Siberian huskies in Nigeria? Isn't it a bit unfair given the climate? Just wondering. I didn't know it was a popular breed in Africa.

@OP, could you share a picture of the mother, please?

Hhmm.. I don't really think people would decide not patronize you just because you're thier neighbour. Everyone is looking for the best value (aka cheapest high quality). So if your products are good and cheap enough, neighbours will buy. It's business and nobody likes wasting money. Just don't expect them to buy from you just because you're thier neighbour. They will not leave an old vendor who gives them good deals and great customer experience for anything. There's no business justification for that.

#Opinion

gidimafia:
See this one contradicting himself..we were told once u have good grade its sure success..meaning no one on that queue will be left out..but u just said favors some..it’s supposed to br all lke were told..u het the point now pronto

Who are the we? Speak for yourself. I was not told so. My teachers made me understand the value of education early in life. Nobody ever told me anything in life implies automatic success. So if you were misguided, that's your experience, not mine. And that's the point in the post you quoted: our experiences aren't the same and yours aren't enough to invalidate education cause it favours those it favours.

Your experience is not mine.

Lol... why do I find the title so funny? It's as if Man U is the main deal while Ghana is the promo. Crazy people everywhere.

ChizzyBuna:

You are stupid, im left handed and it happens naturally when i use my left hand.
But for him to sack me just for using my left hand to accept money is stupidity.
After all my efforts in making profit for him

I spit on African backward mentality

Now you feel a bit of what gay people feel in Africa. Sorry sir.

English
1) Money Heist
2) Blacklist
3) Homeland
4) Snow piercer
5) Elite

French
1) Into the night
2) The forest (just started)
3) The hookup plan
4) Call my agent
5) Lupin

Jayrockk:
Vikings
The Witcher
Money heist

I've only watched these three

I heard peaky blinders, Lucifer & blacklist are interesting

Blacklist I'd awesome

Mynd44:
Shadow and bone

Witcher

Vikings

Lucifer

Shadow and bones was too bland for me. I found it kinda shallow.

A higher grade? Sorry, what does that mean?

kazyhm:


Check the post you replied for update.

Sorry, I'm done with you. I'm not going to look out for your update like some mobile app. Just read carefully next time before you jump in to insult people. I only replied you cause I wanted to know the thought process of people like you.

kazyhm:


You missed one point from the case that acquainted the man....

The FMC found the death was natural
The police found the death was by sexual assault.

The is what I think happened.
The police from the autopsy found some irregularities and form a theory to back the theory of what might have happened....then concluded she was raped.........

To prove the rape case, they need to take the conduct DNA sample of the sperm found on her then compare it to a sample from the supposed perpetrator.........

Now I think the samples did not match so the police decided to remove that aspect hoping/praying/assuming the judge would not ask. But unfortunately, the judge is diligent and thorough....because it is better for 10 criminals escape justice than for one innocent person be punished.....

And by the way.... between FMC Makurdi and Police forensic pathologist......which should be more reliable?

You've explained how the judge ended up freeing the man. And according to your explanation, it's possible the man did it but there wasn't just enough evidence against him. That's OK. I was never disputing the judgment.

If you read the post you quoted, I told the guy that finding the wife guilty invariably implies the federal court would find the husband guilty as well. Then you quoted me to call me an illiterate only for you to come back to argue something I never disputed. I told the dude he cannot support the wife's punishment without implicating the husband. That's the contradiction here and I pointed it out to the person I quoted because he obviously thought it was a man vs woman case where one party's guilt would vindicate the other. The person I quoted was quick to side with the man even without understanding the story. Anything not hold a man accountable was fine by him. And I said if that man appears before the federal court, he's not getting out free.

So tell me how that makes me an illiterate and how this your response full of hypothesis invalidates my submission.

Dupalmer:

It's greed for a woman to want to keep a man all to herself. Do you know that a single ejaculation can impregnant more than a hundred ladies. Many ladies are very willing to becomesecond and third wives and that's African culture. Y'all can't just come and shove western culture down our throats. We imbibe the culture take and forsake the ones we don't want.

God didn't punish anyone in the Bible for marrying more than one wife he only forbade people from marrying from tribes of idol worshippers. He even promised to give David many more wives despite David already having 8 wives and many concubines ( if David hadn't slept with Ureah's wive). Women today pray to God of David yet they frown at polygamy. Hypocrisy I must say.

Just like you said, many women are willing to be share thier husbands. Getting married to a woman who has aspired all her life and given her all to be and raise her kids in a peaceful monogamous only to mess it up for her later is wickedness in its purest form. That lady's mid-life crises would be unmatched but her life would be nothing like what she envisioned and it was another party's decision. When you're married as a man, it's no longer all about you. Another human being is involved. Your wife as just as human as you are. You both built the home. You don't just wake up and decide to change everything.

And please, leave the Bible out of this. You guys only pick the bits that appeals to you and you end up picking culture as doctrine. Did God create Adam, Eve, Jessica and Chioma? Or maybe he didn't know the biology of men then? The same Bible said "so they're no longer two but one". You think the man is supposed to be one with different women? Multiple ones? If anything, the Bible shows us the issues with polygamy. Virtually all the polygamous marriages in the Bible had conflicts. Does the Bible also support cheating men like Yul Edochie who has been sleeping with this "colleague" long before now? Please, let's not even get religious.

Hacked? Does this mean you wanted to be using the app without paying the company? If that's it, I'd say you got served, bro. This reminds me of the song "you want to bamba. You wanna chill with the big boys".

On a more serious note, you can afford Netflix from all indications, why try to cheat them? I still don't understand why Nigerians see these kind of things as being "smart". You guys like to say "in a sane society... " and I wonder what you think makes the society sane if not the people.

The app you got was never free. Someone probably paid for a few months just for you to have the app long enough on your device to do it's task of stealing your money. Now, you've ended up paying more than the subscription fee. That's sad.

kazyhm:


You no go school.....women agitation would work against women in the long run

She claim her child was raped........but couldn't prove it

Then NAPTIP take her on on being an accomplice in her claim....even though she can't prove it.

Conclusion don't be a false alermist

I really tried to make sense of your post so I could, at least, reply. But nope, I couldn't. What exactly are you saying? That the court finding her guilty of not protecting the child doesn't imply the child was actually raped? You think she'll be jailed even for a minute for being accomplice to a crime that cannot be proven? Accomplice to what? So why are the two courts said to contradict each other? Dude, if her husband is presented before the same court that jailed her, he's going straight to prison cause the judgment against his wife has already implicated him.

You probably think the court of law is Nairaland where y'all argue without logic.

Dupalmer:

He didn't chase the wife away no despise her he only got her a helper. Men need sex to function and that's the honest truth. Most men can't cope with only one partner. It's traumatising. Forget about all the pretentious lifestyle of most Christian men. It's only a few men that can own up to their sexcapades. Very minute few indeed. All men cheat but only few are caught. The problem which ladies fail to understand is that men have sex without emotional attachment.

Keep telling yourself that cause she confided in you she was in search of a helper. Why don't you sleep around like the instinct-driven animals you suddenly claim to be instead of getting married to someone who has got a plan for her life only to ruin it for her? Whether this lady accepts to live with the second wife or decides to go, her life will never remain the same. And it's because the husband of almost two decades was sleeping around at work like a dog. Imagine someone else's actions suddenly making your own life miserable. Marriage is partnership, you don't bring in a third party without the concent of the second. The Edochie dude was mean and inconsiderate and it's obvious he knows that but just putting up a facade cause he's hooked.

Aren't Nairaland men the ones always calling out Nigerian girls for sleeping with married men? How can y'all criticise such girls and hail the men they do it with in the same breath? Do you guys just say anything to justify your lack of self control even when it's completely illogical? You think women don't have other things they desire thier husbands can't offer them? It's just crazy how women are still treated in this modern age.

The same education that has liberated millions of people from the jaws of poverty and mental slavery. The Nigerian mentality of "if it's not happening to me, it's not happening to anyone" is funny. Just like most things in life, education favours those it favours.

It's simple. The distance is dependent on the fare. When you increase the fare, the roads get longer. How do you think those long bridges in advanced countries were built? Their governments simply increased the fares.

You're welcome.

BluntCrazeMan:
What if these are all jokes and make-believe??

Lol... that would be a good one.

cococandy:
Also wondering why he can’t be held responsible for protecting the child as well. Let’s imagine that the rapist is an entire person that’s not him, why is the wife the only one expected to protect the kid? Wasn’t she his ward as well?

It's shameful that the child needed to be protected from her own father. We don't have enough details on how the federal court came to the conclusion that the woman should be punished as well. Maybe there were clear signs she delibrately ignored just not to go public and "embarrass her family". If that's the case and reprimanding her is what it'll take for him to face the wrath of the law, it's still better than him going scot-free.

Real men don't cheat on thier wives.

Hhmm... When someone uses the word "men" in a sentence, y'all gather to remind them it's not all men. But here is a man boldly making a claim about all ladies. Well, not everyone is against polygamy. There are people willing to be second wives and we've seen women who don't openly complain about having co-wives. Everyone has an idea of what they want thier life to be like. Find your type and don't mess up another person's life.

By the way, why are you guys suddenly OK with ladies sleeping with married men? Because you want to side with this particular married man? Laughable.

Shameful.

Officialgarri:
Seems confusing. I feel the report was made from the position where readers are expected to find the story so interesting and also sympathize with the woman.

But from the judgment of two separate courts and the involvement of NAPTIP, the woman could actually be guilty of whatever she's accused of

Whatever she's accused of? From all indications, you don't understand any bit of this report but you're already fast to call out the woman. Do you think this is a case of woman vs her husband where one party's guilt vindicates the other? Do you even realize why the judgments are said to be contradictory? Her guilt implies her husband did rap.e the child. Do you guys ever take a break to hold your fellow men accused? Wow.

Dottore:

How exactly. Northerners marry 4 wives nobody is complaining. Our fathers married multiple wives and that's African culture. Why are people making noise about this guy taking a second wife.

Because he's been sleeping with his colleague long before now. So it's not just about polygamy, it's about a family man sleeping with his colleague at work and there's nothing remotely decent about that.

Because such a decision doesn't just affect him alone, it affects another party who also had a vision of the kind of life she wanted for herself and who gave her all to build her dream family. You guys need to understand it's not all about whatever works for the man. Women have aspirations too.

Because his wife doesn't deserve this. At least, he hasn't said anything that suggests she wasn't good to him.

alizma:

She can also choose to ignore

You and your children are suddenly in a polygamous home and you can choose to ignore? Ignore what exactly? Her life? This is a family she's been giving her all for almost two decades. Do you guys even realize that women have dreams too? A woman has an idea of what she wants her life to be like, the kind of family she hopes to have. She gives her all into building that and all of a sudden, that gets jolted by her partner and your response is, "she can choose to ignore". Can we just be fair in our judgment and stop this gender bias? It's not like this man was having issues with his wife. He was just sleeping around and got hooked. He's changing this woman's life forever.

okuta007:



Yul will marry up to 4 wives in the next 10 years - a true son of Ebubedike
Is it not better for him to marry than hide his affairs? Real men own up - fake men pretend
I hate hypocrisy - that is what is killin the western world and we have bunch of single ladies doing stuff that married ladies do
like having sex, cooking and cleaning for a man they desire BUT the man cant marry them because polygamy is illegal

So carry go Yul.. He is handsome, rich, he has influence, a master in his field, a celebrity and what else, he has name identity

The man no be only one woman fit get am abeg, him too much!!!!

You said, "is it not better for him to marry her than hide thier affair?"

You realise they have been sleeping together long before now? You're only learning about this cause a baby got involved and he's now getting married as if that is meant to take away the fact that he's sleeping with his colleague while his innocent wife was at home cooking for him and taking care of children. Let's call a spade a spade. This idea of never seeing anything wrong on whatever a man does is not helping anyone. Aren't y'all the ones always calling out Nigerian girls for sleeping with married men? All of a sudden, it's now okay simply because you want the shield the man? Wow.

bukatyne:


Which yeye conscience can the idiots claim?

You cheat on your wife, have a child and marry your married side chic and still claim she's number one.

You sleep with a married man yet claim she is a queen.

Now this is the kind of nonsense that is most painful.

Crazy lots.

I agree. There's no justification for what they did to her.

CoolAmbience:


No be lie you talk...

Make Yul make sure say e dey lock him room well before e sleep...

I no envy in current situation at all.

If na me do this knet, I go just pass there go one remote village for Taraba go hide, then send my entire kindred to my wife, to placate her first, for at least one year, before I go show face.

I know my wife o.

Lol... I know you're being serious but this was very funny.

maasoap:


The moment she accepts the reality of "what it is" rather than "what ought to be", her life that is "upside down" now will be upright immediately. When my brother's wife accepted the reality, her BP came down and she once became happy again. Lol

If she had envisioned herself in a monogamous relationship, no amount of acceptance would change the fact that the man just jolted her life.

techWriter3:
PDP is a dead faction in Nigerians dead in 2015 and disposed in 2019e shocker una abu

You're a writer?

They're just trying to appease her after turning her life upside down in the blink of an eye. Conscience is a strong thing.

They say whatever you want to hear.