTIAL MUSIC WILL ONE MORNING BE ECHOED THROUGH THE RADIOs IN ABUJA FCT THAT THE MILITARY HAVE OVERTHROW THE GOVERNMENT OF BOLA AHMED TINUBU.

AND THAT THEY HAVE SUSPENDED THE FEDERAL CONSTITUTION AND ALL NIGERIA BORDERS CLOSED FOR THE INTERIM.

THEY WILL CALM THE HEART OF NIGERIANS TO GO ABOUT THEIR LAWFUL BUSINESS.

Yes, Military Coup can happen in Nigeria.

The military have tasted power in the past and they know what it means.

THE POLITICAL CLASS IN NIGERIA ARE STILL INVOLVED IN LOOTING OF PUBLIC FUNDS.

THEY ARE NOW FIGHTING FOR BULLET PROOF VEHICLES.

SENATOR AKPABIO AND HIS GANGS OF THIEVES.

STRI1:
That's great and amazing. But what can really be done to the coups in Africa. Or do we just allow people to live anyhow they like. And I think most of the coups are as a result of greed not because of the masses

CIVILIAN GOVERNMENT ALSO LAUNCH COUP AGAINST THE PEOPLE whom they swore with the Holy Bible and Holy Koran to defend.

SEE HOW THEY RIGGED THE 2023 GENERAL ELECTION USING INEC

THE NAIRA REDESIGN POLICY OF THE CBN WHICH DENIED PEOPLE ACCESS TO THEIR NAIRA AND KOBO IN COMMERCIAL BANKS.

MASSIVE CORRUPTION BY THE POLITICIANS IN NIGERIA e.g Senators and House of Reps members including governors and local government chairmen including ministers and state commissioners.

These are civil coup against the Nigerian people by the civilian politicians.

It is against this background the military are forced to intervene in the country to save the people from economic strangulation by the politician.

The Pastor even had the audacity and temerity to attend her funeral.

He was so bold hearted without the fear of his conscience giving him away.

Maybe it was part of the cover up.

Probably he felt that was an opportunity to seek for God's grace of forgiveness.

Now nemesis was on the pursuit of him nearly 50 years later.

Lawalemi:
Very quick on external issues but docile on national issues.

THIS IS INTERNATIONAL BUSY BODY !

WHO TOLD THE NIGERIAN DELEGATION THAT THEY ARE NEEDED IN NIAMEY?

YOU ARE RIGHT.

IT IS JUST SELF SERVING.

The same people are not bothered when Nigerian citizen are suffering hunger, high cost of food item, unemployment and lack of jobs.

THEY TOO KNOW THAT COUP COULD HAPPEN IN NIGERIA.

IT IS JUST A MATTER OF TIME.

AMONG ALL THIS PROPOSED MINISTERS, WIKE IS THE "STAR BOY"

EYES WILL DEFINITELY BE ON HIM THROUGHOUT THE PERIOD OF HIS SERVICE TO THE TINUBU GOVERNMENT.

AND TINUBU KNOWS THAT MANY PEOPLE WILL PLACE THEIR EYES ON EX-GOVERNOR WIKE.

FORMER GOVERNOR OF RIVERS STATE, NYESOM WIKE IS THE ONLY GOVERNOR FROM THE SOUTH SOUTH REGION IN THE PAST DISPENSATION THAT PLAYED HIS CARD VERY WELL.

HE WAS VERY ARTICULATE, CALCULATIVE AND DECISIVE.

HE MESMERISED THE ATIKU CAMP AND DIFFUSED THEIR ASPIRATION.

NOW HE IS BEING REWARDED WITH A MINISTERIAL APPOINTMENT.

I SEE WIKE ASPIRING TO THE POSITION OF VICE PRESIDENT AFTER THE TINUBU GOVERNMENT ELAPSED THAT IS IF THE PRESIDENCY GOES TO THE NORTH.

FRENCH SPEAKING WEST AFRICAN COUNTRIES ARE TOO KNOWN FOR COUP DETAT !

This news is coming after Tinubu was telling ECOWAS Leaders that there should be NO MORE COUP in Africa.

He was only speaking his mind.

His visitor knew Tinubu was telling the stories of NO MORE COUP to the marines.

Now there is a suspected coup in Buhari 's native homeland.

A country he spent our collective commonwealth to build a railway line to ( Maradi Railway )

It is very clear that Ibori looted the $130m from the treasury of the Delta state government.

The money should be send back to the Delta state government for the Sheriff administration to use for people oriented economic development.

Delta state government needs the $130 m to address it's infrastructural needs.

The Governor Sheriff government needs every penny to solve the problems of Delta state.

Ibori failed the trust of the good people of Delta state while he was governor of Delta state.

There are no companies in Delta state that offers the youth jobs.

TooClassiic:
Buhari that gave him orders is walking free, na emiefele dem dey use do oju aye

Awon weyrey

It is good for Emefiele to suffer.

That is why those who play the "GOOD BOY TO THEIR MASTER" must learn from history.

Buhari is drinking kunu in Daura while Emefiele is keeping a date with the DSS.

Similar thing happen to Major Hamza Mustapha ( rtd ) he was the good boy to Late General Sani Abacha.

After the death of General Abacha, Obasanjo prosecuted Major Mustapha for his misdeed.

illicit:
The guy suffer me during that cashless policy shit

He must suffer too

It is not cashless policy.

Rather It is during the old naira note exchange by the commercial bank for people to collect the new naira note.

But the government failed to print sufficient naira note.

While the few were hoarded by commercial banks manager, politician etc

Is Ngozi a unisex name

or

a female name ?

Federal, State and Local government in Nigeria must budget money for environmental issue.

Looting of public funds must stop.

Environmental problems have come to stay due to the changing global weather conditions coupled with the poor maintenance culture in Nigeria.

The federal government should release Nnamdi Kanu and start talks for a referendum in the south east region.

Other Igbo speaking parts of Nigeria can choose whether they want to remain as part of Nigeria or they want to join the south east for a referendum.

I do not agree to the way the federal government is handling the Igbos.

It is uncalled for.

Delta state people particularly those in Delta central and Delta south should know that Asaba and most parts of Delta North are Igbo speaking.

If they decide to go with the south east the other parts of the Delta state can not stop it.

It is their choice.

That is why the Delta central and Delta south political leaders should start developing their own parts of the state should incase Asaba, Agbor go with the south east.

Elections have been rigged since 1999 and that is why the likes of Ibori rigged their way into state government house.

But one thing is very clear.

Ibori can not reverse the stain and bad name corruption has done to his name.

EX-GOVERNOR JAMES IBORI REPUTATION HAS BEEN DAMAGED FOR LIFE.

No matter how he pretends and how long he pretends.

He will live with the sad reality that he is a very corrupt leader while he was governor of Delta state and also after his death the bad name he has brought to himself, Delta state and Nigeria in particular will continue to speak for him after his sojourn on earth.

Student of history will continue to study Ibori legacy that is now filled up with corruption.

There is nothing as good as good name.

No matter your circumstances be you a rich man or a poor.

Endevour to live a honest lives.

HONEST PAYS.

I agree with the Kaduna state governor that there are no database for the effective disposal of the N8,000 cash transfer.

The money will certainly go to the wrong hands.

Ex-governor, James Ibori thievery is responsible for the poor infrastructure in Delta state particularly in Delta central and Delta south.

He stole too much almost close to the total amount that was stolen by the late Head of State, General Sani Abacha.

I wish the governor good health and quick recovery.

EX- GOVERNOR JAMES IBORI DISAPPOINTED DELTA STATE.

The massive money traced to his account shows that he was a heartless thief.

Delta state have no companies to engage the youth.

NO COMPANY JOB AT ALL IN DELTA STATE.

AGRICULTURE IS ZERO.

Courtesy of Ibori selfish and self centered looting.

coputa:
There are bigger thieves in Nigeria among the top politicians,Ibori is not even among the top 50

Ibori was the only governor that built infrastructures and empowered Deltans,his legacies still stands till date

He was a victim of circumstances, because he stepped on big toes because of the resource control agitation that he spearheaded and was gaining ground.

There were fears that if it sail through,some regions will loose out, hence,there was a collective betrayal to cage him and rubbish his political career.

Thank God,he came out of it alive,he is an icon, Deltans will always celebrate and respect him.

There are bigger thieves who are still in the corridor of power because they are playing the game to please the powers that be.

IBORI IS A THIEF

AND HE WILL LIVE WITH THAT PAINFUL EXPERIENCE AND CORRUPT NAME HE HAS SECURED FOR HIMSELF BOTH IN NIGERIA AND OVERSEAS.

IT IS DUE TO HIS MISCONDUCT DELTA STATE IS STILL SUFFERING TODAY.

DELTA STATE REMAINS ONE OF THE MAIN CRUDE OIL PRODUCING STATE IN NIGERIA THAT LACK BASIC AND STRATEGIC INFRASTRUCTURES.

Seaport not working.
No state owned seaport that we can see that is working
No companies to provide jobs for the youth

The same Ibori attempted to bribe Malam Ribadu with Delta state crude oil money and that attempt was aborted by the Malam himself.

The $15 million USA dollars has been confiscated by the federal government of Nigeria.

Ex-governor James Ibori did not behave himself properly.

He grossly abused the privileges of his office.

I do not like the way people of Delta state that are defending Ibori keeps making references that are not related to the case in question.

A THIEF IS A THIEF.

And Ibori is the thief we are talking about.

Ibori disgraced himself, Delta state and Nigeria.

But why is Britain refusing to send the money to Nigeria.

That money can be used to fix up so many delapidated infrastructure in Delta state.

The money can also be used to pay government workers who have retired from government work.

There is so much suffering in Nigeria despite the wealth of Nigeria.

British government should be fair enough.

That money should not be taken by the British.

It is Nigeria 's money and it should be returned to the government of Delta state.

Jungle justice.

May her soul rest in peace.

Following.

The banking sector is even the worse.

Culprit in this age restriction are as follows:
First bank Nigeria
Gt Bank
United Bank for Africa ( UBA )
Access bank
FCMB

But behind the scene they still go and employ their family members and friends with many of these applicant exceeding the minimun age.

President Muhammadu Buhari promoted NEPOTISM and Fulanization at the highest level while he was President of Nigeria.

He was a very vindictive leader and all his federal appointments are one sided tilting towards the north.

Buhari did not see anything good in appointing southern politician.

Whenever he does it is only after the north have eaten beyond their fair share.

This attitude from Buhari is a symbol of a divisive character.

He refused to develop the Niger delta region.

A region that generate the money used to run the Nigeria Project.

He was a ruthless and sectional leader.

May Nigeria never have Political leaders like Buhari in future that is so sectional and divisive.

I do not agree to full time House Husband.

It will not make the Husband to earn the needed respect.

Even if the wife is the main bread winner.

Try and establish a business that can generate money to support your family.

It could be a Supply business, poultry business, farming business etc

The Husband do not have to leave the house every days of the week.

He can still remain at home most time but when it comes to making money go out and make the money to run your family.

See the wife as a secondary supporter of the family.

This killing is a very dastardly acts.

Why not terminate the relationship and go quietly and try a working one elsewhere instead of killing the woman.

May God Almighty help to comfort the immediate family members over this very painful death.

Young ladies should not be carried away by money or fame.

It is one of the most tempting route to instant death.

Lagos state government should try and extend investment into other states particularly states in the south west.

Who knows Lagos state could become a sinking city in the coming years ahead.

uche87:
Virtually every week, a Nigerian abroad comes out on social media to lament the scarcity of partners for meaningful romantic relationships. In recent times, we have had a more frequent outcry from women. Not just average women but beautiful and classy ones. What do you think is the problem? Are the men going extinct? Let's dive into this topic from a UK experience.

Have you ever felt lonely despite being in a very crowded space? It is a weird feeling. Everybody wants to help and at the same time, nobody wants to help. This is what dating in the United Kingdom seems like.

Here are some reasons why it might be challenging finding a partner abroad:

(1) Culture shock:

The United Kingdom is a multicultural society. You get to meet Indians, Africans, Chinese, Pakistanis, Europeans, and generally people from different works of life. Their belief systems, behaviours, and different approach to issues are different. People naturally avoid what they find strange and this could affect romantic relationships.

(2) Ethnic Division

In most cities in the UK, people don't mix especially outside work. The people have doctorate degrees in 'minding their businesses'. The Chinese roll with the Chinese, Indians to Indians and Nigerians roll with their own. People just feel more comfortable with their own.

(3) Too fast, too busy:

Life in the UK is just too busy and fast especially if you are a fresh immigrant. You might have to deal with the rigours of work and school as they run concurrently. These two engagements might make a whole year look like 6 months. Oftentimes, romantic relationships take a secondary position. Some people would pick shifts over romantic dates because that is what pays the bills.

(4) Historical concerns:

Before the tier 4 visas became popular, most Africans saw the locals as keys to their stay in the country. Relationships have always been a means to an end in the UK. A selfish end so to speak. The nefarious activities of internet fraudsters have always complicated interracial relationships. For this reason, most tier 4 visa holders or citizens are wary of new entrants.

A lady who holds a British passport or Tier 2 visa might doubt the love interest of a suitor holding a tourist or student visa. There is widespread distrust in the country and nobody wants to be used as a ladder to step up. Consequently, some potential good men slip under the radar.

(5) Stereotype:

Nigerians don't have the best reputation in the UK. This is related to the previous point made. This has led to hasty generalisation and unwarranted assumptions. On dating sites/apps, some people will not talk to you because you are a Nigerian. This might be due to an adverse experience or an ordeal told by a friend, or family member about their experience with a Nigerian.

(6) Ego:

The UK has so many successful women. Most of them become big-headed as career success and financial breakthroughs come. They tend to desire men in or above their social/economic class. But African men in their supposed class fear women like them because of issues around control. Men don't want to travel on a ship with two captains. Before you know it, one woman is still single at 40 despite her beauty and achievements.

(7) Small population of Nigerians:

Despite the Japa Syndrome, Nigerians are in the minority in the UK. Out of a population of over 67 million people, Nigerians account for just 0.5% which is 271,390 in England and Wales. Most Nigerians come to the UK married. These two factors limit the available options on who to date. Even if you want to consider someone outside your ethnic background, they might not be interested in you.

( Racism

Due to the sensitivity of this topic, I will not dwell too much on it. It has been criminalized, but it is still what it is. Coloured people are not really in demand except for people who just want to briefly explore. Call that jungle fever!

(9) Lack of intentional efforts:

In the UK, you have to consciously work towards getting married. Attend social gatherings, meet people, shoot your shots, join dating apps, join churches, approach people for relationship referrals, and never give up when you hear a 'no'. You might just be lucky the next time you try.

(10) Marriage isn't a big deal:

People in the UK are not so big on marriage compared to their counterparts in Africa. I have a colleague who has been engaged for years; nothing is happening and nobody is under pressure. In Nigeria, people will ask questions like "Are you Froddo in the 'Lord of the Rings'?"
Generally, people just live together as partners for years and have kids together without being married. An African might frown at this on cultural and religious grounds.

(10a) Accent:

Relationships start with active and good communication. In the UK, some accents are just too complicated to understand. This makes verbal communication stressful. Most people become easily uninterested in those that don't speak like them.

(10b) Indiscriminate sex:

Due to loneliness and cold weather, most people just want to have fun with no strings attached. They want to experience that crazy feeling of intimacy for the moment. Since society doesn't attach importance to 'body counts', people jump on as many beds as possible. This is paramount amongst single parents. Single mothers just want to drink alcohol on Friday nights and have sex without entanglements. They tend to enjoy their sexual freedom and conclude that serious relationships might take that away. If care isn't taken, a woman might wake up to realize that she has had more sexual partners than a full-time prostitute at the end of the year. Sex is easy, love is hard.

These are some of the reasons I have been able to come up with. I'm pretty sure they could be extended.

Conclusion

It is possible to find love in the UK, although it is tricky. The key is being very intentional about the love search. From my personal research and experience, I believe the most effective way is through referrals. When you meet nice people, tell them to introduce you to their like-minded single friends or family members. Make your intentions clear. This is equivalent to getting references for a job application. Additionally, expand your social circles, and join African churches with huge members. Some pastors take it upon themselves to matchmake people and it works. Dating apps might not be the most ideal place to seek a meaningful relationship, but we never say never.

Osahon George Osayimwen writes from England.

This a very informative article.

Thanks.

The sacking of Adamu Abdullahi should not have come as a surprise to many followers of Nigeria politics.

Infact, many Nigerians following politics in Nigeria saw it coming.

It is not a shock.

Even Tinubu has been keeping a distance from Adamu Abdullahi since his emergence as President of Nigeria.

Tinubu is purging the APC party and replacing it with his own trusted men.

Adamu Abdullahi and Ahmed Lawan had never liked Tinubu.

Both northerners worked against the emergence of Tinubu as party flag bearer and as winner of the recently held 2023 presidential election.

The outgoing Apc Chairman, Adamu Abdullahi even regard himself as being senior to Tinubu as far as Nigeria politics is concerned.

Adamu Abdullahi was a member of national assembly as far by as 1979.

This was years before we even started hearing about Tinubu.

What actually brought Tinubu to national limelight was NADECO during the annulment of the 12 June 1993 presidential election believed to have been won by Chief Moshood Abiola.

Joe Igbokwe request for the release of Nnamdi Kanu to the Tinubu government at the Federal level is commendable.

That is what any right thinking man should be doing at least for justice sake and fairness.

Igbokwe is very close to the Tinubu administration.

He served in Lagos state government as an Igbo man.

The Tinubu administration should respond to all the numerous request for the release of Nnamdi Kanu.

Lagos state is not waiting for the federal government.

They have started their Deep Sea Port which will help to decongest Apapa sea port and also yield revenue for the state.

Other state with access to the Atlantic sea such as Delta state should not wait for the federal government.

If federal government refuse to develop the federal ports.

They should develop an alternative arrangement alongside.