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AutosRe: Pre-order Car Of Your Choice From U.S With Very Low Deposit- No Stress by xerxes456(m): 4:45pm On Dec 12, 2012
Hw much will a Nissan xterra 2005-2007 and Toyota highlander 2003 -2005 cost.
AutosRe: Buy your clean(1st class) cars From Cotonou while working with ur budget... by xerxes456(m): 4:44pm On Dec 12, 2012
Hw much will a Nissan xterra 2005-2007 and Toyota highlander 2003 -2005 cost in cotonou
AutosRe: Registered FEBRUARY, 2010 Toyota Highlander, Pix Here by xerxes456(m): 2:11pm On Dec 11, 2012
Ego le
AutosRe: Nissan Xterra 2007 Model @ N1.750m by xerxes456(m): 2:02pm On Dec 11, 2012
Usef in nigeria, where, n cn it go for 1.3m
RomanceRe: What Make U Dislike A Guy Or Girl At First Sight by xerxes456(m): 5:30pm On Dec 09, 2012
There are natural attributes that cannot b changed, I just try not to relate wit people dat av them but I don't hate. But for changeable attributes n attitudes like, excessive careless talkatives, bad n unconvenssional/terrible dressing, dirty live style etc dat can otherwise b corected I cannot tollerate... Tall, short, slim n sometimes fat(dats natural), ugly, handsome or beautiful,disabled are natural phenomenon, n I can tollerate... By principle I don't hate...
RomanceRe: Caught My Finacee & Her Ex In the Hotel I Paid For Just 7days be4 Our Wedding. by xerxes456(m): 8:36pm On Dec 02, 2012
broos dis na hard situation, but God just saved U from future pains of loving someone dat is unable to replicate ur love for her, it's wiser to walk away now Dan to bite ur fingers tomorrow , no matter Hw much U loved her this memory will never leave, so pls take time get ur life back n move on, it's better to b single Dan to marry dat girl rily...
AutosRe: Hidden Secrets About Buying Cheap Cars From Cotounu! by xerxes456(m): 7:27pm On Nov 25, 2012
how much is Nissan xterra 2005 and 2006
hondar accord 2006
Toyota highlander 2002/2003
n Hw much do i need to clear it from d border n register it in Nigeria...
RomanceRe: Falling In Luv With Someone Who Advises You In Ur Relationship. Why? by xerxes456(m): 5:44pm On Nov 24, 2012
Guess d advised feels secure in the company of the adviser... Presently my baby gitlfriend(as in she's a very small girl) av bn hitting on me cos I used to advice her, since she fell in love with me I stopped seeing her, I know hw guilty I will feel if I fall for her... Make I no start wetin I know say I no go finish, come put baby for bad situation... I try to remain friendly...
RomanceRe: What Is Ur Relationship Status??.. by xerxes456(m): 5:27pm On Nov 24, 2012
mascot87: Abeg single and not happy atall cry,i need a companion seriously haha,which kind life b dis self
Olboy... We re both in d same category ooo
Wen she finaly comes I'll makesure she pays for wastin time... kiss
PropertiesRe: 2 Bed Room To Let @ Shitta Surulere For 220k X2 by xerxes456(m): 9:40pm On Nov 23, 2012
is it still available
AutosRe: American~speck 2007 Honda Accord 4sale by xerxes456(m): 8:34pm On Nov 23, 2012
baba full spec n how much... address n contacts pls...
AutosRe: 2 Clean Peugeot 406 Available!! by xerxes456(m): 9:08pm On Nov 19, 2012
Hw much eli42Dan@gmail.com let's talk
Forum GamesRe: Start Your Own Word With The Last Letter by xerxes456(m): 6:07pm On Nov 19, 2012
Narrate
HealthRe: I'm Too Skinny And It Makes Me Sad by xerxes456(m): 6:01pm On Nov 19, 2012
M short bt WTF, check du I care bout wot people say.... Check... Nooooo... Its my life n if U dnt accept me someone else will, m good at wot I do, u cn underestimate me sorry, u won't benefit of my service... Guy life is fun life is meant to b enjoyd, fck them hatters live ur life... First learn to appreciate urself... B good at sometin even if it is just readin... Dnt give a fck...
BusinessRe: Why Is Customer Service In Nigeria So Aggressive? by xerxes456(m): 5:50pm On Nov 19, 2012
ballabriggs: Frustration!!!

Plenty work, small pay undecided

Besides sef the people wey you dey serve need iron hand. It is in naija I see people eat at fast food joints and won't dispose off in the bin. They leave it on the table and walk out of the restaurant.

Very rude!!! Na those kind people you go follow dey do courtesy? They need serious iron hand.

Operation fire for fire and not customer service make customer no go kill you. grin grin grin grin

Okay wait make I give you one scenario. You sabi say bus conductor work na for customer focused environment and e and driver suppose get customer service skill?

So after all the slap wey agbero go give you for bus stop, you go still dey act like gentleman? grin grin grin grin

You wey dey work as customer service rep for the organised firms sef na their bus you dey enter. So after you receive curses from conductor, you go still dey normal? After you drive for third mainland hold up, your head go still correct?

The best way to deal with customer for naija na too dey break bottle for their head, they need iron hand. undecided
kai guy I don laugh tire...
TRU TALK, but its not just a reflection of tye society, its also a reflection of the organisation, the receptionist or customer care attendant is a direct representative of the organisation to the client, when a customer care lacks manners U can conclude without making mistakes that the organisation is not going to meet ur needs at least d way it should b met, not to talk of the way U want it to b met... Once a customer care 4ks me up, I walk away from dat organisation, another reason why customer care misbehaves is because they don't av effective competitors...
Nairaland GeneralRe: Baby Kidnapped From Labour Room In Abia by xerxes456(m): 5:38pm On Nov 19, 2012
afam4eva: Open your azz and be free thou demented candidate for hell.
u don turn God bah, so U cn sentence someone to hell..
Face d issue on ground like it or nt this kidnapping thing is more prevalent in igbo land especially in abia state, just like suicide bombin is in northern states, n ritual killin in western state, yes these crime exist everywhere else bt they are more prevalent in sm places than others...
As for d issiue at hand its apity dat the man n his wife fell in such tragedy, Police can never b ur friend they are out worse enemy, dnt ever take ur case to them except U av enough money... Its a matter of the highest bidder, otherwise U d victim will b arrested and sent to kirikiri for bein a victim of a crime... Beware of Police... M a witness...
PropertiesRe: I Have Mini Flat, 2bedrooms, 3 Bedrooms,to Let At Obawole Ogba With Cheap Prices by xerxes456(m): 3:17am On Nov 07, 2012
the 2bdrm flats where r they located n .cn i get 1 n half yr
PropertiesRe: PROMO Price:cheap Lovely 3 Bedroom TO LET In Ajah! 450k Only! by xerxes456(m): 3:02am On Nov 07, 2012
.cn i rent for 1yr n wot about other payments...
PoliticsRe: Picture Of Gov. Fashola Kissing His Wife by xerxes456(m): 8:17pm On Nov 05, 2012
aribisala0: but dem for comot their glass naa!
u want them to kiss their nose instead... grin
AutosRe: Nairalanders,chelseabmw, Inspired M Please Help Me Ask ICME To Give Me My Car by xerxes456(m): 5:55pm On Nov 04, 2012
with wot av transpired here zo far its clear dat ICME is an opportunist and cannot b trusted Boson have carelessly fallen into the hand of a con man... i would advice dat boson seek legal assitance, trace and arrest ICME for advance fee fraud... the fear of ICME is d beginnin of wisdom...
FamilyRe: Twin Sisters Share The Same Husband by xerxes456(m): 5:01pm On Nov 04, 2012
Mkenyaa: Not twins but sisters.
sisters twins no difference, they are twins n sisters... he's lucky...
FamilyRe: Must A Man Share The Same Bedroom With The Wife? by xerxes456(m): 3:15am On Nov 03, 2012
zebra543: You dont have to, what if your partner is a chronic snorer? or messsy and when your a neat freak? sleeping in different bedrooms wont really change he intimacy, what of couples whose kid sleeps in between them every night?
then ure nt compatible dnt even marry smone U cn not sleep wit on d same bed every nite...
FamilyRe: Must A Man Share The Same Bedroom With The Wife? by xerxes456(m): 3:08am On Nov 03, 2012
deluxecad: I keep wondering, I think she'll be taking in all the time if she sleeps beside me every nite. Lol. I'm afraid I'll get used to her too quickly. What are the pros and cons of sharing the same bedroom with your wife? Guys, would you do it?
get over used to her if posible... at somepoint U'll find out hw to manage things properly... evenwhenit gets mechanical still hang on... u'll finally get it together, itz wot will kp U at Ur old age... when sex is no longer the in thing...
FamilyRe: Kids Paternity (dna) Test - Do It Secretly Or Inform The Wife? by xerxes456(m): 2:57am On Nov 03, 2012
Blazay: He must NOT tell the wife.
Since he has had the (?) condition he has kept from his wife too. . . so,why stop now? undecided
I would secretly do the test, then inform her later. kiss

If he tells her before the test he will definitely sabotage his efforts to find some closure to this burning desire.
He gets to be a winner either way.

He may find out the wife has been donating behind his back or front early enough since in doube. . . which would make his life easier or he may find out the kid is rightly his. Either way, he can 'arrange' a quick 'get out' plan. kiss

He should go ahead and do the test without letting ANYONE(not even his mother) know till the results are out. If good results. . .don't tell no one. If bad results. . .proceed to the "check-out" counte sharp-sharp. . . unless you can come to some kind of 'settlement' and the pickin hungry you that musssss toclaim am! kiss
Hopefully, one mad man or your me-ghi-dad or wan[b] 'dreva'[/b] will not come barging through your front door or try to break down ya fence to kollet im pickin some 10 years down the road when kasala 'buss' or akara scatter for h-inside cold oyel for "Iye Courage" im frying pan for market! cheesy
 

Never trust your spouse even if he or she is a 'born-again' or 'dead-again' in form of One kind Jesus Christ of Oyingbo!

In Nigeria and with Nigerians especially, ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING is possible. Especially, with all these born-again-nyansh-scattering gals of nowadays, donating left, right and center to one pastor or another in all those their deeper nyansh/anus midnight vigils all over the world.[b][/b]
He does not have to wait 20 years to find out if the child is not his. Especially, when he knows his palm wine gourds with 'water-water SPAM' . . . . are empty and he suffers from 'low SPAM count'!

Stranger things have happened.

After all, with GOD, all things are possible!


Mu he he he he he heeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!

cheesy
cheesy lol true talk even for a complete guy DNA test is essential, not to talk of a half card guy...
FamilyRe: Is Low Self Esteem A Result Of Parental Upbringing Or Personality? by xerxes456(m): 2:26am On Nov 03, 2012
[quote author=agoha_vivi]The young man who said that to your little girl has a lot of growing up to do. It was a good thing you where close by to correct that notion. I tell my son who is a year plus that he's so intelligent such that he'll end up as an Harvard trained engineer. Even when he upsets me and I rebuke him, i still end up praising him and speaking positively. Talking a child down usually water's down the child's self esteem and as such, parents should desist from so doing.[/quote]not untill recently, i used to believe m short n felt it was somethin to b shy about, simply cos as A kid my neighbours used to ask me "when will U leave the ground"... n my parents would laugh... it took years of personal effort to get a grip over that issue... wot ure doin for ur kid is the greatest gift U can give...
FamilyRe: If Your Husband Did A Paternity Test For Your Children? by xerxes456(m): 2:04am On Nov 03, 2012
jidegirl12: Oga Lucas, na only a lazy woman go follow you do DNA on your kids cos of your money she lives on cos deep down her sincerely she will not feel the same about you ever again!

I mean what are you talking about? If you don't trust me then tell me then I'll know where you're driving at and it'll then be 'mutually' agreed before the DNA is done then we can talk about trust issues in our marriage, and moving forward its never going to be the same again.

You get it now ?( pardon my ''our' use) smiley
fact is women cannot b trusted n u don't need to form a conference and negotiate agreement before a DNA test... it's an exam she must pass for things to go smoothly... i must know that the kids am suffering day n nite for are mine n the woman am giving my whole life to is actually doin the same to me... trust is no longer an available commodity in the market.... it's gotten in the school of hardknocks... cool
FamilyRe: Is Low Self Esteem A Result Of Parental Upbringing Or Personality? by xerxes456(m): 1:51am On Nov 03, 2012
k2039: To me it's the individual.

Frankly parents could add to it,by telling their kids you are not good enough,you are not this,you are not that(not just parent alone but every negative statement we have heard,our failures,rejection etc).
The point is jut that,once one start to beleieve this comments then one's self esteem is in trouble.

I think He was Ghandi who said this 'they cant take away our self respect except we give it to them'

The reason why I think it has a lot to do with personality is because for the fact that someone said you are stupid doesnt necessarily mean you are,it's his opinion and he is entitled to it.

So every thing then boils down to this,believing in oneself,liking oneself.

For example personaly I dont have a problem with my self esteem(some say I'm arrogant,just because I dont give a damn about what they say,some find it hard to believe in theirself,and for believing so much im myself they label me names,mtcheww),I understand I may not be able to influence what others say about me,but I have the ability to choose the way I respond to them.
I understand we all see the world the way we are and not necessarily the way it is(reality),so everyone is entitled to his/her opinion.

Whatever anyone says is just an expression of their own opinion.


So OP IT'S more of a personality thing(understanding that I have a control over my mood and how I feel),frankly parents and peer may shape it,it still boils down to taking full responsibility for ones life(even if your parents say you are good enough,if you still dont believe it your self esteem is in trouble and finaly if you base your self esteem on what people say,your esteem is still in trouble because as much as positive comments affect you so will their negative comments also affect you).

Individualy we are all unique,we are special
this knowledge wasn't wit U as a kid... it was acquired as U grow up... it requires special effort to fight low self esteem at this stage... cool

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