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StephDamielola:

solomon4samuel:
ur comment is as senseless as u re... Re u sure ur ain't one of those broke ass tyire fixers that live at mile two junction No offense ooo

solomon4samuel:
This is a very devasteting issue that has claimed my mind for too long,and because of that,the curiousity to know what people especially the ladies think on this area was concived. Please this piece is not for any reader to start dellibrating on others affairs. I just want to know the truth about how ladies feel about guys spending for them;if it's one of the ways to show how much they care and vise versa.

StephDamielola:
Shey you are happy now?

Women are kneeling and begging

Would you like to experience that?

Mimzyy:
I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all years round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner. In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else.
Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart. It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline because, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with.

In those times, love will not help you; self control will help you, emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going. With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life.

You think happily married people don't see better people than the ones they married? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do!

But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings is the great arsenal that do destroy that impulse.

You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.

We are too fond of loving when it's convenient and sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there but that can only last for just the first 3-6 months of the relationship. After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped, it's now your responsibility to make it work, not love's responsibility.

Relationships cannot be readymade. You have to build it and it's never always about love, it requires commitment and intelligence. On the long run in marriages, it's not just love that keeps them together forever, it's determination and commitment.

Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort to do that. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that.

That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.
Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream. It's always tough, at some point it will be so bitter but you can make it work by putting your heads together, you can scale through the trying time by being focus and committed.

The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong and be self disciplined.

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Justiyke4u:
bro I still disagree. What you said is more applicable to the girls

Justiyke4u:
"Why not she and she only"

buchilino:
IT'S TIME I CROSS OVER TO LIVERPOOL.

phatasschick:
Spot on girlie, Liverpool till I die. Its feel nice to see another female diehard Liverpool fan. They never see chumchin, we are taking the premier league cup this season Chelsea can only try. YNWA!!!!!!

oloriLFC:
We are Liverpool! 3points no bargain

Okay.

Buh I doubt my friend who is 37 now is still finding the whole stuff funny, I mean she might be regretting why she didn't just settle with one of the "pursuers" in the first instance.

Not every guy has the patience to keep chasing just one girl for a long time, those who do eventually turn to cheaters and wife beaters.


So my point is:While playing hard to get, You might chase your destined soul mate away and end up with an incompatible fellow.


EOS....

ericadianas:
lol....did u read the post?
its not abouting dating per say, but about tagging it.

ericadianas:
Call a spade a spade and not a garden fork
I disagree!
Who knows, I could transform the cold metal spade into a garden fork.
So I would not limit its potentials by caging it inside a name.
We really don't have to call it a name.


No ring, no name

It's really not important
It's not a position but rather a restriction
A restriction of the mind and of our actions
We all want to be "The One" that the whole world recognises as the "special one"(Double classified)
The boyfriend or The girlfriend.
Our discussions always end in nomenclature
We often ask "what are we"?
We fail to understand that the precious "we" ends at the sound of "it is over"
So what's the point?
We really don't need to call it a name.


Let's go on dates; Let's take pictures.
Let's chat till night; Let's meet more friends
Let's know ourselves; Let's hold our hands
Let's play by the beach, Let's keep our secrets
Say no word to papa , Say no word to mama
Ignore the JAMB questions "are you dating"
Be by each other and fall in love each day
For real, what's the difference??
We really don't have to call it a name.


Let's go nights out, let's eat pizza
Let's make a play list and play our favourite songs
Let's watch sunsets and moonlight
Let's go shopping and take flights
Let's tackle and solves life's riddles
Let's be there to always support eachother
I still cant see a difference
So we really don't have to call it a name.


It is almost impossible this way-
To lose touch and fall out of love.
Cause the anticipation never gets boring as you have nothing to hold as stake.
You keep missing and wanting and needing
Till the day he's ready to go on his kneels, pull out the ring, get a yes and get a name.
But for now, we really don't have to call it a name

"What-are-we" is overrated


Agree or disagree??

Extracted from ERICADIANAS BLOG

http://www.ericadianas.com/2016/09/why-you-shouldnt-be-dating.html?m=1

Countrygirl:
Dark guys rock

Laveda:
just one thing comes to mind when I see a very light skinned dude.

Cc: Jeffreyjamez.

thecatch:
For Me fair dudes aren't my type. It's a total turn off for me...it just doesn't give me the vibes

dovelike:

VampireeM:
Nigeria will be sold soonst by APC govt! The ones that were sold already what was the outcome? Most of these polithievicians and billionaires have already positioned themselves to buy and enrich their generations! Nigeria would be like Esau who sold his birthright for a plate of pottage!

FG should start by selling the presidential air fleets and reduction of politicians salaries and scrapping of most their allowance!

What happens after the proceed from the sales have been squandered and we ve nothing else to sell?

Incompetent Economic team headed by figure heads who doesnt even know the rudiments of Economics

dovelike:
It is my birthday today. I am so grateful to God and my family.

I decided to advertise for customink a little .
Happy birthday to all September born!!!!!!!
And those sharing the same birthday with me
Long life and happiness is our portion!!