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[quote author=D-Explorer]Nah! You got to be in. My pleasure babe [/quote]why u naa?
Wen u don get 20 wives and 40 concubines.

IDOWU!!
Aah!
U don finish de work wey i giv u, u com dey bully kids for here??
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[quote author=D-Explorer]You have me to woo It's official[/quote]heheheehehe.
Woo?
Ermmm..can i miss dat bus?

[quote author=D-Explorer]Babe, You know Y D smile?[/quote]no sir, I don't.
Why?

[quote author=Flygerian.]Ya, we know but, count naija gals out.

They want both the money and a good physical body features.[/quote]lol.
Dnt tel me u cnt stand up to that swthrt.
Mmmh? Lol.
So, how much of the 'half' can u defend?

mmmmmhh...
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I'd like to woo......
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Lol

nice proceedings.

[quote author=D-Explorer]You got a slot babe [/quote]lol sweety. I'm eeerr..nt a wooer for fun. Too deep for dat- i cn only do dat for real.
So, i pull out (sowi). Take the floor (other) ladies.
Goodnight peeps. Sweet dreamz
no criticism.
Jst my decision pls.
Tnx.

[quote author=D-Explorer] Goldieluks, Wislet, Sijo01, i see you beautifuls [/quote]ermm d-explorer, ima bail on dis one.

StateOfMind: Thank you for this honest opinion..

Most comments so far from men are just hypocritical..

The blame and insults always have to be directed at nigerian babes.. My guess is that it makes them feel better.

They are the ALWAYS the perfect ones while the babes are the 'faulty' ones..*phew*

I think its safe to conclude most nigerian men on nairaland have issues they themselves cannot reckon with..

bless you my dear.
Glad men like you realize why i've been hard on the men lately.... Though some preferred to call it 'angry gal'.
Lol.
Wonder what their defence is now that their fellow guys are kicking their butts.
Let me see the next guy(or notice me gal) to talk rot.
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Nigerian men, use your tongue to count your teeth.
You are more guilty than that lady u're pointing at.

[quote author=Okija_juju]I am a guy and I can say this for free... For every 1 bad female out there, there are 5 bad men.. This is the fact that we men shy away from.. We think we reserve the exclusive right to be a`ssholes in relationships.. Its now so bad that I know a mother who adviced her female children that 'the bad part isnt a man cheating, but its when he forgets to find his way home'.. Meaning its okay for him to cheat until he starts despising his family!!

_{We men can be a`ssholes.. That said, I guess thats why they say 'ITS A MANS WORLD'..}[/quote]thank you my dear.

nanaman: Guys,don't let my gf read all these,she would just smile and send an e-slap to all of you who believes Nigerian women cannot do what the lady did. I have been paraplegic for the past six yrs and i have a gf in her early 20's of 4yrs meaning, i met her after my accident and we are so much in love i wonder what really made her love so strong despite my situation.God sent i suppose. If you know what it means to be paraplegic and what i face daily then you should know there is nothing different from what that lady is doing even mine is more than true love if you doubt ask questions,i would answer you asap.

awwww...
This is beautiful.

190: Sharrap dia my friend

a very vital knot seems to have fallen off.
Respect urself.

some of them here screaming, secretly wish they could find one here.
Nigerian men and hypocricy. Lol.
The day they would let go of that is the day their fortunes will turn for the better.

ItsModella: In as much as I totally hate to admit it, I agree with you. Many of them are so quick to judge when they might equally be as guilty. They want the woman to make all the sacrifices when a relationship is meant to be between the both of them. Every single time, the blame has to lie on the Naija girl when they (the guys) are not wholly innocent.

lol sweetie, why u hating to admit it?
Still piffed abt yesterday? Let's kiss and make up. Ok?
U see why i wz hard on those folks then?

kpozite: Everybody wants someone like this woman, but, can you do the same to somebody else? Do unto others as you will want them do unto you.

a sensible Nigerian man.
Hope the others are emulating him?

ikekings: Is this type of love still in existence? Wetin concern naija girls with this thread? For those of you who think that the white girls are better... Why not cut off your legs and then go and give it a trial? You will be shocked that 98% of those white girls will reject you without looking at you... 1.5% will reject by looking at you.. The remaining 0.5% pending...
@post nice pics... Still searching for that girl that will always stand by me... Whether good or bad... She's out there somewhere waiting for me to come and take her....

thank u for this.
Wish some Nigerian men will quit being hypocritical.
Yet, the same Nigerian girls they badmouth are the same ones they wish to marry.
Why not go find a white lady dat will be like dat one? How funny it will be when they find out that the lady up there is one in a million amongst them.
Lol.

[quote author=Okija_juju]What you should be praying for is The ability to know the right woman when you see her.. The reason being that the women who actually love us enough to sacrifice her all for us, are the ones we either dont want, take for granted or outrightly mistreat.. And the reason is that good things dont always come in fancy wrappers.. But na the Brazillian hair, mini-skirt, pierced nostrils, tattoo spotting, low-cut/push-up bra wearing, contact lens wearing, anklelet wearing, fake eyelash wearing, fake accented, club hopping, knock-off designer wearing hoes we dey see, love and break head for.. [/quote]i'm glad a NIGERIAN MAN knows this much.

utumunta: Read a few days ago dat 9ja gurls are d worst cheats in d world , & now ,dis...?
Hope to God we dnt start migrating in droves to get a life partner just d way we go for education & medical checks abroad.
9ja gurls have collapsed with our institutions.

with this mentality, how do u hope to find a good wife to marry?
Are YOU good?

Babzilla: Everyone wants to experience wants this type of love but no one wants to put in his/her pwn bit to make it come alive

thank you my dear.
Even though we all know things have gone terribly wrong, and some professed 'love' aren't what they are cut out to be.
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Nigerian men will keep pointing fingers till eternity...forgetting that 4 are pointed at once toward them even as they thrust out one.
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How many of you guys will marry a woman handicapped?
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How many of you will stay with a handicapped wife. And even if you stay, will u be faithful to her....all the days of your life?
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How many of you look within to see the beauty of a woman and not the facade or 'dreams' u've always had about ur dream wife's outlook?
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What happens if that beauty changes tomorrow?
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How many will stay with a woman if she perchance doesn't take in fast enough/at all?
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How many include their wives in the scheme of things, and not focus on their kids only and see their wives as 'properties?'.
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Is any Nigerian man guiltless of any of these?
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Take stock within urself. Improve on ur own self.
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The less time u spend focusing on others' idiosyncrasies and more on developing yourself, the better husband you are preparing for some woman to publish tomorrow.
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Lesson.

gbosaa: This cant happen in Nig..reason,your colleagues or superiors in the military will take over your wife,your a.rse will be kicked out of the barrack,you,ll find yourself at the nearest bus depot or motor park with a huge bill board round your neck recounting tales of your bravery in the military with supporting photos to prove your story,some will pity you and drop some mangled naira notes into your grubby hands,others will walk past after all they,ve seen beggers worse than you.finally you,d probably be dead before you receive any financial assistance from the military.

lmao.
Gut u're wickeeeed.
Right though.
That's the system in place now.
Very terrible.

brokoto: y'all saying something about 9ja girls ask yourself this question: are you the type of man that a girl will be willing to go through thick and thin for? take a good look at your life before criticizing the other person. by the way, its funny how very few ladies have commented here. . .

question for Nigerian guys to answer honestly for themselves.
If u have the log in ur eye, u don't see the speck in another person's eye.

naijathings: [size=18pt]I googled "true Unconditional Love" and that is how i ended up on this page. **teardrops**[/size]
this is a once-in-a-million-lifetimes type of love.

u will find it, don't worry.

PastelChic: This really is a gurl that has seen the greatness in her man and loves him unconditionally for who he is...This is true love..they are indeed match made in heaven and soulmate... many men indeed may have had the chance in their lifetime to have met a woman like this, but may have gone on with the "man thing..the game, looking out for superficial qualitites instead of the real thing...many have had the real thing stare them in the face, but was too dumb to recognise it...beauty is only skin deep and its fading....I will tell You what will stand the test of time, the beauty inside this lady..so men, instead of lusting after a Kardashian, miss world or the glitters...ask GOD for Your soulmate..The bone of Your bones and flesh of your flesh..and for all saying 9j gurls will zap if they were thrown into this situation, You must have gone after the wrong thing in the first place..water will always find its level...also not many 9j man who also are prone to infedelity will stand by their woman in times of trial..they will use it as escape route for their philandering...even if the man remains faithful, His homies and family members instead of laud His love and courage for his wifey, will pile frustatrations to their union and encourage the man to leave his wife

who can indeed find a man who believes in faithfulness.... Who stands his ground and is not swayed by external influences...who respects his relationship/marriage.... Who sees beyond the physical to the beauty within....who does not compare his woman with another.... Who has integrity and value that will make a woman stay with him even through the thinnest of thin?... Who does not measure his wife's 'usefulness' by the number of children she bore him.
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That is a man worth being with.
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Could he ever be a Nigerian man?