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LOL. My clowny pals

@Mynd, no mind dat guy (2buff). E don dey search for big bombom & what not. Make i catch am cheating
I go pack im belongings outside

@Idowu my swthrt how u dey dear?

@ OP, forget about that your so-called girlfriend. She is in the University and u're still in Secondary School.
You know about this particular issue because she decided to tell you. What of the many others she's free to do in school without you seeing her or knowing?

U want my advice? Forget about the girl or any girl for that matter for now.
Face your studies and pass your SSCE.
Break up with that girl son!
You are not matured yet, and she's gonna take u on a stormy ride.
When you enter your own Uni, you can choose a girl YOUNGER than you.

@ skydeep, Congratulations on ur baby sweetheart!!
How's de little one today?

@ topic, so true. That's why it's good for a lady not to rush into marriage, so she won't 'miss' or regret not participating in any single chapter of it.

Like i dnt miss my childhood cos i wz a real tomboy, and played to de fullest with boys, not girls
And I intend not to miss my spinstehood too! (which am stil enjoying)  

BelaMorena:
CHILD this is MSDARKSKIN you are talking to.
I'm not new here. Just banned. and you haven't met enough white people to make a proper comparison and even if you did you would know women are women. White women are naggers too if they are discontented just like the rest of us. That's the point.

Boom!! @ tosin

Now, Who baanned my swthrt?
#pulls out her tongue once again#

Tosinville:
^^Are you colourless? so specify. . . . .


If u can observe BelaMorena is one of the defination of black women am talking about with her reply, white girls i know on this forum as never talk to me like that before.

I mean white, and u know that

Lol, if u go by her reply, wat of me and all those that didn't reply the same way. Are we white too?? SMH

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=845741.msg10001863#msg10001863 date=1326995689]Tosinvile. Bro you not really too ugly but you’re the 3rd ugliest person I ever seen. I mean this in a good way actually! [/quote] My NL bobo

Tosinville:
BelaMorena

You're just an ignorant to what i posted earlier & pls read again carefully b4 coming to conclusion, so black women only lives in the United States? must i be all over the globe b4 i'll know how they act & how did u even know am currently in Nigeria or not? [u ae smart at concluding] Lastly, its like u are new in this section thats y u don't know me, i aint an attention seeker am only pointing out what i observe about black women not that am setting white women higher above BW, who are they? but that just what i figure out about black women is that they nag alot basic.

hey honey calm down naa. Take a deep breath
Women are women, u know? Or u're saying de coloured ladies don't nag a lot too?

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=845741.msg10001751#msg10001751 date=1326994632]Thank God for white women! [/quote]honey i knw u gat a white galfrnd. We don hear ya.
Am glad u made the right choice honey .
Imagine someone like YOU dating an african lady,
I'd have been begging Mama Iyabo to get off sitting on you with her fat yansh

@ tosin
stares in disbelief
#takes my torchlight closer to view his teeth as he talks#
- watches as a trailer speeds past-  

# looks at his face again#  
- shakes my head in amazement-  

[ finds a corner to   ] Lmao

^^ honey did u drink som'n, som'n??

^ hey dear, dnt take it serious ok? No one is being racist here. Everyone is the same.

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=845741.msg9995562#msg9995562 date=1326923188]I just took time to read that and as much as I don'y like putting people in order of their color and race, that dude really nailed it.
That was smart defending his own that's the thing with black women (Nigerian included) they don't take it when you are lazy they will nag that laziness outta you. They don't mind if ther suffer for you as long as you know what you are doing and they trust you. They are faithful until you treat them like crap and they are proud. Proud of their strenght they are smart and I love them[/quote]# congratulating myself#

naijababe:
Gbam. Can someone send this to Lefulefu, i think it'll make an interesting read for him

I can literally see him spitting fire. Dnt worry he's still on treatment

Nj girl:
touching piece, after all d 9ja gal bashing on nl, it feels good to know brothers like u still exist. Thumbs up bro

I'm doing a good job on my bobo

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=845741.msg9994891#msg9994891 date=1326916227]That hurts[/quote]

MsDarkSkin:

rofl

mislead ke?
# drawing out her tongue#

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=845741.msg9994368#msg9994368 date=1326910845]The fact that I was too lazy to read what you typed up there[/quote]awww.
Giving my swthrt a good knock

wat's sad in particular?

Lol. Hope u ain't one of dem? De ones dat put down their women?

Koikoi:
Rascals of the[b] Aregbe[/b] breed: Just found these words. Any idea what they mean?

Is it not coined from the name of the Osun state governor, Aregbeseola. Sth like dat I think.

una don forget sexkillz's OBFUSCATED.
Loooooool

Is OP 15?

amongst other things, when she doesn't ask u for money, or need them of u.

(1) The OP decided a girl he just met was the woman of his dreams - on the spot.

(2) He was more than ever attracted to her because he learnt her father was overseas.

(3) you went to the cyber cafe a free man, but turned to a 'boy boy' , ' Mr goody goody, 'work-no-pay' before you left.

(4) pursued relentlessly a girl that does not care if u were alive or not.

(5) you were sick, and the 1st thing she asks you for after YOU called, is Recharge card.

(6) you gave a girl that was with PARENTS, MONEY FOR YOUR OWN SCHOOL FEES.

(7) borrowed money you might find it difficult to repay to buy recharge card for A girl.

( you called endlessly a girl that only remembers you exist whenever she sees your number calling her.

And you want us to tell or do what exactly for you?
Errrmm, Bros I know that sometimes when one is in love (especially when you haven't learnt a lesson or two), you could do some crazy stuff u would regret later, and call it LOVE.

But giving out your own school fees, and EVEN TILL NOW, DONT KNOW THE GIRL IS ONLY INTERESTED IN THE MONEY YOU GIVE HER, AND DOESNT CARE IF YOU HAVE TWO HEADS iS STUP1D. Sorry.

I tell you boys, NEVER SPEND ON/INVEST (this one is even more annoying) ON A GIRL THAT IS NOT YOUR WIFE, OR AT LEAST A FIANCEE.

She is not your responsibility.

IF SHE WANTS TO LEAVE YOU BECAUSE YOU REFUSE TO BE A MUGU, KICK HER OUT!

I would not have responded to this topic cos I was disgusted.

U better gather your senses together. And if u like, be a mumu again to the next one u meet or pay her school fees. SMH in disbelief.

lol honey, I love them that way.
If my man ain't jealous over me, I'd rethink.
and of course a man shd be strong, come on!
Possessiveness comes from knowing ur value & cherishing u. U just gotta calm him by being faithful urself.

All in all, my 9ja men rock joooor.
U jst gotta pray to find de right one for u.

Though the insultive part is for the 'unrefined' ones.
Won't even be with such.
''U attract ur kind''. I believe that saying.

White Woman's Opinion of Black Women & a brother's
response. Please take a moment and read this. Pretty Deep!
Thumbs up to this
black man. Enjoy.

It seems that an article was written to Sister 2 Sister
magazine by a
Caucasian woman who requested a response from black
men. I'm so glad
she got what she asked for
(and more) !!!

Dear Jamie: I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your
Black male
readers. I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-
good-looking,
educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of
Black female's
attit udes about our relationship. My man decided he wanted me because the pickings
amongst Black women
were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat,
too loud, too
mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or
carrying too much excess baggage. Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was
constantly
approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me
and give me the world.

If
Black women are so up in arms about us being with
their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks
when we're out in
public. I would like to hear from some Black men about
why we
are so
appealing and coveted by them.

Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of
us Charles
Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford,
Montell Williams,
Quincy Jo nes, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte,
Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius , Berry Gordy,
Billy Blanks, Larry
Fishburne, Wesley Snipes, I could go on and on.

But, right now, I'm a little angry
and that is
why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us
White women because so
many of your men want us. Get your acts together and
learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If I'm wrong,
Black men, let
me know.

Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA

RESPONSE

Dear Jamie: I would like to respond to the letter written by A
Disgusted White
Girl. Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black
man. I graduated
from one of the most prestigious universities in
Atlanta , Georgia with
a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I
have a good job a t a major corporation and have recently purchased a
house. So, I
consider
myself to be among the ranks of successful black men.

I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to
set the record straight of why black men date white
women. Back in the
day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated
white women was because they were considered easy. The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the
church. They were
very strict about when they lost their virginity and who
they lost it
to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would
look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So,
they turned to
the white girls.

Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date
white , women because
they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men,
because of
insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become
intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are afraid that
our woman will be
more successful than
us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and
own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black
men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control.

I have talked to numerous black men and they
continuously comment on
how easy it is to control and walk over their white
women. I just want to
set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl
to know that not all successful b lack men date white women. Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington,
Michael Jordan, Morris
Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth
'Babyface' Edmonds ,
Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong
black women.

And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and
out of the spot
light, who openly or secretly desire black women over
white women.Ted
Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few.

I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be
misinformed. Stop
thinking that because you are white that you are some
type of goddess. Remember,
when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and
Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt , you were over in
the caves of
Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the
head with clubs.


Read your history! It was the black woman that taught you how to cook
and season your
food. It was the black woman that taught you how to
raise your children. It
was black women who were breast feeding
and raising your babies during slavery. It is the black woman that had to endure watching
their fathers,
husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in
jail. Black women
were born with two strikes against them: being black
and being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise! It is because of the black women's strength, elegance,
power, love and
beauty that I could> never> date anyone except my
black Queen.

It is
not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me
to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and
shades that I
love them. Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about
black women.
Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their
integrity, their
ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to
stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while
enduring great pain
and suffering is why I have fallen in love with black
women.

I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward
jealousy and
envy more so than snotty looks. If this were not so, then
why do you
continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin?
If you are so proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with
your pale
skin?


Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and
breasts with
unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more
voluptuous? I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting
to have what
the black woman has.

BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman,
someone I can walk
over and control, I would give you a call. But,
unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman.
Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my
children. Someone who can be my best friend and understands my
struggles. I am
looking for a soul mate. I am
looking for a sister and; unfortunately,
you do not and CANN OT fit the bill. No offense taken, none given.

Signed, Black Royalty

@ malaika, And all these AFTER she must have gotten married?? Or it will drag on even after then?

I dont think some people honour the marriage institution anymore.

@OP, You would make a covenant on an institution that is dear to God's heart - your first ever marriage in life which u must have dreamt about since u were a kid. You would open-eyedly go before God to make vows u never intend to keep, and enter into a marriage that was a sham & fraud?

Look, no matter what opinions 'civilization' has about marriage, where people think they can get in and get out anytime they like, we had better know that He has never shaken on His stand concerning it. Everyone will receive the reward they deserve.

Let it all out in the open, even before his family, and let him explain what it was all about.
Your child deserves this much from you.

Forget any seeming 'shame' u might be worried about now. It will be much more shameful to you if he disappears abandoning you with his child, and worse of all, nobody would believe you didn't send that mail if u dont speak up now.

@ edydeyemi, my dear, never regret being who you are. There's a woman out there specially for you, who'll cherish those particular qualities you have.

Never allow anyone change you. With the right woman, u'll be grateful to be who u are.

Just dont cast ur pearl among swine(those who dont value it). Take ur time to find a good woman.

@OP, DO NOT get married to that guy. And confront him about it,. How can a responsible man be planning to leave both his wife and kid later and run?
Or is he the type that wanna have kids but want no responsibilities?

U will do well to confront him NOW about it, AND WITH HIS FAMILY IN THE KNOW.

He needs to know he can't continue fooling everyone. Who knows how many other women have kids for him elsewhere he is not taking responsibility for?

Marry him and you might never be able to extricate yourself, cos he might never divorce u. Yet wont be responsible for you.

You need to bring this out in the open before anything. Else YOU WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO CONVINCE ANYONE YOU DIDN'T SEND THAT MESSAGE. COS U'LL ALREADY BE MARRIED THEN.

leave the man so he can go back to his wife jare.

Do not be the one coming in-between two people that are married!
God does not joke with that.

Be careful, cos if u succeed in doing that, don't be surprised another woman will take your husband from u.

The man still has strong feelings toward his wife.
Find your own man & allow them repair their marriage.

U should even tell him to do so, not date him!.

@1st response,
hmmmmm,
Som pple & dia response.
I cnt beliv (clears throat) can actually talk lik dis.
Mmmh
#claps#