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BusterG:
The Canadian System in itself is self derogatory.
Quite a number of people who travel there had too much expectations. Even when the welfare is top notch and the government supports immigrants from left, right and centre. At a point as a grassroots African you’ll wonder “ why am I here’ .

One of the suicide tickets you’ll ever buy is to Pearson Intll’ especially when you’re coming from Africa. At first you will be presented with quite a number of opportunities but in reality It’s a 50/50 game.

I will open a thread and entertain free-minded opinion about immigrating to Canada.

mariovito:
A northern soldier will hardly do this in the north

I keep hearing this. Security personels fear ppl in the north? I even heard road safety ppl, SARS are useless there.

Nwodosis:
Scorpions don't bite, they sting!

Oh ok

I say no to the cruel acts metted out to snakes , but they should however be removed and be put into their habitat (stomach).

But this thing right here should not be spared no matter what. I was outside in my compound enjoying the breeze this evening, and this thing was crawling towards me.

I thank my stars i was not bitten (stung).

Hed0nist:
Till you get your own place, the only thing you should be concerned about is ensuring that he washes his hands after each meat beating session.

No.

Destiny this! Destiny that!, it's fine, there maybe some truth to it. What if the poster has a thing/fancy for older ladies hence that's the reason why he's attracting them with ease.

If that's the case then an older woman is yours to marry someday later in the future. Nothing wrong in it.

I too have likeness for older women . In fact my wife is older than i m. Tall, slim, beautiful, older women turn me on.

However, OP, if you want to live a meaningful life, and also live long, then don't even stare at married women, boss' wife/girlfriend/daughter or any female member of your boss' family. Pleas don't.

Don't fall for this talk of hers bro. She's aged, and ready to say anything or do anything to any man just to get married.

Dont fall for all those talks that God has been saying no to her suitors.

To be a virgin ( if it's true after 1st degree & masters) at 28 and also single at 28...then something is wrong with her.


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Aged women (28 upwards, even 40 upwards) seeking whom to marry at any cost plenty oo, they be throwimg themselves at men even of he's far below their age. U r still far inexperienced compared to that 28yr old woman, she will use your eye see pepper!.

They are everywhere, dont get any of them pregnant except if you are sure of tieing the not with her.

2Women:
I have not had sex with any of them, and I don't intend to till I marry.

I don't know how to get her to understand me without hurting her, I've tried to say it countless times that I have to put so much in place before marriage and she is saying she won't be a dumb wife and we will contribute to the upkeep of the family and children can come later, bla bla bla

That frozen cae is already on its way to Nigeria as i write.

Obviously school fees is a problem, why r u talikng like this

spiralwedge:
If school fees are not the problems, better you go back to school asap. Business will come later. Don't get your priority wrong and don't be peer-pressured with materialistic values

Reading this gives me headache. Add punctuatutions pls

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ebuka10box:
it is well.....

You just have to be strong @ OP.

But why do people always say that DO NOT hate your father no matter what he has done. This is bullshit. I used to think i have a good father ( i later realized i was only naive to undertand the red flags, then i was young) until after my NYSC.

Now listen to this:

Just like the Origonal Poster, after i finished NYSC, my father collected copies of my CV, and made me to think that he's helping me towards getting employed, i didn't know he was pretending and wants me to grow old in his house. I thank God for the hustling spirit i have and a patient wife God gave me.

He went about visiting Alfas, Fulanis to check my star (this he mentioned to me himself) ... But why?, he's been wanting to halt my progress...

Truly, it was just after my NYSC POP that i started having this dream that someone stole my car, or my car tyres were stolen and replaced with bicycle tyres. I had these stupid dreams for 6yrs+, and on weekly basis.now i dont have that kind of dream anymore

All these attacks from my own father. What could i have done to warrant all these !, i did nothing.

He even mentioned to me face to face that at my age(last year, i was 33yrs) that i&my wife should still be living with him in his house and that we (wife and i) should still be collecting feeding money from him. Lol...i recorded all his utterances on my phone.

Slandering me&wife's image evrywhere. This and many more insults hurled at me and my wife and children.

My mind has been heavy for years. Maybe i will write something about this in the diary section someday.

Now with all these and many more, wont you hate your father?

I HATE HIM, AND I think about KILLING HIM WITH CUTLASS everyday (no exaggeration). He hurts my soul. I pray God will help me take revenge on him.

OP, be independent, move out from his house(it may not be easy but do something), stay away from him ooo, thank God you are not married yet so ask nothing from...and pray Hard!

God should have revealed to oyedepo that it was a firework.

Lol @OP, when you both are grandpa and grandma in a not too distant futurr you will laugh over this your post.

This is your first hurdle, try and surmount it. Dont mind those telling you to divorce her. You both can make it work by hearing each other out.

Lol @OP, when you both are grandpa and grandma in a not too distant futurr you will laugh over this your post.

This is your first hurdle, try and surmount it. Dont mind those telling you to divorce her. You both can make it work by hearing each other out.

How much

DeomoviesI:
Lol...... Someone said he died in active service. Really smh, that's so bad anyway and this unusual anyway. Make God rest his soul in perfect peace and forgive his fornications. You can get high definition movies and series into external drive and pc including TERMINATOR: DARK FATE, POWER (to S6E14 tonight) (zero,eight,one,four,four,two,three,eight,three,two,seven)

CyberWolf:
Immediately you mentioned to pay girlfriend school fees, my intestines turned. So some niggars still make this stupid mistake? Tell him to simply tell the girlfriend that he doesn’t have money to pay her school fees. If she loose the admission because of lack of funds, she should look for work, save up money and try again next year. Nonsense

Very cold!

Huh! Which kind yeye form.

Let us change the question : should you borrow you friend money to pay his GF school fees?

See, it is easy to answer OP with a definite 'NO' but Pls i want us to understand the scenery at play here.

In the OP's case, now let us put on our school day's OT & advise him in that manner.

These guys in the narrative are still in school. We all know what is obtained therein as we take issues girlfriends/boyfriends too serious as if that's what our parents sent us there to do. Yes! We know It is wrong, but that is school life for you.

So there should be no surprises if a guy wants to pay his girlfriend school fees.

Now OP, this friend of yours, if he is a close/tight friend then please lend him IF you can. What he wants to do with the money should NOT SOLIDLY be your concern. That is what tight friends do - support each other, right?

If he's not a close friend then you can easily tell him you don't have instead of asking him to fill a stupid form. Or are you too living a fake life/doing BABA OLOWO in school?

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Me wey i don leave school tey tey, gathered more life experiences, seen ups and downs and OP asks me that kind question then my first response without thinking will be NO just as many that responded here ( as in why should OP borrow his friend money just to pay girlfriend school fees). However, "NO" is a wrong answer.

izospindle:
A Friend Wanted Me To Lend Him Money I Told Him This. Am I Wrong?

So a friend of mine told me that his girlfriend is about to lose her admission, because school fee deadline is tomorrow. He asked me to lend him 70k.

I know how he loves this girl so I asked him to fill a form before I give him the money. Am I wrong for doing that?

He started saying a whole lot of things and has not spoken to me since. Note this is half of all my savings and I have a purpose for this particular fund just that the time has not come.

Advice is needed please

How come!! Your father is similar to mine

spiceadole:
My mother never brainwashed me or my siblings.
My father was and is still evil.
If you have sense,you won't make conclusions on a matter you know nothing about.

If i offend someone and my mistake is pointed out to me,I will ask for forgiveness.

A father who sees his children as competition and refused to cater for them,despite having the finances,beats his wife in the presence of their children as a habit for over 26 years,goes to the extent of sending assassins to his only daughter ,taking money she gave to him, her clothes and pictures to native doctors to impoverish her and still cannot see where he was wrong is not a father and can never be forgiven.

Nature is rewarding him now.
It shall never be well with him.
Thanks to God..Where I for be today?

It amazes me why ppl just jump to conclusion.
We r looking at this issue from the outside. No one knows what is happening in their family.

In issues like this why do we always put the blame on the mothers, saying mothers have brainwashed children against their father, this is utterly wrong. Though some mothers do that but nevertheless some fathers too have abused their power & office, FATHERHOOD.

muyinet:
pray not to have a woman who'll turn your children against you regardless of any effort you make. Most stories like this one,...if you look closely, you'll find the hand of their mother behind it.

The solution to issues like this lies not in the man taking care of the children but in how wealthy the man is...if a man is rich enough, he won't have the need to start looking out for a child or children that their mother has brainwashed against you.

The solution is for the man to be rich. Eni to bi'mo, omo lo ma sin, eni ti'o bi'mo, omo na lo ma sin....meaning...if you have children and when death comes, children will bury you and if you don't have any child. you'll still be buried by children. that's the wisdom of the Yorubas for circumstances such as this.

The shame in on Funke and her siblings for abandoning their father even after death.

It amazes me why ppl just jump to conclusion.
We r looking at this issue from the outside. No one knows what is happening in their family.

In issues like this why do we always put the blame on the mothers, saying mothers have brainwashed children against their father, this is utterly wrong. Though some mothers do that but nevertheless some fathers too have abused their power & office, FATHERHOOD.

muyinet:
pray not to have a woman who'll turn your children against you regardless of any effort you make. Most stories like this one,...if you look closely, you'll find the hand of their mother behind it.

The solution to issues like this lies not in the man taking care of the children but in how wealthy the man is...if a man is rich enough, he won't have the need to start looking out for a child or children that their mother has brainwashed against you.

The solution is for the man to be rich. Eni to bi'mo, omo lo ma sin, eni ti'o bi'mo, omo na lo ma sin....meaning...if you have children and when death comes, children will bury you and if you don't have any child. you'll still be buried by children. that's the wisdom of the Yorubas for circumstances such as this.

The shame in on Funke and her siblings for abandoning their father even after death.

Asquare84:
it can only be God that did it, you can appreciate by sowing a seed in the life of a Pastor

Few days ago, Jan 13, we came here seeking diagnosis, and if possible to treat my daughter at home, and yes we did & also treated her at home. We got recommendations here and we picked one.

* sporidex suspension and coconut oil (applied externally).

Today, being the THIRD day she started using sporadex and we have seen significant improvement on her scalp. Moreso, no more rise in temperature (in the day & at night) and consequently no more paracetamol.

Thank you all for your concerns, many thanks to Nairaland, GOD bless Nairaland and her crew.

Thank you @ all
I appreciate your concerns.
I say Thank you.

Early this morning i shaved her hair at home and I took her to a doctor friend. Doctor recommended Sporidex & Vit c syrup and that we should discontinue the Ampiclox (moreso it's not Beecham brand)

Those boils are responsible for the temp rise, immune response or something, so i was told.

She hs started using Sporidex, and i believe the boils/infection will be over in matter of days. The boils have even started to dry up just upon using Ampiclox for a day.

No more hair plaiting for now. I hope my wife will listen this time around, seeing what she has done to her scalp.


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I got adi agbon oil too, she will be using it to rub her head. Maybe that's the same thing as coconut oil.

frozen70:
Paracetamol is just a temporary pain reliever not for infection treatment

Pls scrap that hair or use scissors not razor pls, it's very sensitive because of the boils

Take her to government hospital for proper diagnosis

So many infections and diseases are in the air and children are probe to get them because their immune system is too weak at that age to fight any disease

Stop self medication and do the need full

One more thing, stop plaiting that hair for the next one year even after she recoveres, why because, you need to allow the hair to rest so that it can regrow its strength as it looks very weak and the scalp too is too tender

Thanks

solasoulmusic:
Sorry to see this and thoughts are with your little girl I wish her healing boil that plant as lady Sarah said we used it during chicken pox lol though we bathed outside in a secluded area lmao to avoid anyone else contracting it

No she's not using any medication at the moment. Last malaria med she took was mid dec 2019.

Thank you for your advise.

SURElee:
Is this baby under any medication she might be reacting to that you don't know? Maybe she is reacting to a drug. I remember reacting to tetracycline years ago.

Then again, if you have a personal clipper, use it to barb her hair and take her to the hospital, she needs an appointment with the doctor.

Thank you sir

Adalasy:
I am an alternative medicine practitioner from Ghana and you can treat this easily from the comfort of your home. Go and get some Neem leaves. Carefully pluck the leaves from the stalk because it is only the leaves you need. Mash the leaves into a paste and apply the paste on each boil on her head. Make sure you cover all of them. this application is to be done once a day only.

Her condition is caused by bacteria which has formed in her hair follicle. I would have recommended neem oil for her but since she is just 3 and may touch the hair and oil and lick with her tongue i would rather you use the leaves.

Apply the neem leaves as long as needed and she will be fine plus the leaves would ensure there is no scar left from the boils

This is what neem leaves look like attached.

I would also recommend that for her rashes which you say are on her lower back and neck, you take the same neem leaves, boil it for about 10mins (once it begins to boil leave it boiling for 10 mins) Mix about 100ml of the resultant liquid with her bathing water and bath her with it. She will get her baby skin back in no time.

Try not to get Chemical drugs or creams for her at her age. Follow the instructions i have given

Thanks bfor your time sir.
We have noted your advise.

Amopeekun:
In my place, it is called gbindin gbindin. It is a Yoruba name.
I don't know how serious this is but importantly, STOP MAKING/PLAITING/BRAIDING/ MANIPULATING HER SCALP HENCEFORTH!! Pls stop. Her scalp is very tender and too soft. Cut her hair low until she is old enough to sit down by herself to make her hair. Occasionally, washing her hair with a very mild shampoo will do, otherwise, the regular bathing is enough.. Separate her combs and hair brushes from yours and disinfect them regularly with dettol.
As it is, you either use amplicox Beecham for her or take her to the hospital. All the best.

Noted sir

Bolubaba:
It's a fungal infection and using antibiotics does not treat fungal infections.

1. Cut your childs hair
2. Get the RED ACALYPHA. Boil & bath her with it
3. Get an antifungal cream TYDINIL works fine mix with Shea butter and use it as hair cream.
You see the results within few days.

I rebuke it. Not on my own child.

boldx:
Put red oil on them. There are worms in those boils. Someone shared an experience on this.