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SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless ..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

The only thing that cure masturbation is maturity and experience. There will be a certain level in your life that you will completely stop and see it as a stupid disgusting practice. There is nothing on earth that can cure you but these two facts.

Experience- when you can have sex anytime you want it.

Maturity- when you come of age with alot of responsibilities and life time goals ahead.

peeps4u:
For being foolish and having low self esteem. No real man will take back such woman, who publicly disrespects him and the marriage like Tega did.



Tega said "My husband name is AJ Money, though there is no money"

Tega as a married woman gave her breast for Saga to suck in a truth and dare game when she had the option to decline as Niyi, a married man, did.

Tega, as a married woman went to the show to flirt and rode several men like Cross as if being married didn't matter.

Tega went to a show to be fingered, kissed and probably f*cked by Boma. The later even said her p***y smelled like a fish.

Tega publicly said she wished Boma was her husband. I'm sure you will be proud if your husband says it to another woman to your hearing that he wishes another woman is his wife.

Tega so much disrespected her marriage that Angel, the youngest HM said "I am Olosho with full chest but you're here as a married woman flirting with another men"

Tega so much threw caution to the wind that Emmanuel questioned her marriage status and said the only sensible thing for Tega to have done such was if she wasn't married.


If AJ is still crying to have back such woman, that after publicly doing all these things that desecrated their marriage, is even yet to reach her husband, may God punish AJ truly and truly

You are just wasting your time on these set of animals. What kind man in his right sense will allow his wife to participate in this kind of show let alone crying to have her back.

This shows the kind of people or marriage they are in.

All this are just cover up to make Cavani not feel bad or inferior. CR7 is a brand, Ronaldo cannot function withiout this number 7 Jersey, Man U also know this.

There is no way he would've refuse to handed the No.7 to Ronaldo. Even if he refuse, Man u would rather sell or loan him out immediately.

Oluyole, Akobo, Elebu and it environments,Oni and son, Vodacies.

All the above mentioned areas get good power supply.

Dont mind someone telling you Ibadan people are cunning( they are still leaners compare to what you get in Lagos). Just dont mingle with them locals. Dont be too attached to anyone no matter how nice they are to you, at least till you are sure of who they are.

MufasaLion:
She might not change even after having kids. You can't just predict a woman like her.

Moreover, about your second paragraph, that is irrelevant because she got the money already.

You cant predict a woman, but you are adamant she cant change?

Responsibilities usually make people adjust, you cant compare the way people without responsibility spend to those with ones. Dont be surprise the same woman can start helping her husband the moment she discover he is broke. Besides, women loves their kids to look good, they spend randomly on them to achieve this.

After finishing secondary school or when she is about to gain admission into university.

Except you are the type that dont have time for your daughter, it is very difficult for a teenage girl to have a boyfriend withiout a phone.

@op, you are just giving yourself unnecessary stress. She would definitely change when she has her own kids. Women love spending on their kids if they have money, just be patient with her and focus on your marriage.

You are even lucky she use her own money. What if she keep pressure on you to always help her family and start quarrelling with you whenever you refuse.

This is plain wickedness, but unfortunately it is in our blood. Dont be surprise those in diaspora too will do the same if they find themselves in such situations. If you ask your friend or relative abroad to help you get a car, he will end up inflating the price too( i have seen that countless times). It is black things especially Nigerians. This is an habit we all need to change.

Meanwhile, some people in diaspora too are very wicked or stupid. Some will just send their relative money to help them do something withiout giving them something for their times and stress.

My opinion is that, if you want your friend or relative to do something of 100k for you at home, send him/her at least 120k, not just his/her transport. By doing so, he/she will be so happy to help you accordingly. My opinion though.

Of course , a son to Oranmiyan, the first king of Oyo empire and a brother to Ajakaye.

There is no smoke withiout fire. No sane person will be chasing another person life because of mere resignation withiout something attached. You are not the best brain in Nigeria to handle his company, he can easily hire another best workaholic brain if your resignation is the cause.

Please tell us what transpired between you two, so that you can see the help you are looking for.

Ashirioluwa:
Political statement……. Start from family and friends first

God bless you.

Only Nigerians can change Nigeria. People are blaming the leaders, yes they deserve to be blamed for our present predicament but in reality, an average Nigerian are not cultured to be a good citizen to his/her society. Leaders are the products of society they lived in, you cant give what you dont have.

I will keep saying it, an average Nigerian is so self centred, egocentric and lacks natural will to help humanity or his immediate society. A typical Nigerian only care about his nuclear family, he care not about others, he like to be worshipped and stupidly processed authoritative tendency. He would rather stole all that belong to others in order to be worshipped or have dominions over them. This is the major problem we are facing in this country and other black nations.

The revolution must start from everyone of us, our selfishness should be channels towards the development of our society. Let get our priority right for once, a genuine standard of living can only be attain by development of our society.

ChiefSosa:
One of the biggest issues we have in Nigeria. Rather than voting a well qualified person regardless of region; people will just vote anyone from their own region or tribe because they want to spite other people. Dem no know say las las na all of us go chop the breakfast.
If we ask you to defend and explain the policies of who you're voting for now; you won't be able to do it.

Telling Nigerians to do the right things out of sentiments is not but a mere waste of precious time.

We will keep making the same mistake over and over again until this country become total unbearable for common man.

@op, dont mind all these keyboard warriors calling you names. Though as a student, you were supposed to manage your resources very well, besides you have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of if you say no to your fellow students seeking favour from you.

Except it was our last card, an average Nigerian man will do the same thing you did in such situation especially if it involves a beautiful classy lady.

Not only Chidinma, any beautiful well endowed lady is very difficult to have a case with in Nigeria police/justice system, as well as in recruitment exercises. Quite alot of pervert and sexual predators abound these sectors.

These men would rather trade truth and sometime justice for 5 mins sex.

Breeders are very expensive birds and require adequate well planned structure to manage. I will advise you to raise just 1000 pieces and use the rest of the money to build your own pen to your taste.

You cant afford to be moving breeders from one place to another should your landlord ask you to leave after sometime.

DonroxyII:
A non egalitarian brain can not create egalitarian anything ....

Imagine you help someone infact you sacrificed like 50% of your energy just to get the person to the top and they added their own and established at the top only to use the Potentials to witch hunt you .....

If help has never given you mental health issues before , just stop talking .... from families to friends to colleagues ......

Here in Africa, be selective of those you help !

Calm down, we are still saying the same thing. Those you helped to the top that used their positions to witch hunt you are the group of selfish Nigerians we are talking about.

No one live in isolation, and everyone needs help at one point in life (be it government or individual), it is the behaviour of these wicked fellows that makes our society what it is today including our leaders who would rather watch you die or live in abject poverty than to do the right thing.

jesmond3945:
of course we are all selfish one way or the other. Trying to reach the top you have to be self centered. This is because you came to this world alone, when you leave life goes on. YOLO. The only family member I support to help is your parents. Anything you do for your siblings, you do for your parents.
This mentality is what made Europe what it is today. Look at the igbos, every body is competing and in the process, development comes. When you depend on one person, you weigh the person down and stunt his growth.

Off course, to reach the top in Africa especially Nigeria, you need to be selfish. This is number 1 problem of our society. You naturally become leader and most respectful individual when you grow along with others.

And dont ever mention Europe at all. Do you even know what it means to be egalitarian society like western countries? Do you know why heavy tax are usually levy against the rich? Do you even know the meaning of social security in western countries?

The different between the west and African nations is simple, the former only think of how to improve his/her society by creating ideas that everyone will benefit irrespective of their social background, while the later only think about him/herself all alone.

Let me give you a very close example, there is this white guy working in the same office with my brother over there, the has no child but dedicates 30% from his every pay check to charity. Tell me how many people in Nigeria can do this for his/her relative, let alone one charity organisation?

jesmond3945:
well I pray you go to france, you would be in his shoes. You would work so hard in France, make your money. If your distant cousin call you for money you would block his phone. Is very easy to say we will lift each other but when you are at the top, you would want to still be at the top. On his way to the top, what role did you play? Or if he takes you to France of what benefit will it be for him? Do you know he owes you nothing. He has every right to choose who he helps?

This is exactly what we are saying. Must we benefited from helping one another? Must we always be self centred? Must everything revolves around us? Must we always dominates or want people to worship us.

This mentality will keep making Nigeria and other underdeveloped Africa countries remain backwards for centuries to come. We are just too selfish and ignorant to create an egalitarian society.

jimmychang:
Rest not everybody is as wicked as you are.

Know the truth, and the truth shall set you free.

Have you ever wonder how your leaders would traveled all over the developed countries, took your money there to invest or buy needless over paid properties, have access to world class health facilities, send their children to school there but refuse to provide such for their people.

This problem started from basic unit of the society( family), from which the leaders emanated.