₦airaland Forum

But the father is not white nah, or my eyes just deceiving me.

The best way to treat such a woman is to pretend her wealth is nothing to you. Face your hustle, and dont ever ask her for anything or depend on her money. She will respect you the more and willingly offer to do things, while your integrity will be intact.

EastisBae:
You're obviously miserable and suicidal, if you continue like this, you will either run mad or choke to death on your own hate. This is no longer trolling but someone who is frustrated with life and doesn't know how to cope with it.

Might be true o. Whenever 2 women can no longer keeping malice, or decided to hit each other and call themselves Ashawo, just know that one of them has crossed the red line or eaten forbidden fruit.

No one can recover any money from anyone. NIgerians (both leaders and masses) are hopelessly corrupt beyond redemption.

The probably solution could be institutional re-arrangement, regionalism and total autonomy of Local Government.

I could remember when we were kids, my father being one of leading members of Landlord associate used to have meeting with local government chairman and councillors concerning what they want/need in our area then. The road, drenage, transformer maintenance, were promptly attending to by local government. We have many councillors and some influential people among us who can challenge the local government authority to do their constitutional right. Government were very close to people and knew their needs back then.

Things are not the same this days, local governments are either not existing or not performing its constitutional right.

Businesses are not only suffering but dieing completely.

Honestly, I did most of these things when I was a little kid. Thank God for the internet now.

Around 2006 I think during the days on Mobo444, debosky, Eleshin, Mukinas2 at sport section, etc. I lost several handles to E-mails before this particular one.

There was this interesting topic in Sexuality section "Talo mo oruko ti an pe Obo". The thread was madly funny and fun. Nairalanders of those days were more mature, fun and crazy than this period.

Those guys at Religions section were also mad and highly intellectually sounds.

MALIGNANTGuest:
Just like you have praised traditional medicine, can you also tabulate the number of people the mortuaries entertained following consumption of unverified, & adulterated traditional medicines?
Furnish us with the information.
We are here to learn.

This is exactly my point, just look at the way you classified all traditional medicine as unverified/adulterated medicines. This is the mentality of an average black man, it is a shame that we have zero believe in our traditional ways of getting think done. It's quite unfortunate that the same black man who believes not in his traditional medicine would be the first to opt for Chinese local medicines and all this so call Kedie/chigeng.

There is no doubt that we have adulterated herbs just like the same way we have fake drugs everywhere, my only focus is on genuine ones.

Logic is limited to available information, you only know what you are exposed to, so, I wont blame anyone criticising traditional medicine here because I would've done the same if I dont have first hand knowledge and experience.

MALIGNANTGuest:
What's stopping you from finding out their cures
Or are you bereft of ideas & innovations?
Why not challenge your mentation and put your name in the sands of time.
IF this is how your reason, then another Buhari is imminent. This is the least I can say for now.

If I ask you to follow my local medications plan, or you had an opportunity to get first hand treatment from foreign doctor, which one/advise will you follow? Will your government or society believe or listen to me?

I am 100% sure you will follow the foreign doctor advise because you will never believe in my local medicines. That is the extent in which the advent of white has halted/disrupted our progress in medical line.

I had a first hand experience of people that got cured from so called incurable diseases, and more are still getting cured on a daily basis.

Seek for local medicines and see wonder before you criticize anyone.

Why is it that almost 80% of diseases/sickness in the world has no cure? This sounds like a trick by pharmaceutical industries to keep themselves in business.

Doyou2019:
Walahi even NURTW touts don full Nairaland. This one talks as though he's in bed every night with Oluomo rascal.

Ok, let me quote you for the very first and the last time. You probably lacks mental capacity to deduce fact or reason with my post, so I wont blame you. Some of you guys want Lagos to burn, just for your hatred for one man that do you nothing other than pursuing his ambition like other normal citizens.

Racoon:
This is Nigeria where illiterate motor park touts are giving government advise because of corruption. MC simply understands the game and LASG is playing the script well.Hope there won't be crisis with NURTW national?

To me, MC Oluomo is a very intelligent man, the right decision for any reasonable government is to act fast and follow his recommendation. NURTW crisis alone can destabilize Lagos and result in lost of lives and properties. Lagos NURTW is too big than for anyone from outside to just remove/suspend its leaders withiout serious/brutal resistance. If you see where these hoodlums are fighting to reclaim leadership of a garage, you will appreciate Oluomo for taking this path.

It has to do with mindset of an average black man. He is naturally greedy, egocentric, wicked and ignorant. The only set of people that can develop Africa are not Africans or blacks because they dont have mental capacity to do so.

How can a sane human stole all the money belong to development of his home but took the same money to seek pleasure, education, health and business in another man lands.

The youth who are suppose to know better are not any different, intact they are even worse than the old fools leading us before. With what Nigeria has turned to now, I doubt if there is any hope for her future.

SarkinYarki:
NURTW is backed by Federal laws , what is backing MCs new group

These people are mostly illiterates and usually used violence to take up leadership of the garage. National chairman can never dictate to these people except you want total breakdown of law and bloodshed in Lagos.

Lagos state government should simply take over and adopt a new management system among them or simply protect them from intimidation by national body.

Richy4:
Please say that you got married to raise new generation.. That is your own definition of Marriage.... Do not say WE ALL...Hence when the reason why you got married (procreation) did not materialize, u look for other alternative means to achieve your set goal which was having multiple women ...

Many couple married for different reasons that were best known to them... Stop generalizing about something you knew nothing about... No disrespect but try and read more about why people get married...It's all over the internet....Child bearing is important in every marriage but that is not the only reason people get married...That was why I suggested that to OP to define his reasons...

So you know, I did not see any new suggestion that you gave to OP that warrant u canceling my submission... I was thinking that you got a brighter idea. ...U should have engaged me in a chat here to know the reason why I said what I said....That's how to show good manners in a public forum..... instead of canceling stuffs

Easy to say when you are not in his shoe.

What is the real purpose of having a family if not for procreation. You can get sex cheaply everywhere, you can get someone who is more prettier and better than your wife, infact you can get love 100% from someone else more than your current partner. It is when you are old that you will know the important of having your biological child.

@op, please dont divorce your wife or marry another woman. If you are not that rich, start saving up from now and go for IVF before it too late for both of you. Do not adopt, get a surrogate mother if your wife womb cant carry a child.

elmagnifico411:
This life no balance walahi,and some people craze don pass becareful. You got what some peeps are looking for, and you're complaining. Do u know what I'd give for my madam to squirt? When she does climax she vibrates and all but no squirting, and I've been longing for that kini to come live

Oga, roll up in juice and sleep in her hands jare.. no let people of the world follow put eyes for your madam oh.. ladies wey dey squirt no plenty

Lolz, you think it is funny experience? Men normally feel like a boss when they made their visiting girlfriends squirts, it becomes problem and tiresome when you have to live with it permanently under the same roof.

OP, get an alternative place to have sex, or better still, draw her closer to the edge of the bed whenever she is about to start squirting.

If 1 month or 2 months salary can pay your annual rent as most commenters here claimed, that mean a lot of Nairalanders are doing well with good Salaries.

A well furnished modern 2 bedrooms apartments in most places in Lagos cost around 300k - 1.2m. Even in other city like Ibadan, you cant get a well furnished 2 bedrooms apartment at good location less than 200k.

So if your 1 or 2 months salary can do that, just know you are doing well and stop complaining about Buhari administration.

williaam:
Your permutations are wrong, no one in the South South would vote for Tinubu; because Lagos no be South South, and yes you are leaving North central out of the calculation, where their population is more than that of the South East; a region on a good day have never pitched tent with the South West, and you thought it would all change now, and you know many still carry the grievance of the 1967-1970 civil war, and the role Awo played. So with this Tinubu stands no chance against any Northern candidate, that's just the truth, but most times we ignore this fact on ground and think things can change all of a sudden

With current agitation of southern governors for power to return to the south, I see some PDP governors in the regions (especially Wike and Makinde) to rally around APC candidates from the south if PDP gives Atiku or any other northern candidate its ticket.

Cantonese:
That polygamy wey you dey support so, e be like say you want to know how far. I advice you to get two or three girlfriends first and practice girlfriendogamy. No be person go tell you. Na only you and your body go advice yourself.

Lol, during my dating era, i controlled at least 2 girlfriends at the same time, and I must tell you it was full of fun with peace of mind.

HilcomTech:
Stop smoking mkporu mirri.

There are more polygamous marriages in the south than in the north. The only difference is that northerners are not hypocritical about it. And don't even mention religion as there is nothing to show that a Christian cannot marry more than one wife.

Not as many as among dominated Northern Muslims.

Polasz:
Some men will just dey out to kill themselves. One wife is enough trouble. Talk more of 2. Haba!

Sometime, I envy these Northerners. Those with 2 or more wives in a separate apartments or locations enjoy peace of mind than people iving with one wife. Women in marriage are quite opposite of the ones you dated when single.

Every woman is a potential trouble maker in marriage, they can frustrate the hell out of you especially if you show them too much love. They can only be tame through competition, in which polygamous offered. The only downside of polygamy is when you dont have money to take care of your family.

I would rather vote for a stone than these old wicked good for nothing corrupt politicians.

OP, this period will definitely pass away, and you will be happy again. Just be focus and seek help from those that matter, I am sure your helper will locate you.

Kajaard:
At the boldfaced, you don't have a job, yet you went to take a loan. How did you expect to repay the loan if you have no means of income? You deserve absolutely no pity. Carry your cross.

Just pray you dont find yourself in a situation that you will gladly accept anything withiout thinking twice. Humans are quick to judge others when they are not in their shoes. Never mock anyone in life because the life is so unpredictable.

Freebills12:
I support Buhari in this, he just signed the bill in order that INEC will commence their preparation for next election. Minor adjustments like deleting of some clauses can follow suit.

Didnt he study the bill for months that he has been delaying it before signing it into law?

I could see this is reason Nigeria is not moving forward under him.

Glo is doing the same, ,only MTN is better among them.

panafrican:
An accurate description of European Kings and emperors of the 19th century and before.

Unlike blacks, Emperors and Kings only fought for cultural supremacy and power. They treat their subjects equally as long as you follow their social or utilitarian courses. They were always after the development of their territories and domains. Many of them are philosophers, upon which modern European or western ideologies and policies are based.

Northernblood5:
Although this war is not ours, but Most black Africans are fools. They will rather Pray for God to give them good leaders than Going out to vote in good leaders. Foolish set of idiots.

Let Puttin do fast and Nuke the whole world make we start Afresh. Trust me foolish Africans will still not be able to meet up despite having the least impact of the War

There is no good leaders among the blacks, period.

African culture and traditions is embedded in domineering, exploitative and wickedness.

Domineering is when you want only you to be rich and worshipped.

Exploitative is when you cheat others to acquired wealth or positions.

Wickendness is when you dont want others to grow or enjoy what you use to enjoy or have access to. It is when you feel others are inferior and not deserve to amount to nothing in life. The list is endless, but let me just stop here.

Kingpin1000:
You see this white Supremacist.
Are we not tired of the west interfering without government?
Are we not tired of the west sabotaging anything good from Africa?
Arr we not tired to be called degrading names?
Look at what they are doing to Afrucanns and Indiams in Ukraine

It is only a foolish Africam that will take sides in this matter.
Africans should remain neutral, na dem dem dey fight.
A black man is hated by an average whiteman.
Ethiopia is burning but the world is turning a blind eye.

Nobody hate a black man, it is only natural to see anyone who only consume but contributes nothing to development of humanity as inferior and worthless.

If a black man is intelligent/morally sounds, he would not sold his fellow man as slave, he would not steal all the money meant for development of his home and take it to developed other countries. He would not see his home as village and developed countries as where he should enjoy his stolen wealth. He would not destroyed or refuse to improve his health institution educational institution, infrastructural, etc only for him and his relatives to leave to enjoy the same in far away strange land.

If you are the white, will you respect such a person?