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etrouble:
This one is typing from the psychiatric ward of the Isolation Centre

iLegendd:
Comic writing? We have a dating book on that already. Though, it's only for men.

iLegendd:
Nigerian Women Have Entitlement Mentality, But The Men Are Doing This...

I have always heard Nigerian men say Nigerian women are too entitled, but after years of observations, I have finally concluded that most Nigerian men are weak (but aggressive) and 80% have entitlement mentality while the ladies have only 20% and that is mostly about money.

Yes, a Nigerian woman feels your money is hers the moment the two of you start dating.

For a Nigerian man, whether he knows you or not, the moment he likes/admires you or he is interested in you, his entitlement mentality creeps in. It doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman.

1. Brain. A Nigerian man feels the moment he interacts with you, your brain is his. He'll ask you lots of evasive questions and if you don't answer it the way he wants, he will hate and badmouth you behind your back or in front of you.

2. Time. The moment he contacts you, you must give him all your time or his little ego will be bruised and he'll surely pay you back.

3. Sex. The moment he knows you or has interest in you, your vagina belongs to him even if he hasn't spoken with you yet. He gets angry and jealous seeing cute guys around you.

4. Money. When a Nigerian guy likes another guy who is richer, he feels the rich guy should at least use his head to know that he wants some part of that money so that he too will use it to flex or establish.

He doesn't care if he just met you online today. He will come up with a sad story of how he is suffering and you're the only one to help him out. If you refuse, his entitlement mentality kicks in and he'll hate and abuse you for it while calling you stingy and other names in his mind and openly.

5. Carry along. A dumb Nigerian guy feels a bubbling guy should carry him along, else he is wicked and evil. Must he be the one to carry you along? Failure to do this, you're in soup.

6. Previous Sexcapade: As a lady, tell a Nigerian guy who just started dating you about your previous sexual adventures and he will dump you.

He will tell you his and you'll still date him, but the moment you tell him yours, he feels insecure and the relationship is already in danger before it started.

He has the entitlement mentality that you should've kept your vagina for him alone. If you had kept it for him alone, he'll deflower you and still want to have all your friends. He feels entitled to all of you and more of you.

7. Anger: A Nigerian man feels he is entitled to anger and he will vent it on you and you have no right to react. This behavior is toward both their fellow men and women.

The reason I wrote this post is my observation here on this forum. Some ladies wanted me to teach them this or that, but I decline 99.99% of the time. Even the ones that don't want anything from me, but just to be close.

Guess what? These women accept the rejection and move on without coming back to abuse or attack me.

For the men, I attend to most of them, but a huge percentage of the ones I decline to be close to or answer their questions always come back to haunt me at all cost and with different monikers — including their main monikers. Dem no get wetin to do with their time?

With this, I have finally concluded that Nigerian men feel more entitled than women. They feel they are Jesus and whatever they want must be approved, else, the person or people will suffer.

Our ego, as Nigerian men, is way too big. The dumb ones even have more egos than the smart ones.

When a smart person has ego, he is worth it, but the dumb ones? Damn!

I wonder what we Nigerian men feel like. If we, Nigerian men, feel we're too special and too good, why do we leave the growth of this world to white men while we focus on evil, bringing people down, and crime?

We only focus on our selfish growth and we don't care if we go into fraud to achieve it or even hurt innocent people in the process.

"Give me, give me, give me," is our motto.

We are so entitled as Nigerian men to the point that all that is in our heads are:

* If you no give me your money, you go die.
* If you no give me your toto, you go die. (This one made me laugh even as I was typing it ).
* If you no give me your book for free, you go die.
* If you no give me you farmland to rear my cattle, you go die.
* If you no give me your brain, you go die.
* If you no show me way, you go die.
* If you no teach me that thing, you go die.

It's all about entitlement of give me give me or I'll make you perish or at least, I'll hurt you.

In summary, Nigeria men are 80% entitlement driven while the ladies are 20%.

I have witnessed it on this forum more than 100 times.

A Nigerian man driving on the street feels the woman walking along is entitled to enter his car and he is entitled to sleep with her, killer, and use her for ritual.

He just feels the world revolves around his flat ass. In fact, he feels entitled to abuse you online and offline, upload your nude for people to watch and laugh at you when you are down.

He even feels entitled to enter Heaven despite all the atrocities he is committing day and night.

Shots fired and it's nothing but the truth.

I'm a Nigerian man, but I'm an exception. No matter how wicked and bad Fulanis are, there is always that one good Fulani that will be an exception, but it'll be hard to believe.

Cutehector:
May we not marry our death, amen

Rasputino:
This Thing Shock Me

No GUTS No GLORY

Wunna goodnight

Queenlovely:
stupid adults behaving like children is what we have in Nigeria,

let us just think for a minute, use ur brain do small mathematics.

have you ever heard rich white guys complaining about women.

when you decide to befriend a shallow thinker what were you expecting.

this SMAN thing means all our girls are gold diggers

CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.

Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

fati2001:
RUBBISH...














WHILE 99.9%MEN IN THEIR LATE 40S, 50S UPWARDS ARE WAYWARD IN LIFE DEPENDING ON PARENTS BEFORE THEY CAN EVEN EAT BECAUSE OF THEIR UNSERIOUSNESS IN LIFE, SAME AS THOSE IN MID 20S UPWARDS. .......

































RESPONSIBLE LADIES BEWARE!!!

iLegendd:
At times, I feel so happy millions or billions of men are stupid — especially in relationship issues (because I have books to sell to them).

Other times (when I'm not being selfish), I get so angry these innocent and caring men are stupid. They are even arrogant towards their fellow men who wanted to help while being stupid just because they went to school.

They ignore the three most important things they need to learn in life 1. how to handle women, 2. how to make money, and 3. how to manage money and focus on 1. getting a first class, 2. getting a job, 3. dating an unfaithful woman and never giving up on her even when the red flags are obvious. Because she's beautiful, she must have my kids.

I get burnt when they come online to seek for permission on walking away or not.

The one that hurts me the most and to my marrow is how 99% of them always end their sentences with: I love her so so much. I can't imagine life without her. Because of her, I'm not interested in other ladies.

I just dey vex for these animals.

Real men are never attached to anything 100%.

thesicilian:
There's nothing wrong or embarrassing about marrying a single mom. If she's as good as you as you say, the best option might be to continue with her. But don't let anyone pressure you into a quick marriage, find out as much as you can about the father of the child and how close they still are, because whether you like it or not, except he's dead, he's always going to be in your lives because of the baby

JOACHINpedro:
I thought you were wise bro

ImaIma1:
If you were well trained, you would have had the sense on how to communicate with people. But obviously, that department was left to the househelp. I mean, we cannot insult your mother to assume that she was the one who did this terrible mess

Rather than rant like a mad dog, communicate like a human or else SCRAM!

ImaIma1:
Spit on your mother's face Robot.

Your brain will rather malfunction or shut down completely instead of seeing the woman is not the only one that is wrong.

ImaIma1:
So his own father who brought him into this world and nurtured him till he became of age could do this to him. Yet it is women that are the demons...

ImaIma1:
So his own father who brought him into this world and nurtured him till he became of age could do this to him. Yet it is women that are the demons...

LoveTalk:
You've quoted the wrong person.
I'm not like them.

LoveTalk:
Hello Cuties and Fellas!

Let's talk about LOVE!

Nowadays, all we see is unstable relationship and broken homes/marriages.

People don't even want to get married any more. They just want someone they can pay and have fun with, with no string attached.

My question is, the person you're dating currently, can you marry him or her?

Whether your answer is YES or NO, please share your reasons with us.

Well, as for me, I am single at the moment and I'm not searching.

Let's hear you out. We want to learn.

Chii59:
You mean your momma's teeth?

GEEBITE:
You cant stop her from being proud of her heritage and bring properly raised.

Serene123:
Please I will need your constructive opinion on this. Been battling with this thoughts for some time now.

I engaged my girl last year. Reason why I did engage her was because I saw her intent to be with me. I have seen her gave out her cash to help get somethings for our new apartment. She has even used her cash to buy some properties she wants in the house when we get married.
She has stood and defended me to her family on why she is getting married to me. She has really earned my trust and never regretted engaging her. She is one girl that every man will like to have as wife

In the course of our relationship months back, I noticed there is this guy that call her. I questioned and she said is just a friend. I have told her I am not comfortable with the call. Yes I have listened to the calls and it doesn't sound serious
On 25th Dec I place a call across to her phone and she wasn't picking. She later told me reason why she didn't pick.
While we were together I noticed she didn't pick cos she went out with the same guy I have been complaining about. I got to know via a pic.
She has insisted nothing serious is going on.
I was so angry and I needed to take her phone and check up something. We struggled with the phone and she injured her nails.. She is saying I am a woman beater and I have anger issue.
She started keeping to herself and phone and was bold to tell me that this action of mine has succeeded in killing the feelings she has for me.

She has asked for time to get her mental health back and for close to two weeks now we haven't been flowing well..

I have tried to talk to her so we fix this shit but she said she needs time.

I have decided to give her the time she needs while I focus on something else. Yes, I miss her

I won't lie, is emotional for me and someone is currently trying to fill her vacuum by being all nice. I am getting closer to her, but my heart still yearn for my fiance.

I don't know if I am doing the right thing by being close to another lady. I don't know if I should belivee her that she has lost feelings for me and move on.
I need your advise.

Sorry for the lengthy thread

missimelda01:
Nobody said you shouldn’t ask..just be creative.

felong:
Ladies who can't sustain a logical discussion and use words like kk, hmm, oh, ah like someone having a seizure.
Ladies who talking to them looks like an interview, if you don't have any questions to ask, they don't have anything to say to you. I hate these kinds of ladies.

Chii59:
That goes to say that the average Nigerian man wants a MAID, not a wife in the sense of the word, PARTNERSHIP, but a subservient, docile, baby maker, who's only good for the kitchen and the other room, but never an equal who's capable of making and taking decisions in the homestead when and where necessary.
What you want is what you get.
Cool.

CalliDora1:
Thank God, mum did a good job on us in the domestic area and both parents ensured we had a good and sound education.

Imagine being made to cook at the age of 10 for the whole house.. mum made sure of that and we still lived the best aje butter life ever. Now, everyone is a pro in everything.

Oga, loud it!