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@op, I dont know your wife or how intellectually sounds she is, but I can tell you some women are like that, not that they are wicked or stingy with their money but simply cant think fast to provide a solution to solve immediate problem. The funny thing is that, she might not even think that way at that moment, since she is used to being giving everything needed by you. The fact that she used to buy you something whenever she went out is enough to tell you she might not do it intentionally.

Next time, you simply ask her about the money in her account and commands her to withdraw some for the family until pay her back the next day.

No matter what you do as an employer, employees will surely leave anytime they see better offer. It is all about comfort and pays for Nigerians.

Moving from Real Madrid to Juventus really cost him the award as Madric caucus and Pereq vow to deal with him. It was a pure robbery from those who voted for Modric ahead of a deserved winner Cr7.

needsansa:
I'll cut the long story short.

I met this girl sometimes in 2018. She was living with her aunt who was not being nice, and early 2020 she returned to her mom. Im fact it was so terrible that and she survived several abuses from her aunt's husband, which she told me. I was actually the main force behind her eventual liberation and relocation to her mom. We've been together all through.

Then, mid this year, things went rough with her mom, and the poor woman returned to the village. Then she landed with this family friend of theirs(not related, but their mothers are old friends). This family lives a stone throw to her mom's place.

She's told me before she joined this family how their last son was troubling her for a date, but she has been refusing. Then mid this year she moves in with same family. It is a family of 3 boys. She would always be the one cooking for the family. Sometimes, she would have to cook and wash for the same boy and take food it to his house (which is a short distance from d family house). It did not stop there, anytime they are broke, the mother would send her to go and beg the same guy for money (teasing her that she has a way of collecting money from her son).

If I had d means I'd have also gotten an apartment so we could have more time together, but things neva set..I dey hustle nor be say I lazy, but soon sha God go perfect am.

I know what and what could have happened in all this drama but I want to gear from my agbas in the building - how should I go about this matter. Thank u.

Don't worry u can yab me

HER MOTHER USED TO TEASE HER THAT SHE KNEW HOW TO COLLECT MONEY FROM HER SON.

The above statement in logical sense of it indicates something is going on between your girl and the said guy. The only girl that know how to collect money from a man is the one warming his bed.

Yes, it is very bad to be poor. A poor man is a living dead.

Meanwhile, one thing I have realised in the world is that, prayers dont work but only what you do with your God giving time and resources. What I meant by "resources" is not really material possessions but your innate ability. The power to be successful lies solely on you, and nobody can do that for you but yourself. Even if you were born into wealth, there is a limit to how far you could go in life withiout finding your own path.

@op, now that you are still young, you have every chance to be successful, all you need to do is to get lost and rediscover yourself. If your environment is limiting your chances, pick your bag and move to saner environments. Being educated is an added advantage to you, trust me within 5 years( with discipline) of wandering a strange land where you wont be ashamed of doing whatever you want, your success will surely locate you.

What is really wrong with some people self. Why are we so obsessed with material things? Materials things or money is the last thing I will ever fight, steal or drag with someone in my life.

A woman that will eventually willingly handed over everything to you the moment she see you are not the type that is obsessed with her wealth or properties. Infact, she would be the one begging you to manage it for her.

If fuel price is increase to #450 per litre, the present hunger among the masses will be a child play.

The best option in this kind of situation is to sell off all the properties( except just family building) and share the money.

Not only that, businesses are crumbling, not only because you dont know how to do it, but current economic crisis. Purchasing power is seriously low, while the cost of production keep getting skyrocket.

Bonesbreaker:
We have stupid low mentality young and adult in this forum look at the comments from top and going down you will understand why Nigeria is so fucking messed up how do u have so many stupid people in a country like this and in a public forum kia what obi said is true you may hate him obi but accept the message dammit people

Calm down man, these people are bunch of pathetic heartless leaders. Nigeria politicians only make this kind of statement whenever the odds did not favour them. Buhari did the same in the build up to 2015 general election, so only a gullible soul will believe Peter Obi statement.

The office of first lady is very important to national politics or nation building if well managed, not only in Nigeria but all over the world.

South east leaders and politicians are too self-centred to promote the interests of their region. Infact, SE dont even have any recognized political leader, let alone a charismatic one to be trusted by other regions.

It is Igbo culture, even during colonial era, there was nothing like legitimate political structures over there. Even the warrant chiefs adopted by the then colonial masters failed.

Biafra may seem like a good idea to many Igbos but the reality is that, it wont still work after attaining it because of their culture. No igbo man/community can be control by a single recognised authority, this would eventually creates alot of disunity among tribes and villages.

Justice system does not base on emotions or natural instincts, it based on country lay down rules ( constitution). Judges only interpret what is in this rule or constitution.

If i am to judge this in my own natural way, the woman would still be punish for the same crime, because she failed to do the right thing by reporting him to authority.

Goalnaldo:
I'm afraid he's saying the truth.

Pure truth.

The fact is that, every Nigerian is as corrupt as unfortunate leaders we have now. Give this functional system to Nigerians, some Nurses or Doctors would've out of their laziness prefer to ignore such call and give stupid excuses when queried.

The world revolves around economic power, and those with this power always dictates what going on around them.

No matter the behaviour you exhibited (simp or redpil), without this power, you will never attracts good and sensible women/men.

Drink more water and watch the difference. If you stay long or hold your urine or not drinking enough water, it become brown and foaming. Beside you need to pee on the floor or any hard surface to know if your urine actually foaming or not.

drnoel:
It's misinformation. There is no way on this earth that genotype changes from SA to AA. For that to happen U must have to change the gene of the person. Don't be naive ans stop deceiving people.
On the other hand, give us your location so we can send experts to you to confirm your findings.

Nothing is impossible in this world sir. Never say never, dont know about SSD but people are getting cured from Diseases tagged with no cure by scientists.

edochie12:
If the southeast can't get the presidency,then I think the power should go back to north,at least we igbos are sure of vice president,yorubas did it in 2015 because of vice president against a southern president,so what is good for the goose is also good for the gander

Is this how we achieve a better Nigeria?

Of what you use is where a president come from to your personal life? Are you comfortable with the current situation of things in Nigeria?