₦airaland Forum

First thing that came to my mind after reading the topic was to LAUGH OUT LOUD!

Question is; who is the subject of the laughter?

mrwonlasewonie:
ashoro na dun,ofeke

Ewure Gambia!

mrwonlasewonie:
olodo ni awon daddy Enile

Obafuro e

Mo mix e pelu English o,miomix e,eyi towunmi o win e.onikaluku pelu tie.different strokes for different folks

Olodo ni e', whether o like e' or not.

Awol1:
It didn't matter where he came from,
The design looks sexy, mature and a bit occultic, which all but adds to it's sweetness.

And wicked! it's just...wicked!

I kept saying oh boy the moment I saw it. It's highly international.

GrabHisBalls:
I am now tempted to reply you. What defines a person is character. In Tacha's case, she was kept in a house for 3months and her characters manifested. Though, there are areas they faked some, while there are areas they couldn't. She's boastful, arrogant, lawless, shameless and dirty(all these with body odour). You can now go and kill yourself for all I care.

About me, I am an introvert. At least, not to the extreme. All my life, I have never gone physical on anyone no matter the provocation. If I sense insult/disrespect from people around me, I give them space. That's my own ways of avoiding to fight/quarrel. You have no idea of this Benita you claim to know. Permit me to say, you don't know me. It's not pretending. That's who I truly am. I've known Nairalanders who could tell you what I am capable of. One of my male bestie, I met him here. We've known for 3yrs now.

Don't carry those social media juvenile activities on your head. In my case, it was the opposite of me. Have I corrected that your faulty notion? Bye.

Abeg! Make the two of una let us read other people comment na!

Abi una wan form una own bbn house for here?

mrwonlasewonie:
rara o.miofe so english.yoruba nimofefima communicate,tobade like e,o free lati koshilo

Olodo! O'un mix ede Yoruba ati English kpakpo.

magicminister:

I heard the screams of people begging for help and some screaming for their God. It was a solemn video to watch

I'm just visualizing the terror those that died went through! It's just touching and not one would wish any human

Some people want Obiano to be a fireman.

PotatoSalad:
Matters arising. This one dey pursue woman

How e take affect u?

seraphvictoria:
Nigeria has a lot of re-strategizing to do.
Does it mean that at 59 Nigeria has no emergency measures to prevent this fire from escalating??

It's pitiful!
I weep for my county.

Yeye Nation!

By the way, you are pretty

adewumiopeyemi:
Is well God is good

The correct clause is "it's well" not "is well"

Dpharisee:
Be careful with your words, that guy has been through a lot, undergoing chemotherapy can also affect sperm count, just pray for that family. Thanks

You are human. Nevermind that illiterate.

timibare:
your mates are in graveyards old man.... the fvck are you looking for out here....

Shut your dirty mouth! Senseless ape!
I believe u aren't married; if u are, then you are immature.

Amarabae:
What kind of backward bridge is that?
Knowing fully well that the river is deep, why not construct a portable bridge?
RIP to him .
Next ebonyi state governor should focus on aggressive rural development.
Enough of this overhyped flyovers and lightworks brouhaha by umahi.

God! Which wan be "portable" bridge again?

Amarabae:
I prefer warm water.
Mix it up

You indeed my bae.

kikiwendy:
She looks so gorgeous

And u look like tacha...pretty!

BroAchival:
I'm planning on doing the test again but in a different hospital. If it's still AS, then I'll asked her we both go to any government hospital of her choice to perform the test together.

If it comes out AA for any of you; do let us know on this thread.

Hope you get your heart's desire.

BroAchival:
@jieta, I kept the guy you quoted quiet because I don't want to dignify madness. I initially replied his first comment thinking he was joking, I never knew he was ex-raying madness.

To the issue at hand,

My brother, though its painful. After investing much time and energy, I honestly won't have much problem moving on. But my girl? Hmm! I hope she understands quickly.

Thanks though.

Have the both of u tried the genotype test at three different centres (government, private and maybe a lab). Do try. You maybe surprised that one of you may turn out AA.

Kayceenaz:
Staring confusedly while wondering, “Could this be a male or female? Maybe I’m not seeing right. Okay, I am. How come spotting that difference is like puzzle-solving?” From time to time, I grapple with these thoughts. Maybe, you do, too. It is tempting to classify such matter as insignificant but when you spend a minute or two weighing the implications for an individual, awareness of its significance begins setting in. Well, this is Nigeria and the context of this subject broached, a clue about its increased seriousness. We can’t deny (without fueling falsehood) that there are potential and actual tomboys and tomgirls among us. Let’s find out if two conceivable high-ranking rationales for this quirky personality are really flawless.

First, “being and appearing like a male/female is who I am and my real self; my gender from birth does not matter.” This view seems solid. After all, the gospel of “Be yourself” is widespread. But how can anyone be himself/herself by denying his/her self? It’s similar to a police officer saying he/she can bear that tag without maintaining peace and order somewhere. Any drastic step taken to change or mask one’s inborn gender for self-fulfillment defeats the goal itself. Such objective gets farther from, not closer to, being achieved.

Second, “it’s really not my fault. I grew up amidst lots of males or females. I suppose nature made me that way.” Citing circumstance or others as the ground for the inclination sounds convincing. The painting of “It is not within my control” is made. Actually, this does not absolve a male from blame for preferring lady-like mannerisms and wears or female trying so hard to be addressed as a mister. Availability of personal re-conditioning to revert to one’s true self exposes such perspective as untenable. Moreover, science has proven for the umpteenth time that nature operates orderly, so it would not turn a male to female and vice-versa half-way in the course of living.

Finally, it is apparent global gravitation towards modernism has somewhat led to redefinition of self-harmony and being oneself. Persons like myself are glad this trend, which has regrettably gone a notch higher to birth transgenders, remains unable to displace the fact truly being oneself requires being at peace with one’s gender.


©Kaycee Naze,
Rational Pen.

Too much salt spoils the soup.

Too much grammar spoils the reading flow and goes ahead to kill/drown the message in the essay.

Come down my man. I see you are in such hurry to expose you literary prowess. Don't think I don't get what you are trying lay across but sometimes it's good to be simple.
You've been acknowledged.

realbest:
Blind bigot .U got nor sense.

Islamist! You know what your people are doing.

KingAzubuike:
"di cold room"

Its getting more popular than the ozza room!

Why did the closure of borders come after islamist have concluded their celebrations and some weeks to December when Southerners take holiday?
I'm so sure the border will be reopened by late January. Just wait and see.

donprinyo:
Nonsense, do u know that is ur right to have steady power supply, good roads, quality education and so many dividends of good democracy. Instead u r talking abt where man wants to put his own dick

He could as well put the dick in your lousy mouth for all I care.

That would also be a topic uncalled for.

SocialJustice:
Go and read your books bigot.

You need Montessori lessons! slowpoke!

donprinyo:
The topic is uncalled for

As uncalled for as bbnaija shit you guys worship.

Similar topics trend workdwide. Quite recently it was a national discourse in the u.s army. A very similar topic was also discussed in their schools (about the use of gender toilets by trannies). It's no push over topic Mr. Man. Think of your female child in school sharing the female toilet with a male just because of stupid reasonings we have here in nairaland.

Do you know the disorienting thoughts such can place in that kids head? She/he may grow up thinking it's normal for a boy to Cross dress and use the same toilets with female folks. And fyi, toilets don't just mean the W.C alone; toilets could be accompanied with a dressing room space where ladies could adjust their wears. How would it look or feel when a crazy guy comes in while a lady is half dressed, just because "he" thinks he is a lady?

Be reasonable. Don't throw morals away just because you trying to sound "mordern".

Narrow minded nairalanders.

donprinyo:
Nonsense, do u know that is ur right to have steady power supply, good roads, quality education and so many dividends of good democracy. Instead u r talking abt where man wants to put his own dick

How does that affect the topic?

donprinyo:
Hate speech. See de kind of leaders we have in dis country.

I guess your type would have supported the former British Prime minister's pressure on GEJ concerning gay rights in our Constitution.

Thank GOD we don't and won't have people like you in leadership! Nonsense!

SocialJustice:
Just imagine what the block head is saying.

You are the one with the blockhead instead!

Westmorland:
Honestly comments like this make me disappointed in our youths. Supporting an evil character like bobrisky makes me wonder the kind of children we want to bring up.

I'm sure u heard of Sodom and Gomorrah in the bible. So wen u open ur mouth and of all the things wrong in Nigeria u should know that as a people our suffering could be as a result of the evils in d society

These nairaland youths are raised up with poor reasoning.

I keep saying it that the first five comments determine the type of comments you'll see on the thread.

Many are scared of saying the truth. Useless and LAZY Youths!

purples25:
Lol yes. Because i'm a woman too.

Pretty one at that.�

purples25:
Women never get tired of being pretty, for sure.

Just like you do

samuk:
Most documented events that happened in Benin where in 1400s, 1500s, 1600s and 1700s and you are here telling me about 1898. 1898 is like yesterday when discussing Benin.

True!