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lecowas:
Just get out of my mention already. I condemned the action of the said guy and was even alarmed that some so called elders followed him to beg in the other post. U ain't seeing all those with ur one sided and bias explanation. While it is obvious the man is mad already to try such in that kind of gathering, it is also true that most women have returned to those abusive partners which is not supposed to be the case. Just gerrout already

No, you did not condemn the man's actions in the post I quoted. And stop shying away from the gist here. Your "most women love violence" is a ludicrous thing to say. It is also a subtle support for violence against women. I've said this in all the posts I've made on this thread, but you've delibrately refused to address that. Instead, you run around chasing shadows. Are most men violent? If not, how did you come to the conclusion that most women love violence? Does that statement make sense to you? You'd rather pretend you don't see the point than rephrase your statement.

PerfectStranger:
Stop attaching cheap emotions to this, every man can't be cool headed at the same time.

Either you deal with a violent man or you walk out, nobody forcing her ass to the man. I'm sure that isn't the first time of him hitting her,so?

Every man can't be cool headed at the same, so let us put this on the victim. Perfect. So this victim's decision to stay with a violent woman is enough for that guy to conclude most women love violence, right? Maybe the men giving it to them are just doing them a favor.

Dude, this man is violent and should be held responsible for his actions. He could easily leave the lady if he didn't like her attitude, but he resorted to violence. Just like he does not represent most men, this woman does not represent most women too. So even if she should be blamed for loving a violent man, it does not mean most women live violence. That's a preposterous thing to say.

lecowas:
I have not even insulted you, you are the one hurling all the insults at me simply because I said she should have ran for her life instead of persisting in a suicidal marriage.

Okay, maybe u want me to say I condemn the man but the lady should stay in an abusive marriage, innit?

I don't know what is your problem exactly, that fact that I condemned the action of the man doesn't say I should keep mum about the lady enduring bull sh*t. Just leave me abeg, I no get time for this ur unnecessary argument. Cos u people just manufacture arguments out of thin air and begin to speak grammar because of the little dictionary u read. Smh

No one insulted you. I did not mince my words, so you absolutely know what I am saying but conveniently choose to play ostrich.

Nobody is stopping you from asking ladies to run for thier lives. Making it look as if that was the bone of contention is a strawman's argument. I am telling you that it is wrong to conclude most ladies love violence after watching a video of a man hitting lady. That's not just an absurd conclusion but also excuses the man's action. The man is responsible for his actions and if the violent man is not enough to make you say most men are violent, the poor victim should certainly not be enough to make you say most ladies love violence. Your post didn't even call out the man in question, but you were quick to tell us about women who leave gentle men for the violent ones.

lecowas:
Oga stop yapping nonsense, for someone to try this shit in the public shows you the kind of person he is. My statement neither supports nor acquit him of any wrongdoing.

To comprehend what I've written is not rocket science so stop this nonsense

Of course, I wasn't expecting anything but insults.

Yes, it shows the kind of man he is. So do we then say that most men are violent because of this man? For every straight woman in a violent relationship, there's a violent man by her side. So how did you come to the conclusion that most ladies like violence but not that most men are violent? Again, what kind of logic is that? Why would anyone allow sexism to erode thier sense of reasoning? By saying "most ladies love violence" instead of calling the man in question violent, you have offered a soft landing to all the violent men out there. How you don't see that baffles me.

lecowas:
Human being are complicated a swear. For him to be emboldened enough to try that at the wedding, he must have bastardized the lady with beating during courtship. And she still went ahead to tie the not with that hooligan

Meanwhile, a nice gentle guy (simp) who wants the lady will be treated as a foot mat by the lady.This shows most ladies LOVE VAWULENCE

If i was a lady, I'd rather go for a simp with peace of mind than enter a suicidal marriage.

Hhmm... Most ladies love violence? Really? This is your reaction to the video of a man hitting a lady? A fellow man hits a woman on her wedding day. You didn't call out the man in question. Instead, you filled in the gaps with your imagination and ended calling out most ladies. How do you guys do this all the time? Why embolden violent people with such statements. The video was clearly about a violent man, but how you guys manage to twist every story to put the blame on ladies is mind-blowing. Even if this particular lady loves violence as you said, you think that's enough to say most ladies love violence? So the man's action does not mean most men are violent, but since the victim is a lady, it's safe to say most ladies love violence? Does that seem like sound logic to you?

This idea of holding women accountable for both thier actions and the actions of men towards them as if men are emotionless reactive machines does not make you a better man but only makes the world a dangerous place for your mothers, aunts, sisters, cousins, nieces, etc.

I don't know what might have happened at home, but going by the video, the logical conclusion is that the man is violent.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Yeah why won't i..
As a matter of fact I love ya comments on here..kinda cool mister..

Thank you, FERNANDEZISBACK.

You may not know it, but this was very encouraging. It's a very busy period for me at work, but I'll try my best to stay active.

Trust you're good.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Been a while..how are ya?

I'm good! How are you?

_{Been a while? I actually did think anyone would notice my absence. Lol.}

No link/source?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Holla...

Buenos días

OP, where did you read that a feminist is averse to love? You guys are mischievously bastardizing the concept of feminism. You think a feminist expects you to like her cause of her looks? On the contrary, she expects you to like her because of who she is, what she has achieved or what she has done for you. A feminist does not love/nurture her children any less than any other woman out there. Everybody has sex and with whom they do it has not bearing on the concept of feminism. You blandly titled your thread "a letter to feminist [sic]" but the body makes no single reference to the core values of feminism. Maybe you meant to address the so-called slay queens? A lady who doesn't like men is a misandrist. Perhaps, those are the people you're referring to?

Feminism is about equal rights and equal opportunities for all genders be it politically, economically, socially or personally. Saying a feminist hates men is like saying black people hate whites when they say "black lives matter". Many years ago, women were completely relegated to second class citizens. Of course, the issue still exists but things are better now. Today, women go to school, they now drive, they now hold political positions, etc. all thanks to the campaign for gender equality and women empowerment/liberation. The goal is not to threaten you but if you feel that way, you can't blame that on those fighting for thier rights.

Everyone who has ever asked the question "what are women bringing to the table" should be a feminist.

HarlequinLekex:
Why do some celebs and common people love living a fake life is it because you want to trend or something,Be your self those that would love you the way you are will love,though sometime not meeting up with the calibre of your friends(financial ability;luxury) gives you some kind of low self esteem but nevertheless i see nothing worth it for you to live a fake life.

Celebrities are like signboards. They promote products for manufacturers and wholesalers and they won't be very useful if they don't attract attention. That's why they'd do anything for the publicity. The money they spend borrowing cars, etc. is the cost of business. Unfortunately, many netizens try to copy them even when they don't get any real benefit from it.

etrange:
Dude! Still remember our discussion? It's summer already!

Haha... I was waiting for this! Lol

Actually, I was in Montréal not too long ago. Hold on, don't fight me yet. It wasn't a social visit. It was a business trip and I barely even had time to see my parents. Besides, I said summer, so our plan is still active. Don't worry, I take my promises very seriously.

Ogamysamo:
thanks! i just used google translate and its reellement

Yes, words like "reellement", "vraiment", "effectivement" and "en effet/en fait" would do.

Ogamysamo:
ok sir, just that i google the meaning of actually and it shows me actuellement, that's why i said its same

Google translate would never make that mistake. So I'm guessing you saw it on a website and anybody can write anything online. I am francophone, French is my mother tongue and I can authoritatively tell you that's wrong.

Ogamysamo:
it means both actually and presently, sir

No, it does not mean "actually". It is the adverbial form of the word "actuel" (which means "of/at this time" ). This has nothing to do with the word "actually" (which means "in fact", "truly" or "really" ). It's a false friend (misleading word). Never make that mistake sir. You can ask your French teacher if you still doubt me.

Favorolasupo:
Mais actualment..je ne comprehend pas..

"Actuellement" does not mean "actually". It means "currently" or "presently".

Just passing by.

Au revoir !

Lol... the same set of people always converge here to blame women for everything but at the end, they are thier own enemies.

care4you:
pls which YouTube channel can I watch daily raw and smackdown?

Haha... unfortunately, I don't watch professional wrestling.

ORIAYO70:
Corner the bae n move on DNT ask her again at all just be looking her n be doing well.

Soon she will be after u I swear, women hates men that gives them too much attention

This is too much Nollywood. You assume she'll remain single while OP goes to progress in life? Things don't always work that way. There's nothing wrong in telling someone you don't feel the same way about them. It doesn't make her a bad person and it definitely doesn't mean she hates him. She politely turned him down. OP just have to accept it and move on.

All these advice I'm seeing on the front page, it's as if guys are more emotional than ladies. If she had decided to play along just to get his money while she sees someone else, OP would still be the one to create a thread about how girls are wicked. If she's not interested, you move. There are ladies dying to be OP's girlfriend and he's also not interested in them and no one is dragging him for it. It takes two to tango.

I don't even know what the OP was aiming for by posting this here. Pity?

Arysexy:
Was just smh reading those comments on FP, reason why most foreign universities demand for IELTS from Nigerians. I wonder if they actually read the post before commenting

Lol... the OP himself also didn't understand the post. That's the funny part.

Nice.

If you don't watch WWE, just leave the thread for those that like it. Don't come come to ask them how it concerns you. That's ridiculous seeing that no one dragged you to the thread. And yes, they know it's scripted, they're not kids. They just enjoy it cause the scripts have entertaining storylines just like your movies. You're not better than anyone for liking football or preferring Ed Sheran to Wizkid. Just stick to what you like and let others stick to thiers. Live and let live.

OP, you probably mean a member of his staff.

Nice one.

moshino:
Those people you quoted shows you exactly why Nigerian university graduates were excluded.

mex551:
Naija graduates with low comprehension. Don't mind them Jare �

1Alex:
they did not miss the word. They read without understanding. That's exactly why naija universities graduates are not invited.

You see am?

armadeo:
After the first comment I was reading to find out the first person who understood the write up.

Now you see why we are "exempted" excluded from the program.

Cc chronique

@manikspears lol see bold

Lol... one of them is actually the OP.