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Properties / Re: Sold by yemisolar(m): 6:26pm On Feb 09
You didn't put your phone number

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by yemisolar(m): 7:44am On Jan 30, 2023
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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by yemisolar(m): 3:22pm On Jul 23, 2022
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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by yemisolar(m): 10:46pm On Jul 02, 2022
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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by yemisolar(m): 8:19pm On Sep 19, 2021
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Still available

Your number is switched off
Health / Re: I Want To Get Ciprotab And Colamar Pls Help Me by yemisolar(m): 3:04pm On Sep 11, 2021
Got a phone number?

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Family / Re: No One Want To Help Me by yemisolar(m): 3:03pm On Sep 11, 2021
Got a phone number?
Car Talk / Re: Has Any One Ever Purchased A Vehicle From Owode Market? Share Your Experience by yemisolar(m): 4:01pm On Aug 21, 2021
TPound:
Good evening fam

@ Tpound

I think instead of calling it quit what you need to do is change your business model.

You have a good understanding of the terrain and that alone is capital.

All you need do is create an upfront charge that will cover your logistics. The cost can be deducted from the eventually commission if the business sails through if not you won't be at a loss.

You will loose some business at a start but after a while people will know you for that and patronize you based on your agreement.

That also will give your the opportunity to weed out unserious people and use your time for productive ventures.

You already have good testimonials and that will always count in your Favour.

God bless

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Car Talk / Re: Gazzuzz: Dubious, Insultive And An Arrogant Being by yemisolar(m): 10:02pm On Nov 21, 2020
@op Pls let's be mature and settle this like adults.

I am in the service industry too and these things happen.

220k is a lot of money but I believe we can always make out points without this much insults and negativity

I have known Gazuz for over 5 years. He is one of the most trusted and dependable guys i know online and offline.

Pls calm down and let reason pevail

Cheers.

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Celebrities / Re: Chacha Eke Pregnant With 4th Child, Says That's Reason For Her Bipolar Disorder by yemisolar(m): 7:16pm On Oct 13, 2020
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Autos / Re: Buy & Ship New Parts For All Make Of Vehicles From The USA|Nationwide Delivery. by yemisolar(m): 8:39pm On Sep 08, 2020
Gimporters:


Thank you for reaching out to us. N43,470 will deliver it to you in Lagos while an additional fee to a location outside Lagos.

So how do we proceed?
Autos / Re: Buy & Ship New Parts For All Make Of Vehicles From The USA|Nationwide Delivery. by yemisolar(m): 8:23pm On Sep 07, 2020
https://www.ebay.com/itm/Power-Steering-Pump-For-2003-10-Toyota-4Runner-Sienna-FJ-Cruiser-3-5L-4-0L-DOHC/254687274004?_trkparms=ispr%3D1&hash=item3b4c8b6414:g:XYoAAOSwOxBfNilo&amdata=enc%3AAQAFAAACgBaobrjLl8XobRIiIML1V4Imu%252Fn%252BzU5L90Z278x5ickkrDx%252B2NLp21dg6hHbHAkGMVWZRxzRDnrKAvhUCJAG7JDNj7uEV%252Bc6Rkh%252FzPdHRxWfJxegEQNqyckWTSZWb1MAywNF9WzA3vwJy5IhmoYHKH6CU9Z7nYE686qTLl1r7lqkuh7XfUFyS9GQV9p5JZIa8%252F8U77bKNjg%252FBF5DR9WXqaslsqW%252BoyFy5CJYkUQFQfQy0FV5ANWRjfO1FywcQE1l6lWnF0cUqFHT2U4uvVpTjxBGM73QulIV%252BqrbYJFj3K53s1cnCdJvPsOWPjm9FSGOO8adQ9w7lBcqYiGqEGVyEAx2ERXFT7I%252FKe39nB92c9nV%252BeDJY8lLhBnrKqiwHw8TKNDdRPAP%252FjhTISAJ8X8RejZbhJ0qODMLSUzCmRt5c0udck9gkjoU%252FRXkUaOFkaDdUvYMkpTRBUryAulDlO%252ByRDFuFgCBcm9OOzDk36nRKd6FuOh7HBP%252BDtYk7rfuihjZW2YEzAQEbwiOLzAGqcBKgzC4%252BdZM6g18J8xOjHQupaRhY99sH9TpJJPXPnh3cImkno13dIV71h8YN8ZB4WajlyhBJxsVzEOno0hDgcxtTvE6m9Jcnw1B3LwNWRDDXySTvpIvmnTidGkW%252BF%252F%252BK0KOjJ50%252Bx%252FjcVFvXe628qXzQKNen0yIhpQz5%252FsRhXqdooUBGZFEP0PMozpst29NVmpkvEFCnZyZ3xbdguKt0DouV3jLExeyiIn1C2D3ZnnMnSBk469nvB7G4RWJPBl0UxdwgsVSvIilgTGly8RcrtwhjU0g%252FugeH%252BRzF%252FQu3qtGUemeTwqoeazUgi8%252FbWUQYR6sWgo%253D%7Ccksum%3A25468727400456cefd0b090740b5a84ee7640cfc1841%7Campid%3APL_CLK%7Cclp%3A2334524


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Family / Re: Where Would You Prefer To Bury Your Aged Parents After Death? by yemisolar(m): 7:04pm On Jul 31, 2020
From my little knowledge, I will try to answer some of the points/questions raised by @ seyi360

1) that dead bodies are exhumed and used for rituals is purely a demonic purpose - the body being remains/remnants of someone who has crossed over from one sphere to another - and nothing to do with the person who has crossed (died).

2) on the fight between the devil and the archangel Micheal, it was because Moses didn't really die in that sense. As a matter of fact they were only three in the old testament who didn't die - the others being Enoch and Elijah. The didn't go into sheol like everyone who lived and died.

That was why it was Moses alongside Elijah that appeared to Jesus on the mountain of transfiguration.

The fight was that the devil wanted to take custody of his body like every other dead but the archangel had to rebuke Satan and take his body to heaven.

This is a public forum so let me hang that there.

3) Joseph told the Israelite to take his bones away from Egypt was part of the tradition among the jews in which they always wanted to be buried close to their kinsmen in their land and nothing to do with resurrection.

There was little or not knowledge of resurrection in the old testament.

4) the Bible didn't say there was holes in Jesus's hands. Jesus told Thomas to put his hands in his (Jesus) hands and on his side. Obviously, the scar was there and it had healed. Otherwise it would still have been painful as it was only a week after the crucifixion.

His bone was not broken because the prophecy had to be fulfilled. But if it had been broken, it would have been healed and restored in the resurrected body.

5) the saying 'until the dead is buried their soul is yet to rest' is an African saying. It is not in the Bible.

What the Bible says is that once a person dies he /she moves to his/her destination waiting for the resurrection which will be in two phases by the way.

Again this is a public forum and let's hand that in there.

6) Joseph of arimathea was a rich man, a politician if you would call him today who had had personal friendship with pilate. Being a secret follower, he used his connection to get Jesus' body to be buried in the tomb he had carved for his own burial - it was customary for rich men to have their Graves carved in their lifetime - and not a necessarily a 'secure' location.

All these had little or nothing to do with His resurrected body.


What the Bible says about resurrection is that the corruptible will put on incorruptible and mortality will put on immortality. The body we will have at resurrection will look the same in appearance but not the same in content.
For instance the body we will have will have no blood. Will be able to eat but will not get hungry.

For the final time, this is a public forum and let me hand it there.

Back to the question, everything about burial is for the living; to achieve closure and have good memories. But as far as the dead are concerned, you could chop their bodies into pieces or even cremate them, their souls are gone and will put on a new incorruptible body in resurrection the day.

The question is : will it be in heaven or hell.
Family / Re: I am Fraustrated. I Can't Continue Like This by yemisolar(m): 7:49am On Jul 29, 2020
It is good that people are coming out to assist. But that is not the final solution. You need to get a skill or learn something to equip you for a descent livelihood.

For a start you can contact the parents of the parents of the children you teach and ask if any of them will be interested in lessons for the children. Even if it is daycare you can start somewhere.

I know teachers that are earning more during this covid time than when they were employed.it's all about being entrepreneurial

Think out of the box and things Will l work out
Family / Re: Every Thing Is All Vanity by yemisolar(m): 12:18am On Apr 29, 2020
I will like to apologise for my harsh words here.

If na death/ suicide dey tempt you pls go ahead and you don't need to create another thread for that purpose.

Welcome to the real world. Life is all about 'struggles:. The problem is that you think your next door neighbour is having it good until you get close to him/ her and realise that the grass is not really greener on the other side.

You know being poor affords the illusion that all your problems can be solved with money.
If you think the dangote's and otedola's do not have their own stuggles you will need to think again. And guess what - their problems are problems that money cannot solve.


About Nigeria killing dreams: it's a convenient excuse for every Nigerian but guess what, in this same Nigeria people are grinding out success through sheer grit and determination without stealing anyone's money.

In this country people are buying cars, lands and houses through pure hard work. You can join them learn the ropes (and the knocks) until your break comes or sit and whine like millions of others who are going nowhere.


Look for something you are passionate about THAT PEOPLE WIL PAY MONEY FOR pursue it have faith and with time your Hustle will begin to pay.


Have a focus, look for mentors, read, read, read.

Look at what is working in your life and draw encouragement from it. Leave Nigeria alone with it's problems.

I know This is a faceles forum and I apologise for my choice of words.

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Agriculture / Re: How To Start A Business About Peanut Butter? by yemisolar(m): 8:48pm On Feb 16, 2020
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Satellite TV Technology / Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by yemisolar(m): 4:09pm On Jan 26, 2020
ojtech8291:
Good day everyone, please where can I get 12kw/48v 3phase Hybrid Inverter? Thank you all.

You can contact me in my signature or drop your number
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by yemisolar(m): 4:39pm On Nov 30, 2019
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Sewing machine


Slightly used up for grabs...

How much
Family / Re: What Is The Purpose Of Abstinence From Sex? Pls by yemisolar(m): 3:26pm On Nov 25, 2019
You need to have your own personal reasons for not engaging in premarital sex.

YOUR OWN REASONS

Not because someone said so or your parents expect you to. It's not only about marrying a virgin or not. Being a virgin is not the only thing that makes a marriage work.

Being a virgin however helps trust in a marriage. Someone who can keep himself/herself in this depraved world shows signs of discipline.

Also, you need to Know that not everyone is having premarital sex. Those who do are only louder than those who don't. People still keep themselves before marriage.

The key to staying celibate even in a relationship is to court someone who believes the same thing. There will be moments of temptations but the two of you are not likely to loose it at the same time.

Don't let anyone make you feel as if you are loosing out on life. The truth is what you are loosing out on is STD's, unnecessary heartbreaks, unwanted pregnancy, abortion, children out of wedlock, unplanned extended family, baby mama troubles and a backlog if comparison which increases your temptation to fall into infidelity.


I wish you best of luck
Family / Re: .. by yemisolar(m): 3:04pm On Nov 25, 2019
Skyfornia:
You have toilet infection and you are here worried about your boyfriend instead of getting treatment?

Who cursed these young people of nowadays?

This cracked me up.

Na real curse.

She lives with him, sleeps with him, has an infection and all she cares about is his trust.

If someone can 'fiancee' you for 4 good years and cannot gather 20k for court wedding.

Do you need the will get people to write letter to you that you are a baby mama in the making?

I tire o my brother.
Satellite TV Technology / Re: FTA Live Football Matches Announcement Thread by yemisolar(m): 7:13pm On Nov 15, 2019
Any hope for nig vs south africa match?
Satellite TV Technology / Re: FTA Live Football Matches Announcement Thread by yemisolar(m): 8:23pm On Nov 12, 2019
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Family / Re: Why Do Some Men Reject Their Wife’s Food When They Are Angry? by yemisolar(m): 10:34pm On Nov 04, 2019
Sorry to be blunt but rejecting one's wife's food because one is angry at her is (forgive my use of words) a sign of immaturity.

Some men do it because they want to get back to the wife by letting her waste her time to cook and then decide not to eat. Even these days when it's the maid that cooks they will still not eat. It is akin to burning your money or smashing your phone just because you are angry.

The question is,

Who owns the house (or pays the rent)?
Who owns the food (or drops money for food)?
Who 'owns' the wife (not literally)?
Who owns the anger?

So why will you fight with yourself just because you are angry.

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Family / Re: Please I Need Your Advice by yemisolar(m): 4:00pm On Oct 11, 2019
If the kind of business you do(and that of your wife) is close to your current location, it's best for you to put the idea of relocation on hold.

It doesn't make sense to move to your house in the process of saving yourself rent and starve. Especially if your own place is not well developed yet.

Secondly if mobility is vital to your business then buy another car but if it's not, put the money to revive your business. Through it you will get the ballance for your rent before it becomes due.

Hope this helps
Satellite TV Technology / Re: FTA Live Football Matches Announcement Thread by yemisolar(m): 8:08pm On Oct 03, 2019
Celtiv vs cfr Cluj on lobs tfm on 16 deg east

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Family / Re: My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive by yemisolar(m): 10:56pm On Sep 26, 2019
Eleyi gidi gaan ( this one strong o)

Let's try to take it fact by fact:

Fact#1 is she HIV positive now? YES

Fcat #2 she told you she was pregnant. Did you conduct any test on your own before paying the bride price despite the fact that it must have taken some months before gathering your people and money to do traditional marriage? NO

Fact #3 pregnancy mysteriously disappeared. Did you ask any questions or do any test? NO

Fact#4 she told you that she was to have a C-section because the baby was so small. Did you see or study any of the scan results or at least ask for opinion? NO

But you did research to know that Nevirapine is to stop mother to child transmission of HIV.

Not that I don't believe you, but you need to she'd more light on some aspects of the story.

if she breastfeed the your first son at all and she was positive at the time she would most likely have infected your son.

Also, if she was already infected at that time, it's somewhat inprobable that the tests would have been non reactive after two years during the pregnancy of your second son.

If it is true that's he has been taking antirotroviral drugs for FIVE YEARS. How come you did not notice inspite of your suspicion? It's either she is a great pretender or you are greatly careless and non observant.

I have not said she is right. I am saying you could have handled things in a better way.

Suggestions

Make sure you get 2 or 3 opinions on your (and your sons') HIV status and be sure you are safe.

Secondly,you need to have a heart to heart discussion with her devoid if anger and emotion on the way forward. You will need medical advice if you decide to stay with her.

If you establish that she she actually decided you into the marriage, it is a ground for divorce mainly because you life and that of your son's are at stake here. That changes the equation of things entirely because of the children involved.

Lastly, there is the option of loving forgiving and loving her through it. As wierd as it might sound,she might have not been open because she was afraid of loosing you.
It doesn't make it right but it's a reason. besides, being HIV positive is not a death sentence.

It's a tough one the Lord can lead you through it if you allow Him

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Family / Re: Choosing Lagos Island Or Mainland by yemisolar(m): 6:00pm On Sep 23, 2019
Question is where on the island and mainland do you both work? You can look for a neutral location that is not far from the two.

Also, if you settle on the island- depending on which part- you should be going against traffic on your way to work.

Finally, in the worse case scenario, it is more reasonable for you to be the one to go the farther distance instead of allowing your wife to go through the stress and come back late everyday.

A happy wife is a happy home

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Family / Re: I Want To Be Someone's Mentee Oo!! by yemisolar(m): 12:10pm On Sep 21, 2019
Teaorcoffee:



Business and Career

What stage of life are you in

What are you doing currently

What do you want to do

What type of mentoring do you need
Satellite TV Technology / Re: FTA Live Football Matches Announcement Thread by yemisolar(m): 9:06pm On Sep 18, 2019
Bayern vs zve on 2stv @ 16 deg easy

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Family / Re: I Want To Be Someone's Mentee Oo!! by yemisolar(m): 12:22am On Sep 18, 2019
Teaorcoffee:
Hello beautiful people, I'm seriously in need of a mentor.. I can very unserious with myself sometimes undecided (truth be told) I need someone I can be very accountable to...Male or female plzzz inbox!

Thank you

In what area?

Business, careers, relationship or spiritual?
Family / Re: Choosing The Right Man And Staying Married by yemisolar(m): 6:49pm On Sep 02, 2019
@ op, for a responsible man, it's actually more difficult finding the right person because he is majorly responsible for his actions especially if he intends to stay in the marriage without cheating.

Because there is no perfect human beings anywhere there is no perfect marriage anywhere. Working marriages are just two people who decide to be realistic in their expectations and are committed to making it work.

My dear, if you define 'luck' as preparation meeting opportunity then you are right. But the question is , how many people truly prepare for the institution of marriage? What we see these days is two people start having sex and the lady gets pregnant and the next thing is a rushed wedding ceremony.

Singles do not read, listen to tapes of watch videos that will give them information on how to make marriage work. On one side they will rather stay on Instagram and Facebook achieving nothing. On the other side they will keep praying and and dashing from one vigil to another.

Marriage is the truest test of anyone's character. And it takes commitment and maturity to make it work. Sadly these are not virtues that are extolled today. Even in churches. So men (and I dare say women) who have no good intentions find their way to lure the naive.

Just as you see all manner of adverts on television advertising different products and you choose which one you need, you will always see numerous inbox messages. This is not abnormal.

What you need to do is set your minimum ground rules of deal breakers such as faith, age, education etc (whichever is important to you). This will weed out a good chunk. Then you can begin to look at character flews that you can or can't live with. Also you need a father figure (not necessarily your father) or a male you can trust his judgement to help out. The reason is that there are always blind spots in relationships and you need a trusted eye to see it.

Lastly, there is the God factor, because of our imperfect nature, we need the one with a perfect mind to help you and give the wisdom when the rubber meets the road.

Believe me marriage can be one of the best things that can happen to one. I am a living witness.

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Family / Re: Marriage And Divorce by yemisolar(m): 8:21pm On Aug 22, 2019
Just like life, marriage is not black and white. However this idea of 'falling in love or out of love' is one if the mindsets making marriages break easily.

The truth is that 'love' as you have put it is not enough to sustain a marriage. There should be a commitment to from the two parties to make it work.

Also, saying that marriage is not for everyone is like saying being rich/prosperous is not for everyone. The question will be, can everyone be rich? The answer is yes. But will everyone one be rich? The answer is no.

My point is every one CAN be married and have a good marriage but it's not everyone that WILL be married and have a good marriage. Why, due to myriad of factors. About 20% is outside the individual's control but 80% is within his/her control.

For me, two things are the deal breakers: consistent infidelity and violence because they can both lead to loss of life. Every other issue can be discussed and compromise reached. Most times one or the two parties are too egoistic or foolish to come down from the high horse and settle things. As a matter of fact, we will have better marriages if people put as much effort into their marriage as they put to their jobs/careers.

In conclusion, marriages are toxic because the people in it made it toxic. Usually in a bad marriage the blame is enough to go round. There is a possibility that the person who labelled the marriage as toxic contributed a part of the poison. While divorce is not death, it should not be on the top of the list. Be realistic in your expectations and determine to make it work and pray for Grace to give it all it takes.

Yes I'm married.... 11 years and still counting

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