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^^^ wat comment? Don't think i said that. |
toba:why dear? |
All this defence is not called for. If u met ur wife offline-good. If not, good. This is the age of technology-internet. Many people have access to the computer or phones, and plenty also are on different chat sites where you go to interact, do business or generally cool off after a good day's work. You might be impressed with the character of someone(the way they reason/talk) online, and wanna MEET PHYSICALLY with the person, which is the important part. When you do and click, you guys could take it to the next level. There is nothing-absolutely nothing to be ashamed of in saying that someone met their present partner online before physically. Dont know why some think it's something crazy. Hello! This is the internet age. You can never meet everyone on the surface of the earth, so the computer affords u the opportunity to at least meet some totally outside ur scope. The important thing is meeting that wonderful person and connecting. Pls it's only mature people dat should get into relationships. Can't believe some people still think like kids. |
ajirebi20:Is that supposed to be ur idea of a joke? Or u're one of them? When important things re bein discussed, that's when u'll see levels of silliness. |
God2man: |
Hoodrat:Lol. I bet u'd have tripped so much for the pix u'd wish there was a way to decode someone's profile from their pix. Lol. Haha. Ya, sure. U'd be de one in need of insurance i bet ya :-D |
Hoodrat:As the username goes. No respect for elders and morals in this generation. Some peopl talk lik hooligans. |
@OP, listen carefully. In this case, it's good to be wise. Even though it might look foolish to some, wisdom is still paramount, so you win both ways. If it was true, u'd have been on the safe path in staying away. But if not, u would have still stayed away long enough to know if it was true after the time has passed. If ur mind is not at peace with de relationship, then you need to be on your own. You should make it a point to seek God's face too- HE doesn't confirm something to only one person. You can also ask someone-u mentioned ur mum-to continually join her faith with yours in prayer. Sometimes, (i wont call these ones men of God) deceivers say such things for their own selfish interests. At other times, if it is a true child of God, it would be good to listen. |
Some people on this thread are alarmists, walahi. Giggling all over the place, seeking for attention. Jumping to almost every comment. Cool down haba! Checking de pix plus presumable age will leave u with much to be desired. Hmmm. Maturity is truly not associated wit body size/age. Lol |
I understand toba. It is not somethin that should be done ALWAYS anyways. Just few, if u must. But where i disagree with him is in enforcing it on a girlfriend. She isn't yours yet, and so u cant (have no right to) lord anything over her. You can tell her ur likes and dislikes, it's left for her to adjust AFTER u MARRY her. THEN she is under you. As a girlfriend, it's still her choice to continue/not. If she stops out of love-fine. If not, it's her choice. U hav to respect it. |
sexkillz: |
[quote author=::Andrew:: link=topic=749712.msg9063509#msg9063509 date=1314975314]I wasn't writing an essay, neither was I in a grammatical competition. All that poo i wrote with a phone's touch pad so beat it.[/quote]Hey dear, why u trying to explain? Learn to ignore some people. |
El Guapo:El Guapo re u married? |
omega25red:The most stupid advice. Have a fresh start with a prostitute? Who knows how many other men she sells herself to in the name of 'games'., |
@OP, Dont mind the guys telling u you messed up not keeping up wit the bet. There is no money/false pride worth your honour. This should have opened ur eyes to the kind of person the girl is. She is the one dat lost, not you. She lost her pride and should be the one ashamed. Not you. Go to your work place with head high. Even though the bet was a fo.oli.sh one, thank God wisdom came to your rescue in the nick of time-hope it wasnt just because u thought u'd fail! Young men of nowadays & stu.pi.d things they do. Smh. |
@sexkillz, that's why i lv u dearie. Said it lik i would :-D @OP, i dont see how a responsible girl will walk up to you and outrightly tell u she's a virgin-that would be a desperado you should avoid! Unless of course you asked them. But be careful, u look like u still have some growing up to do. Virgin or no virgin, that's not the main issue. Don't be shallow minded, otherwise u might make a huge mistake settling down with your worst nightmare. As to your question: u might love one & be attracted to the other. You have to take time to clear your head. If possible, keep ur distance from them both for now, dont promise them anything, else you'll continue feeling guilty and obligated to jump into one. Tell them u need to be alone now. Go out more with your male friends, dont think about them. After a while, when u've gotten your brains thinking straight, you will find out the one u truly luv. Who knows, u might also discover u luv neither of them, only infatuation! |
Sagamite:Mr anti-GOD and anti-godly marriage, you come here analyzing things u know nothing about, ''in your own wisdom'', playing Mr smart. You obviously have no respect for the marriage institution. Go school those that want to be deceived, not people that need to know the truth. Nairaland small champion. |
Sagamite:Mr anti-GOD and anti-godly marriage, you come here analyzing things u know nothing about, ''in your own wisdom'', playing Mr smart. You obviously have no respect for the marriage institution. Go school those that want to be deceived, not people that need to know the truth. Nairaland small champion. |
@laura, it is very difficult for you to leave him right? Let me help u.,, Open ur mind and imagine this: your man marries you, you give him your best years and children. But Then he has to travel outside, where you can't reach him physically to study/work or whatever. Then one day he comes to you and tells you he has fallen in love with and wants to marry a girl he met where he resides. And you know you can't marry another man yourself when u're still married to him! Be honest with yourself: wat will be your reaction? To Smile? Clap for him? Welcome the woman with open arms? From some of your statements, i'm beginning to wonder whether u're indeed a christian like u claim-always comparing Islam with christianity just to justify the fact that you want to take another woman's husband from her. U have also analyzed how u want everything to happen- suggesting u'll live in another house while the woman lives in hers. Which means ur plans didn't start today. Kudos! Dat's wat u're hoping everyone here will tell u right? Master planner. You continue to say u dont want to hurt anyone, that's the only thing holding you back. Somehow i think you've already decided to marry the guy. U might even have fixed your wedding date and playing the role of wife to him, only to come here with the pretext to deceive us. Shame, woman! A MARRIED MAN. You did not respect the sanctity of marriage, only to make yourself a pros.tit.ute to him, and try to attract the wrath of God upon yourself. In this day and age where many profess God but know Him NOT. |
My God, some women are wicked!!!!!!! Ha! Abort a husband's baby to put a ragamuffin's own? The devil is really laughing at the marriage institution! But God pass him! Ha! God is really seein many things in this world. Oh God. Goose pimples. |
My God, some women are wicked!!!!!!! Ha! Abort a husband's baby to put a ragamuffin's own? The devil is really laughing at the marriage institution! But God pass him! Ha! God is really seein many things in this world. Oh God. Goose simples. |
My God, some women are wicked!!!!!!! Ha! Abort a husband's baby to put a ragamuffin's own? The devil is really laughing at the marriage institution! But God pass him! Ha! God is really seein many things in this world. Oh God. Goose simples. |
Oga SEUN na real beauty oo. Kai! Dat guy pics 4 facebk na €%¤¿,,,haha. Infact it shd be a crime to look overfine abeg :-D El guapo + zion too.lol |
toba:lol. U nko wetin? U deserve a caning sef. |
Lol. Ya, i am :-D |
Mail. Mail. Anyways, searchd on fb, and found only 1 contact. Ade. Na u? |
I sent u a mail. U havent gotten it? |
Hahaha!!!!! LMAO. U be correct clown, Ade. :-D |
Wat is de problem dear? |
deadie:u be muslim abi na atheist? |
toba:waitin for? I don send am tey tey. Hmmmph |
^^^ thank you |
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