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22rockbottom:
I was really rude about the confrontation. I was angry and below is why I was angry.

Both my in-laws came to our house, though I knew they were coming but I wasn't cool with it because they were with us last year December/January this year then now. My wife knew I wasn't cool with it but she never cares. We were both sleeping on the same bed but weren't talking. We had an issue one night and she went to report me to her parents, but her parents never call me to ask for my side of the story. That made me more angry so I left the house in the middle of the night. Guess what, I was away for 2nights and both my wife and my in-laws were not bother. They didn't even call. That made me more furious. So I spoke to her rudely.

Continue to seek third party opinions and don't master your reactions and emotions as a man


Na you go take your hand scatter your life yourself

fof1:
You are d Hypo I can see here,Pls. Claiming a Class U don't belong to. Whatever, it is his Story and not Urs to Paint Pls.

All one sided tales are fraud. Be it me, be it my father. Be it the wife. It's an absolute rule


You're the gullible one seeing class. Olodo

Ajagunakin:
They are all FALSE PROPHETS, RELIGION IS A SCAM!

You will witness the morinound economy before your very eyes this administration. And will be forced Helter skelter to seek for aid. Not to worry. It's coming to you to make you a believer

[quote author=Crystalsweetnes post=123389090][/quote]Tinubu gathered an army of herbalists, spiritualists and native doctor. That's why he started campaigning late. The entire spiritual work started Junly before the election proper.


Sorry guys, Tinubu made a covenamt with the devil and is backed by the devil. That's why votes kept changing to his and he won..


Nigeria will need prayers going forward

I saw the revelation of Tinubu winning the presidency before most prophets did in the country. I told people and shooke even my landlord who's a stanuch AOC supported January 1st. He was shocked and asked me how I knew and if the election had been conducted.


Listen, that Tomubu won the election doesn't mean it's the will of God. He's not the rightful winner and stile the election. Okay?


So, leave prophets and ministers alone

You managed to spin the narrative that the mother in law is evil. Share the core details of what happened and stop trying to tell the tale with you as the victim in it


Watch fools begin to vilify the woman and her family.

Hypocrite

Ombudsman1:
700 IN ONE MONTHTHERE'S SOMETHING FUNDAMENTALLY WRONG FROM YOUR END IT COULD BE THAT YOU'RE DESTINED NOT BE GAINFULLY EMPLOYED

Did I say I did not get offers?


I recall ending my comment with just sending...

Sirchiboy:
Waste of time.
I have applied for over 100 jobs
yet no invitation

100. I've sent 700 applications this month in search for just three opportunities

Let people know your location

700k can buy both

I've tasted Abuja and Lagos.

For the early development of your marriage you need peace, stability, a good environment.

Request for work leave and go to Lagos. Spend just a few days. Leave a destination ( Assuming it's where you'll stay should you choose Lagos ), calculate the time and effort and hours and resources it would take you to and fro work daily. Evaluate what it takes from your life and state and you'll have some personal answers in your choices based in experience that will help you make an informed decision.



Abuja jobs and organizations hardly challenges individuals to grow. If they do, the growth process and experiential expossure to more heights are typically slow and sluggish. Abuja in every sense represents stability and constancy. Only God knows the number of Lagos based workers suffering from " chaotic, haphazard experiences " in their lives.


If Abuja promises improvement in work conditions that delivers on a salary scale close to Lagos, I personally wouldn't move.



It is worth to consider the acclimization aspect of the entire family. Kid in school, how Lagos based kids behave and how abuja do. Same with wifey, lifestyle choices and all.


I'll choose Abuja anyday and time. Lagos has expired long ago but many don't know this


I forgot to add, Lagosians are not normal people.


https://www.nairaland.com/7701656/not-all-job-offers-destined

Kaycee54321:
Not all seats on a bus are good. My colleague and I were on a bus and he decided to grab the seat next to the window. 15mins into our journey, a tout reached his hand into the window and grabbed my colleague's phone. Shine your eyes.

I passed info. But guess how my colleague would feel if he sees this posted online...I'd go for stupid and mocked. What do you think, Sir?

How forceful are right words. It is as much humility to take corrections as it is to give it. Go back and read Oyindamolah comment and compare with yours. Compare the energy in both comments and see if it's not you that's being both hysterical and cynical with the hate laced energy in your words



Avoid me

Kaycee54321:
100K by 8 months = 800K
350K by 8 months = 2.8M

You, on your 100K, will need to work for more than one year and six months without touching your salary before you can bridge the gap in earnings. While you're working for this period, your colleague (who I assume is wise enough to have resigned at that point) could get a 450K job (using his previous earning of 350K as leverage to bargain with a new firm) - while you're here 'thanking God' for saving you and simultaneously mocking your colleague online.

You're right in your position. I agree completely except the part that she's mocking her colleague. Passing information isn't the same as mocking. Oyindamolah didn't insult her colleague a single bit but merely used his situation to express a situation Sir.

Holiness

Rest well let's you become enslaved to what ought to be your slave !

Men Dem !

Principle

After stealing, na white washing be this next level. Na who know want buy credibility. Another guy try buy Arsenal tire for whitewashing, na pursue Britons pursue am

Newton2024:
I have noticed how Tinubu's surpporters on social media defended every bad government policy. They defend the Drug Baron, Ekeremadu, MC Oluomo, and now they are defending Emdee Tiamiyu. On international scene, they defend Putin's invasion and massacre in Ukraine. Whenever there's massacre in middle-belt or South-East, they seem very happy. Tinubu's surpporters can defend anything so far it is on the negative side of story.

How can group of people decide be this evil?

Hahaha

Sonnobax15:
. Mehnnnnnnn.. Betrayal is a very bad thing....And the scars it brings can live in the victims heart forever..... That's why I have got trust issues..

True

The bosses emotions are intense and high.


She needs to withdraw her presence bit by bit not once to avert stories that touch, harm and problem.

Let her speak with a counselor or a pastor. Who would then speak with the boss counselling him aka replace her as he sees her as the only sure pillar of support

By substituting her role as his support with a clearly or counselor. He can transfer that desire to lean on a support to the counselor.


While she withdraws codedly. Let her fund the clergy calling and meeting the boss. Let them hold intermittent talks.


The role of the counselor would be to shape shift his focus, helping him transit through the sharp painful process slowly. To help him understand that he is going through a rough patch. And help him understand transition must occur and people who change during transitions


If she moves away too sharply. It's best she changes her residence cause that's danger. The man won't be mentally sound ATM to make sane decisions o

Two sides to every thing. What a Wow !

Have you converted how you want to receive your dividendes payment to be paid to your account ( Digital Payment )?

Stepout23:
Hi Mr Wodu89, I really don't get your point on what you are trying to say. If you can only make it more clear, then I will be able to give a more clearer reply.
Thanks

In response to your comment that states I can be more than a teacher in your diary

Lol @ you can be more than a teacher. You're an educator. You're transmitting life and injecting into the souls of uninformed ones helping the earth in it's evolution. There's nothing bad about being an educator. If you hate the title teacher, simply tell you people you wish to be addressed as an educator and stop subtly hating your profession

One of my best perspectives and scriptures in life. You Sabi


Always consult people above you for their opinion and advice when you are faced with a new challenge or task.
Even the bible said "...in the multitude of counsels there is safety"
Prov 11:14

akpascomartino:
Why you want OP to mention the name of the establishment? Do you know where members of this forum work?
Do you know if those involved are members of this forum?
What about the image of organization?
You want OP sacked?
Imagine how you just mentioned an organization name. I that didn't even know if such happens there now will be having negative feelings and impressions over their female staff.
APROKO KILL YOU.

O kill your generation. Whatever happened to don't start what you can't finish


It is important for me to know the work culture of organizatios to tell people loyal to me to stay off. Ode


If he works in UBA that has like thousands of branches how does it affect him. Eediot. No use your sense

Mogajunior:
Another simp spotted. The ability to be in control, disciplined and relate with women on plain ground without putting them on a pedestal regardless of their attractiveness is what makes you a real man. Those are the kind of men women respect.

Preach !

Ruggedfighter:
Oga, keep quiet. There are information that are supposed to be classified and personal, what will you do with it if he tells you? You want to tarnish the image of the company online abi. You that have a high thinking ability want to know what doesn't concern you in any way.

Then it shouldn't make the web.

If I say female workers at first bank fck like hell. How does it affect anything

Biko get lost nigga

Ruggedfighter:
A forum is where he's supposed to tell you his place of work? Looks like something is wrong with you

All of una education is a waste. I can see you people don't have sense.

In a company of say 1,000 workers who knows him or how does the name of company affects him when the company has large number of employees

Ode. Nigerian graduates have very low thinking ability

Igbo bachelor

irepnaija4eva:
Can you imagine... Brother..

Honestly this Generation of Simp Men is nauseating....

And I'm sure his the one that begs for forgiveness even when she's wrong...

I thank God I'm a sure man


One day I will.drive her to her house. Tell them the marriage is not meeting my needs. Drop the bride pride. Leave here there and drive off


He's too comfortable and needs to be reminded where she came from