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Mimiey:
Hello Nairalanders.

He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, claims to want a serious relationship. Can he really be serious about being serious or he is just a play boy?

So I met this guy about two weeks ago close to my street. He calls but I hardly pick. Eventually, I picked and he asked if he could pick me after work and we hangout. I accepted. He picked me up after work last week Friday. He was quite interesting and funny, he talked freely like he had known me for years but he was really so touchy, I had barely spent 5 minutes in the car and he was already touching my shoulder and even when we were inside the bar, he tried tickling me, at a point, he put his hands close to my waist, I removed it. We both discussed if we had someone we are currently seeing, I am not seeing anyone which is the truth, he said there is an Ex but they just have sex and she has her own relationship. When he was dropping me off, he asked for a close hug, I hugged him and he wanted to pull me closer and kiss. I broke free and got down. He said I am not nice.

Well, we met again on Monday, I took just water intentionally. This time I minded the distance between us. He wanted to see again on Tuesday, I declined. Then at work yesterday, he asked to see after closing. I told him he can come briefly to my work and we can talk a bit in the car and part ways. He said he would like to host me at his house instead, I declined.

Anyway, he came, I got in and he started driving and saying, I will know his house today and besides his phone battery his low. My mood changed immediately and he tried to guilt trip me and said okay should we stop on the road and get a place to charge his phone. I then told him to continue driving to his house. He stopped on the way and got snacks. We got into his house. It was nice and neat.

Then we were watching a movie, he sat down and placed my leg on his, I was cool with this. Then he made moves to kiss and I declined and pulled away. All of a sudden, he started breathing fast, hugged me so tight and kissed me despite I kept pulling away and didn't kiss back. I am weak when it comes to my Bosom, then he got there and gave me the roughest and painful squeezing I have ever experienced. I haven't been with any man in about 7 months now, I am single and It's hard for me to do a little thing as even kissing randomly. So he got me there when he got to my bosom but it took only just few seconds to snap out. He continued panting and begging for me to reciprocate, he is so hard and hasn't felt this way in a while.

I told him I don't want this, he went in frustrated, stamping his feet, I tot he had agreed, only for him to come back naked and saying okay, he has heard no sex and "I don't want to force you", so he asked for a dry hump and wanted me to turn my back. I didn't. He still kept breathing hard, like he wont survive the next minute. Then he started begging for a Mouth Action. I declined and told him I wasn't up for that. I tried pulling, away and getting angry. He became even more aggressive, removed the hands I used to protect my chest and forced his way into my bra. It was a struggle and then back to begging till I made it clear in a thunder voice for him to stop and take me home.

Then he agreed, wore his cloths and kept complaining that I don't know what I have caused and he wont be himself. We left his house and he tried stopping at a Pharmacist and said he needs to get ibuprofen, then he didn't stop again and just continued driving.

This morning, he is apologizing and repeating the things he said when we got to his house that he wants something serious with me and he wants us to start something and want it to work out. He asked to come see me at work today but I declined. With this red flags, is there a possibility that he is truly serious like he said? Or he is just doing the usual lies to get the cookie and go away. He has a nice ride and nice house, I suspect he may have girls around him. My concern isn't all these, I just want to be with a serious man who is in for commitment and not just sex.

He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, can he be sincere about wanting to be serious?

My sister, God saved you from a r@pist and you want to continue that relationship?
Do you know how many girls he had done this sh*t to?

godofuck231:
women when their mouth de run like fax machine, complaining, remindin, requesting, dueressing and demanding for a house car and private jet when their husbands touch them at night end up loosing their men to side chics and runs girls who require less for his needs , those topics de kill mic

Thunder fire you.

Tomide007:
Tah...from what I see in this country they're all the same. If it was his government that is in power, you won't hear him. That's the same way APC was shouting as if they meant well for Nigeria...now PDP has ruled, APC is ruling , and Nigeria is still in deep waters.
That said, you should note that if this loan is not well used, Nigeria is in deep shit because we can't sustain the debt....by the way, experts say that less than half is needed to start and complete those project , and guess what, the money is just to complete projects from where they stopped. What it means is that we'll be borrowing to fund massive corruption....our leaders need to be voted out.

Shatup, you don't know Politics. PDP were their own problem because they believed not in bigotry, ethnics or religion. Look at Jonathan, his fu*king people and religion brought him down. Shut up and go learn history.

Eagleboney:
Okay,

but don't rely on juju in a gunfight cause one bullet from AK47 will take you down

Did you read what the OP wrote? rushing to comment without reading.. typical.

This was confirmed in the bible: Genesis 1:2

tillaman:
For his father

Learn to type "right".. Wetin be the meaning of "for his father"?

NOL2dworld:
Isreal too don get am.. Arabians will be pleased.

Arabians be pleased? Iran is currently dying of this shi**y virus. They shutdown their mosques and other countries are scared sh*tless about this virus.
1st world countries are scared, but you see Africans.. They dey behave like say the virus na Malaria. God help us all.

IWTBAB:
i remember wen finidi dey do crawling celebration for world cup dat year ..1994.
many of dis Nairaland annoying mumus and trolls still dey crawl for floor den.
Thank God for DVD

Explain yaself and curse the toddlers who were kids back then, or some were not even born self or conceived. But you lowered your standard, age and maturity by cursing them. You that is matured shouldn't be dragged to their mumu gutter nah.

A beautiful child. God bless you my dear.

delugajackson:
This story is adorned with all shades of fakeness.

If you actually believed this trash then you will also believe that Cossy Orjiakor is a virgin and a born again Christian.

People like you believes all human are trash. There are gold ones among the trash, don't compare everyone to you and your family.

StephenBB:
There are some prayers that God won't even answer just like yours.

FYI...mine is not a prayer, it's called observing a fact.

You'll witness the marriage crash, then...you'll know i don't wish people bad

So because people are dying everyday, If I wish you death and your family members, it's a fact, right?
So be it then.

Where can we confirm this? This is not the first time this guy is caught lying through his teeth..

Smile4mee01:
Nutshell: Guys Be careful being just friends with a single lady of marriageable age, Her priority is to get married and not just be friends. If that’s not your intention, Bro. Help her, help yourself Cut it. The juice is not worth the squeeze.

You did the right thing.

NOC1:
My mum is educated and exposed but her views on child spacing is different after some cases when some women could not take in again after child spacing.

Sh will say “once you’ve started making babies do it at once and rest”.

I think I go with my mom ideology.

Expantiate?

Authoreety:
Big lie, these guys are members of gwamnishu human rights activists group...,

Believe police reports at ur own peril

Never thought of it, NP are liars.

Onyi22:
Forever young, pls what's her secret?

Na wa oh, this girl na vampire.

englishmart:
Tyson fury will teach you to focus. Keep Shagamuing and flirting with a billionaire's daughter.

132 fu**ing haters and people who WILL NEVER be rich in life.

Nigerians.. We'll never know how to talk or reason while others are in pains.. I guess that is why we always have bad governments because they're Nigerians and can't understand the plight of the common man.

Someone says she's not happy in her marriage for 4 years, her mum said she will be, but she is not, and you're castigating her?
Instead of some people to advise, they're cursing, saying she has a spirit husband, etc? Wonder what's up with the black man's brain and empathy.

Madam, just know that even if you stay with him for 20 more years, you'll be getting angrier.
You said he's intelligent, why not look for a way to discuss this with him?
What are his thoughts on divorce?
What has he done for your family that makes it hard leaving the marriage?
Have you gone to see a marriage counselor?

Wishing you the best.

Weedsmoker:


Is like political activism is no longer paying.

Deji cannot go and kill himself.

You're an illiterate from what you're saying.

chatinent:
Ashawopreneur wey mumu.

Who?
So because she is dating Xo, she is now an Ashawoprenuer? While you stay there, languishing away in sorrow, poverty and self-hatred with suicidal thoughts or joining Boko Haram?

Idiot.

sladimeji:
pray for her and always talk to her in ways you know she can listen

Have you asked her where you might have wrong her?
You didn't mention any of your flaws..

But from your description, it seems you're too good for her and everything.
Yes, you don't cheat, but do you drink? smoke? hurl abusive words towards her? compare her with others?

masterP042:
Don't underestimate Barcelona, Liverpool barely escaped last season.

Barca wey de suffer up and down ni?

StephenBB:
Marriage wey go still crash like Nigerian economy,

I laugh in ijaw....

I give this marriage just 2-3 years, after that...ósó

1. May the prayer you pray for others come to pass in your own life. AMEN.

OgunLaakaye:
Using what you have to get what you want.

Some ladies directly or i directly hawk their pvssies. Some use it as an exchange for favour and material thing's.

This lady as decided to use hers as a bait.

I think development is welcomed. She repackaged the crime.

According to your narrative, selling pvssies is a crime?
But the buyers are not committing a crime too?

clevvermind:
They are not herdsmen, they are terrorists. Let's call them by their real name.

What will concern a normal herdsmen with killings?

TheRealProphet:
lala stop posting trash wetin we wan use this yeyebrities date do Nonsense and Lala

And this trash made FP laslas nairaland don turn Instagram
https://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/4925.gif

Issa link, you no like am, jump and pass sha.

Amazing novel. I love reading this novel and its informative. It made me smile to know that I can easily answer all the sweet sixteen jamb questions.

Vortex369:
Always sounding and behaving stupid....

Jeez, even if you hate someone, it does not give you the right to insult him

Stalwert:
Actually vanguard made it so, Nigeria's paper have become blogging outfits.

If you've been reading Newspapers since the 1990's, that is how it's run. To catch your attention

Ha, I like the Otedola girls sha.

Jeez!! Where are the Men right fighter?
I truly cringed at the first pics. No, this Woman has NO right to injure this man. He should sue her.

Hope they are choosing Universities with lowest cut off marks and not those most sought after ones. Why do Black man enjoy suffering his people? What do we gain from this animalistic act?