No paragraphs, no source. Victor, why?

There's a graveyard near a park in Toronto. It's so beautiful that people go there with thier mats during summer to relax and have fun. There's this section owned by a Chinese royal family. That's my favorite part. It has a lot of interesting huge dragon statues. My dude from Nigeria wouldn't set foot there. Lol.

Minjim:
He can't afford to buy coca cola.

Before you quote me , why not first look up the total value of Cocacola and what Elon is worth?

His whole asset is not up to what Cocacola is worth.

Do you think he actually pays cash for these purchases? Nobody pays cash for such huge investments. As rich as he is, Twitter was worth about 16% of his total assets. Now, how much of his assets are in cash? Or you think he liquidated some of his non cash assets just to buy Twitter? These funds are made available by international banks like JP Morgan and they'd gladly do it over and over again cause that's the service they sell.

SadiqBabaSani:
African American crazy man,

Is Elon Gay?

I don't understand. Why are you so interested in another man's sexuality?

ojesymsym:
This is one irony of life that I don't often understand. Many women die from child delivery in even very good hospitals in Nigeria yet you get to hear someone delivered inside keke, bus and in this case in captivity where there is little or no medical support around.
Why then do some women die in hospitals during child bearing

It's more about pre-existing issues or those developed in the process. A perfectly healthy woman can give birth anywhere provided the environment is clean enough and there is someone experienced, courageous and meticulous enough to help.

The reason a hospital is better is that the lady will have professionals that understand her pre-existing issues and can address most issues that might come up in the process. A hospital simply assures you of that "someone" to help. Death could occur anywhere but you just have higher chances of survival at the hospital.

Toks2008:


When i say hustle it is because in this 21st century, polygamy is not for poor man. Secondly i still maintain you have no reason whatsoever to say jack before you marry suffix to say it makes no sense.

Women play the victim card a lot but they are more fierce in the game. A woman may not leave you but will give you another man's child to nurture all the days of your life and many even die without knowing they fathered children who are never theirs, i have a very close friend whose wife just had a boy child for another man after having four girls for him and the guy was even fortunate to discover. Ladies are more terrible in this game.

Men who cheat don't tell their wives before hand that they will so in like manner i still reiterate that it makes no sense announcing your intention.

Lastly please drop that immature word CHEAT. Men don't cheat, they are simply acting their nature. Men are polygamous and any lady who can't cope with this fact should stay single.

MAONOGAMY is a choice not a must.

Done wasting my time here. Hope you get to feel money in your lifetime.

Enjoy

Toks2008:


Guy hustle make you get money.

Polygamy no be for poor man. Only Simpletons take permission from a lady before they marry a new wife because no woman will take permission from you before they dump your ass for a better guy.

I know many ladies will conclude that im abad guy... Unfortunately they are wrong.

I just love to keep it real. Only very few people like us remain on earth.

I should hustle to make money? Lol... please, don't make me believe yours is a poverty induced judgment cause only very poor people talk about money the way you just did. How much does he have? This is his colleague he's been sleeping with long before now. He just paid her bride price a few days ago and that's probably cause a baby got involved. There's no justification for cheating in marriage. Cheating on your wife is not what polygamy is all about.

And I never mentioned taking permission from your wife to get married to a new lady. I said you should make it known ahead of time it's a possibility so that the wife-to-be can make an informed decision. That's only fair and anything short of this is wickedness. Women literally give up their identity for marriage. Just like you, they have dreams, aspirations and desires too. They have an idea of the kind of family they want to have. You cannot just wake up one morning and turn someone's life upside down just cause you can. There are thousands of women out there who don't mind being in a polygamous marriage, stick with them.

Couples have issues. Yes, women leave thier husbands for other men. Men leave thier wives for other women too. You can't use that to justify a cheating husband who is shamelessly bringing in the side chic to insult the mother of his children. You men in Africa should have realistic expectations, the sexism down there is becoming scary.

ABANGWABOI:



Y'all women refused to make peace with the fact that Men are Polygamous in nature...


Sorry..

I'm a man. Cheating on your wife is not polygamy. Besides, if you want to be polygamous, make it know before marriage.

Sapeleomi:
... I see your point.. However, Issues of the heart that evolves emotion is difficult to judge. This may sound as an excuse but a man having an affair with another woman or seeking a second wife may be for several reasons, some of which are complex.
Especially when he feels the first wife with children has done nothing wrong and respect her...
I think women should endeavour to understand men who choose that lifestyle and refuse to divorce their wife but respectfully leave the option to her to decide whether to stay or leave the union..
It is a complex and painful process and sometimes people grow out of each other and seek different stimulation..
The bottom line is that as a couple put your religious, modern expectation, view that relationship is monogamous aside. seriously and constantly assess your connection, emotional, spiritual, sexuality and most importantly your level of attention and affirmation..
I think many Christians think religious beliefs guarantee loyalty and monogamous discipline. Connection and self discipline by choice is the yardstick that keeps people discipline.. Mind you, women have affairs too...particularly married women who have completed having kids. What do you with kind of betrayal!! Life goes on and focus on a better outcome.
Men are not holy!! But they should be encouraged to look after the children, even when the first wife or who ever feels victim of the breach of trust....

Such a soft landing for one gender is why these things happen. It's all about the man. Otherwise, why is it one genders expectations that should be left at the door? By asking them to leave thier personal views behind, you're practically suggesting slavery cause that's the only relationship where only one party's views matter. You think women don't see other men better than thier husbands everyday? You think they sometimes don't get fed up by the marriage? They do but they stay put, first for the children and second for the fact the society isn't lenient with divorced women.

Women leave thier family to live with yours. They change thier surnames. Some leave thier region and some, even thier jobs. They do all these because they have an idea of what they want in life. And then when you wake up and decide you want to make a trash of all those sacrifices, you want to them to bear with you cause you're respectfully giving them to choice to stay or live. Sir, do you think that is a fair thing to say? What choice are you talking about when both options end up ruining the home they gave up everything to build? You guys in Africa need to manage your expectations of women. They are human beings with dreams and aspirations just like you. It unfair to jolt anyone's life like this.

Everyday, we read people say "Nigerian girls are useless" but when we read about these hideous crimes committee by our fellow men, we look for other things to blame like the society or the region/religion of the culprit. This kind of crime is on the rise and it is becoming alarming. It's coming to a point where women can't move around freely or socialize without the fear of being violated by thier fellow human beings. But we will not address it for the fear that it will depict our gender in a bad light. The funny thing is that when these things happen, you'll still read people blaming the female victim. Sad.

ABANGWABOI:


If she lured let her unlure herself nah..
Let her divorce him so that the young fresh wife can move in..

Mhen... you guys can be very mean and inconsiderate.

GIdiata:


oh! u are a man. anyway u are free to cry more or commit suicide. his life, his second wife, his son, his money. ur opinion doesn't count.

Better. Lmao

ihedioramma:
How many wife his father get ?

If he's getting married to her after she has gotten pregnant, there's probability the pregnancy played a role in the decision. I said it's likely he had a fling with this lady which resulted in the pregnancy and he's getting married to her on the grounds that the culture supports that (as can be evidenced by the fact that his own father had more than one wife) knowing fully well that this will automatically take the attention away from the fact that he was cheating on the lady all this while. That his father has a hundred wives doesn't automatically imply that has always been his plan.

GIdiata:


anty u can relocate to countries where your gender is superior.

better still, u can open to your husband that he's not d father of those kids.
1 : 1

I'm not a woman and I'm not in Nigeria. Restrategise, find better insults.

JoyousFurnitire:
Hungry girl

Hunger is now something to be ashamed of? The guy "threatening" to faint on her wasn't hungry too? You guys want to abuse girls for everything and it's becoming hilarious and embarrassing.

The prospective employer pays the recruiters, so why does he want a part of your salary?

When did he get married and when did she get pregnant to have given birth? I don't think he did this simply cause he's pro polygamy or because he has always wanted to have two wives. This is probably an extramarital affair gone wrong and he's now hiding behind the misogynistic culture to cover up his ass. Whichever way, here is what I posted on the other thread:

WoundedLamb:

I have no issue with polygamy provided you didn't promise the first wife monogamy. Luring a woman into marriage with the promise that she'll be the only wife only to go and get married to another lady afterwards is a scam and should not be legal. It is wickedness and there is no justification for that. People have plans for thier lives, don't ruin it for them just because you live in a country where your gender is seen as superior. These things should be stated in the contracts you sign when getting married.

SeriouslySense:
I love that low tolerance for ill treatment. I really love that, in our lands, some people take a lot of bullshit or cowshit.

I don't know why they are stoning Macron, i am curious about this people and why they are stoning him

Macron's leadership is what I'd describe as "idiosyncratic". Normally, you'd expect his party to be on the left or on the right side of the political spectrum, but he has consistently called his own a "centrist party". The implication of this is that policies don't adhere to a certain ideology thus making him unpredictable and earning him enemies on both sides. Many French people refused to vote in the last election cause he left them confused.

Again, he's been accused of overly centralizing power.

Bobmarie:
Almost all countries have abolished the absolute power of monarchy. English citizens are worse when it comes to that low tolerance and have more degenerate politicians but they don’t pelt them with vegetables.

The French citizens who did that are really degenerate and uncivilized.

The abolition of monarchy in France was the most dramatic and significant one. Besides, if the the English people don't get as low as these French people do, on what grounds are they really worse? Even at the individual level, I don't think the English is half as intolerant as the French; this is both to thier leaders and to foreigners.

Lol... French people have low tolerance for whatever they perceive as ill treatment. That's how they succeeded in abolishing the absolute power of monarchy. However, Emmanuel was democratically elected, the violence is not necessary in my opinion.

Cute baby.

I have no issue with polygamy provided you didn't promise the first wife monogamy. Luring a woman into marriage with the promise that she'll be the only wife only to go and get married to another lady afterwards is a scam and should not be legal. It is wickedness and there is no justification for that. People have plans for thier lives, don't ruin it for them just because you live in a country where your gender is seen as superior. These things should be stated in the contracts you sign when getting married.

ityP:



You say it's a new guideline, Where's the proof?

Lol... Proof of what? Virtually all Nigerian newspapers announced that APC released some new guidelines yesterday after their meeting and this is part of the content. You can go and read that yourself. What other proof do you need from me? Did you see any APC member saying they didn't release any new guidelines? Wow...

Padipadi:
Ok.
Noted. I saw egos clashed.
Meaning an agreement wasn't reached?

Banning is more serious than that. It's likely he confronted them over what he thought was a violation of his rights and thereby overstepping his boundaries.

The joy!

afonjabreed:
I’m in my early twenties and it turns out I’ll be a year older very soon, I’ve barely had my sanity in one piece. I’m always thinking, worrying.
I know the twenties is an important, even the most vital stage in the formation of the type of shape a human future will take.
The thought of the future alone makes me keep to myself sometimes, because I’m always thinking, planning, re-strategising, simulating the future in my head every minute.

To be very honest, Adulthood is not easy.

Question to folks in their thirties and beyond...
How did you get past the worries of your twenties?
Or does the worries keep getting bigger ?

Anxiety at certain stages of our lives is normal.

After graduation, the fear of being poor arises. This comes with the pressure to succeed in life. While it's a very uncomfortable period in our lives, it's normal, and the truth is, people naturally outgrow it. I know it's tempting to sound like motivational speakers and tell you we did this or that, but like I said, it's a phase you'd naturally pass if/when you get busy. All you need is a sense of "doing". You need to convince yourself you're doing your best (or start doing your best if you aren't already). In my opinion, having a plan and ensuring whatever you're doing at the moment leads to the success of that plan is the best way to quickly get out of this phase. It only sticks with those who end up not having any job that gives them that sense of "doing" and it easily turns into depression for such people.

This anxiety happens to the best (in fact, it's more common in ambitious people). So I suggest you embrace it and use it as a source of motivation. You'll experience something similar if not worse towards the age of 45 when you start comparing your life so far with what you wanted it to be. It is called mid-life crises, and whatever you do with this early-life anxiety will have an impact on how severe that one will be.

You seem like a focused person, and I have no doubts you'll succeed in life. Best of luck!

ityP:



Nothing like that exists. These Ministers, including the AGF, are not fools. If it exists, they'll resign ASAP

You believe so, but you can't be so sure. It says it's a new guideline. It's probably not going to be taken seriously like many other policies in Nigeria and that's why the aspirants don't seem worried.

ityP:



Which part of the Electoral Act says they should resign 30 days before primary elections? I'm waiting for an answer. The person that wrote all that nonsense no get common sense

The article says this is an implication of the parties internal guidelines/policies.

The first paragraph says 30 days after the primaries. Was that an error? Should it be before?

Jeon:


KEEP MASTURBATING IT'S GOOD FOR THE HEALTH.

I don't think his issue is the fact that he's masturbating; at least, that's not what he's complaining about. I believe the issue is his obsession with his ex. And I don't really think that bit is healthy. He probably needs therapy before he does any harm to himself or the lady in question. Poor boy.

triple996:
So ladies don de ambush guys too
Them wan go do three-some

PerfectStranger:
Our sisters don join skullarship program.
Men 3 -1 Women

You're certain they were actually chatting with a lady? It could be anybody. Some people are really careless. We can't stop people from hooking up with online pals but there are precautionary steps to be taken. Pictures are not enough. Even after video calls, the first meeting should be somewhere public and another party who isn't going with y'all should have all the details of the arrangement including the pictures and address of the person you're meeting.

May these fine young men be found alive.

Mewhizzp:
Just look at the comments up there

Nairalanders Calm down na.........You too dey fear........Las last everybody go die

The one directly above yours is the funniest. Lol

sonofElElyon:


No need for your epistle.. to beat someone to death doesn't paint as gruesome verbal picture as club to death whether you agree or not.. at any rate to beat could be with just bare hands or knuckles.. club clearly conveys that a weapon (club) was used.. which consists of repeatedly striking thus paints a more gory verbal picture in the mind of the reader.. specificity helps for better verbal picture and therefore better communication. No professional journalist would opt for beat instead of club in this particular instance.. but you have the right to your opinion

OK.