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FamilyRe: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by XKZ(m):
tonychristopher:
just gear yourself

igbo don't have kings so how do they keep and enforce laws
Nze na Ozo,
Umunna,
Umuada,
Deities/Priesthood,
etc
Igbos were republican in nature
Kings are not essential to maintaining laws, the Greeks had something similar, and the Romans before Caesar (509 BC- 27 BC)

Maybe you should read up Igbo culture, you seem so interested.
FamilyRe: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by XKZ(m): 10:40pm On May 10, 2015
babygirlfl:
Do you mean Agbor in Delta state, that is not an Igbo town and read your history well because the Obi of Agbor is known as the youngest crowned monarch in history. He was crowned at the age of 2 and remains in the Guinness book of record as the youngest crowned monarch.
en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Agbor

FamilyRe: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by XKZ(m): 5:08am On May 10, 2015
tonychristopher:
Now igbo have almost same culture with tiny variations
How do you define "tiny variations"?
Some Igbo communities have heriditary kingship (son takes over from father), other have a royal lineage (kingship rotates among certain families), while others practically elect their Igwes or have them appointed by the state governor.
Historically, outside Onitsha, Agbor and Aro, most Igbo communities do not have kings.

Is this a tiny variation?
FamilyRe: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by XKZ(m):
lezz:
but here's an idea; this could make a nice interesting topic in a new thread entiled : WHICH IBO COMMUNITY CAN A FEMALE CHILD INHERIT HER FATHER'S ESTATE TRADITIONALLY ?

then we can have a wilder oppinion and contributions.

shall we ?
And how would that prove anything?
Those who say it doesn't happen could be arguing out of ignorance.
And those who say it happens could be making it up.

One thing people who are not Igbos (and some modern day Igbos) fail to realise is that before the coming of the Europeans Igbos were fragmented politically and Igbo communities had little to do with one another besides their immediate neighbours.
Consequently, there is wide variation in Igbo culture.
FamilyRe: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by XKZ(m): 10:59pm On May 07, 2015
lezz:
OK, which part of enugu state is that ?
What part do you know?

Specifically, parts of Nkanuland
FamilyRe: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by XKZ(m): 10:32pm On May 07, 2015
lezz:
and please, I dare you, any Ibo lady who acquired her father's land did so statutorily never by tradition. She will need the EUROPEAN influenced court to introduce the doctrine of no descrimination to any one based on sex, birth circumstances etc.


Ibo culture varies, but when it comes to women and inheritance, they all sing the same song with
a resounding chorus.
This is not true.
In parts of Enugu State if a man dies without a son his eldest daughter inherits and her children carry on her father's lineage.
FamilyRe: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by XKZ(m): 9:25am On May 07, 2015
netsurf:
we were having a discussion about how drugs are manufactured and I said scientist delibrately use either a dead human or live as 'guinea pigs' to test efficacy of drugs before it's realesed into the market for consumption...she shouted..it's a lie...then I tried explaining to her by giving examples of what I have seen and read...the next thing she said is untill she consult google, she cannot believe what i said. Another instance came when she developed some skin rashes which has failed to respond to so many prescribed drugs...then I said we should consider blood tonics and that she should start eating more of fruits and vegetables to strenghten her immune system...she said it has nothing to do with her blood and tha it's just a skin disease...then I tried explaining what I know about skin and the veins that supplies blood to the skin...she responded by carying her phone and before you can blink, she was already on google...that day, everything I said about the skin and her skin issue was exactly on google. Rather than become sober, she still insist that she only belives because google said so. Then it occured to me in a flash that she might not respect not only my opinion but everything I stand for.
Look on the bright side, she thought enough of your opinion to bother googling it.
Would you have preferred she dismiss it off hand? Or agreed with you during the discussion but ignore your advice and not apply it.
FamilyRe: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by XKZ(m):
netsurf:
If the husband airs his opinion about any subject, she would insist she consult google for her to believe.
I don't agree she's stubborn. She just likes to have empirical evidence and does not believe in acting based on opinion.
ComputersRe: How Can I Safeguard My Pc's Data When It Is Out For Repair? - Livehelpng.com by XKZ(m): 7:56am On May 02, 2015
Encrypt your hard disk
CareerRe: She Asked Me To Carry Her Hand Bag, I Refused And She Fired Me. by XKZ(m): 1:58pm On Apr 04, 2015
It's shocking the number of people who say the op is wrong. It just goes to show how much the psyches of Nigerians have been brutalised. sad
Buhari faces a herculean task if he thinks he can change these people.
However on a positive note, Chinua Achebe said Nigerians suddenly remembered how to queue a day after Buhari took over (in 1983), so maybe these ones too will remember proper ethics.
PoliticsRe: National Assembly Elections: APC Sweeps Senate by XKZ(m): 9:15pm On Mar 31, 2015
Tobilastik:
1. David mark cannot be a senate President again ..na Minority Leader sure pass
David Mark will decamp to APC and remain the Senate President
PhonesRe: Airtel Crashes Data Service Cost By 100% by XKZ(m): 2:23pm On Mar 31, 2015
100% reduction in price means the commodity is now free.
PoliticsRe: Nasir El Rufai Tweet That Got Twitter Buzzing On Saturday by XKZ(m): 10:48am On Mar 30, 2015
I can't understand why El-Rufai acts like a mad man on twitter. Regularly tweeting unsubstantiated rumours and accusations. He was also the the one who tweeted that GMB's jet had been stopped from leaving Abuja for the elections.
I hope this is not how he is in real life.
LiteratureRe: What Are You Reading Right Now And What Page Are You? by XKZ(m): 9:55pm On Mar 26, 2015
Never Let Me Go — Kazuo Ishiguro (22%)
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RomanceRe: Every Woman Should Get THIS!! by XKZ(m): 10:10pm On Mar 23, 2015
remsonik:
Atleast a lady can insert this and knows she's safe from any potential rapist
It doesn't prevent a rape it only punishes the rapist...
PhonesRe: Smartphone Thieves Will Hate This New Android 5.1 Update. by XKZ(m): 12:46pm On Mar 15, 2015
henribj:
... thieves will instead of selling the phone, ask you to pay a ransom for it
aby who wan lose im contacts?
Back up your contacts to your google account so you don't lose them when your phone is stolen.
If you use a BlackBerry you can even back up your contacts and other info on the smartphone after it has been stolen.
CelebritiesRe: See How Your Favorite Celebs Would Look In 40 Years(wizkid, Genevieve & More) by XKZ(m): 7:26pm On Mar 14, 2015
Aren't their hair supposed to get white? I can't imagine Banky W having such a luxurious dark beard in 40 years time.
FamilyRe: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by XKZ(m): 5:48pm On Mar 14, 2015
GboyegaD:
Were they ever married in the first instance or what are they dissolving? The magistrate of that court was very nice to have allowed all these continue.
naijababe:
Why are they in court when they are not even married?
plendil:
I'm not sure our laws allow common-law marriage. Even in places where it is practised...
Section 166 of our Evidence Act provides that court will presume marriage where there is cohabitation as husband and wife by man and woman.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Fresh Nigeria Immigration Recruitment 2015 by XKZ(m): 2:03pm On Feb 28, 2015
Liadi2:
pls Wen I fill the personal info finish I click on continue but it keep on telling me unknown error have try so many time ooo
I noticed that happens if you change a value. after the system has accepted it. For example if you press continue and the system tells you that haven't entered your phone number, you now input your number and go ahead to correct any other field besides the phone number.
What to do: Make only the requested correction and continue the application with any other error you notice.
After you have successfully completed and submitted the application, sign in again and make any required correction.
RomanceRe: Advice Pls! Don't Know I'm Attracted To Only Orobo(fat) Girls by XKZ(m): 4:47pm On Feb 27, 2015
oldbrain:
Pls nairalender what can I do now to set myself free from orobo girls. Advice pls
Marry one then you can scare the rest off with your ring
PoliticsRe: Should Muslim Hijab Be Banned In Nigeria? by XKZ(m): 5:28pm On Feb 24, 2015
Equalizer:
Used Hijab as a case study here cos the recent explosions that has rocked both yobe and Bornu in the past few days was orchestrated by young girls putting on hijab or abaya as you said..
Before women started bombing, men were already bombing with caftans. Whatever strategy was applied with respect to male caftans should apply to female abayas.

Hijab covers the head and part of the chest, abaya covers the body.
RomanceRe: 5 Ways To Make Love (without Having Sex) by XKZ(m): 5:21pm On Feb 24, 2015
spartoo:
then hw do I climax huh
vickerz:
OP, HOW DO WE CUM THEN?
Use your hand to finish...
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Pls. Who knows The Nielsen coy Nigeria,pls I Really Need your Response by XKZ(m): 5:16pm On Feb 24, 2015
Nielsen is an international brand, try googling them.
PoliticsRe: Should Muslim Hijab Be Banned In Nigeria? by XKZ(m): 5:06pm On Feb 24, 2015
Equalizer:
Which better approach do you think will be efficient enough to tackle female bombers using hijab as an express route of carrying out their deadly act?
Do I look like a counter-terrorism expert? Our security agencies can liaise with the Iraqis and Isrealis who have dealt with a similar problem.
By the way, it's the abaya that's used to conceal the bomb not the hijab.
I'm wondering why you're not also addressing the issue of men using kaftans to conceal suicide vests.
PoliticsRe: Should Muslim Hijab Be Banned In Nigeria? by XKZ(m): 4:51pm On Feb 24, 2015
I don't think such a ban would make much sense unless you are going to ban all long flowing attires (such as agbada, caftan, woko, buba & babariga) as they all have the potential to be used to conceal suicide bomb vests.
It's like banning golf cars because they have been used to carry out bomb attacks
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Fresh Nigeria Immigration Recruitment 2015 by XKZ(m): 1:08pm On Feb 23, 2015
hajjisemiu:
Pls after opening this, there is no place to apply there. Kindly help me.
Click on the vacancy you're interested in.
FamilyRe: Hillarious! Satisfy Us In Bed Or Face Mass Divorce - Kaduna women protest by XKZ(m): 3:00pm On Feb 21, 2015
GlorifiedTunde:
A married woman, Jummai Isaac, 27, said she has not taken in since she got married in the year 2000.

“I haven’t conceived since I got married in the last fourteen years...
13 years.
RomanceRe: 10 Strange Things All Men Have Done At Least Once by XKZ(m): 10:19pm On Feb 11, 2015
MzNelly:
Best feeling ever. grin

cheesy cheesy
Your gender is f so how do you know what it feels like.
Btw, if I've only done 2 out of the 10 does that make me a woman?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Fresh Nigeria Immigration Recruitment 2015 by XKZ(m): 6:55am On Feb 11, 2015

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