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Family / Re: Husband Catches His Lingerie-clad Wife Waiting For 'date' In Hotel by wonderr(m): 1:04am On Jan 19
Abfinest007:
There are two types of women
The one that fear God and the one God himself is afraid of



Nobody knows what the man went there maybe he was on a mission too .fear Nigeria women
try dey read e no dey kill
Romance / Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by wonderr(m): 7:02pm On Jan 16
Slynation:
You are only being insecure young man... Although you have every reason to feel that way, but the mistake you made is letting a young man with full functional preeq into your home when you have a young wife...!!

The best way to deal with it is too stop thinking of the unknown, or your fears will surely come to reality one day...!!

Many men are yet to realize there wives are bored at home tho and they have no plans of spicing up their relationship.
but I can't spend all day with my wife because I don't want her to be lonely
Romance / Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by wonderr(m): 7:00pm On Jan 16
SensetionalGoal:
cool

I would dealt with the foolish tenant long before now if I were op walai...

Allowing him to come close to ur wife and family is ur worst mistake , you shouldn't have gave him such leverage...

I will advise you to warn him seriously never to come close to ur kitchen again, be firm about it and be ready to take drastic action because it seems their relationship has gone far...
it's a face me I slap you house we all share the same kitchen
Romance / Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by wonderr(m): 6:59pm On Jan 16
Blunttruth:
Problems of face me I face you. That's the only explanation for the guy entering kitchen. It means you all share kitchen. If your wife is obedient she would listen to you. For the guy he is a bad guy. Na dem. The ones who sleeps with married women. He has studied you and knows you are not always around. The way to a mother's heart is to show affection to the kids. The woman will turn to mumu. You have to step your foot down.
thank you
Romance / Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by wonderr(m): 6:58pm On Jan 16
Sammy101111:
Call your wife and warn her again
Tell her you’ve got nothing to loose
That if she continue doing that nonsense that don’t she know she is married that you will send her back to her parent . And call the guy face to face and tell him maturely that does he want to destroy your home was that why he rented the house to destroy your home and tell him to stop the friendship with your wife that she is a married woman which conversation are they both having at night . Warn him


For the Op that post this
There is something you need to know about woman . This ladies know how to manipulate things they will do something wrong and still act like they are the one affected . So from now play wiser . Your wife as seen you finish she knows you are weak ( sorry for saying that ) please now You have to be harder on her if she don’t want to listen na you marry your wife no be she marry you . Tell her if she doesn’t listen to you if you start your attitude she will hate . Try to always record them when they are talking at night and go and show your family and her family and tell them back that what is a married woman doing with a single man in your own house .
If she is acting stubborn
The fastest way to make her stop is to shame her cause a public reaction scream shout on her in public tell in front of everyone one . That she is a landlady why is she disgracing her self with a tenant .
Before she shame you shame her in public
If she act stubborn



And I don’t understand is your house face me I slap you waything tenant they find inside your flat apartment inside your kitchen for that matter you have allowed shit from start you are weak bro . That first day you caught him in your kitchen you should have change it for the guy badly and shame the guy call all the remaining tenant that they should help you oh before you go mad at the guy that what he’s he looking for in your kitchen does he want to poison you .


Woman will always take advantage of weak men
he also has a right to the kitchen we all use it together but since he is single he hardly cook infact he has never cooked in the kitchen before the only thing that takes him to the kitchen is my wife
Romance / Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by wonderr(m): 6:55pm On Jan 16
Sammy101111:
Call your wife and warn her again
Tell her you’ve got nothing to loose
That if she continue doing that nonsense that don’t she know she is married that you will send her back to her parent . And call the guy face to face and tell him maturely that does he want to destroy your home was that why he rented the house to destroy your home and tell him to stop the friendship with your wife that she is a married woman which conversation are they both having at night . Warn him


For the Op that post this
There is something you need to know about woman . This ladies know how to manipulate things they will do something wrong and still act like they are the one affected . So from now play wiser . Your wife as seen you finish she knows you are weak ( sorry for saying that ) please now You have to be harder on her if she don’t want to listen na you marry your wife no be she marry you . Tell her if she doesn’t listen to you if you start your attitude she will hate . Try to always record them when they are talking at night and go and show your family and her family and tell them back that what is a married woman doing with a single man in your own house .
If she is acting stubborn
The fastest way to make her stop is to shame her cause a public reaction scream shout on her in public tell in front of everyone one . That she is a landlady why is she disgracing her self with a tenant .
Before she shame you shame her in public
If she act stubborn



And I don’t understand is your house face me I slap you waything tenant they find inside your flat apartment inside your kitchen for that matter you have allowed shit from start you are weak bro . That first day you caught him in your kitchen you should have change it for the guy badly and shame the guy call all the remaining tenant that they should help you oh before you go mad at the guy that what he’s he looking for in your kitchen does he want to poison you .


Woman will always take advantage of weak men
yes it's a face me I slap you house
Romance / Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by wonderr(m): 6:54pm On Jan 16
Sammy101111:
Answer my question op
Is your house face me I last you house
How can your tenant be in your kitchen with out you knowing
yes Its a face me I slap you house
Romance / Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by wonderr(m): 6:53pm On Jan 16
Dshocker:



Bros na matter of time, e go happen, i swear.

If your wife no gree ear word, beat nonsense comot from her head.
ahhhhhh I will rather send her packing
Romance / Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by wonderr(m): 1:30pm On Jan 15
JASONjnr:
You don't have any business with the said guy but with your wife....

Personally, I'd ensure that she gets the message by all means...

I supposed you know what it means of you give the young lad a quit notice...Your wife will likely continue the intimacy from afar without you monitoring her.

Are you sure they're not ex lovers? And those kids could be his...


If a woman can't understand that as a married person, you have to keep distance from men, then she's never seeing herself as a married woman.


Also check on yourself...Have you been giving her the attention that she needs?
talking about attention our sexlife is horrible but she is the cause of it from time she seems to be the type of person that doesn't like sex that most time I have to beg her for it and because I do not want any altercations in my home I have to oblige and ask her for sex once in a while could this be the cause?
Romance / Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by wonderr(m): 1:23pm On Jan 15
Lurdd:
You are simply a weak man..
You don't even need to gain attention outside your family.you need to caution your wife with the language she will understand..your are still alive and she's playing with your balls..
Too many weak men these days. Spits!
you have no idea of whom I am am not censorious but if I get angry once there might be irreparable damages that's why am just trying to subjugate the issue
Romance / Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by wonderr(m): 1:20pm On Jan 15
Starz825:


You are right to have shown concern...

Whatever you said in your write up...you have done no wrong at all

Listen to me.....women are delicate beings....no matter how strict a woman is...a smart man has a key to her heart even if she is married...

So There is no man that will take such disrespect...


People don't know that...as married men lust around with single ladies... married women also love to lust around with men....the urge is always there...

Once a woman begin to smile at a man for almost no reason....that man is just few meters away from her pants....

So if care is not taken ...that guy will have his way with your wife in no time....your wife got some feeling for him already


Now see what to do .....set them up with some of your very matured tenants.....I repeat very matured tenants....

Tell them everything you feel about this very guy's relationship with your wife...send one of them to advice the guy...and the rest should continue to keep an eye on me and your wife especially when you are not around...

Going forward, don't say anything to your wife about the guy....just be yourself...do your thing as if you have relented.....get feedbacks regularly from your watchdogs ...that's all...any silly info you gather up will tell you what to do next....

The guy is an idiot for wanting to keep a relationship with a married woman whose husband is glaringly not happy with such relationship..
thank you very much I really appreciate this
Romance / Help My Life , Am Confused by wonderr(m): 11:35am On Jan 15
I have being living fine with my wife and two kids. She loves me an I love her too. Sincerely speaking she has being a very good wife. But now we have a problem, we got a tenant into our house last year, a single guy ever since this guy came into our house he has being showing so much love towards my kids buying them gifts from time to time almost everyday and this makes my wife like this guy and they have seem to be good friends, at first I feel cool with it thinking the guy is just nice and there is no strings attached, but lately I feel the intimacy is getting too much that even when am at home my wife would leave me inside and start talking to the guy outside at night, sometimes I would be inside and my wife would be cooking inside the kitchen this guy will leave whatever he is doing and go and keep my wife company in the kitchen, I started feeling disrespected I talked to her about it and she promised to ameliorate the third day same thing happened The guy came back from work and my wife was cooking at the kitchen before the guy even enter his room he went straight to the kitchen and start to keep her company again both of them alone at night all other tenants are in their rooms. I became very exasperated I had to walk up to the kitchen and tell her right in the guys presence that she is not okay and that is her last warning my intention of doing this is to let the guy know that am not cool with the intimacy between them that he should caution himself. now I feel am not being respected because after I warned her I believe she should have excused the guy and not give him so much attention again, now I think he is being kind to my kids just to gain my wife's attention, even if they both have a pure heart and nothing in mind if the intimacy continues It might later lead to relationship and sex, so I called her parents yesterday to inform them of what is happening they promise to talk to her, meanwhile she has invited the guy to our family church weeks ago. my only aunty that I can say she is the only family I gat because am the only child of my parents and am an orphan now, so I do not have many relatives this my aunt's husband is the pastor of the church. Now my wife has narrated the story to my aunt and she is now telling me I must not quarell with my wife or the guy because the guy is now a member of the church they do not want to loose a member I do not know what to do because my aunt seems to be at her side saying she can't do such thing but I know what I am seeing and experiencing at home if they can be doing such in my presence what would they do in my absence, and I do a shifting job I only sleep at hope for two weeks in a month am scared and confused, Don't want to loose her and I can't even give the guy a quit notice now because my only aunt wold be furious I don't want her to be mad at me she's the only family I gat am confused please advise me

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Romance / Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by wonderr(m): 3:31pm On Jan 10
Oga go do DNA for that belle ooo

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Family / Re: My Marriage Is Stressing Me by wonderr(m): 3:26pm On Jan 10
all4zionlover:
Honestly I'm going through so much here. I'm losing it. I feel depressed, so much fear, unhappy and lonely. My husband's gambling habit has removed love and affection from our home.
He quickly finishes any money that comes to him. Either salary and anything in bet nija and concentrate on asking me for money. I'm have no job, I'm buy little things and resell. My capital is not even stable because all the financial expenses is on me. Yet he doesn't care. He keeps malice with me for not giving him money and not coming home to meet food.
This year, I have decided not to keep food for him so long as he can not bring money for feeding, for the children he claim he love and upkeep.
I've endure for too long and I'm getting fade up.

All my actions and his behaviour really makes me sad.
I have no love, respect for him.
I excessively worry for upkeep, school fees, bills, things we don't have at home. Everything is on me.
I'm so stressed and lonely. I feel I need a shoulder to rest on maybe to cry.
I'm so sad because our two sons are too attached to their father and I'm scared of their feelings if I decided to divorce their father

My first son wouldn't even go to bed until his father return back from work.

Have you been in this kind of situation?
What did you do? How do people survive this kind of situations?
If domestic violence is not involved then divorcing him is inexpedient. Can I ask you how you intend to take care of your kids if you divorce him, I guess your answer will be 'WORKING HARDER'. There you found the solution to your problems, all you have to do is abandon him in your heart and not in reality and work harder don't depend on him for anything, assume in your heart that you have divorced him, pay your kids bills and when he sees he is being neglected and you and the kids are doing fine he will come back to his senses and if he doesn't, you will probably not need him for anything again then you can divorce him, then you will be independent and you and your kids will be doing just fine without him, as for the kids that are obsessed with him give it time they are going to move on too
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Chelsea Vs Manchester City (0 - 1) - Full Time by wonderr(m): 11:18pm On Jan 05
kstyle2:
I remember Chelsea fans teasing man UTD fans at the beginning of the season when we lost our first matches. Now, even road to otuoke no dey. How on earth do you sack Tuchel and hire a British manager who has won nothing? Chelsea were fortunate to get a draw against UTD at Stamford bridge and it pained me. I hope when we meet, we destroy them. Gernot rohr is available
united begged for a draw that day cos we scored first
Crime / Re: Man Hires Friend For N10,000 To Kill Pregnant Wife In Ogun by wonderr(m): 3:55pm On Jan 04
DispatcherLagos:

And your people that has been bashing igbos on other threads on drugs peddling, maybe you don't need our votes for your Tinubu abi?
let's stop it, that's the message let's come together as one we have bigger problems to deal with than tribalism
Crime / Re: Man Hires Friend For N10,000 To Kill Pregnant Wife In Ogun by wonderr(m): 3:24pm On Jan 04
VeryWickedSimp:
Others are lifting World Cup, Afonjas are lifting Skull Cup.

Tufiakwa!! angry
but you are persuading this same afonja to vote peter obi, if you are this tribalistic what is the assurance that your prescribed candidate is the way forward for this country.
Say no to tribalism.
We are one.
Good and bad things happen every where.
Even in the land of chukwudis
Sports / Re: Jay Jay Okocha And Wife, Nkechi Celebrate Their 25th Wedding Anniversary (Pix) by wonderr(m): 8:25pm On Jan 03
Agbadocassava:
On May 29, 2030 Tinubu will celebrate 7 years in office as the President Federal republic of Nigeria by God’s grace…


Una good evening
is this a curse or what?
May your wishes for this country be your portion IJN

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Romance / Re: What's Your New Year Resolution With Respect To Love Relationship? by wonderr(m): 11:41pm On Dec 31, 2022
BigDawsNet:


It's not necessary

We are not divorcing

It's forever union
that's the problem it always look perfect at the inception, those divorcing now were also once deeply in love, they never envisaged divorce, just use your discretion right, wishing you a happy married life in advance.

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Romance / Re: What's Your New Year Resolution With Respect To Love Relationship? by wonderr(m): 8:35pm On Dec 31, 2022
BigDawsNet:
I'm Lucky to be with the best woman ever...

She's my dream partner
Even when my family tot I was joking at young age when I said I will get married to a white woman...

Finally The dream came tru

She's my partner... and I'm settling down with her by God's grace in 2023...

child support loading

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Romance / Re: What's Your New Year Resolution With Respect To Love Relationship? by wonderr(m): 8:32pm On Dec 31, 2022
virginprincess:
I will not let any man use my head this 2023,and i will also set strict standards when it comes to relationships.
dey play, just dey play well behaved and amiable girls haven't seen boyfriend's not to talk of you that wants to start setting strict standards hope you have a single brother that might later pity your sorry ass

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Romance / Re: Please Help, How Do I Get Over My Abusive Relationship That Is Draining My Blood by wonderr(m): 1:14pm On Dec 30, 2022
Zeal0000007:
thanks bro thats what I have in mind , my rent will be expiring by April next year, and I'm planning packing out to somewhere new, thanks for d advice bro
And if she gets pregnant before April nko
U better don't put yourself in unnecessary stress MAN UP and act now
Sports / Re: Qatar World Cup 2022 Quarter-Final Fixtures by wonderr(m): 11:19am On Dec 09, 2022
All the games are 50-50 except Brazil Croatia that is 70-30
NB am temporarily a morrocan till the world cup comes to an end my fellow morrocans hit the like button, ONE LOVE AFRICA

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Sports / Re: Qatar World Cup 2022 Quarter-Final Fixtures by wonderr(m): 11:13am On Dec 09, 2022
AdemolaA2:
Good bye to England
Good bye to Portugal
Goodbye to Croatia
Goodbye to the Netherlands
undisputably you must be a Barcelona fan

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Politics / Re: Seyi Tinubu Meets E-Money, Yul Edochie, Odumeje, Sings Nigerian Old Anthem by wonderr(m): 6:35am On Dec 02, 2022
ganisucks:
This boy's desperation is so repulsive and annoying. He's so proud, lofty and incorrigible. He sbould continue to fool himself; Aso Rock, his papa will not see. All the wolves will gather and finish him once his octagenarian ancient of days father leaves. His mother that is not really his mother will Ben Johnson and japa; while that his quarter past four sister go hear am. Abi, na una papa get Lagos. Kola Abiola did all this one when he was young, now he's old, he has become a good boy enjoying the crumbs the powers that be throw at him. This boy too will end up the same way.
agreed but can never be wretched like you, you are only envying him because you are not in his position,it's not your fault that you are born in a wretched family learn to always accept your fate and move on, he is not the cause of your problems

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Politics / Re: Adeleke Freezes Osun Government Accounts, Reverses State Name by wonderr(m): 5:41am On Nov 28, 2022
RuddyFusion:
Governance in Nigeria
When we will get it right?
we will get it right when you know how to put 'will' before 'we'

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Business / Re: Naira Redesign: Bags Of Damaged Naira Notes Discovered (Video, Pictures) by wonderr(m): 5:36am On Nov 28, 2022
marlow1962:
As long as you’re an enemy to the progress of this country, God go punish you, punish your generation.
One man go thief money wer go reach better millions of ppl life, their am keep to em self and em family. God go punish em family, punish anybody wer dy associated with de family.
And you as the citizen wer dy support evil wer dem dy do to dis country, God go punish you and your generation.


Check out Switzerland, the average citizen is driving a sport car, come nigeria, average man no even fit chop better food twice a day.
oga shut up you will do the same thing if you are given an opportunity to get there, the fact that you are not a public office holder today does not make you holier, you are only envying them because you can't afford to get to that position so you can embezzle public funds the way they are doing, start fixing your life because no government is coming to fix it for you and stop being an hypocrite
Family / Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by wonderr(m): 1:08pm On Nov 27, 2022
faithfull18:
If you marry the right one who truly understands what marriage is about, truly loves God and keeps his commands, doesn't cheat or sleep around, is 100% honest and transparent about everything, is diligent and you both can work together to achieve common goals, you will enjoy heaven on earth wink
such man does not exist
Sports / Re: Cristiano Ronaldo Is To Leave Manchester United By Mutual Agreement (Photo) by wonderr(m): 7:40pm On Nov 22, 2022
lhordspy:
We saw it coming.... What a relieve! Atleast one good news is popping up today afterall.


I foresee portugal also crashing out in the group stage of the worldcup without winning any match or scoring any goal, with Ronaldo having No goal + No assist.

And the valueless Ronaldo moving back to italy to play Seria B .

if you have any one like Ronaldo in your entire lineage your life won't be this worthless
Family / Re: Entire Family Members Dead In Abia (Photo) by wonderr(m): 7:47pm On Nov 17, 2022
MadamVanessa:


shocked


How many times will this make front page?
it's either poison, or related to smoke from generator, or smoke from forgotten burnt food on fire, while they were asleep may god forbid any kind of untimely death amen
Politics / Re: Tinubu Consoles Davido Over Son’s Death by wonderr(m): 7:31pm On Nov 01, 2022
walosky:
A death-felt condolences from Baba death himself (a moving corpse)
the funniest thing is that you might even die before him, this life sometimes the good trees fall and the dry trees stand, never wish anyone dead because you don't know your time
Family / Re: Married Men With Children, How Much Do You Spend On Running Your Home Weekly? by wonderr(m): 8:39pm On Oct 26, 2022
Announced3:


I ate once a day..
#150 fufu
#100 meat..

Sometimes 300-350
#50 or #100 garri
#50 groundnut

Evening 100 meat
#150 fufu.. Apir markurdi grin
still endorsing my point

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