daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

dododawa1:
ONI of Ife following Tinubu up and down,all this new generation KING no get level.

DeleTaller:



It is today I know the reason why some people are called flat head. smiles

PrinceMajestic:
there's nothing like junior oba, respect your monarchs. I was thinking he is Oni because the crown his wearing is Ife monarchs crown and he also has the shape of oni's face but a deeper look reveal that he is older. I would have been sad if it was oni

FromZeroToHero:
Obasanjo: Tinubu say your rubbish and leave my house. I am Obidient and Yusful.

NaijaRoyalty:
Obasanjo can't wait for Tinubu to finish talking his nonsense and leave his house

See as baba just dey listen

See Obasanjo face in the first photo , no true love at all

kingsways:
Well I sincerely do not know if there is anything wrong in a Christian marrying more than one wife.

Several men of God - Abraham, Jacob, David the Great King, Solomon, etc - married more than one and I do not know if God was ever angry with anyone of them merely because they married more than one

MuslimIgbo:
When I say Islam is the best religion, ignoramus will be talking trash.
Islam has solution to every problems.

Polygamy for example is a great solution to many marital problems in the society today.

In many other religions, an average lady can have up to 10-30 bodycount before marriage and nobody see this as an issue.

That does not make Islam to be a best religion. Marry many wife's does not stop u from having extral marital affairs, and marry one wife doesnt make u have side chicks. We have seen examples of both.

So many married men will have multiple girlfriends and be sleeping with young girls about, instead of just marrying another wife.
THERE'S HARDLY AN AVERAGE NIGERIAN GIRL BETWEEN 21-28 THAT HAS NOT SLEPT WITH ONE OR TWO MARRIED MEN BEFORE...


Married women, which do prefer:
1) Be the only wife and your husband can sleep with 5-10 other girls in a year?
2) Be a co-wife to another woman and your husband stay loyal to both of you?

AccessME:
Thanks for the mentions.

I need more recommendatio pls.. I've been a laughing stock in my neighborhood they refer to me as strenthless even family and friends laugh at me for being too lazy and weak.. I can't do anything involving hardwork cause I get tired easily and starts breathing too fast. Even to have s*x has been very tough due to a very low libido. You guys should help me out pls!

Nobody can help you, if you don't help yourself. Stop masturbating, if you can control yourself that means you r not mentally OK, look for a therapist. As for what to use, if you are able to buy longrich calcium , it contains zinc and iron too, 2tab per day. U shd be able to control what is hurting u.

Lalasticlala, Mynd44 Seun help move to front page for more audience!

Mayorofodemu:
Why Islamic religion are like violence 5 & 6. Why do they like forcing things on people. I used to tell people, majority of Muslims thought Christians are dull and stupid, they dont even know Christians are confirm crazy for head, if not of the teachings in the Bible, to behave like Jesus Christians and be friendly to your neighbors.

Why bringing these issues into constitution, if you want to use hijab fine, if you don't leave it. In Isreal wearing hijab is part of their culture not that Islamic religion brought it. Go to Uae these people like wearing bikinis in an opened swimming pool, are they not practicing the same religion.

Those people bringing these issues out are fools, we already have many challenges not useless talks

Ammishaddai:
You're being too emotional for someone you dont even know . And secondly, how do you know if he wasn't rich/wealthy? Most of you women simply love comfort all to the detriment of your future which is why ya'll keep ending up as decomposing carcasses

Ayonimhofeoluwa:
Please I want to make enquiry on this company.... If it legit

Indispensable85:
Wetin dey cause dis kidney problem sef? It's becoming too rampart.

Assetinvestor:
Something must be very wrong somewhere in Nigeria. All these kidney failures is fast becoming a pandemic here.

May God protect his children!

RIP bro.

DrySaliva:
Too many deaths in Nollywood.

If I were in Nollywood, I'll quit at this time... Who's next

Brownygold002:
Hey, Nairalanders

Something has really been eating me up, I think I need to share. I'm a young gal of about more than 17, I'm brown, tall, slim, have a long curly hair (I'm from a mixed race - Lebanon and Nigeria), brown eyes and nice lips I'm endowed (no be mouth).

I'm a fresher at UNIZIK. I know I am attractive which I don't deny, I don't boast nor make anyone feel inferior. I have 3 roommates. I respect them cos I'm the youngest amongst them. But they don't seem to get along with me. I have tried everything I Can.

Each time we go out, I'm usually the center of attraction which is not new to me, nothing special. They just hate me. I don't boast. I try 2 look as simple as possible. But guys do come for me and they get jealous.

I have tried talking to them but they said they're fine but deep down I know they don't like me. The other day they intentionally frustrated me, they hid my assignments and burnt a new gown a guy at church got me. I'm tired of all these attitude everyday. I feel lyk taking my life, the hate is much. I didn't make myself. Help me guys!!

Danny50:
My fiancé has chronic mouth odour but I don't know how to tell her so that she won't feel bad or hurt.

So Guy's I really need your advice medically and how to go about it without hurting her thank you all.

felixzo1:
passing out comdemination on people is not very smart. leave judgement to God, only he truely knows the heart Man. only God know who will go to hell. in the Old Testament people married many wives. David the man after God 's heart had many wives(and concubines) in today world you will describe him as a Randy man. Same God of yesterday is God of today and tomorrow. leave judgement matter for God to decide. carry your cross and worry less about who goes to hell. I do not in any way support his actions but it's not in my place to say he is going to hell

Toks2008:


Can you just read what you wrote again...

This is the lamest argument many people use

Please read this and broaden your knowledge or continue to wallow in your ignorance

https://www.nairaland.com/4303658/dont-deceived-polygamy-not-sin

Toks2008:



GOD almighty has proffered a solution in the Scriptures as regards regulating polygamous homes cos as I wrote, he permits it for a reason.


Exodus 21 vs 10

If he takes an additional wife, he must not reduce the food, clothing, or marital rights of the first wife.

This is how to treat an extra wife as well. As her kids.

Tobedated:


gods in hell at this stage you're still not enlightened it really a shame and then you will give birth and the teach the child rubbish as well

Iyaebe:
You'll have to like it if your wife wants it,she's clean and I read it's even cleaner than the mouth,it cleanses and purify itself except in cases of infection

Vickyvice:
Whoever divorces should remain single, except their mate engages in adultery/fornication, then she/ he can remarry. The only reasons for remarriage are death and adultery/fornication

Bola146:
We did agree that we were going to have a small wedding, and the day of the introduction came, and I traveled with my family, spent a lot of money on hotel bills, etc. It did go well, and that was when it started.

She reneged on our agreement on the size of the wedding. She told me that she wanted to have her dream wedding although she had no money. I could not bring myself to spend so much on a wedding only to end up eating hand to mouth in my marriage. It became a back and forth argument. Her dad wanted it small, but her siblings wanted it big. My mum did try to advise her, but she felt my mum shouldn't have a say in her wedding being a supposed generation Z.



I did have to look for ways she would be happy without spending too much. Then the counseling issue came, and I was informed to come back to Abuja by her pastor. It was inconvenient, so I told her to recommend virtual counseling because I'm not ready to go and spend a lot staying there. She was mad at my response, saying that it was disrespectful, suggesting such to a supposed man of God, making it disrespectful to God[/b]



You ignored all the red flags!!!!! You both are incompatible like seriously. Just let her go if she can't abide with you as you are now she will find someone to spend lavishly with, you will find a better person, just be calm. Just go to church for thanksgiving, dance like and pray for better half of your choice A broken relationship is far better than broken marriage....

Don't start what you can't continue please

Enskynelson:
Dear nairalanders,
I am a graduate of Microbiology and currently serving but I want to be a Nurse as I am more passionate about that and it also has more prospect than Microbiology both in Nigeria and outside Nigeria. Please, suggest and advise me on what I can do right now. I don't mind going to School of Nursing but will prefer any school that can offer me Direct Entry into Nursing with my Degree Certificate. But if that is not possible, I am opened to writing JAMB again and going for Nursing.
Thanks

TinkTwice:
Hi guys, this is urgent!!! On red alert.

For long time/years now, I've been battling with this skin disease and it just became worst like 3months ago, with some serious middle chest pain. honestly, I gave up on this skin, especially my chest, neck and back region. And I'm all about chasing money.

But recently, my new girlfriend of 1month plus, saw my chest and back after our nsorinso and has declared "No more knacking", until the skin clears. That she can not even wear my clothes, if she's sleeping over, and I might transfer the skin thing to her.

Brethren poop! The pictures of my skin, drug and creams I use is there oo..i

.. If you have any natural remedy, pls prescribe 4me,im tired of the oyibo concoction..
Did I mention I have romatism? The seasonal skin scratching don tire me abeg.

Gracias

HEALTH

Kayyy:
I do not attend the Synagogue, neither am I one of his followers, there is this stigma attached to TB Joshua by PFN and their church followers, I remember the backlash Pastor Chris Oyakhilome got about his close relationship with him then, at the end of the day I need any one like this lady to come out and mention amongst the new generation church anyone that is not doing all what she just described here, we have Apostle Suleiman , Bishop Oyedopo and Pastor Chris all denying covid-19, rejecting vaccine, boasting about the church being the only secure place to cure it, attendees of holy ghost service go to camp with oil, handkerchiefs etc, what about Celestial members, the lord's chosen, MFM, CAC, have you experienced going to spiritual mountains in Nigeria ?, have you seen different things people take to mountain to pray with ?, And at the end of the day I see all the churches I mentioned here still pray vividly despite all their beliefs in all these spiritual materials so why choose to single out TB Joshua.

It is the highest form of hypocrisy to insult and abuse TB Joshua's Synagogue while you praise those other churches I mentioned .