₦airaland Forum

UnabashedIPOB:
Your country has NEVER been UNITED and will NEVER be! Let's be honest with ourselves for once. WE HATE and despise each other and are always "at daggers-drawn!" Is that how a united people act? Absolutely NOT! So, let's break up the damn contraption and let everyone go their separate ways. The people would be better "separate and alive "than "together and dead!" A word is enough for the wise.

Yugoslavia, Czechoslovakia, BREXIT, USSR to mention a few had filks who shared a lot in common from ancestry, culture, beliefs and world view to language and dialects still separated. How much more should so-called countries pretending to be nations in Africa which are mere geographic carvings partitioned into existence by through European imperialist. Nigeria is an expired colonial cage where only fools accept that idemtity, all these suffer heads and their oppressors in govt. either have their ilks and children schooling in the best schools/uni abroad but expect everyone to accept the retrogression this failed state unleashes from one useless administration to another. An amlagalm of incompatible ethnic nationalities cramped to live as one under a pseudo identity. Is that how European ethnographic nations emerged. See, I have stopped blaming the oppressors who have no clue about governance but always force themselves in govt to continue the perpetuation of an unnceasing onslaught of economic hardship on the brain dead populace who are incapable of sitting down and think for a second how is anyone actually a Nigerian. If any one was, in the true meaning of actual citizenry, shouldn't the law and constitution supersede all where impunity dare not reign, wouldn't human rights violation cease if not minimal, japa-syndrome wouldn't even appeal to anyone, but what does exist... Confused so-called leaders leading confused masses in a lost and confused territory as all kinds of parasitic parties keep knocking in themselves in to fulfil whatever the porous system permits their sinister agenda to happen, from social vampires like the so many Ponzi schemers preying on the impoveriehee masses to various versions of jihadists and marauders laying waste to all that stands on their path, to the economic assassins from the West doing their own thing covertly, to the greedy telcos, suffocated banks suffocating people etc. It's just a living hell out here. And the people continue build up resilience, soaking in the hardship at the detriment of their mental and physical welfare. I'm not spared. 99% the fools screaming one Nigeria on this forum are coded Japa-nese who at the slightest opportunity would board the next plane to go live overseas. How they can't imagine actualizing those things that attracts them away to go slave away in other nations been done in an ethnolinguistic homogenous nations of theirs continue to beats me.

Proudlyngwa:
Iranians are not Arabs and had nothing to do with African slaves

My bad I thought Iranians are Arachnids!
Like I don't know.
Whose ideopolitical extremism wrapped as a religion (of peace) do the folks in Pakistan, Indonesia, Afghanistan, Malaysia, Somalia etc practice? Is it that which originated from the Arabian or Arachnid people?

When the popularity of certain movie soared with success in 2007 and onwards, the backlash from the Arab world condemned it as yet another representation of the West triumphing over Islam, but ofourse the flick wasn't about no damn Arabs but same Persian who are majorly of present day Iran.

You left the core message in my post and picked out a pointless thing, instead of telling fellow Africans here not to take sides with neither the folks of the middle-east ans Arabia and the Jews (Israelis) who aren't Christians and do not want have anything to do with that Roman ideopolitical fabrication presented as a religion to brainwashed fools the world over looking up to a sky daddy.

While it's easy for you to point out Iranians and Turks are not Arabs I bet you're one of those who ignorantly accept the meaningless identity an European couple labelled folks who share nothing in common as 'Nigerians' all just with a pen on a piece of paper.

Equity15:
when will you people understand that Israel is not a Christian nation? There are infact more Muslims in Israel than christians.Na only Una for Nigeria dey use religious eye look this thing.

How would you expect colonized mindset to understand that ? They simply can not reason beyond those two Abrahamic religions contrived by the Romans. It has done more than melting their brains from seeing the big picture of the world. Everything to them is Christian vs Islam.

muyico:
Hausa man no understand this

Stop denigrating the Hausa people, Bala Mohammed the incarcerated atheist knows all these and more. It will shock you that their intelligent ones are more smarter and rationale than many of the so-called educated dweebs in the South.

Ningishzida:
World War 3 is about to begin.

The previous World Wars were Wars that started because as a latecomer in the struggle for African Colonies, Germany had to settle for just four territories, called “protectorates,” in Africa: Togo and Cameroon in the west, German Southwest Africa (today's Namibia), and German East Africa (today's Tanzania, Rwanda, and Burundi) in the east. This made Germany angry at the UK for taking the Lions share. Yet, our forefathers were the ones who still went to fight for their Colonizers out of ignorance.

Please African Leaders, learn from history and stay out of this war, let the Colonizers destroy themselves.
Fighting for any of them won't make them respect or see us as Africans as equal Humans. We need to use this opportunity to rearrange our Continent and destroy the Quack Countries that these Colonizers created to make it easy for them to divide and rule us due to our different Culture and Traditions.

Thank goodness, someone finally get it.

Been my point for years now.
They have their own homogenous nations in Europe with their ethnic names prefixed to mark their sovereign land eg Poland, England, Deutscheland, Ireland, Scotland etc but partitioned Africa into economic troughs where heterogeneous lumpings of incompatible ethnicities are jumbled together with an impossible expectation to live and progresa together as one.

How stewpid.

Unfortunately, the people appears to be irredeemably in love with to the pseudo identities these expired colonial carvings are labelled as.

It's a solid opportunity but the western puppets ruling these colonial carvings are hellbent on fulfils their selfish perosnal interest.

Ps
Just imagine e-diots taking side on this thread, when they should be spitting on the two of them, they ignorantly support Israel based on their Christian leaning connection with the greatest book of lies - the Bible. And the African muslim converts supporting the other. Africans mumu can never be beaten. Two Semitic race, Jews and Arabs that partook in the enslavements of Africans for centuries.

Did untold evil to Africans as much as the Caucasians did. Yet f00lish in majority are taking one side against the other. Chai!

Donire:
His right, i have a girlfriend in lagos that If i sleep with her, that day I dey play bet. I fit use 100naira cash out 500k. But she dey run from me. Na money i dey even use wyne her make she come over. If i dey get her on steady , i for don buy nigeria and still get change. But her shakara for me no be hear. This i have tested not once and not twice, i bought my car 6million from 200k stack on bet wey i knack her . I no dey bet. But once she step into my flat, bros i dey pick game randomly, na sure bet. I fit even play Luton town to beat man city. If e no enter call me . The problem she dey run from Me, i fit even send her 100k with flight ticket make she show, she go later pop up excuse, not once not twice. More over i don't reside in lagos. Money wey she don gulp from me fit enter 2million. Yet she dey run from me. I don't know if other guys too observe that with her, but she dey waka waka well well.

Oga calm down.
What many of you don't realize is that...

Some other dude like you would have a different experience to yours with that very same babe.

Point been...

Her aura/spiritual configuration interlocks with yours, that is 'compatible'. But you're only interested in completing the application of your essence by taping hers, which very unfair. . But if you fail to arrest her yo be yours and make her yours, allowing her to junket around different dudes, she may eventually get contaminated and give you your share of the contamination. S3X is more than what's meets the eyes, brain and pleasure. Be wise.

olisaEze:
The global economy has still not recovered from the invasion of Ukraine by Russia. Another direct conflict in the Middle East, which incidentally is a major energy supplier to the world might just herald another global recession if more countries follow. How this affects our economy should be the first priority, not religion.

The global economy you say. But the question is why should be - why is the global economy tethered to these industrial prowess of these warmongers; USA, USSR, and volatile Middle East? How does this affect Nigeria economy you worry. But when has economy impacted on the general welfare of Nigerians, be it as it has? Nigeria doesn't bear any significance in the large scheme of geopolitical conflicts. Nigeria, an expired mere geographic contraption, is a colonial creation by European bloc to serve their neo-colonial interest, like most of all Africa so-called countries. Know this and know peace.

LegendHero:
Truly e get as e be.

But we will still understand what’s going on.

E no get as e be.
Bunch of folks want to topple, na so dem do dey do am. Come on.
It would be easier for a pig to grow wings and fly for that to occur.

Everything.

Ludicrous titles.

Concepts are unoriginal.

Cinematography is kitschy.

Directing lacks genuineness.

Stories are redundant and overdone.

Predictable progression.

Casting is banal.

Plots are bland; it is inside Nigeria flicks you'd be led on by a plot, only for that plot to land you under another sub-plot and on and on till it's all endless.

The list is endless.

Shout out to the real OGs who understands filmmaking in the person of Tuned Kilani, Trade Ogidan and Hubert Ogunde.

gidgiddy:
Same tactics they use against IPOB. Arrest some people, parade them with planted flag, guns, bullets. Issue a statement about how "our gallant troops caught terrorists", and watch foolish people believe the story without question

They never tell how they managed to overwhelm highly sophisticated armed people so easily,without suffering any casualties. They never tell you details of the gun battle

It is so easy to fool the average Nigerian these days, so easy

How people can be foolish enough to believe this false propaganda by the Nigerian security forces is beyond me

Don't sweat it bro!
Nairaland is filled with reasonable/rational folks as well as gullible and embittered souls. The latter are the ones who comments 95% of the time. The former just read, sieve the lies and truth from a posted news. Digest it and move on.

LegendHero:
What are they even thinking?

You want to start your agitation and na governor office be the first target for you?

These comrades have lost it. Is this a comedy?

Bro does that report sound like it's even remotely possible, it reeks of all the elements of a stitch up!

Women are simply just ineffable.

Eunoiaa:
At the end of the day, he who is the piper plays the tune. (I am loving this phrase so much nowadays, and find it aptly justifying for so many things). Only a person can/will decide whoever they want to go for as they so wish, inspite of you and I's misgivings.


By the way, the word is eunoia; it's Greek. I don't know if it's a Nigerian thing that's making y'all think it's some adulterated or refined version of 'Eniola' or 'Niola.'

It's not a phrase. The correct adage is "he who pays the piper dictates the tune" and I knew the instant you stomp on that thread that your handle was Greek but unsure if you was, did you drowned in their mythologies like I once did

helinues:
Can one really be happy with oneself all the time not to talk of others? Should you replace your own self just because you are not happy with whatever the situation might be.

I doubt if up to 30% of people have ever experienced what true love is before, True love is as scarce as being rich.

It's only those who have not experienced what true love really mean that engage in polygamy because maintaining a woman is not an easy task not to talk of having many.

Anyways, priorities are different in life sha

I'll stop engaging you on this exercise. I have made it a policy to ignore Nigerians who if when one is arguing/discussing about Mortal Kombat then he switches it to Need For Speed, how does one place two entirely different genre on the same basis to draw point.
The topic is about matrimony, a life-long commitment to either if one or two/more is better, you switched it to cheating, then to true love and finally life priority are different. Like wtf!

Discussing wild/big cats with someone, diverted it to politics, we got there, still pointless submissions, then digressed it to religion, again empty talks, the next thing that came out was "some people waste their time learn nonsense".

Kobicove:
This is true, a man can have multiple women with mutual consent

Truth is - it's possible but very hard. Once you tell those women 'poly' you won't even finish the 'gammy' unless perhaps you're an Elon Musk or Dangote which in itself wouldn't be based on legitimate affection on her side but the wealth. Provided one is stinking rich, advantage and merit-wise polygamy trumps everything monogamy pretends to offer except for just one issue and that's the only problem I can't figure a solution around since it's a physio-anatomical one.

helinues:
You are the one trying to derail the thread

Says one whose first comment was...

^{Keeping a lady self na headache on its own not to talk of adding multiple junks.}


The title of the thread asked: 'Men Are You Really Happy With Only One Woman'
That alone elicits scholium from those who has informed opinions on mono/poly couples who have shared their experiences. Not solidum about why anyone should cheat. Worse is your cheating diversion of the topic had no center point. Were you statint it within a matrimonial settings or pre-marital one like you cheaters do in relationships.

helinues:
Polygamy in a relationship is that not cheating?

No guy, it's not the same.
Firstly, understand that maritalship is different from relationship so stop miscontruing one for the other. So to address that faulty statement - Polygamy can not exist in a relationship. Their are suitable for words for when you cheat on your partner with another in a relationship and it isn't called polygamy. Words like womanizer, lothario, philanderer. It is why I initially said folks tend to conflate promiscuity with polygamy as they imagine polygamy to be a legitimate excuse to indulge in wanton and unchecked sexual carnage like a rabid dog with no collar chain. In actuality, it is monogamy that breeds such tendencies for a hundred and one reasons I can itemize.

I don't expect you who called wifeable women "junks" to understand my points.

helinues:
In order to be able to cheat successfully, you must be a chronic liar, irrespective of gender

The OP never used the word cheat nor did he/she made his musing about how to cheat successfully in a relationship. Go and re-read it again. He mention the term 'polygamy'. I surmised he needed to know what the opinionated ones think of a contrast between mono and poly marriages.

helinues:
Keeping a lady self na headache on its own not to talk of adding multiple junks.

In order to be able to cheat successfully, you must be a chronic liar, irrespective of gender

was this topic / thread titled
How To Successfully Get Away With Cheating?
The thread I believe is about "if per eventually, wouldn't polygamy had been the appropriate choice of most who are now unhappy in their monogamous matrimony" and you wouldn't stick to that, you just had to project what monogamist hypocrites do into the topic when it is not about it, from involving justifications of why men cheating to the why the deceptions and lies are warranted.

Eunoiaa:
So who asked for this lecture? What's my concern?


Whether polygamy or promiscuity, if you sha like plenty women, stay loud about it, and be putting it on the table early.

How does clarifying a misconception suddenly became a lecture. I don't care about your concern nor should you about mine. This is a forum for any readers to air their views and opinion not a lecture class.

I agree that men should let it be known from the onset to a potential partner rather than placing a burden on them after the effect unannounced prior to.

Whatever you meant about 'stay loud about' only makes sense to you.

Eunoiaa:
Not if he's honest about his polygamous tendencies.

Polygamy is not a tendency.
It's also a commitment too.
An uneasy one that requires dedication.
You fell for the cognitive error laced in helinues faulty argument to have misconstrue polygamy with promiscuity as do most women and by undiscerning men.

Polygamy is more like a life-long Titanic project one has to sail without hitting any iceberg, but which has more advantages, reward and merits than the codes disaster called monogamy. Howevee, I don't recommend polygamy in this modern world to a man who is not opulent. In fact I think all rich men should be polygamists and not live a life of pretence where "na-only-me-and-ny-wife" Is constantly faked.

Not to digress..

Polygamy inhibits a proclivity to go dog-mode!
Monogamy aka nuclear bomb family demands commitment, faithfulness and loyalty from vows taken, even prenups! But men prefer it as it gives leeway to cheat and do all sorts.

In yesterday's world (ancient), where there isn't capital (monetary funds, assets, investment, stocks, bonds etc) wherein only the amount of environmental resources a man's labour can muster dictates the number of women he can wives if he so chooses, was when even nuclear was supposed to be practiced. But instead polygamy was the default, while monogamy was a choice. But in today's world world where the wherewithall to maintain a normal relationship is directly expensive on the standard of living considered as standard in that society else would be judged as less of a man, in a world where capitalism is been practiced both brutally and viciously with no consequential regards to humanity.

Monogamy should stop been the standard of any given society as it's not only built on the hypocrisy of men but also work hand in hand to empower spouse who can't shed off promiscuousness,

Most women in their selfish thoughts and parochial way of viewing things often tend to conflate polygamy with promiscuity. Polygamy curbs, if not eliminate promiscuity while monogamy Bo only aids it, enables all factors that warrant it.

If one man marries one woman, who married the remaining rest? They are the ones who lures and entice the married men.

All this issues should be blamed on the menfolk. Men are responsibile for ruining everything.

I have a lot analysis to share on this, but ain't got the strength now.

Ps.
One thing I have always disliked men/guys doing is - after going about destroying girls/ladies in their young sexually active life, introducing them to vices, and badly things or by demanding such from them in order to fulfil a puerile fantasy they will outgrow as they mature, when ready to settle down and start a family, they now not only complain and weep around about the scarcity of decent, tight, up-right, non-wayward girls/ladies who aren't b1tchy, but forgot that they contribute to their making.

I think Nigerian men sometimes are fundamentally sick!

The Tinder Swindler is documentary based movie adapted from this report.

Holluwhakemmy:
definitely I will

I trust you would.
Don't you know they share the same family with the scorpion? Scorpion if the venom can be extracted into a certain amount cost millions but mosquitoes that murdered millions yearly can't be monetized nor beneficial to mankind's yet humans are more afraid of scorpions and snakes.

Holluwhakemmy:
did justice to it now

Justice ni ko ko...
Justice League ni.
If I buy you better shrimp or lobster wey dem grill well well, you no go chop?

elonize:
na crypto cos am😏

I laugh in Shao Khan voice "Don't make me laugh" 😄

Testiebobo:
Omo 😯 see the big scorpion that died in my bucket ☠️. I just woke up from afternoon nap, and I wanted to take shower and saw this.
Photo🔽 the Lord is my shepherd 😅

Werey...
The Lord is your shepherd. Then you're the sheep. Something wey chinkos dem dey chop.
If you extract the venom, u don blow. Dem see bat, ha na devil send am, una see civet na kill, cat na kill, antelope na kill, Lord is my strength. Una see owl, na witch, na to kill. Everything kill kill kill.

Same scorpion wey oyinbo turn am to Mortal Kombat character take dey make billions, e reach una turn... The Lord is your strength.

Holluwhakemmy:
Hmmmn that was how I saw one beside my mattress

What did you do?
Dont tell me you screamed Blood of Jesus!

twosquare:
Soon, you will.

How so.

Yugoslavia247:
The northerners in UK are ballers.

They live their dream lives there with all freedom

When they get back na politics straight.

Their parents use their children for money laundering

Next are the drug dealers from Asia.

They come to UK to flex

Another sets are the fraudsters who defraud and provide aza. Those ones provide transatlantic accounts for per entages.

Another are the bitcoin scam lords. This ones create coins and turn it to shit

Another set is the kidnappers in Nigeria. They are scared to spend the money here.

When they get there they spend.

Another set is the pastors who scam their worshippers here.

Another is real estate companies. The land you buy today that will be an issue in 10 years time. They syndicate are inclusive of govt officials.

Another is the ritualist.

Then we have the gamblers. Who gamble with high stakes.

And one would be wondering if a country that churns out these beings of perfidy can ever produce those whose minds are as bright as Gates, Einstein, Musk, Nikola Tesla etc.
On another thread, bunch of "big boys" We're flaunting a device made by teens in South Korea!
The yoots have found grace in the sermons of Shallipoo, A Very Dark Mind, and what have you.

Omo Armageddon sef would ignore this earth because of Nigeria alone. 😂😂😂

omofeyi:
Creepy, i just imagined seeing this in my bedroom

Just shout Blood of Jesus. It will vanish.

omofeyi:
Nice list.

Why don't you listen to some good ol rock music?

I'm not into crypto so I don't care.
Never liked that technology.
But can anyone make it make sense.
Reports says the Naira keep appreciating to the dollar but cost of purchasables aren't even stagnating, they are going up.

JooEeL:
We cant build a single fone yet but are proud to be saying 'big boys'...

So the guys that manufacture these things, how should they now term themselves??

Blacks are just stupid, and they take time to recognise their stupidity. This is what gets on my nerves.

I say ordinary toothpick Nigerians import it in.
The other day I saw a video of properly parkaged charcoals product for teeth whitening in UK stores. Politicians no go reason that one make dem create factory employ boys dey arrange dey do make we dey export, employment go dey, forex go enter, na to dey build/buy billion dollar house upanda and service expensive courtesans dem sabi.

kingbee90:
How was your younger sister able to afford 14 pro max & she doesn't pay bills?

I hope it is not what ayam thinking.....

How is it your business how she can afford it, whatever you're thinking should also tell you that while some are into the Nigeria version of hook up, some are knee deep into Only Fans, while others are making helluva cash off tech. For as long as she is earning it and not swallowing some sinator for N5M per month allowance, who is to judge?

TriCee:
Maybe you should reason from another angle. This could be a subtle advert, since one of them seated is a Samsung ambassador.

Then talking about achievement, [b]they don't need to show off a phone that has a very minimal percentage to their net worths. [/b]These are actually CEOs.

At bolded, which of the following best describe the act been demonstrated in the video with Samsung Fold

A. Marketing
B. Showing off
C. Exhibiting
D. Presenting

Unless you don't live in Nigeria. You won't understand how the rich flaunt material things to impress intimidate other folks

reciprokal:
na only black people naim get this kind wretched mentality.

This is how poor people show wealth. Sick destitutes.

I just watched the video now and I was giggling. Chai!
It's even the Kiss Daniel music playing thats annoying. No offense to the artist, but why sing about 'My G, you don't have money'. In real Yoruba value and ethics. Money is not the priority. But now that we are all swallowed in this capitalistic world of material chasm. It's a whacky race, and many with no proper orientation would bloodied their hands just to that cash. It's insane. On a norms, say 1$ was N25.38K (twenty five naira thirty eight Kobo). How much would an iPhone 15pro max or Samsung Fold cost in Naira ? Flagship phones among many other importables would have this icon of exorbitant associated mentally to the rich in Nigeria.

Factfinder1:
Low self esteem

Poverty mentality.

Having money doesn't make you rich.

Wealth is of the mind

How many of our so called rich, elites, big men and women has genuinely ever done something innovative or used their billions to invent paradigm shifting formulae or technology/medical solution. All they know is blight consumerism, gloat in their materialistic wealth, flaunting of exquisite cars with components that has to be imported if it's due for replacement, and thats the mentality they have instilled on the youths from Millenials to GenZs. Anything to keep that class struggle ever apart.

Yeah, some may argue it is the same in abroad, but what they always forget to note is that - in that same abroad, their people are relatively well off as their are numerous programs made available by their government for their citizens to utilize in order to achieve anything or purchase anything, so who wan dey intimidate who?

nairalanda1:
And in ten years the phone would be obsolete like the dinosaur

It may not even be up to ten years self

Ten years bawo!
Have you heard of the Nothing phone before. That's class. I'd prefer a Sony Xperia 1V because its more than practical for cinematographic usage and adaptable for other purposes. Imagine how so called big boys carrying a cumbersome gadget with a screen the size of a Platypus head. I had to go dump my Samsung tablet as it's just heavy to manoeuvre when layed back.

inoki247:
Lol make Dem rest there are other brand with Fold wey cost pass this Dem don use Google Pixel Fold before...


The Love for showoff this days even adult wey suppose dey correct the little ones are not left out...

Have seen someone with Torchlight phone richer than who has 1.5m phone...

Exactly. There are several billionaires in dollars who don't see the need to be in possession of these smartphones made mostly for geeks. But in a colonized carving like Nigeria, it is a symbol of status where only 5℅ of it complete function is only been harnessed.