loliapoopy2013: Am confused and don't know what to do. As am typing this message, am crying and devastated, my heart is broken into bits.
I have 2 sons, aged between 10 and 14. I have refused to live with any maid up till this time, fearing they might be abused. Am into confectionaries, so despite my stressful business, I manage my boys as my husband works offshore.
A month ago, my mum brought a 19-years-old cousin who looks like a 14-year-old boy to assist me in kneading dough. I panicked because my husband has warned me never to bring any relatives to his house. But because he is a boy and my relative, and was very industrious, I never thought of anything evil, I let him stay.
Yesterday was my birthday, I didn't want to celebrate, but my friend brought me a cake which motivated me to go to the market to get goat meat for pepper soup.
According to my friend, immediately after I left the house, my 10year old son went to take his bath, and that's when my cousin followed. Not liking their movement, she went and peeped, and behold, she saw my cousin having anal sex with my 10-year-old son���. She started banging on the door and they immediately started taking their bath, pretending as if nothing happened.
My friend told me as I got back. I confronted my son about why did he not tell me. He said my cousin cut himself, drew out blood from his body, and warned him that if he tells anyone, he will die, fearing for his life, he refused to tell me. I asked him, why he didn't tell his elder brother, and he said his elder brother is always playing ball downstairs. I then ask him how many times have they done it, and he said almost 10 times. That at first he enjoyed it but he is beginning to feel pain and doesn't know how to end it. I ask my son to bend over, people! my son's anus is wide opened and filled with injury, ������
Please house, what do I do? These are my fears:
1. My son has been introduced to gay sex life by my evil cousin. 2. How can I help ( counsel) my son and rehabilitate him? 3. I might lose my marriage because my husband warned me to protect his kids from relatives.
I need advice from you guys please����������. Please, no insults. I will not purposely put my son in harm's way����.
With immediate effect expose this cousin to all your relatives and report and detain him at the nearest police station even if you have to bail him out later.
He is 19 and not a kid, he should face the music.
Make sure his banished from your family.
As for your kid, he needs thorough counseling and monitoring.
And lastly be grateful for the friend you have and thank the Almighty God for using her to stem this evil on time.
This G5 governors are truly ready to deal with Atiku and it seems they are not backing out at all.
Well our own delight is in the disunity in PDP. They should continue to remain confused until Election Day.
—Shey na Yoruba Muslim murder millions of Biaflans?
—Na Yoruba Muslim massacre thousand of Iyanmili in the North?
—Na Yoruba Muslim send Python dance to kill your people in alaibo?
—Na because of Yoruba Muslim the albino Kanu created ESN against to battle the marauders against your people?
—Na Yoruba Muslim dey kidnap your people for sad East dey collect ransom?
—Na Yoruba Muslim keep Kanu the albino for detention?
—Na Yoruba Muslim seize Igbo people property for Rivers?
By the way, which agreement did your ancestors did with the Yoruba Muslims that warrant the word betrayal you’re using? When did we betray your forefather who were in the deep bush when we’ve developed as humans in Yorubaland?
Omo you mean no be small......
No kill all the IPOB and ESN mercineries on Nairaland now?
A father was humiliated by his daughters after they found proof that he is cheating on their mother again.
The daughters, said to be Ugandans living in USA, found their father's chats with his mistress so they read out the chats in the presence of other family members, including their father and mother.
They told their father he ought to be ashamed of himself, they also told him that he can't keep putting their mother through that while she is trying to work on the marriage.
At one point, one of the daughters begins crying and tells her father, "I want to kill you dad."
She also said to him, "You should be ashamed. How many f******* times are you going to put my mum through the same f****** bullsh*t?"
Another daughter then goes to their mum and gives her a sweater to keep warm.
While all this is going on, the father, who has a cup of tea sitting on a table before him, is seen silently looking at his daughters.
When the father tries to interrupt, the daughters refuse to let him speak.
One daughter is heard saying: "Daddy, you are a cheater and you gotta listen to what she's saying."
Another daughter says: "You are not that father figure. I don't care who you are to me, you are nothing to me."
The camera zooms to their father's chat with the other woman at some point and it shows them sexting.
The woman talks about sending him "nudes" of "those big boobs" and encouraging him to look at them.
She also wrote: "You know it when it's wet."
After they read out the chats, one daughter says to their father: "I found out even before Jane but me and you don't have a good relationship. So, when I saw this, when I read this, it didn't hurt me because I already decided that fourteen years ago, I lost you as a dad. So, when I saw this, it didn't hurt me."
However, she said her sisters were hurt when they found out.
The daughter continues: "She found out, Tyra found out the day we got back and Tyra cried. Ashley found out today. And Ashley loved you, Ashley loved you, that's why she's so mad like this because she loved you."
Ashley then begins crying at this point as she calls her father out and tells him that she wants to kill him.
The video has gone viral and has elicited mixed reactions.
Reality TV Star Tuoyo has lamented about the how ladies who hangout at night clubs are quick to offer themselves to men at the slightest act of friendliness.
He expressed his displeasure at how the ladies are so quick to commercialize themselves at any available men, as he labeled their behavior appalling.
Mumu talk!
Mind your own business for club. If they offer and you don't need, simply politely decline the offer.
EBMedia: I Am Patiently Waiting For My Turn - Nkechi Blessing Writes Ooni of Ife (Photo)
Nigerian actress, Nkechi Blessing Sunday has reached out to the Ooni of Ife, Oba Adeyeye Ogunwusi, who appears to be on a wedding spree, IGBERETV reports.
The monarch has gotten married to six women within the last one month.
Taking to her Instagram page, Nkechi shared a photoshopped image of her kneeling before the monarch and wrote;
Agrosage1: Welcome back to my page. If you are new here, trust me this would be the best article on poultry business that you would read ever in your life.
Therefore, click on the follow button.
Note: I am writing from experience as poultry farmer with 7 years experience
Let us go straight to the point. What you are about to read here would open your eyes in this poultry business forever.
Knowledge is power. I was reading my Bible this morning and came across a verse in Proverbs that I want you frame it and keep in your house.
Hang it where you can see it daily. Here is the wise saying by King Solomon. “Always remember what you learnt. Your education is life, guard it well”.
What you are going to learn here is life. Every intending “Poultry Farmer” should remember and guard it well.
Pay close attention now.
Alot of vet doctors do not want you to know this secret. And few successful and profitable poultry farmers are ashamed to tell you. But today, I want you to know everything.
It will save you a lot of money. And you will be a profitable poultry farmer once you apply the knowledge you have got here.
Here is the secret knowledge; “Your broilers/layers birds do not need drugs everyday to give you result”.
The statement above is unpopular. I know you have never heard of such proposal. You have read different articles and spoke to numerous poultry farmers and what they normally complain about is how expensive birds drugs cost.
And it makes you scared of starting due to low budget.
For the experienced poultry farmers. Majority do not know the fact that their birds can grow and produce result without drugs.
For vet doctors, they know for sure that your birds don't need daily drugs to grow. But they have intentionally hidden it from you. Because they need your money to survive.
No insult to them�
They are in the business of selling Poultry drugs. And your constant patronize is what will keep them in business.
Therefore, blame yourself for not getting the required knowledge. Leave your Vet doctor and that poultry farmer alone.
I am here to help you.
Now, you will agree with me that birds are living things. Just like human beings. The difference is, their body system differs from yours.
Birds have respiratory system Birds have reproductive system Birds have digestive system. And many more.
As a human being, you'll agree with me that you don't take drugs daily. You only visit your doctor, get prescriptions (after proper check-up), buy drugs as told. And take it as instructed.
And you only visit the hospital when you are sick. Your doctor might ask you to take the drugs only 7 days or 14 days and come back for check up.
Follow me closely. I am insisting that you understand what you need to be a successful poultry farmer.
Now, if you wake up in the morning. Decide to buy paracetamol and tramadol and consume 6 tablets morning, afternoon, and evening. You'll get sick within 30 days maximum.
You wouldn't only get sick. You might have spend thousands of your heard earn money buying and taking drugs that are not necessarily for your body system.
Remember, you were not sick initially. You decided to be taking drugs daily for pleasure. Or taking it so you wouldn't fall sick. But now, you are sick and plenty of money wasted.
And more money is needed to bring your health back to normal.
Now, use this example to match up with your birds. Why give them drugs daily when they are not sick?
Why?
Note that chicken drugs are expensive in Nigeria and Africa at large.
Let me tell you how some vet doctors bank on your ignorance to make money.
You venture into rearing birds newly and want to push your birds to grow faster than normal. You want to make quick sales (Quick sales doesn't equal PROFIT) within 5-6 weeks from broilers.
Since you want abnormal growth of your birds. Your vet doctor would sell a drug that could help you achieve that goal. They are zillions of boosters drugs available for impatient farmers.
So, one or two drugs would be recommend to you. They are usually not cheap. You will buy plenty sachets or bottles and be advise to be dropping in their water or mix with feed. To fasten their growth.
Let me inform you that birds consume plenty of water in a day. So, they would consume plenty of that boosters. Which directly means you are spending plenty of money daily on drugs for birds that are healthy.
At the end of 5-6 weeks, you big birds are ready for sales. But also remember that your cost of production too is big. So, you will struggle to sell your broilers at a reasonable price so you can make profit.
Note: Excessive use of boosters to increase birds growth causes incurable disease to human beings who consume the meat. And you are not coming into business to sell poison to your fellow human.
And that is where you will understand that poultry business is not as profitable as some bloggers makes it look. You need a lot of quality knowledge to be a profitable poultry farmer.
Do you remember your vet doctor? He has cash out without stress. And before I forget, excessive drugs can cause stunted grow in poultry. We will discuss about stunted growth later.
What Do You Need To Do?
Your birds can give you maximum growth in a short period of time. Without spending too much on drugs. You only visit a Vet Doctor when you birds are sick.
All you need is, quality feed. And clean water always available in the pen for your birds.
As simple as that. Buy good feed from reputable company with track record and testimony from field farmers. And give your birds at the right proportion and at the right time.
Note: Do not buy feed because their company agent told you the field is good. A poultry farmer should show you which feed to use.
Keep their pen clean 24/7. And most importantly, clean water should be available 24 hours for your birds.
Because if they eat quality feed and drink dirty water, it will lead to massive death. And lost of your invested capital. If they have enough of clean water to drink, it will ease digestion and that encourage growth.
So, the formula for maximum growth of your birds is Quality Feed+Clean Water = Net Profit.
I know it sounds simple and you might be wondering why nobody told you this or wrote about it before. The answer is simply because, I am writing from my over 6 years in the poultry industry.
And I want you to know the truth. Do not waste money on drugs. Buy drugs only when your birds are sick.
When they are not, provide them with clean water and good feed.
Your vet doctor wouldn't tell you this fact about rearing animals.
Good luck to you my friend. Go and start your chicken farm and become a profitable farmer. Do the right thing.
Be patient with your birds. [b]Quick growth doesn't necessarily translate to Quick profit in business.
Haba oga!!!
No Vet Doctor will tell you to give your birds medication daily.
Urheadmaster: One time I was in ikotun to attend prophet TB Joshua service.
The hotel where I lodged, we were watching African magic and the movie was about dead related script.
Somehow, argument started that you can see a dead person you know alive in another city.
One lady among us even told us that, if you doubt it, you should go to the centre of ikotun market around 12:midnights and bend down you'll see a dead person you know from your village .
OsunOriginal: Today, I visited Otuoke, my community and a few other communities in Bayelsa State to have an assessment of the impact of the flood. It is still a depressing situation in many of the affected communities because of the magnitude of the flood and the disruption and destruction it has caused. This is a moment of crisis; we need to work in unity to achieve the goal of giving hope and providing succor to all victims. I urged all citizens of goodwill and humanitarian agencies to demonstrate solidarity with these victims and provide support to those affected. - GEJ
This man was president of Nigeria for 6 years. The only thing he did in Etuoke was building a mansion for himself without even thinking about the susceptibility of the area to flooding. Today, the mansion is underwater and not habitable. Our leaders lack foresight and easily get carried away by all the noise that goes with being a president. Obasanjo was president for 8 years. He didn't remember to reconstruct the road leading to Otta. Today, Obj is complaining about the state of the same road he neglected while in office and had all the power to fix.
To Jonathan, enjoy your continued stay in IDP camp
So what?
He did nothing to dreg River Niger and Benue when he was President.
These people are the poor of the land. No proper housing, no schools, no clean water, no electricity, no hospitals, they go about doing their farming activities despite their poor living conditions and government can't secure their lives.
This is disheartening.
Too much blood letting in the North and South East.
Bandits should not be speared when arrested.
Almighty God help us put a stop to these killings, please it's enough.
lansile: ''Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing'', Genotype after 10years relationship is a crime, what will you do if the test result revealed AS+AS? tell her to go and find another man? in the same community? Even Obi will reject your vote if he found out you dumped someone's daughter for Genotype after 10 years..
Please avoid what is called an avoidable problem.
Love will not solve it and your offspring will be subjected to unbearable pains.
This is where man's knowledge in science and medicine plays a critical role.
Family › Re: The Cousin My Mum Brought To My House Has Destroyed My Son by wolebest: 12:22pm On Nov 08, 2022
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